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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

You know it’s needed

Who you looking for, what kinks etc.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Seeking a long term D/s relationship with a man into psychological physical and sexual domination. Intelligent fun lovely loyal sub for the right man. Doesn’t necessarily have to be experienced but must understand the basic parameters of D/s including SSC, have high empathy and if possible quite an unusual mind. I don’t need it to be exclusive

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

I’m not seeking a D/s relationship and I have more than enough requests for sessions but what I am looking for is a new rope bunny.

Needs to be in Yorkshire so we can practice regular, prefer shorter (being a shortarse myself!), good flexibility, no ongoing health issues, wants to fly, newbie or experienced ok, is confident and somewhat exhibitionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeking a long term D/s relationship with a man into psychological physical and sexual domination. Intelligent fun lovely loyal sub for the right man. Doesn’t necessarily have to be experienced but must understand the basic parameters of D/s including SSC, have high empathy and if possible quite an unusual mind. I don’t need it to be exclusive "

I feel a pm will be on its way to you later

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I’m not seeking a D/s relationship and I have more than enough requests for sessions but what I am looking for is a new rope bunny.

Needs to be in Yorkshire so we can practice regular, prefer shorter (being a shortarse myself!), good flexibility, no ongoing health issues, wants to fly, newbie or experienced ok, is confident and somewhat exhibitionist "

i fit all those criteria.

All except I don't live in Yorkshire and I am 6ft. Otherwise I am good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz"

Shame I moved I’d have been happy to be tied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK I'm looking for a experienced long term D/s relationship with a experienced sub. I'm still in the early stages of this and would be looking for a sub who has enough knowledge to build on this.

Must add I'm looking for a female only. And whilst I am listed as a tv on here that is optional as I'm nowhere near a 24/7 dresser.

Whilst I'm looking for a long term relationship I Don't demand 100% exclusiveness.

Feel free to pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz

Shame I moved I’d have been happy to be tied"

Even though I'm a smoker

Your profile says you travel

Fuzz

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

well I am an experienced Dom but would love someone to teach me Rope Play. if it helps I have sailing Qualifications. No honestly RYA1 and RYA2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz

Shame I moved I’d have been happy to be tied

Even though I'm a smoker

Your profile says you travel

Fuzz

You wanted a bunny, I wouldn’t be snogging or fucking a rigger

And I do travel but less so these days. I’ll give you a shout if I’m going to be in your neck of the woods "

But I like to smoke big fat cigars whilst I'm tieing (not really. We are both conscientious smokers )

Do shout us if you are. One never knows....

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I am an experienced Dom but would love someone to teach me Rope Play. if it helps I have sailing Qualifications. No honestly RYA1 and RYA2."

Knowledge of nautical knot ties are very useful.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeking a kinky female playmate to further explore the world of D/s / BDSM.

All other details open to negotiation - see my profile for more info.

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a d/s couple close to us. We are not seasoned pros but have a lot to offer.

People into rope play, wax play, obedience training, restraints and impact play would be ideal a&g

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By *ngelfayeWoman
over a year ago

:)

I'm looking for a funny sadist in Cornwall preferably. I don't think there are any though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a lady who likes outdoor fun and being tied up and spanked and photo shoots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not seeking a D/s relationship and I have more than enough requests for sessions but what I am looking for is a new rope bunny.

Needs to be in Yorkshire so we can practice regular, prefer shorter (being a shortarse myself!), good flexibility, no ongoing health issues, wants to fly, newbie or experienced ok, is confident and somewhat exhibitionist "

Can I be part time rope bunny? I am really good and able to stay still

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"I'm looking for a funny sadist in Cornwall preferably. I don't think there are any though!"

Move to yorkshire I’m laugh a minute

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"I’m not seeking a D/s relationship and I have more than enough requests for sessions but what I am looking for is a new rope bunny.

Needs to be in Yorkshire so we can practice regular, prefer shorter (being a shortarse myself!), good flexibility, no ongoing health issues, wants to fly, newbie or experienced ok, is confident and somewhat exhibitionist

Can I be part time rope bunny? I am really good and able to stay still "

Yes you’re part time bunny....and exhibitionist slut

I still need a main bunny though who can come away weekends with me

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By *ngelfayeWoman
over a year ago

:)


"I'm looking for a funny sadist in Cornwall preferably. I don't think there are any though!

Move to yorkshire I’m laugh a minute "

Literally the other end of the country, but still tempting! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in meeting a sexually dominant male for D/s experience.

Would prefer if was local and could accommodate. Yes I do want everything.

Happy to meet inexperienced so long as a social is first and we can discuss things.

I am large build so this has to be factored into any ideas of play.

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester

Experienced and naturally dominant guy looking for submissive ladies in the North West for regular D/s fun.

Limits always respected and discretion assured.

I cant accommodate due to kids, but can travel to you within reason. I have plenty of toys and equipment I can bring along too.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I am always looking for experienced Dom guys(NOT Fab Dom) for mfm meets....and as that seems a lot harder than you would think, will give this a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private. "

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit? "

Oh yeah. Haha. Male. 35 and under

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Looking for a woman, ideally sub or switch in the midlands area or within realistic travelling distance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to be tied up and blindfolded

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

A true switch with an imagination and toybag to rival mine

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz"

Oooh oooh ooooh!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Watching with great interest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds fun i need some sub women in the north west to have some fun do all the kinky filthy stuff

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We're looking for a submissive woman to play with us.

Can be totally in-experienced. A desire to be dominated by both partners of a couple would be good as Mrs P has a Domme that needs exploring with the right woman.

More than happy to discuss your boundaries and go at your pace. Nerves are fine too if you dont msg you'll never know...

An interest in club's could be fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distinct lack of kinky southerners around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit?

Oh yeah. Haha. Male. 35 and under"

Out on the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit?

Oh yeah. Haha. Male. 35 and under

Out on the age "

Wait until you get to my age ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a dominant women who likes a sub to worship her as required.

Into bondage, pegging, foot, shoe worship, collars, CBT and open to explore any kinks that come up.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit?

Oh yeah. Haha. Male. 35 and under

Out on the age

Wait until you get to my age ffs"

I’m out in gender and age. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private.

Male, female, anything else that helps narrow it down a bit?

Oh yeah. Haha. Male. 35 and under

Out on the age

Wait until you get to my age ffs

I’m out in gender and age. Ffs "

Aye but your getting plenty of action...I deffo need to meet you

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Distinct lack of kinky southerners around here."

It’s heaving with kinky fuckers! Maybe not your type but still more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distinct lack of kinky southerners around here.

It’s heaving with kinky fuckers! Maybe not your type but still more than enough "

I was referring to this thread in particular.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Distinct lack of kinky southerners around here.

It’s heaving with kinky fuckers! Maybe not your type but still more than enough

I was referring to this thread in particular. "

I’m sure they’ll be along soon...probably too busy being kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been looking for a Local lady to practice rope tieing on for months now. Someone to 'rig' up when I'm available but Peach isn't. Also someone with a slightly different body type to Peach. They don't even have to be single as long as any partner is aware. Once I feel like I've 'mastered' my techniques I'd love to learn the more artistic shibari and suspension tieing.

Fuzz

Oooh oooh ooooh! "

I've not even touched you yet and your making the right noises

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also looking for local kinky fun at my nearby fetish/swinging club only. Looking for someone I can submit to and explore a range of things. Ideally, want someone more experienced than me but connection/clicking is the most important thing.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Top me rocks next time I see you if you want

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Following on from previous post - I also have a vague interest in rope bondage and am happy to be tied or sometimes tie. Generally not naked and with no sexual contact though. Have been known to go to a couple of female-led peer rope groups on occasion and would do so again.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Following on from previous post - I also have a vague interest in rope bondage and am happy to be tied or sometimes tie. Generally not naked and with no sexual contact though. Have been known to go to a couple of female-led peer rope groups on occasion and would do so again."

I can recommend Hitchin Bitches if you’ve not been before

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Following on from previous post - I also have a vague interest in rope bondage and am happy to be tied or sometimes tie. Generally not naked and with no sexual contact though. Have been known to go to a couple of female-led peer rope groups on occasion and would do so again.

I can recommend Hitchin Bitches if you’ve not been before "

Been going to Hitchin' Bitches meets for years.

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Following on from previous post - I also have a vague interest in rope bondage and am happy to be tied or sometimes tie. Generally not naked and with no sexual contact though. Have been known to go to a couple of female-led peer rope groups on occasion and would do so again.

I can recommend Hitchin Bitches if you’ve not been before

Been going to Hitchin' Bitches meets for years. "

We might have met then

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please "

Sorry

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Top me rocks next time I see you if you want "

You're on

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Following on from previous post - I also have a vague interest in rope bondage and am happy to be tied or sometimes tie. Generally not naked and with no sexual contact though. Have been known to go to a couple of female-led peer rope groups on occasion and would do so again.

I can recommend Hitchin Bitches if you’ve not been before

Been going to Hitchin' Bitches meets for years.

We might have met then "

This is turning into a online munch for old friends here

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

Sorry "

Needs punishing so I might be topping you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have a single profile, not been on for awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seriously seeking a dominant male....would prefer to discuss details in private though

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I'm seriously seeking a dominant male....would prefer to discuss details in private though "

To me, the op has created a notice board, which is fantastic.

Op I doff my cap, your last few threads have opened up a rather refreshing openness.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seriously seeking a dominant male....would prefer to discuss details in private though

To me, the op has created a notice board, which is fantastic.

Op I doff my cap, your last few threads have opened up a rather refreshing openness.

Thank you."

I agree!

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By *am-3Man
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

I'm seeking the role of a cuck...

anyone wish to use me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play!

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By *am-3Man
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Hi nerd-girl....x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Seeking women to toy with for my amusement.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Seeking women to toy with for my amusement. "

Wow, you a mind reader, L mentioned something similar a hour ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will meet cpls or single lady’s into bdsm

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By *eviantDelightsMan
over a year ago

London/Cambridgeshire

I am searching for a dominant lady or a switch with a leaning toward being more dominant for a play partner dynamic, potentially more if we're both are interested in pursuing something more.

I have a wide array of interests, with prior experience in many of them, but would prefer to discuss these in private.

Ideally this would be an on-going thing, although this doesn't have to be a frequent occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seriously seeking a dominant male....would prefer to discuss details in private though

To me, the op has created a notice board, which is fantastic.

Op I doff my cap, your last few threads have opened up a rather refreshing openness.

Thank you.

I agree!

"

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We're looking for suitable Doms to join us for play....

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

Sorry

Needs punishing so I might be topping you "

I do switch

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By *otForSofties OP   Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

Sorry

Needs punishing so I might be topping you

I do switch "

I do so much domming it’s nice to find someone I’m willing to bottom for tbh. Doesn’t happen that much.

Mind you for my birthday last year I just let everyone have a go, all getting their own back. I may as well have been called house sub that night not House Domme

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

Sorry

Needs punishing so I might be topping you

I do switch

I do so much domming it’s nice to find someone I’m willing to bottom for tbh. Doesn’t happen that much.

Mind you for my birthday last year I just let everyone have a go, all getting their own back. I may as well have been called house sub that night not House Domme "

so everyone else had the birthday present then

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Id love to meet a local strong ultra kinky alpha male (not dominant) for regular fun.

Med fet, OI, PS and rope work are my main kinktrests x

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By *bandjam91Couple
over a year ago

London

Great thread, thanks OP

We are seeking couples or females who enjoy BDSM and sexual contact.

Female would ideally switch, but we're not interested in submissive males.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts.

PSSST if you dont want to end up with a ban please dont post profile names for the 'other site' as if we dont know what you are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips "

Oh behave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips

Oh behave! "

I turn with a devilish smile, and disobey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips

Oh behave!

I turn with a devilish smile, and disobey "

Applies that gag... hands on the bed arched back... i reach for the whip. Brushing it along your ass...punishment time

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips

Oh behave! "

Why? never have before....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latex & lube!!

Gags & whips

Oh behave!

I turn with a devilish smile, and disobey

Applies that gag... hands on the bed arched back... i reach for the whip. Brushing it along your ass...punishment time "

Mmmm... with a giggle I arch my back a little more, as I surrender to you!!

Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread, always nice to read posts from fellow kinksters and see who's hiding out there. Thanks OP!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Fab is way kinkier than a lot of people realise!

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By *osmosgirlWoman
over a year ago

Wetherby

**Classified Ad**

Submissive female would like to meet Dominant/Alpha men, women and couples (greedy girl alert )

I am a happy-go-lucky, confident, glass is always half full, very compliant in the right hands type.

Looking for confident, charismatic, creative, emotionally intelligent, knows how to take this bull by the horns (taurean ), fun and fabulous people.

Adores new adventures and experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play! "

Non sissy sub here and not too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female "

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play! "

Could you clarify non-sexual?

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over a year ago


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz"

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By *odernLoveDublinMan
over a year ago

dublin

Im seeking a womam for a proper committed female led relationship.

Upto and including cuckolding, chastity etc., in the hope tbere is someone suitable both geographically and personality wise

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

"

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m seeking a couple that will dominate me and push lead me to a “forced bi” situation, who I will happily service as I am an obedient sub. Have experience in pegging and serving a previous mistress! Love humiliation, degrading, cbt (new to this)

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!"

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also want to be dominated by a tv/ts

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control."

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious "

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)"

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious "

Fuzz

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?"

If I said to someone 'I'm not looking for anal sex' and someone replied 'I'd find it difficult not to have anal sex with you' then that would be considered wrong and pretty out of line.

Why is it different in this situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a Dom with a good few years of experience and still learning. Interest are psychological physical, sexual domination, sensory deprivation, edging trust and communication. Would also like to practice rope more and some other kinds of role play.

Would love to makes friends with other kinksters who have the right aptitude and desire. Would love to switch for a Domme too.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?

If I said to someone 'I'm not looking for anal sex' and someone replied 'I'd find it difficult not to have anal sex with you' then that would be considered wrong and pretty out of line.

Why is it different in this situation?"

There’s an absolute world of difference between sexual interest and maybe wanting, in your example, anal sex and forcing someone to do it against their will - one is human sexual desire the other is a criminal offence - again no-one in this thread has suggested forcing someone to do anything they don’t consent to - if they have please report it and I’m sure a ban will be following

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?

If I said to someone 'I'm not looking for anal sex' and someone replied 'I'd find it difficult not to have anal sex with you' then that would be considered wrong and pretty out of line.

Why is it different in this situation?

There’s an absolute world of difference between sexual interest and maybe wanting, in your example, anal sex and forcing someone to do it against their will - one is human sexual desire the other is a criminal offence - again no-one in this thread has suggested forcing someone to do anything they don’t consent to - if they have please report it and I’m sure a ban will be following "

I didn't say 'forced' - I used exactly the same wording. That you read 'forced' into it suggests how ambiguous those kinds of comments can be, and how it would be better not to make them.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?

If I said to someone 'I'm not looking for anal sex' and someone replied 'I'd find it difficult not to have anal sex with you' then that would be considered wrong and pretty out of line.

Why is it different in this situation?

There’s an absolute world of difference between sexual interest and maybe wanting, in your example, anal sex and forcing someone to do it against their will - one is human sexual desire the other is a criminal offence - again no-one in this thread has suggested forcing someone to do anything they don’t consent to - if they have please report it and I’m sure a ban will be following

I didn't say 'forced' - I used exactly the same wording. That you read 'forced' into it suggests how ambiguous those kinds of comments can be, and how it would be better not to make them."

“'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do”

Your words - clearly implies action without consent, which is both illegal and earning of a ban on here - implied statements that other posters would do things without consent is a serious thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to try rope play, non sexual. Male or female

Would be difficult to keep it non sexual

Fuzz

Indeed it would take a Herculean feat of concentration not to have any sexual thoughts seeing you tied!

If it would be 'difficult' or similar to not so things that an individual has requested during a meet, then perhaps some people need to work on their self-control.

I think people were more making compliments rather than suggesting to try and force someone in something they didn’t want to do, even with the limits of text and context I thought that was pretty obvious

It's not obvious when it's so common on this site for people to try things that you've not agreed.

(Not sure it's a compliment either to say 'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do.)

Where did anyone say they ‘would’ do anything without consent? Maybe report that to admin as that’s against site rules?

If I said to someone 'I'm not looking for anal sex' and someone replied 'I'd find it difficult not to have anal sex with you' then that would be considered wrong and pretty out of line.

Why is it different in this situation?

There’s an absolute world of difference between sexual interest and maybe wanting, in your example, anal sex and forcing someone to do it against their will - one is human sexual desire the other is a criminal offence - again no-one in this thread has suggested forcing someone to do anything they don’t consent to - if they have please report it and I’m sure a ban will be following

I didn't say 'forced' - I used exactly the same wording. That you read 'forced' into it suggests how ambiguous those kinds of comments can be, and how it would be better not to make them.

“'I would do with you this thing that you don't want to do”

Your words - clearly implies action without consent, which is both illegal and earning of a ban on here - implied statements that other posters would do things without consent is a serious thing "

Come on people, let's not be negative. I made, what I thought was, an innocuous flirty comment, someone agreed with me and another took offence. Apologies to any and all who have taken offence. It was, I'm sure, no one's intention to offend.

For me/us personally, any sort of play meet comes off the back of a social meet, where all manner of things are discussed. Including boundaries, limits, signals etc. There also has to be a good social connection too.

Stay horny, play safe and have fun people.

Fuzz

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)


"Can we avoid discussing or naming thing considered edge play so the thread doesn’t get taken down please

Sorry

Needs punishing so I might be topping you

I do switch

I do so much domming it’s nice to find someone I’m willing to bottom for tbh. Doesn’t happen that much.

Mind you for my birthday last year I just let everyone have a go, all getting their own back. I may as well have been called house sub that night not House Domme "

That was so fun

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

i am switch seeking dom or switch guy. ideally for dating and kink (need a touch of vanilla too) but may consider fwb type too. as a bottom i like a subtle dom impact and sensation plays some rope etc. as a top i prefer to top women but do demo men etc. for that i give impact plays sensation wax and a niche edge play that i wont list publicly.

quite fussy too lol sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kinky Dom fem Leeds area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play!

Could you clarify non-sexual? "

No toucing of me or by me at all sexually. He may be allowed to wank at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When that well known south London rope emporium kicks off with its 2018 workshops and seminars, and if I can actually get on a workshop (as I should have a go at their 3 rope TK and workshops leading to suspension) I will be looking for a rope bunny with easy access to South London. I will be happy to supply references. My preference is to have a social first or meet at a peer rope. I regularly attend peer rope London and peer rope Sutton and can get to Herts peer rope (Barnet). I went on 4 workshops and had two sets of half day 1 to 1's in 2017, I would say I am heading towards intermediate skills.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

What a wonderful thread

I think Fab needs an ongoing thread like this

My profile details my interests and experience and I’m fortunate that I’ve plenty of real life play experience in clubs

But if you are in the NW. and are a submissive female ( tattoos and piercings are an added turn on ) and you are interested in a a play date to establish if you are willing to explore your submissiveness further - then don’t hesitate to d/m me!

Similarly if you are a couple in a D/s relationship ( either dynamic) I’m open to offers and suggestions!

I particularly enjoy double domming naughty wife’s or errant husbands who want a “forced” bi experience! X

Tvs - if you think you fit the bill and want to be humiliated and play as part of a group scenario- then contact me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play!

Could you clarify non-sexual?

No toucing of me or by me at all sexually. He may be allowed to wank at the end. "

Still very interested

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

Always interested in meeting local kinky people, i have a younger sub / baby girl who is happy to play with the right partners. I would really enjoy meeting sub kinky CD / TV.

I am Dominant, interested in restraint but sadly not a rope master, humiliation, impact play and roleplay. I am a huge believer in communication and discussion. Play sessions can be tailored so that everyone involved has fun

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play! "

pity toofar away as the male would submit to you no sex required x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm looking for a experienced long term D/s relationship with a experienced sub. I'm still in the early stages of this and would be looking for a sub who has enough knowledge to build on this.

Must add I'm looking for a female only. And whilst I am listed as a tv on here that is optional as I'm nowhere near a 24/7 dresser.

Whilst I'm looking for a long term relationship I Don't demand 100% exclusiveness.

Feel free to pm me "

Maybe I should add to that ....I have a fullyworking ST Andrews Cross Waiting here for the right lady

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I am a mature dom male in Lincoln seeking sub females, either single or playing with partners knowledge.

Hoping to explore lots of fetishes with the right lady(s)

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By *ovice_subTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington

Well I am a sub who has practiced self bondage, however I would love to meet a dominant female or couple close to me who could help push boundaries and fantasies.

I know mine is fairly generic but I find it extremely difficult to find dominant people around my area x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bdsm meet would love one tbh!!!!

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet a dominant female, around my age or older. Preferably one that likes her feet worshipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im looking for something...

It is something i would discuss in private. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to dominate, nothing too extreme but enough to let her know that i am in charge and she must submit to me. Love to tie my partner to the bed and seeing her spread and vulnerable is such a turn on. Also like blindfolds, gags, spanking, flogging, teasing with toys, orgasm control, wax play, ice play, nipple clamps, cuffs, spreader bars etc.Always on the lookout for ladies who enjoy this kind of play. Form an orderly queue please.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

I'm looking for a submissive female for long term D/s relationship.

Prefer someone who I could attend munches and clubs with as well as in private.

Some kinks and fetishes that I would prefer to discuss in private messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in meeting a dominant female, couple or male who are looking for a genuine sub to have fun with.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman
over a year ago

Herts

I am looking for an exclusive D/s relationship with a dominant lover. Someone to go to clubs and munches with. Some vanilla time would be nice too... Not looking for the complete lifestyle but would give it my all when required

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool

Male half of couple would love to meet with a domme female to explore and push boundaries. No sexual involvement is expected just bdsm play unless you want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeking a female Switch to enjoy pleasures

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By *amie_leighWoman
over a year ago

coventry

Looking for a tall alpha dominant male to take control Relatively inexperienced but willing to learn

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By *indbodyplayerMan
over a year ago

Surrey /City/ Devon


"You know it’s needed

Who you looking for, what kinks etc. "

Great idea NFS!

Keep up the great work!

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By *indbodyplayerMan
over a year ago

Surrey /City/ Devon

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By *indbodyplayerMan
over a year ago

Surrey /City/ Devon


"well I am an experienced Dom but would love someone to teach me Rope Play. if it helps I have sailing Qualifications. No honestly RYA1 and RYA2.

Knowledge of nautical knot ties are very useful.

Fuzz"

Yes second that. As a former sailor I took to rope very quickly.

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By *indbodyplayerMan
over a year ago

Surrey /City/ Devon

Seeking that special connection with a submissive woman who fuels me to be dominant.

I am a naturally sexually assertive and sensual gentle man with a tender touch and a mischievous smile.

I love rope and restraint. To tease and please.

Impact play and sparking are delightful. The sounds wonderful.

I am also looking for a regular rope bunny for London and Surrey rope jams and a play partner for HDZ and other BDSM events and munches.

Let’s get our kink on fabsters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally Dom and very much into fetish photography.....

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Seeking kinky play partners. Singles or couples. Any combination of subs or Dom/Dommes. We are and experienced couple with many years on the BDSM scene in Devon. Check out our profile and message if interested.

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


"Seeking kinky play partners. Singles or couples. Any combination of subs or Dom/Dommes. We are and experienced couple with many years on the BDSM scene in Devon. Check out our profile and message if interested."

Experienced or newbies wanting to learn and explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a wonderful idea OP- great thinking!

I’m a Switch, been on the scene for about two years, but I have lots more to learn. I’d be interested in finding play partners- preferably women, but will consider men. Contact me to find out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a wonderful idea OP- great thinking!

I’m a Switch, been on the scene for about two years, but I have lots more to learn. I’d be interested in finding play partners- preferably women, but will consider men. Contact me to find out more "

If only I was younger

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool


"What a wonderful idea OP- great thinking!

I’m a Switch, been on the scene for about two years, but I have lots more to learn. I’d be interested in finding play partners- preferably women, but will consider men. Contact me to find out more "

If you did decide you want to try switching with a male please let us know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy with dominant tendencies seeking intelligent, independent, single female with a submissive streak for further adventures in the London(ish) area.

I’m not a newbie to the kink scene & am happy to share my experience with the right people.

Take a look at my profile or drop me a line if you’d like to learn more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Hello,

I would love to take a sexy lady and Her Alpha date/partner shopping for sexy underwear for which i pay for.

The whole time shopping i would be in the role of a slave/cuck holding bags opening doors doing all the fetching wiping shoes etc.

While shopping the alpha male would pick a outfit he would love to see the sexy lady wear and im told to pick a outfit i would love to see Her in.

Im then told because ive been a good boy i have permission to pay for a hotel and i can stay to serve drinks.

Im so excited when we get into the room Miss strips and puts on Sirs underwear choice they start kissing Miss chucks Her worn underwear to me and tells me to strip and put them on.

They continue to enjoy each other playing while i kneel in the corner wearing naked apart from Miss knickers watching and pouring drinks when either Miss or Sir clicks their fingers.

Sir then suggests a outfit change for Miss and tells her to put my choice on.

Then Sir says cucky i know You wanted to see Miss in this outfit but i think You made a great choice and he thinks im too inferior to see Miss looking so sexy and tells me to face the wall and if i turn without permission there will be a punishment.

I turn and face the wall while Miss puts on the sexy outfit i choose, Sir says great choice as i hear them start making out and Miss giving Sir a sexy lapdance.

They then move onto having loud great sex all the time im too face the wall.

Sometime later after about 10mins of Sir and Miss relaxing in each others arms i here Sir click hes fingers and Miss command drinks after i serve them the drinks im instucted to pick the outfit i chose from the floor fold and make my way back to the corner untill im needed.

Thank You for reading if You enjoyed please leave a message

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By *razy ParrotCouple
over a year ago

Corby

Male have looking for a sub for long term fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I'm looking for a experienced long term D/s relationship with a experienced sub. I'm still in the early stages of this and would be looking for a sub who has enough knowledge to build on this.

Must add I'm looking for a female only. And whilst I am listed as a tv on here that is optional as I'm nowhere near a 24/7 dresser.

Whilst I'm looking for a long term relationship I Don't demand 100% exclusiveness.

Feel free to pm me

Maybe I should add to that ....I have a fullyworking ST Andrews Cross Waiting here for the right lady "

A little bump

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

How did I miss this ?

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Well I’m interested and looking to learn more on this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread .. it’s fab to see so many people from all walks of life interested in alt experiences... Inexperience is never a problem for us but preferably we seek people who at least might understand the dynamics of d/s and the trust and deep connection that needs To be built to allow a sub such as myself the complete freedom of giving up full and total control to another ..not just physically but mentally .. we consider the brain to be the largest sexual organ !

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over a year ago

So this may sound like an odd one and I'm really not sure how to word it but- we are in a d/s relationship, however mrs needs to be 'trained'? By a dom with lots of experience under the watchful eye of mr. The are a number of reasons for this. Firstly mr will observe silently so to speak as the voyeur aspect is a massive turn on for him. Secondly mrs loves submitting but has become somewhat lax recently.

Mr and Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this may sound like an odd one and I'm really not sure how to word it but- we are in a d/s relationship, however mrs needs to be 'trained'? By a dom with lots of experience under the watchful eye of mr. The are a number of reasons for this. Firstly mr will observe silently so to speak as the voyeur aspect is a massive turn on for him. Secondly mrs loves submitting but has become somewhat lax recently.

Mr and Mrs x"

I hate the word ‘trained’ anyway. You say somewhat lax is that because she feels her needs aren’t being met? Have you both done the bdsm test it can be useful to understand what drives you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this may sound like an odd one and I'm really not sure how to word it but- we are in a d/s relationship, however mrs needs to be 'trained'? By a dom with lots of experience under the watchful eye of mr. The are a number of reasons for this. Firstly mr will observe silently so to speak as the voyeur aspect is a massive turn on for him. Secondly mrs loves submitting but has become somewhat lax recently.

Mr and Mrs x

I hate the word ‘trained’ anyway. You say somewhat lax is that because she feels her needs aren’t being met? Have you both done the bdsm test it can be useful to understand what drives you both "

That's a good idea- we had forgotten about the test.

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

I adie (male) would love to be tied by a dom female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

High brat

High masochistic

Looking for

Dom

Sadistic

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By *yhollandMan
over a year ago

Morton

Dom male, i'm looking for a experienced long term D/s relationship with a experienced sub. I'm still in the early stages of this and would be looking for a sub who has enough knowledge to build on this.

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally I'm looking for a lady who loves to dress in rubber and pvc for fun...who also would be ok being in public with me dressed to shock..

Not exactly dom but certainly know what I like..

Any takers? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck me I'm going to have to take my ad down....fecking overwhelmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

Sub looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello

Sub looking "

Hello

You're looking fine as well ??

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Switch

High brat

High masochistic

Looking for

Dom

Sadistic "

I love brats, not in a s- m mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How goes the search for everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How goes the search for everyone? "

Futile. Given up. Just here to spectate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How goes the search for everyone?

Futile. Given up. Just here to spectate."

Aww I’m sorry to hear that!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"How goes the search for everyone? "

I haven’t found a D/s relationship/dynamic yet but I was topped last week by a good Dom and had a great time. Looking forward to the next scene

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By *ovice_subTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington


"How goes the search for everyone? "

Still searching, not giving hope but not holding my breath lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a switch but never really let my sub side which I've always believed is more prevalent loose.

Would like to worship and be tied and teased. Also would love to discover feel of a strapon. Love being face sat in particular.

Willing to try most sane things that don't leave marks at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find a Dom man. Who really knows how to be dominant and not just spanking blindfolding and tying up and they think they are a Dom. Ideally someone who is local. I think that will be very hard to find. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id like to find a submissive (not sissy) male for some non-sexual play! "

Shame your so far away

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"How goes the search for everyone?

I haven’t found a D/s relationship/dynamic yet but I was topped last week by a good Dom and had a great time. Looking forward to the next scene "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeking kinky play partners. Singles or couples. Any combination of subs or Dom/Dommes. We are and experienced couple with many years on the BDSM scene in Devon. Check out our profile and message if interested."

But not single males?

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Would be great to meet some rope practitioners on her.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Love BDSM play. Had some experience but would love a whole lot more! Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How goes the search for everyone?

Futile. Given up. Just here to spectate."

Oh dear

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


" "

I’d love to make those lips quiver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some....years ago..hancuffed with estim machine on my cock and a cock in my mouth...so damn hot.

So much more I want to experience too..

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