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By *omb2244 OP   Man
over a year ago

NYC

When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male? "

Generally speaking if you read their proles it's stated on there.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male? "

So do you think all couples are the same then?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

Generally speaking if you read their proles it's stated on there. "
profiles, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

Generally speaking if you read their proles it's stated on there. profiles, sorry "

all this times I've been browsing proles..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Combination of both, like others have said best to check their profile or status.

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By *ternal OptimistMan
over a year ago

London

They are a couple, always address both, shows a bit of respect for both parties no matter who the lead is

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We like to browse, I have the ultimate say. Guys messaging thinking they are the dogs bollox get deleted. Guys out of my age range get a no thanks. I like to choose. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

So do you think all couples are the same then?"

You clearly have major issues. Leave the poor newbies alone. Stop picking on people all the time for not wording questions the way you'd like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male? "

Very few couples (or women) actively look for themselves. Most prefer to wait for their inboxes to fill up. A full inbox is better for their ego.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Male half of a couple here... we generally let guys message us as we haven't been very active recently. It's easier to sit back and watch the very few messages that come in. When we're in a meeting mood we try and use the search function. Usually with no luck lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will look for a Male. The female half has the last say who we meet as she will be the one getting most of the action.

We get loads of messages from guys offering MFM, but if we’re not looking we ignore them.

MFM is a lot more than what some guys appreciate and don’t realise what is involved. We’ve chatted and met guys who’ve suddenly wanted to take over they get told to do one and it spoils their night for them.

We try explaining this to potential meets, however few get this fact. A threesome is a threesome, not the guy inviting another guy to shag the living daylights out of his wife.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

My advice would be to check their status as most will say when they fancy a meet,

Even better some will put on their status when and where they are when they visit a club and you could always message them,Most will reply in those circumstances.

I would also check verifications to see how active they are as you don’t want to waste time on people who just want a full inbox for their own ego,

Good luck as I’ve heard it’s not easy on here getting meets through messaging

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I can't speak for all couples, but we've never met a guy without weeks of "ping pong" messages before hand. So i wouldn't expect anything to happen quickly, even when couples are looking to meet.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"My advice would be to check their status as most will say when they fancy a meet,

Even better some will put on their status when and where they are when they visit a club and you could always message them,Most will reply in those circumstances.

I would also check verifications to see how active they are as you don’t want to waste time on people who just want a full inbox for their own ego,

Good luck as I’ve heard it’s not easy on here getting meets through messaging "

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I can't speak for all couples, but we've never met a guy without weeks of "ping pong" messages before hand. So i wouldn't expect anything to happen quickly, even when couples are looking to meet. "

That is exactly my point use couple status as a guide as they’ll give a specific day they wish to meet most will also say if it’s social but in a club most would be up for some fun if you all get on.

Last thing you need is to ping pong messages from people who are not intending to meet for weeks or months.Also try and remember that there are genuine couples who do want to meet respectful single guys and many couples I’ve met have said the right guys are in short supply so don’t believe all negativity on here.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

So do you think all couples are the same then?

You clearly have major issues. Leave the poor newbies alone. Stop picking on people all the time for not wording questions the way you'd like. "

It seems you have an issue with me!

But just to clarify, you’re allowed to be rude but others aren’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that has puzzled me. How do you address a couple?

Start every message with Dear Mr and Mrs Swingingcouple?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"One thing that has puzzled me. How do you address a couple?

Start every message with Dear Mr and Mrs Swingingcouple?"

"Hello" then insert the profile name.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I like them to contact us, there re far to many on here to go through, plus if they contact you they have at least liked something about your profile (the majority read them!!!) lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"One thing that has puzzled me. How do you address a couple?

Start every message with Dear Mr and Mrs Swingingcouple?

"Hello" then insert the profile name. "

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

As a single male that meets couples about 50% of the time I would say it is mostly through club scene. So I will go to a club and speak to them at the club or watch them play. I may then reach out after and veri etc

For me I don’t have a car so all meets I have to rely on public transport so short notice meets are sometimes a bit tricky unless in London (when I am in London) or Manchester (when I am in Manc)

I may speak to couples but I would say I normally wait for them to take the lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always address them together, don’t assume you’re talking to the lady. A lot of men in a couple get pissed off as the single guy will continually try to just address the lady as if he doesn’t exist. Remember this is s MMF and all 3 of you are involved, this isn’t another way to have sex if you can’t get a single lady. MMF is a very special dynamic and is possibly the most erotic thing you’ll do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always address them together, don’t assume you’re talking to the lady. A lot of men in a couple get pissed off as the single guy will continually try to just address the lady as if he doesn’t exist. Remember this is s MMF and all 3 of you are involved, this isn’t another way to have sex if you can’t get a single lady. MMF is a very special dynamic and is possibly the most erotic thing you’ll do. "

Single men would do well to take your advice.....

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Always address them together, don’t assume you’re talking to the lady. A lot of men in a couple get pissed off as the single guy will continually try to just address the lady as if he doesn’t exist. Remember this is s MMF and all 3 of you are involved, this isn’t another way to have sex if you can’t get a single lady. MMF is a very special dynamic and is possibly the most erotic thing you’ll do. "

Holy balls that’s the best reply I have ever heard!

Spot on Mr!

(Although for us it is generally me who replies!) lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've had a quite lot of success (as a single guy) meeting couples, but I've found it's always as a result of me making the first move. Some couples take a bit more time, preferring to message back and forth, and get to know me a little before a social meet is arranged, others have been more direct. It is always about three people though

Personally, I've not found meeting couples in a club a 'better' way than messaging through Fab. The club scene seems to be about making the most of who is there when you are, rather than in Fab, where you search for people who you are specifically interested in, and you match their preferences

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I've had a quite lot of success (as a single guy) meeting couples, but I've found it's always as a result of me making the first move. Some couples take a bit more time, preferring to message back and forth, and get to know me a little before a social meet is arranged, others have been more direct. It is always about three people though

Personally, I've not found meeting couples in a club a 'better' way than messaging through Fab. The club scene seems to be about making the most of who is there when you are, rather than in Fab, where you search for people who you are specifically interested in, and you match their preferences "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

So do you think all couples are the same then?

You clearly have major issues. Leave the poor newbies alone. Stop picking on people all the time for not wording questions the way you'd like.

It seems you have an issue with me!

But just to clarify, you’re allowed to be rude but others aren’t?

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Whatever you say.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I've had a quite lot of success (as a single guy) meeting couples, but I've found it's always as a result of me making the first move. Some couples take a bit more time, preferring to message back and forth, and get to know me a little before a social meet is arranged, others have been more direct. It is always about three people though

Personally, I've not found meeting couples in a club a 'better' way than messaging through Fab. The club scene seems to be about making the most of who is there when you are, rather than in Fab, where you search for people who you are specifically interested in, and you match their preferences "
Whatever works for you but everyday on here there’s a single guy complaining that they can’t get meets or replies to their messages.If people have the patience to send thousands of messages good on them.

As regards choice I’m completely cool with the people I’ve met clubbing and will see many of them again hopefully

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When couples are seeking a single male for a MFM or for the wife to play with, do they prefer the single male to reach out to them on Fab or they prefer to contact the single male?

Generally speaking if you read their proles it's stated on there. profiles, sorry

all this times I've been browsing proles..!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've had a quite lot of success (as a single guy) meeting couples, but I've found it's always as a result of me making the first move. Some couples take a bit more time, preferring to message back and forth, and get to know me a little before a social meet is arranged, others have been more direct. It is always about three people though

Personally, I've not found meeting couples in a club a 'better' way than messaging through Fab. The club scene seems to be about making the most of who is there when you are, rather than in Fab, where you search for people who you are specifically interested in, and you match their preferences Whatever works for you but everyday on here there’s a single guy complaining that they can’t get meets or replies to their messages.If people have the patience to send thousands of messages good on them.

As regards choice I’m completely cool with the people I’ve met clubbing and will see many of them again hopefully "

That's exactly right mate; whatever works for you, works for you Guys should try every avenue, as they may not be good at writing messages, but equally, visiting a club as a single guy is pretty daunting. Out of the 4 clubs I've visited, I've spoken to one couple, and the female of one other couple, apart from that, I've only felt like 'persona non grata' inside a club, whereas I can message anyone in here anytime, and more often than not, my advances are welcomed

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I've had a quite lot of success (as a single guy) meeting couples, but I've found it's always as a result of me making the first move. Some couples take a bit more time, preferring to message back and forth, and get to know me a little before a social meet is arranged, others have been more direct. It is always about three people though

Personally, I've not found meeting couples in a club a 'better' way than messaging through Fab. The club scene seems to be about making the most of who is there when you are, rather than in Fab, where you search for people who you are specifically interested in, and you match their preferences Whatever works for you but everyday on here there’s a single guy complaining that they can’t get meets or replies to their messages.If people have the patience to send thousands of messages good on them.

As regards choice I’m completely cool with the people I’ve met clubbing and will see many of them again hopefully

That's exactly right mate; whatever works for you, works for you Guys should try every avenue, as they may not be good at writing messages, but equally, visiting a club as a single guy is pretty daunting. Out of the 4 clubs I've visited, I've spoken to one couple, and the female of one other couple, apart from that, I've only felt like 'persona non grata' inside a club, whereas I can message anyone in here anytime, and more often than not, my advances are welcomed "

This

I can see where you are coming from.

Clubs are not a "better " way to get meets even if you are struggling on Fabs.

Clubs are "just another " way to meet people, and may certainly not be the best way for some single guys.

I've had far more luck meeting couples online than I will ever do meeting them in clubs.

Usually best to work with what you are comfortable with.

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