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Inimacy into a Swingers club?!

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By *aughtydesires OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

We read the comments about the clubs and we noted with surprise that some couples complain of lack of privacy in the club .. I wonder... why you go into a swingers club if you want privacy? Every time when we go into a swingers club we know exactly why and certainly not looking for intimacy

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"We read the comments about the clubs and we noted with surprise that some couples complain of lack of privacy in the club .. I wonder... why you go into a swingers club if you want privacy? Every time when we go into a swingers club we know exactly why and certainly not looking for intimacy"

possible answer that they are unable to meet at home and don't want to use hotels or other couples homes; and are choosing venues that don't have lockable rooms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People meet with another couple and want some privacy, so as others dont jump in without being asked, or sit on the bed and touch, watch etc..

I know there is a no means no code, but some dont want to be put in that position in the first place.

We used to hate playing in public.. for those reasons above, but now we've found VA the standard of members there is great and no one gets too close - respect is the word.

We use swingers clubs as a place to meet others for the first time.. private meets are a waste of time unless we know them, already.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I want privacy at clubs,we go to ones that have lockable rooms

Im not a sexual exhibitionist for strangers and prefer to play away from people that are standing around watching,it puts me off and I find I can concentrate a whole lot more on my playmates and enjoy myself more behind a closed door

I would'nt complain about lack of privacy in clubs though,I would check what the club was like first and if it was'nt what I wanted then we would'nt go to it,most of them have websites that give details of what the play areas and rooms are like,open,lockable etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well obviously, like others have mentioned, if they are playing with a couple or a single guy then they want privacy with just the people they have chosen.

If you mean why do couples go to clubs when they just want to play together - well we do this many times. I don't have a jacuzzi at home so its nice to go and have sex in there. I don't have a mirrored ceiling or a swing either, so again its nice to use those facilities.

Admittedly I am an exhibitionist so I rather like having sex, even just the two of us, but with other couples fucking nearby. I like to hear the sounds of others. And there's just something thrilling, a bit seedy even, about being in a swinging club, most of all I love the atmosphere. Playing with others is not overly my main priority (tho an extra pair of hands is great too)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We read the comments about the clubs and we noted with surprise that some couples complain of lack of privacy in the club .. I wonder... why you go into a swingers club if you want privacy? Every time when we go into a swingers club we know exactly why and certainly not looking for intimacy"

good for you that you know....

just because you may want to play with other people in open rooms,

it doesn't mean that others want to play in exactly the same way...

isn't that the beauty of swinging.. that people can play in anyway they see fit???

I fully understand that not everyone wants to play in open rooms and would be more shocked if there were not rooms that could be used privately in a club...

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

What has privacy, got to do with intimacy?

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

well we will be going to our first in nov and i think for me it will be a buzz guys bein around now i know thats not everyone cuppa but for now it is mine, but hay it may well freak me out, but i'm quite dirty minded so i'll prob enjoy xx

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

adult club that is lol ops xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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good for you that you know....

just because you may want to play with other people in open rooms,

it doesn't mean that others want to play in exactly the same way...

isn't that the beauty of swinging.. that people can play in anyway they see fit???

I fully understand that not everyone wants to play in open rooms and would be more shocked if there were not rooms that could be used privately in a club...

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nods in agreement

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We dont like to play in open rooms, unless we know most in there. We Like clubs because we cant accomidate, we love the atmosphere at our local one, nice to chat to like minded people. Infact if a Club has all open rooms we wont go. really want to try VA, but been told its all open room and that really puts us off x

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