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Mrs Fancies a spot of bondage.

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By *antasyxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

I should have indulged in this before now but it’s just not my thing. As she fancies it I am going to make an effort. I thought it would be a good idea to ask the Fab massive for any tips, ideas etc?

When we play, I find that I am often thinking - wish you would do this or say that - so from those who like being the tied ones, what is it that I should do, say etc?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My answer is really boring but you need to ask her what she would like you to say and do.

Does she want to lay passively while you tie her up or put up a bit of playful resistance? Does she want to use rope, scarves, cuffs, leather? Does she want you to be mean and moody or gentle and seductive? That sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with NiceCouple...find out what will push her buttons. Everyone's different.

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By *antasyxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

Yeh makes sense. A conversation for later then.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

You could also find some porn along the lines of what she's after and watch it together. Discuss what you're watching and see if it's something you'd both be happy doing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeh makes sense. A conversation for later then."

That will be a fun conversation . Enjoy and good luck it can be a lot of fun.

One thing I always do is make sure my hair is tied back.

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By *antasyxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

She fancies another guy joining us when she’s tied up - suppose we should give it a go before getting that adventurous though??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"She fancies another guy joining us when she’s tied up - suppose we should give it a go before getting that adventurous though??"

Probably, yes. It's quite an eye opener how vulnerable you feel when you're restrained and can be quite surprising first time. That isn't something I'd want to share with a stranger the first time I did it. Also you don't know how you'll react the first few times either.

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