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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging"

I see swinging as more than casual hookups between singles. I don't think you can unwittingly be a swinger.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an outdated word. Couples going to clubs to fuck strangers isn't swinging by the original definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting people online isn’t swinging its hooking up for casual sex.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. "

Ha ha oh god you just created me up

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here..

Ha ha oh god you just created me up "

‘Creased’ damn predictive text...

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Between this new 'creasing' craze and eating people ...this is a very educational night...

..roll on 2018..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting people online isn’t swinging its hooking up for casual sex."

Do you think going to a club and hooking up for sex is swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between this new 'creasing' craze and eating people ...this is a very educational night...

..roll on 2018.. "

It's already here

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Between this new 'creasing' craze and eating people ...this is a very educational night...

..roll on 2018.. "

Creasing? What is this new craze? And surely you must of heard of the new "Swingers" chocolate bar? It's above average size and you can suck the creamy filling out of one end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meeting people online isn’t swinging its hooking up for casual sex."

This, using a swinging site to meet people for one one one sex isn't swinging even if a swinging site is used to meet.

To answer the OP's post I think it;s more the case that some people aren;t the swingers that they think they are

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

If you sit on a swing you are a swinger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think a lot of men wish their wives were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell people I'm not a swinger as I won't go to a club. I much prefer getting to know someone through chatting a few days/weeks/months than turning up to a club to fuck someone I barely know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of men wish their wives were "

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I swear that title didn't read ate when I re read it. lol

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I swear that title didn't read ate when I re read it. lol"

Fine young cannibals?

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. "
you made me laugh!!! You would like to eat ? X

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. you made me laugh!!! You would like to eat ? X"

Lol the banters brill on this, only few people answered the actual question though :\.

Btw I only eat pussy.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

For me, I think ‘swinging’ is more an attitude than a ‘behaviour’

‘Swingers’ are more open minded & less judgemental about sex & other swingers.

If I went to a bar & met a guy and slept with him, and then the next night slept with his friend, chances are when they spoke about it, I’d be called a slag.

Swingers don’t have that same mind set; they understand that different people play in different ways, which gives us all the freedom to enjoy ourselves as we choose to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. "

Sausages and kebabs, presumably

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. you made me laugh!!! You would like to eat ? X"

..whatever is put in front of me..promise ill clean the plate..

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

Think what you’re describing is casual sex, definitely not swinging! As someone else says above, to us, swinging is more about your mentality that your actions!

Without wanting to open the debate as to whether singles can ever be swingers which has been done to death in the past, we would suggest that a lot of singles on this site are in fact not swingers, whereas others may well be depending on how they view their own activities and those others!

Being willing to fuck someone else’s partner doesn’t necessarily make you a swinger, however, if you wouldn’t be willing to share your own partner if you got one, from our perspective, you’re not a swinger!

We stand by to lambasted for that opinion but we stand by it! It also doesn’t matter to us if you’re a swinger or not, if we fancie you and you fancie us we’ll happily fuck you regardless of what you are! Unless we know you’re cheating on someone, that’s our only no-go!

C&T x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging"

They do from what we consider swinging to be .

We often go into a pub , and my wife will cop off with a guy . She tells him I am about and that I enjoy watching her have fun . 99% of the guys she meets are cool with that , and they crack on .

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging

They do from what we consider swinging to be .

We often go into a pub , and my wife will cop off with a guy . She tells him I am about and that I enjoy watching her have fun . 99% of the guys she meets are cool with that , and they crack on . "

I think the point there is that you are swinging. The blokes she is copping off with aren’t - they’re just copping off with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell people I'm not a swinger as I won't go to a club. I much prefer getting to know someone through chatting a few days/weeks/months than turning up to a club to fuck someone I barely know.

"

You can always get to know them BEFORE you fuck them.

A club is a social place where like minded people attend... it's not instashag.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging

They do from what we consider swinging to be .

We often go into a pub , and my wife will cop off with a guy . She tells him I am about and that I enjoy watching her have fun . 99% of the guys she meets are cool with that , and they crack on .

I think the point there is that you are swinging. The blokes she is copping off with aren’t - they’re just copping off with a woman."

True , but they are aware of what we do and how we do it .

So since we engage in voyeuristic fun with others the others are swinging with us as I see it . They perhaps wouldn’t call themselves swingers , that much is true , but they are a welcome addition to our swinging experience

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You ate some swingers??..jaysus i've seen it all on here.. you made me laugh!!! You would like to eat ? X

..whatever is put in front of me..promise ill clean the plate.."
that's is a good boy!!!! X

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford


"I think a lot of men wish their wives were "

Sat on a swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between this new 'creasing' craze and eating people ...this is a very educational night...

..roll on 2018..

Creasing? What is this new craze? And surely you must of heard of the new "Swingers" chocolate bar? It's above average size and you can suck the creamy filling out of one end. "

And it's a similar size to a sky remote .....ps the new sky Q remote is alot smaller .....hmmm might have to take a photo of it

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Think what you’re describing is casual sex, definitely not swinging! As someone else says above, to us, swinging is more about your mentality that your actions!

Without wanting to open the debate as to whether singles can ever be swingers which has been done to death in the past, we would suggest that a lot of singles on this site are in fact not swingers, whereas others may well be depending on how they view their own activities and those others!

Being willing to fuck someone else’s partner doesn’t necessarily make you a swinger, however, if you wouldn’t be willing to share your own partner if you got one, from our perspective, you’re not a swinger!

We stand by to lambasted for that opinion but we stand by it! It also doesn’t matter to us if you’re a swinger or not, if we fancie you and you fancie us we’ll happily fuck you regardless of what you are! Unless we know you’re cheating on someone, that’s our only no-go!

C&T x"

No this forum is a debating forum and all views ate welcome so long as they are inoffensive, add to the debate.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Think what you’re describing is casual sex, definitely not swinging! As someone else says above, to us, swinging is more about your mentality that your actions!

Without wanting to open the debate as to whether singles can ever be swingers which has been done to death in the past, we would suggest that a lot of singles on this site are in fact not swingers, whereas others may well be depending on how they view their own activities and those others!

Being willing to fuck someone else’s partner doesn’t necessarily make you a swinger, however, if you wouldn’t be willing to share your own partner if you got one, from our perspective, you’re not a swinger!

We stand by to lambasted for that opinion but we stand by it! It also doesn’t matter to us if you’re a swinger or not, if we fancie you and you fancie us we’ll happily fuck you regardless of what you are! Unless we know you’re cheating on someone, that’s our only no-go!

C&T x

No this forum is a debating forum and all views ate welcome so long as they are inoffensive, add to the debate."

*are

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

So you can partake is swinging activity and not class yourself a swinger?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"After a discussion with a friend he asked what is swinging he interrupted me "I should imagine you meet people online..."

He said "So that would make me a swinger then".

So the question is do people partake in what we would call swinging without thinking they are swingers/Swinging

They do from what we consider swinging to be .

We often go into a pub , and my wife will cop off with a guy . She tells him I am about and that I enjoy watching her have fun . 99% of the guys she meets are cool with that , and they crack on .

I think the point there is that you are swinging. The blokes she is copping off with aren’t - they’re just copping off with a woman.

True , but they are aware of what we do and how we do it .

So since we engage in voyeuristic fun with others the others are swinging with us as I see it . They perhaps wouldn’t call themselves swingers , that much is true , but they are a welcome addition to our swinging experience "

Definitely they’re a part of the swinging experience from your perspective, but from theirs, as you say - they probably wouldn’t

Hence the difference between Swingers & casual shaggers ... it’s a perspective/ attitude / outlook more than the actual activity (in my humble opinion anyway!)

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I always thought it was really only a term that applied for couples (and still do really), but not according to the urban dictionary (or a few other dictionaries I spotted when I googled it):

"Swingers can be couples (married or not) or singles. They have a sexually free spirit. Couples tend to be in love with each other, and only "share" each other sexually with others. Sometimes this means "swapping wives" sometimes it means "group sex".

Single swingers generally despise the dating process and would rather meet at swinger gatherings where it is acceptable and in some cases expected that sex can/will occur on the spot with whomever they meet and feel attracted to."

So there we have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...strangely over Christmas with my brother lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be "adult fun" or "open minded fun"

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