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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

So I've been on and off this site for a number of years. More recently it has lost some of it's thrill and excitement, which might partly be my own fault for not communicating my interests more openly. I've decided to rectify this by updating my profile and being more bold about my desires.

If anyone would care to take a nosey at my profile, any observations or feedback would be much appreciated. I intend to update my pics in the next few days to make them a little more consistent with my new, more domme self (killer heels, latex and lace, etc.).

Suggestions for club nights or events that I should be attending would be appreciated (I'm not new to clubs). Also, if you have any advice on how to communicate my particular tastes to others I meet at clubs that would be helpful.

Lastly, if you like the sound of this and would like to be my new plaything, get in touch!

Thanks all, Miss K.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought you’d get a lot of interest. I did when I had a single profile. Although a lot of sissies. The men you wouldn’t expect still wanted the sex side. Re clubs maybe the outfits you where will show what you’re into Bit the choice of club and nights will be important as usually kink ones don’t have full sex play (depend on club and night) the usually sex clubs though all men there will want sex not just bdsm. Maybe look for some slave nights.

Good luck hope you find what you want x

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Profile looks good... i suspect you'll get lots of offers. Hopefully most of them take the time to read it though!

Good luck in the search

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think you've captured where you're coming from and are looking for perfectly in your profile OP - it's clear you've given it a lot of thought and know what you want, just hope the intended recipients read it and pay attention.

As others have suggested might be an idea to look for club nights aimed at your particular wants and desires.

Perhaps get prospective playmates to complete one of the many BDSM questionnaires available on-line to get an idea of how good a match they'd be (not to mention how genuine/serious they are).

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you've captured where you're coming from and are looking for perfectly in your profile OP - it's clear you've given it a lot of thought and know what you want, just hope the intended recipients read it and pay attention.

As others have suggested might be an idea to look for club nights aimed at your particular wants and desires.

Perhaps get prospective playmates to complete one of the many BDSM questionnaires available on-line to get an idea of how good a match they'd be (not to mention how genuine/serious they are).

Good luck "

oh yeah I liked that bdsm test thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you've captured where you're coming from and are looking for perfectly in your profile OP - it's clear you've given it a lot of thought and know what you want, just hope the intended recipients read it and pay attention.

As others have suggested might be an idea to look for club nights aimed at your particular wants and desires.

Perhaps get prospective playmates to complete one of the many BDSM questionnaires available on-line to get an idea of how good a match they'd be (not to mention how genuine/serious they are).

Good luck "

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if using stinging nettles, keep fresh in a bag in fridge and only use gloves.

Men love the sting!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"OP if using stinging nettles, keep fresh in a bag in fridge and only use gloves.

Men love the sting! "

We bloody don't!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP if using stinging nettles, keep fresh in a bag in fridge and only use gloves.

Men love the sting!

We bloody don't!! "

Ok some men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would have thought you’d get a lot of interest. I did when I had a single profile. Although a lot of sissies. The men you wouldn’t expect still wanted the sex side. Re clubs maybe the outfits you where will show what you’re into Bit the choice of club and nights will be important as usually kink ones don’t have full sex play (depend on club and night) the usually sex clubs though all men there will want sex not just bdsm. Maybe look for some slave nights.

Good luck hope you find what you want x"

Thanks for the reply. Sissies is a good word! I will remember that as it communicates what I don’t want (I have no issue with it but it just doesn’t float my boat).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you've captured where you're coming from and are looking for perfectly in your profile OP - it's clear you've given it a lot of thought and know what you want, just hope the intended recipients read it and pay attention.

As others have suggested might be an idea to look for club nights aimed at your particular wants and desires.

Perhaps get prospective playmates to complete one of the many BDSM questionnaires available on-line to get an idea of how good a match they'd be (not to mention how genuine/serious they are).

Good luck "

A very good point re. focusing on more kinky club nights. I had wondered whether there might be an expectation of sex of normal nights and a few people seem to have confirmed my suspicions.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge


"OP if using stinging nettles, keep fresh in a bag in fridge and only use gloves.

Men love the sting!

We bloody don't!!

Ok some men "

He he... after falling into nettles a few times when a kid... these would always go on the 'punishment with no enjoyment list' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real mistresses ie pro dommes dont have sex. Perhaps remind them they’d pay £90 plus a session with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real mistresses ie pro dommes dont have sex. Perhaps remind them they’d pay £90 plus a session with them "

More like £150 an hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Real mistresses ie pro dommes dont have sex. Perhaps remind them they’d pay £90 plus a session with them

More like £150 an hour "

Jeez feel like I’m missing a trick here! Time to get some practice in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off as a submissive and changed rolls 10 years ago. I've been a professional mistress now for 3 years. I mainly women how they can dominate their partner etc.

Like previous post we do not have sex. It's not sexual. Hence why I come on fab to have sex and enjoy myself. I do enjoy being a mistress but it's my job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started off as a submissive and changed rolls 10 years ago. I've been a professional mistress now for 3 years. I mainly women how they can dominate their partner etc.

Like previous post we do not have sex. It's not sexual. Hence why I come on fab to have sex and enjoy myself. I do enjoy being a mistress but it's my job! "

I wish I could have the confidence to do it. Do you Domme the guys you’re interested in on here?

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport


"OP if using stinging nettles, keep fresh in a bag in fridge and only use gloves.

Men love the sting! "

I liked it on my balls but holy mother of god not on the bellend!!

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your profile looks great, I bet you’ll get plenty of offers! Are you on the other fet l i f e website that can’t be named? The have lots of resources and groups for Dommes.

I thought I was a sub until I discovered my sadistic side how much I love to be dominant in BDSM play - just not sexually!

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By *ave_diamondMan
over a year ago

Rhyd-y-foel

I have recently decided to get more involved in the bdsm scene but crikey, its difficult finding others with the same fettish in my area let alone further afield.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile looks great, I bet you’ll get plenty of offers! Are you on the other fet l i f e website that can’t be named? The have lots of resources and groups for Dommes.

I thought I was a sub until I discovered my sadistic side how much I love to be dominant in BDSM play - just not sexually!

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Thanks! I’m in a similar position, have been more submissive in the past but I’m definitely ready to explore my domme side.

I’m aware of that other site and will most likely check it out in the near future. I’m getting the impression that quite a few guys on here don’t quite get where I’m coming from so perhaps a morn niche site might suit me better.

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have exactly the same impression. Not sure if you can travel to Birmingham but there’s a FemDom night in February- a social, workshops and play session where you can meet Dommes and subs who are looking for play partners or Dommes. I haven’t been yet but have heard its a fun session. I can message you the details if you are interested. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have exactly the same impression. Not sure if you can travel to Birmingham but there’s a FemDom night in February- a social, workshops and play session where you can meet Dommes and subs who are looking for play partners or Dommes. I haven’t been yet but have heard its a fun session. I can message you the details if you are interested. X"

OOo please could you pm me the details? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately Birmingham is a bit too far for me to travel. I have spotted a few club events in Leeds though.....

Pandora’s have a masters and slaves night on 26th and 27th Jan. This is a newer club and not much info on the format of the events on their website.

Quest holds a regular bdsm/fetish night one Thursday a month. According to their website, a professional domme attends and there are demonstrations as well as rooms open for play.

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have exactly the same impression. Not sure if you can travel to Birmingham but there’s a FemDom night in February- a social, workshops and play session where you can meet Dommes and subs who are looking for play partners or Dommes. I haven’t been yet but have heard its a fun session. I can message you the details if you are interested. X

OOo please could you pm me the details? X"

I have tried but got banned because I mentioned the banned site ! Will try again soon!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well I have been looking for a Domme lady to serve . But I'm out of your age range . But I'm not a guy that annoys ladies . Luv to chat but if I'm not for you wish you good luck . My moto is its nice to be nice .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would luv to be a slave mmm just played it in a role play and I enjoyed it . But I know if I became your slave there would be no sex only giving you all the pleasure without receiving any myself .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Life is aways a learning curve and I'm more than willing to work with some one help them and they help me . It's a fantasy I would luv to act out and it's most likely a fantasy you want to act out too . You might be the partner I have been looking for .

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