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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the new year I will be arranging a gangbang for my wife. I would appreciate any advice from anyone experienced in gangbangs. I've heard that you need to invite about four times the number you want due to no shows but we are looking to meet the guys on there own first so I'm hoping that won't be a problem. Any other advice is gratefully received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say invite guys with experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or do it in a club.

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By *hil_SW19Man
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Expect a lot of drop outs or cancellations if the guys haven't done a gangbang before. I'd say invite 10 guys and expect 5

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Only invite guys that your wife fancies.

Invite at least twice the numv7she thinks she can cope with

Have someone watch her back to ensure all are playing safe and sticking to your rules of play

Have plenty of lubes and condoms and wetwipes and a bin bag for all the wrappers and used ones

Oh and enjoy your selves

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Meeting the individuals beforehand is a good call, it breaks the ice, allows you the chance to figure if they are good to invite and also shows they are less likely to be timewasters - in my experience, people you have met once are more likely to roll up a second time.

As for the invite 4 expect 1 ratio it really can vary.

Good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm also wondering what a good number is. We have a number in our minds but would love to hear from others that have had experience in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also wondering what a good number is. We have a number in our minds but would love to hear from others that have had experience in this situation. "
Depends on how many she can handle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we don't know yet but she likes to push her boundaries.

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

When we did ours I would of preferred another guy there to keep watch. Didn't like being out the room showing some guys out having the mrs vulnerable alone with randoms.

But then again I trust no one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we don't know yet but she likes to push her boundaries. "
maybe build the numbers up, first mmf etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we did ours I would of preferred another guy there to keep watch. Didn't like being out the room showing some guys out having the mrs vulnerable alone with randoms.

But then again I trust no one.."

I plan on being in the room at all times. Like you I also trust no one lol

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark


"When we did ours I would of preferred another guy there to keep watch. Didn't like being out the room showing some guys out having the mrs vulnerable alone with randoms.

But then again I trust no one..

I plan on being in the room at all times. Like you I also trust no one lol"

Best off at a club then for sure. We did ours in a private venue we rented. Keeping an eye out to make sure guys kept condoms etc was draining.. While I was meant to be enjoying it

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Keep their DNA! Easier to work out who the dad is.

JOKING!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we did ours I would of preferred another guy there to keep watch. Didn't like being out the room showing some guys out having the mrs vulnerable alone with randoms.

But then again I trust no one..

I plan on being in the room at all times. Like you I also trust no one lol

Wouldn't you have the same problem in a club though? Excuse the naivety but we haven't visited a club yet. Also I have to say the rope work on your profile is outstanding.

Best off at a club then for sure. We did ours in a private venue we rented. Keeping an eye out to make sure guys kept condoms etc was draining.. While I was meant to be enjoying it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only invite guys that your wife fancies.

Invite at least twice the numv7she thinks she can cope with

Have someone watch her back to ensure all are playing safe and sticking to your rules of play

Have plenty of lubes and condoms and wetwipes and a bin bag for all the wrappers and used ones

Oh and enjoy your selves "
it sounds so appealing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excuse the naivety but we haven't visited a club yet. Also I have to say the rope work on your profile is outstanding.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"Or do it in a club. "

Agree- so much more easier. Enjoy the moment, numbers sort themselves out and no need to communicate with 25-75% timewasters for a month beforehand (remember attendence doesn't guarantee erection).

Adult cinema is similar if you want the seedy edge?

Sx

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Usual suggestion is invite double the amount you want. Check verifications to see if he has played in a group before. Some men get stage fright.

Have a deadline for arrival, you don't want to be answering the door during the fun.

Be clear on the rules. Write them down, and read them out once everyone is there. E.g. Condoms, no anal, no verbal abuse. Or whatever your limits are.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am in control. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite double I would first time have 5 to6 some will watch and want a blow job only.

Condoms lots and lube

Enjoy se rules. Love to help organise we know men who do this and genuine

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Don't rush it chat with the males for a while trust me alot of them can talk but it go through with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your advice. It's been extremely helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as numbers the Mrs can handle? Does she know how much penetration she can handle in a short space of time? Otherwise if she gets too sore and can't take anymore, at least she can give oral and end the night with bukkake if that's her thing?

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

We arranged 10 males to turn up at ours an only 2 turned up in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe find someone on here who arranges them. I had one arranged by funliverpool.

My number was 4 and that was enough for my first one. My hubby watched and filmed. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm happy to accept any help in organising it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Stick to no more than six. Large groups are unwieldy. You will get better sex from 6 dedicated guys than 20 quick fucks.

2. Don't put out invitations on here as 9 out of 10 who respond will be time wasters

3. Look for a local group or someone who has experience arranging them. Someone who has reliable friends and can accommodate.

4. If all that fails, come to me !

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I would say the idea of meeting individually first at a club is a good one

Firstly it gets rid of those Internet warriors that just like the fantasy but can’t do it for real and secondly it selects those that can accept meets and sex being in a public area around other guys and don’t feel scared or threatened by that

Whilst circumstances may still cause last minute cancellations at least with the above you’ll have a greater chance of them turning up and performing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on our 2018 to-do list too, some good ideas here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go to a greedy girls party at a club. You'll be guaranteed to have single guys to pick from

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