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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im a voyeur looking to meet couples and singles to watch them play, at home or dogging. I would touch / be touched if asked to but other than that i am happy to sit back. I have seen lots of stories on here about pushy guys (mostly dogging stories) expecting to much action ect. However, it seems that the people I chat to / msg on this site are not very intersested in me as I only want soft play. Are there any people out there looking for someone like me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about going to a club? Loads of rooms are open and you can watch to your hearts content xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats not a bad idea at all thanks. I have thought about it as well however, I am a little shy so i would have to man up a bit lol. Also, i have always wondered what peope in a club would think about a guy thats just into watching?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Thats not a bad idea at all thanks. I have thought about it as well however, I am a little shy so i would have to man up a bit lol. Also, i have always wondered what peope in a club would think about a guy thats just into watching? "

If they are playing in an open room most people are very happy to be watched, in fact thats often why they are there

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Club is the way to go, some set up things with the explicit intention of being watched, i.e. let it be known there is a show to see.

Others you'll just be in the right place at the right time.

Just be polite, chat to people in the social area, most clubs will show you around, and often a regular will spot the new guy and say hi.

Be aware though that clubs are very dynamic places, some weeks not a lot happens, other weeks you don't know where to look for the bodies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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If they are playing in an open room most people are very happy to be watched, in fact thats often why they are there"

Sounds like it may be worth a try then, although, i hear that most clubs limit single men. And, the nearest club is miles away from me. I gotta move out of the sticks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info andrew, I hear than chams is a great club so perhaps i'll give it a go some time. Just been reading todays forums and it sounds like there is a new club in the midlands i could try (retro). Says they don't restric men as much as some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that people watching, being a single guy to a group of people is horny as hell. Most people we come across enjoy this as well. We only do it, in clubs as we do not feel safe enough to go dogging.

We always find that, if a guy lets his views known the social area. There is most of the time people are able to accom the idea. We have down it a few times, and when hubby has had his fun. We invite the guy over for a bit of fun. some are hubby just to watch, while others have some oral fun.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Actually I prefer a restriction on men, as when too many it can be a bit too much...

Restrictions mean waiting lists etc, but avoids the club being swamped and couples just hiding in private rooms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find that people watching, being a single guy to a group of people is horny as hell. Most people we come across enjoy this as well. We only do it, in clubs as we do not feel safe enough to go dogging.

We always find that, if a guy lets his views known the social area. There is most of the time people are able to accom the idea. We have down it a few times, and when hubby has had his fun. We invite the guy over for a bit of fun. some are hubby just to watch, while others have some oral fun."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find that people watching, being a single guy to a group of people is horny as hell. Most people we come across enjoy this as well. We only do it, in clubs as we do not feel safe enough to go dogging.

We always find that, if a guy lets his views known the social area. There is most of the time people are able to accom the idea. We have down it a few times, and when hubby has had his fun. We invite the guy over for a bit of fun. some are hubby just to watch, while others have some oral fun."

Thanks for your input, it sounds like clubs are the way to go. I have just been looking into it all now lol. Will defo let people know what im looking for in the social area, makes good sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually I prefer a restriction on men, as when too many it can be a bit too much...

Restrictions mean waiting lists etc, but avoids the club being swamped and couples just hiding in private rooms"

Good point, i can only imagine how many guys would turn up to this sort of club lol.

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