FabSwingers.com forum: exaggerated verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever meet someone on here in person then read a verifications about them." The hottest body on fab". Gorgeous and sexy. " Tall handsome man. Then you see them and its like something from its a fucking knockout. The younger one my not remember it. The tide wouldn't take them out.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Harsh

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that ...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Have you ever meet someone on here in person then read a verifications about them." The hottest body on fab". Gorgeous and sexy. " Tall handsome man. Then you see them and its like something from its a fucking knockout. The younger one my not remember it. The tide wouldn't take them out."

Brilliantly put

The answer is yes. I've also seen them written and thought " was I even in the same country let alone the same room "

Each to their own though. I take no notice of verifications at all

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Haha that made me chuckle

Over the top veris not my thing but thats with the overly graphic ones

Don’t mind when they say how Hot / beautiful / Sexy they are as we all have different tastes

I get more ‘trading standards’ when people use those terms in their own user names pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harsh

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that ..."
exactly but people put such stead in veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha that made me chuckle

Over the top veris not my thing but thats with the overly graphic ones

Don’t mind when they say how Hot / beautiful / Sexy they are as we all have different tastes

I get more ‘trading standards’ when people use those terms in their own user names pmsl "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people use hyperbole in the hopes that someone else will take the individual off their hands.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think veries are far too subjective

What one person finds hot/good may well be diff to what i do

I once met someone on my single profile,really well verified ,however he did nothing for me.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The primary purpose is to verify someone is genuine, not as an advertisement tool. We are all different and one person's heaven is another's hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha, it's a knockout!

Brilliant OP, and yes, often!

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Not everybody's got the same taste. Who you find absolutely stunning, might not be someone else's cup of tea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As observing local updates verifications and pictures of penises .I can't believe a few things I read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this have been done to death, but I will say I don't enjoy the very explicit ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not everybody's got the same taste. Who you find absolutely stunning, might not be someone else's cup of tea x"

this. Who knows OP? What may not be your taste, someone else could think that she's hot

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Threads like this have been done to death, but I will say I don't enjoy the very explicit ones."

They tend to put me off as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads like this have been done to death, but I will say I don't enjoy the very explicit ones.

They tend to put me off as well x"

I would verify you in an instant.

Just an FYI really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked a profile pics and wish I hadn't .felt a bit sick .was spunk and looked like urine in a condom.Not be so nosey in future

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Call me a cynic ... but I suspect it’s a little bit of “you scratch my back...”

I’m more ammused why you get a whole fantasy in one of “what I did” and the other person doesn’t even seem to verified back.

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

I am very embarrassed to say that we often receive ridiculously flattering verifications...which we publish of course!

This inevitably means that when we meet new people that have very high expectations, which puts us under enormous pressure to deliver something spectacular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am very embarrassed to say that we often receive ridiculously flattering verifications...which we publish of course!

This inevitably means that when we meet new people that have very high expectations, which puts us under enormous pressure to deliver something spectacular

To be fair, without reading your verifications you have described yourselves in the THE MOST GLOWING terms on your profile!

It's no wonder you have a lot to live up to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Have you ever meet someone on here in person then read a verifications about them."The hottest body on fab". Gorgeous and sexy."

"Over the top veris not my thing but thats with the overly graphic ones.

Don’t mind when they say how Hot / beautiful / Sexy they are as we all have different tastes""

Or met them and their photos are clearly years out of date and they look nothing like their pic so much so you don't recognise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Have you ever meet someone on here in person then read a verifications about them."The hottest body on fab". Gorgeous and sexy."

"Over the top veris not my thing but thats with the overly graphic ones.

Don’t mind when they say how Hot / beautiful / Sexy they are as we all have different tastes"

Or met them and their photos are clearly years out of date and they look nothing like their pic so much so you don't recognise them.

What I love about the forums is finding people you wouldn't normally interact with, and Madi, you just won a prize for the LONGEST PROFILE on the entire site!

I'm off to read it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I love about the forums is finding people you wouldn't normally interact with, and Madi, you just won a prize for the LONGEST PROFILE on the entire site!

I'm off to read it now

I'm going for a gold medal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you can see by peoples' replies on this thread, people exaggerate.

Everyone has their own perception of other people: How they look; what they say; who they think they are.

My partners think I have a hot body. I do not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I love about the forums is finding people you wouldn't normally interact with, and Madi, you just won a prize for the LONGEST PROFILE on the entire site!

I'm off to read it now

I'm going for a gold medal

You're way out in the lead, almost on the podium

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You have to consider that a meet in person verification comes after someone has either found a profile attractive or found a person attractive enough to talk to and get their fab username in a club or whatever so it is always going to be skewed towards that perspective. I have no verifications from people who haven't found me attractive (apart from social ones), because they simply didn't want to meet me in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I love about the forums is finding people you wouldn't normally interact with, and Madi, you just won a prize for the LONGEST PROFILE on the entire site!

I'm off to read it now

I'm going for a gold medal

You're way out in the lead, almost on the podium

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but who gets the medal for longest posts on forum ?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

""Have you ever meet someone on here in person then read a verifications about them."The hottest body on fab". Gorgeous and sexy."

"Over the top veris not my thing but thats with the overly graphic ones.

Don’t mind when they say how Hot / beautiful / Sexy they are as we all have different tastes"

Or met them and their photos are clearly years out of date and they look nothing like their pic so much so you don't recognise them.

Haha yes that’s happened before too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am very embarrassed to say that we often receive ridiculously flattering verifications...which we publish of course!

This inevitably means that when we meet new people that have very high expectations, which puts us under enormous pressure to deliver something spectacular

To be fair, without reading your verifications you have described yourselves in the THE MOST GLOWING terms on your profile!

It's no wonder you have a lot to live up to!"

I'm doing better then you lol.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"I think some people use hyperbole in the hopes that someone else will take the individual off their hands."

"Don't miss out ladies. This ones a keeper" I always translate as 'shit shag....please somebody meet this munter cos I certainly won't be going there again' Usually quite accurate.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Seen it loads

Some people use them like a dog pissing on a lamp post.

The "she sucked my huge cock" makes me laugh

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?"

Yes, it’s an odd one isn’t it? Treating people with respect should be the default behaviour, and if it isn’t, can’t imagine the suggestion on a veri will make that person act differently.

Although, it’s as likely people put things like that because they haven’t got a clue what to write otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?

Yes, it’s an odd one isn’t it? Treating people with respect should be the default behaviour, and if it isn’t, can’t imagine the suggestion on a veri will make that person act differently.

Although, it’s as likely people put things like that because they haven’t got a clue what to write otherwise."

They make sure to say how they like all holes filled first though....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?

Yes, it’s an odd one isn’t it? Treating people with respect should be the default behaviour, and if it isn’t, can’t imagine the suggestion on a veri will make that person act differently.

Although, it’s as likely people put things like that because they haven’t got a clue what to write otherwise.

They make sure to say how they like all holes filled first though.... "

Respect is relative, after all!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I (he) like the verification process as it doesn't just highlight the good points but sometimes inadvertently highlights the dubious. If a certain profile has these ott veris we view them as that, ott, which then leads to me thinking, why? Are the maybe asking for such veris or is the verifier just following suit, who knows. It's going to raise questions, suspicion and maybe some doubt either way but guarantees our pre meet discussions will be thorough before we're satisfied to meeting, they may not not want to meet us by then either.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I wonder whether there are people or profiles on Fab set up with the express intention of providing veris as favours.

We've encountered the odd discrepancy between what a veri states and the reality.

And no, this isn't eye-of-the-beholder stuff. When a very states tall, dark and handsome but they're short and blond you gotta wonder about the veri.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?

Yes, it’s an odd one isn’t it? Treating people with respect should be the default behaviour, and if it isn’t, can’t imagine the suggestion on a veri will make that person act differently.

Although, it’s as likely people put things like that because they haven’t got a clue what to write otherwise."

Lol .. like they were going to treat them bad but after reading the veri saying ‘treat with respect’ they will change their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i verify people, providing i have liked them, i try to verify in a positive way, so do praise them and emphasise what is good about them. I try to make it indidvidual and non generic too. Dont always get the same in return ....., perhaps they are being honest too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Or treat with respect....why the fuck post That?

Yes, it’s an odd one isn’t it? Treating people with respect should be the default behaviour, and if it isn’t, can’t imagine the suggestion on a veri will make that person act differently.

Although, it’s as likely people put things like that because they haven’t got a clue what to write otherwise.

Lol .. like they were going to treat them bad but after reading the veri saying ‘treat with respect’ they will change their mind

Exactly. And by writing it, it also kind of implies if they didn’t write it then that person isn’t worthy of respect!

Fab’s a funny old world really.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I wonder whether there are people or profiles on Fab set up with the express intention of providing veris as favours.

We've encountered the odd discrepancy between what a veri states and the reality.

And no, this isn't eye-of-the-beholder stuff. When a very states tall, dark and handsome but they're short and blond you gotta wonder about the veri."

Yea but if the person verifying them was shorter than they are then they were tall to them at least, weren’t they?

Also never heard of hair dye or wigs?

I’m not saying they’re aren’t people givemg our bogus veris. After making hot pics I had to report several fake veris I received from desperate blokes trying to get my attention so it does happen. Then you get the I’ll but your a site supporter pass in exchange for a veri I’ve received (and not taken up just reported) in the past to consider also

But some things can be easily explained. I have loads of different hairstyles in my pics but they’re all wigs from my burlesque shows, the short brunette bob ones are my actual hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

"Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout "

People say that but is there a woman in the world who would choose Bernard manning over David gandy?

People's taste varies but a the standard for beauty is universal

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am very embarrassed to say that we often receive ridiculously flattering verifications...which we publish of course!

This inevitably means that when we meet new people that have very high expectations, which puts us under enormous pressure to deliver something spectacular

Gosh that must really make you feel pressurised

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ah the verification thing again !

It often depends on when the veri was written as to what it may say . Those who write them while still in the glow of the meet often go over the top , and that’s understandable . Others who wait a day or two often write a less graphic and somewhat understated veri which is also understandable .

Very rarely have we used a veri to ascertain the attractiveness of a potential meet , since this iis entirely subjective . We may get a general gist of the potential playmates personality , willingness to explore , and to a degree their sexual prowess from veris , but again , we don’t have high expectations based on any of the info in veris .

We primarily use them as a gauge as to whether the person is real and likely to turn up , and that’s about it really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout "

Exactly. I've seen women say they are very picky about who they meet, looked at their verifications and found nothing attractive about them. They would probably do the same to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked a profile pics and wish I hadn't .felt a bit sick .was spunk and looked like urine in a condom.Not be so nosey in future

Prob got pics with the toilet seat up unflushed too!

Some peoples ideas for pics are repulsive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

majority of veris i find very similar

sucks like a pro

bla bla to die for

etc etc

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

"Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout

Exactly. I've seen women say they are very picky about who they meet, looked at their verifications and found nothing attractive about them. They would probably do the same to me."

Seen the same with a party organiser at a club which I won't name but they claim to be for the elite and well dressed sexy swingers. Not looking at the veris they ain't. All over hyped trumpet blowing veris and it just makes us think no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout

People say that but is there a woman in the world who would choose Bernard manning over David gandy?

People's taste varies but a the standard for beauty is universal "

Maybe in your world it is, I'd rather go for my own taste than what society deems as attractive

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Different people have different tastes

One woman might find you the most handsome man on fab while everyone else thinks you look like something from knockout

Exactly. I've seen women say they are very picky about who they meet, looked at their verifications and found nothing attractive about them. They would probably do the same to me.

‘Trumpet blowing veris’ I like that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

From experience I don’t think most veri’s are truthful....

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

"From experience I don’t think most veri’s are truthful...."

What is experience that?

Have you followed up the verifications by cross referencing with other spices of information to evaluate their accuracy? Or perhaps you have met a number of people whose verifications have not matched your assessment of them?

In my experience verifications give one extra piece of information by which to build a picture of someone...which is always useful.

In your case of course you are deliberately evasive; hiding your profile and describing your location as 'Narnia" which is not hugely helpful!

This suggests to me that you are probably a single-male fantasist

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