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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hoping for help from other subs / owned subs. I’ll kick off with this question.

Do you / are you allowed to play with other Doms?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We play with other D/s couples but it is harder to find a match for swinging purposes. I think because there are so few who actually are naturally Dominant and respectful of others D/s situations if I'm honest.

If the other guy isn't a natural Dominant, who doesn't have a point to prove or an agenda it's never going to work.

Most we have played with in the swing scene have had no clue as this side of us is not something we flaunt. If you are even allowed a peak at that side of us you are privileged it is not something we share lightly.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Nope! And clearly say this on profile. This is our d/s play our rules. I can be freindly with another Dom but I cannot play with.

It's my choice that this is a rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoping for help from other subs / owned subs. I’ll kick off with this question.

Do you / are you allowed to play with other Doms?"

When I was owned, lots of DOMS wanted to play with me but I just referred them to my Mistress. She said no and beat me for enticing others

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Thanks for those replies. I did wonder if we were unusual because it’s something we get asked from time to time, despite it written very clearly on our profile to the contrary.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

We are in a d/s relationship and the Mrs is collared 24/7 x

For us the d/s is personal and we classify it different to swinging. We would be happy to meet a couple who is also in a d/s relationship and play with them in a swinging environment but d/s play would not come into it.

X

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We play with other D/s couples but it is harder to find a match for swinging purposes. I think because there are so few who actually are naturally Dominant and respectful of others D/s situations if I'm honest.

If the other guy isn't a natural Dominant, who doesn't have a point to prove or an agenda it's never going to work.

Most we have played with in the swing scene have had no clue as this side of us is not something we flaunt. If you are even allowed a peak at that side of us you are privileged it is not something we share lightly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are in a d/s relationship and the Mrs is collared 24/7 x

For us the d/s is personal and we classify it different to swinging. We would be happy to meet a couple who is also in a d/s relationship and play with them in a swinging environment but d/s play would not come into it.

X "

Partly this. Our relationship is purely between us and any D/s is strictly our time together.

We met initially as I wanted to learn more about how it works. He was my teacher and it developed into much more than I initially imagined.

Trust, respect for eachothers boundaries and a constant development of our D/s side has developed, as well as a 'normal' bf/gf relationship.

I've gone from being in an open type of relationship with my ex into a monogamous one with my new partner.

I wouldn't have it any other way now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoping for help from other subs / owned subs. I’ll kick off with this question.

Do you / are you allowed to play with other Doms?"

If my slut (she chose that name for her btw) wants to be dominated by others during play then that is fine but then we always play together and I would not allow he to be dommed without me there....to be fair however we are fairly light d/s couple - although she has requested we take it further

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Hoping for help from other subs / owned subs. I’ll kick off with this question.

Do you / are you allowed to play with other Doms?

If my slut (she chose that name for her btw) wants to be dominated by others during play then that is fine but then we always play together and I would not allow he to be dommed without me there....to be fair however we are fairly light d/s couple - although she has requested we take it further "

So how does the dynamic work between you and other Doms?

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford


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Do you / are you allowed to play with other Doms?"

We prefer playing with other D/s couples or people with at least an interest in BDSM. We always play together. We have played with other Doms and Dommes as well as other subs.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

As others have said it's not easy finding the right person to invite into a D/s dynamic. When you do find one, it's worth the wait

Swinging is different and we found it much easier to find someone suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be allowed to play with other doms but my master/dom is also my bf and I love him more than I could ever explain so it's my choice not to play with other men x

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

My sub is allowed to play with other partners and is encouraged to do so. She is also free to play with other dominants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut has played with another Dom but it was strange situation for me. He's also gone very quiet on us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I wish to.

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By *hrissy TvTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

I can only do what my mistress allows or tells me to do xx

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

No. I have one Sir and no need for another.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Question for owned subs - what do you get referred to by your owner to other people?

I met an owned sub and she loved the ropework on my sub so she told her owner about it. He later came across and talked to me saying ‘I own that (pointing to her) so you own that (pointing to brat sat next to me)’. I was literally stunned for words tbh. He shouldn’t assume my ownership of anyone nor call the person I’m with ‘that’. Incredibly rude in my opinion so wondering if that’s normal in ownership?

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

only when my dom says I am a total sub and do what im told and I mean do anything

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

my dom told me to tell my mother I need to go home now for john (my dom) to fuck my arse. bet there is not many subs on here that can say that

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Question for owned subs - what do you get referred to by your owner to other people?

I met an owned sub and she loved the ropework on my sub so she told her owner about it. He later came across and talked to me saying ‘I own that (pointing to her) so you own that (pointing to brat sat next to me)’. I was literally stunned for words tbh. He shouldn’t assume my ownership of anyone nor call the person I’m with ‘that’. Incredibly rude in my opinion so wondering if that’s normal in ownership?

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He refers to me with the most utmost love and respect I have ever experienced. He mostly certainly wouldn’t behave as you describe above.

Even in the company of others during play, eg. At a club he is constantly checking my safety and making sure no one is ever rough with me.

Is what you describe humiliation play though ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"my dom told me to tell my mother I need to go home now for john (my dom) to fuck my arse. bet there is not many subs on here that can say that"

Personally I’m not up for involving others, especially vanilla and even more so family members. Then again Sir wouldn’t seek to embarrass me like that anyway.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

he did not not dothat at all like I said im a sub do what im told I even kissed a lady at the bar she was shocked but did not stop me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Question for owned subs - what do you get referred to by your owner to other people?

I met an owned sub and she loved the ropework on my sub so she told her owner about it. He later came across and talked to me saying ‘I own that (pointing to her) so you own that (pointing to brat sat next to me)’. I was literally stunned for words tbh. He shouldn’t assume my ownership of anyone nor call the person I’m with ‘that’. Incredibly rude in my opinion so wondering if that’s normal in ownership?

He refers to me with the most utmost love and respect I have ever experienced. He mostly certainly wouldn’t behave as you describe above.

Even in the company of others during play, eg. At a club he is constantly checking my safety and making sure no one is ever rough with me.

Is what you describe humiliation play though ?"

Even if it was humiliation play on the part of the Dom and his sub he shouldn't have made assumptions about the situation of others

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Question for owned subs - what do you get referred to by your owner to other people?

I met an owned sub and she loved the ropework on my sub so she told her owner about it. He later came across and talked to me saying ‘I own that (pointing to her) so you own that (pointing to brat sat next to me)’. I was literally stunned for words tbh. He shouldn’t assume my ownership of anyone nor call the person I’m with ‘that’. Incredibly rude in my opinion so wondering if that’s normal in ownership?

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I have seen that before. Objectification of the sub referring to them in the third person.

Personally I think far to highly of my sub to disrespect her like that.

Each to their own but I would not risk having a negative impact on my subs relationship with her parents either.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

and I ware my rope marks with pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If discussed with Sir first all about communication and trust x

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"Question for owned subs - what do you get referred to by your owner to other people?

I met an owned sub and she loved the ropework on my sub so she told her owner about it. He later came across and talked to me saying ‘I own that (pointing to her) so you own that (pointing to brat sat next to me)’. I was literally stunned for words tbh. He shouldn’t assume my ownership of anyone nor call the person I’m with ‘that’. Incredibly rude in my opinion so wondering if that’s normal in ownership?

He refers to me with the most utmost love and respect I have ever experienced. He mostly certainly wouldn’t behave as you describe above.

Even in the company of others during play, eg. At a club he is constantly checking my safety and making sure no one is ever rough with me.

Is what you describe humiliation play though ?

Even if it was humiliation play on the part of the Dom and his sub he shouldn't have made assumptions about the situation of others "

Absolutely

He actually said it out of earshot of his sub so dont think it was humiliation play but whatever play he has with her it was wrong to refer to my brat as ‘that’.

Re the comments above about the mother and the woman at the bar. I’m uncomfortable with that as they haven’t consented to any involvement in the dynamic

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

I do understand what your saying but its things I like to do we all have our turn ons and as for the mother she totally understands me

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton


"my dom told me to tell my mother I need to go home now for john (my dom) to fuck my arse. bet there is not many subs on here that can say that

Personally I’m not up for involving others, especially vanilla and even more so family members. Then again Sir wouldn’t seek to embarrass me like that anyway. "

Exactly

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