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By *agermeister OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.

So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.

So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, your profile doesn't do you any favours!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials! Meet someone for coffee-another single white male with no verifications helps both of you prove you are genuine human beings. I think some people forget verifications aren't necessarily for people you've snagged. Also if you can attend a party at a local club you can get verified by the club as well as other party goers, e venue if you don't play when you are there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet people ..that's how I started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go into one of the chat rooms with your cam on and ask someone to give you a cam verification, should help you out a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A member has to be verified - before they can verify anyone else.

To get your first verification, get known amongst the other members - use the Forums, the Chatrooms, Cam if you can - don't be obesssed with getting verified - you will only put folks off if they think they are only wanted for a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.

So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. "
This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"

Let that sink in.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Find someone to have a social with. I will be in Leeds for a few days and offered to meet people with no veris for a coffee as part of weds 0 meet club.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Personally I think some people put too much stock into verification's and a lot of new people fall into this trap. More often then not its not the lack of verification's that is holding someone back, as there are people out there willing to meet people with out Verification's. I spend a lot of my time on fab in chat room's and I've noticed that the one's that do well are the ones that have the funny banter and the ones that take time to cultivate some sort of rapport as apposed to the "get your tits out" insta gratification brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Brexiters - . You've shot yourself in the foot there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social event or a club

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How about going to the Doncaster social on 27th ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.

So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"

Let that sink in."

+1

Very off putting.

OP, you've only been here 2 weeks. Have patience. Most people are with family over the festive season.

Get out to organised socials.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.

So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"

Let that sink in."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be one of the strangest profiles I have seen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe don’t meet people who demand you have a veri? I’ve been doing ok without veri’s for a while now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion, your profile doesn't do you any favours!!

"

I agree

Profiles can come across quite harsh at times. Words can mean different things to different people reading them.

Your profile to me - tells me you are arrogant and up yourself. I wouldn't meet you with ten Verifications. However to another woman. It may be a turn on ??

Perhaps re think your profile wording ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Daily Mail readers, that made me chuckle, but again, it could put people off.

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