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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The problem is that not always, but often when it's only the male half chatting people begin to wonder if the female half even exists. There are a lot of singles pretending to be couples so that more people will interact with them, so there's possibly an element of suspicion if Mrs ain't chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry meant to post my reply on here rather than message you privately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is you say Peaches is a CuckQueen and likes to watch you with HER women.

1) It makes it sound like only you and the woman are going to play

2) The women aren't peaches property, they are women

Bi women want to know what FF action is on offer, it's a bit like reversing the FF scenario where the man watches, it won't interest single women very much.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"

Others will see it as a hidden agenda I did at 1st reading that message.

There are no unicorns on here! Bi women are solely looking for other bi women with no man involved.

I want to play with a woman alone. You will find this hence why your search is tiresome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually plenty have commented on our profile and said that is quite a good profile, I never put it together all Peaches handiwork, on our previous profile it went on forever and to be honest it wasn’t right for our makeup!!!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Go to clubs and network in person. Cuckqueaning is actually quite common in fetish circles.

Stop referring to the women you want to sleep with as your partners 'property', unless they're actually in a owner/property style relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Bit confused. Do woukd you both be playing or just you? Does sound appealing for a single fem. If it is just you there are 1000's of single men on here. If its both then I would expect to chat to both of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Most people who put forward your scenario will be single guys and no woman will actually exist. You may be the exception, but people don't know that.

The only way you will get anywhere is for your female partner to engage with women. If she won't do that you have no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs. "

Now this I could do as your all in it together if you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?"

Your profile is your profile OP so keep it that way but if your changing can I please have your dress

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?"

Msybe show your veris and clearly state what you want on your profile. Screams fake to me tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We actually go to a lot of clubs and we have no problems, but as we grow older lol we like the privacy of home or a nice hotel to carry out our fantasies.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?"

You have been on nine months with no verifications, one generic pic and a profile that says the female likes you to flirt heavily with other women.

Everything about that screams single man pretending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs.

Now this I could do as your all in it together if you know what I mean. "

It was a great relationship. Everything was in the open. Apart from living in the same house permanently it was almost a 3 way marriage with a twist xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We only play together as Peaches loves the joy and pain of the threeway sex scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?

You have been on nine months with no verifications, one generic pic and a profile that says the female likes you to flirt heavily with other women.

Everything about that screams single man pretending. "

They have a verification tick

I don't show mine all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs.

Now this I could do as your all in it together if you know what I mean.

It was a great relationship. Everything was in the open. Apart from living in the same house permanently it was almost a 3 way marriage with a twist xx"

Didn't you feel like a gooseberry at times?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now here’s the thing Peaches won’t verify because she and I are very private people and like to keep it that way, we see it as notches on the bed post!!! Does that sound up our own arse?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

It does read as if you're a single man hoping to lure single women in.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"So how would we put our introductory profile across then,Or how would you like to interpret the profile ?

You have been on nine months with no verifications, one generic pic and a profile that says the female likes you to flirt heavily with other women.

Everything about that screams single man pretending.

They have a verification tick

I don't show mine all the time x"

Fine, but not displayed.

Point is if you are putting forward a scenario that is usually fake you need to go out of your way to prove you are genuine.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Now here’s the thing Peaches won’t verify because she and I are very private people and like to keep it that way, we see it as notches on the bed post!!! Does that sound up our own arse?"

With all due respect it makes you sound like a fake.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"

What you’ve described here is not what you describe on your profile, which is where your problems may originate.

I see nothing wrong with this scenario as long as you’re being upfront from the start when messaging, but I can understand why people may think you have a hidden agenda as you put it.

Personally I would expect to chat and flirt with both in a couple as there needs to be chemistry all round. And if you do all the chatting and flirting to start, at what point does she become involved? Just curious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never. It was a very equal relationship. If anything, the wife wanted to feel left out...! That was the cuck-queen part. Knowing her husband was wining, dining and then bedding me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh Peaches has some of the most magnificent outfits and when dressed up she steals the show!!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, but I can assure you we are not fakes!!! A bit naive at the moment maybe!!!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"We actually go to a lot of clubs and we have no problems, but as we grow older lol we like the privacy of home or a nice hotel to carry out our fantasies."

Meet people at clubs, get their details, have sex with them at home or in a hotel.

That's what I often do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments, but fake we are not!!!!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Thanks for your comments, but fake we are not!!!!"

You may want to quote who you are replying to as it makes for easier reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what, that seems the best advice so far x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Peaches seems to get involved when the pace of conversation picks u and we go on kik or WhatsApp for threeway conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could have a quick chat at the beginning, over the phone, to vericy she is real and it's what she wants. Would take two minutes.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Peaches seems to get involved when the pace of conversation picks u and we go on kik or WhatsApp for threeway conversation"

Some women will want to play with single men, some will want to play with couples. Very few will want to play with a man whilst his partner just watches. Hence your pool is already tiny. Add to that that she doesn't get involved at the start and virtually every member of that pool will think you are fake.

That's why you aren't getting anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"
normally when the guy does all the chatting it rings alarm bells in the other woman's head eg does another woman exist ,women like to chat to the woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I apologise _ngeluk69, still learning the ropes!!!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"I apologise _ngeluk69, still learning the ropes!!!"

No worries, like I say it makes for easier reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female who has experience in this area I'll tell you one of the biggest faults, you're looking for a woman to play with the male yet display no photos of him? You're profile doesn't clearly state what kind of dynamic you look for and while I don't feel it's always necessary to show verifications I think in this situation it would be worthwhile to at least display one which shows you're a genuine couple.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"

You don’t display any veris , so it could be that you only have webcam or a veri for just one of you ... that straight away says dodgy .

The scenario you seek is different to say the least , but nothing wrong with it . Prospective playmates will see your profile and the way you interact as a single guy though .

You aren’t showing anyone you are genuine to be honest. And I would hazard a guess that not many single women would go any further than read your profile and move on .

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"

As a bi female of a couple who wants to play solely with women why would I waste my time and yours on letting the hubby do all the chatting up. You yourself state your the expert but if she don't float my boat nothing would progress, there has to be something about her that would make me want to play with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get couples messaging and its always the guy that talks the most with most that contact me , So I just move on .

In op set up I would expect to speak to both at same time on phone in a 3way chat to validate before I would waste any of my time In longer communication tbh

It's a tiny niche Fetish your in , made even harder with the setup rules. Personally I think a more Fetish site (we know the one lol ) would be more fruitful for your arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem here is your talking for peaches, couples should both equally have a say in what they want. Sadly scenarios like this do come across has iffy and with so many men pretending to be women etc it makes people weary. But if others think your coming across like that then no you won't get any takers sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well have taken some advice and put two veris up!!! Comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well have taken some advice and put two veris up!!! Comments."

Nothing showing, no photos of Mr and profile still says you're looking to play together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put more pics of the both of you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 nice recent veris showing now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can’t do that due to nature of work, photos are available if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you just hide your face / identifying marks in a pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t do that due to nature of work, photos are available if asked "

I'd never ask, if there's no pictures available on a profile I'd move on. The work excuse is a poor one in my opinion, if they're available to people to ask why can't they be available on a profile? Pictures don't have to identify you but they can be of body/face disguised. Why would anyone be interested in someone she's never seen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!"

So what exactly on your profile attracts a woman to play with you? A picture of a woman who won't be involved?

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!"

You know that people will have to look at you when you have sex, right?

And jealously is really unattractive to most women looking to play. A partner with a jealous girlfriend is likely to be *very* low on the list of wants.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!"

I have very distinctive hair and tattoos, and we both work in areas where we would not want people to know we swing.

However, we have photos of us both. Tattoos and faces can be blurred or photoshopped out.

If you are wanting ladies to be interested, they will want to know if there's likely to be a physical attraction.

The refusal to show photos will only increase the perception that you are fake Sorry...

Nita

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!"

How do we know if you are still together? All points to being a single male behind it all. I see nothing recent to suggest a female is involved. Inc veris which are not recent. If you only play as a male then maube better to get a single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!

You know that people will have to look at you when you have sex, right?

And jealously is really unattractive to most women looking to play. A partner with a jealous girlfriend is likely to be *very* low on the list of wants.

"

This

Doesn't sit with the idea that "peaches" would be a relaxed and confident cuckqueen if she doesn't want people looking at your pictures? If she doesn't like something as basic as that how is she going to react to another woman having sex with you while she's not involved?

Surely you can see by now why genuone single women have so many reservations regarding your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can my partner be jealous if it’s her who’s orchestrating the scenario?

Lucy Lewd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs. "

Where the hell did u find them and why did it end sound perfect xxxx

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"How can my partner be jealous if it’s her who’s orchestrating the scenario?

Lucy Lewd"

Peaches doesn't want 'all and sundry' looking at you, yet you say she's not jealous? I think you don't understand what jealous means...

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!"

So your partner doesn't want other women looking at you, but is happy for them to have sex with you.....

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

It’s very simple and we do it all the time . Fab has the new feature where it says upload a direct photo. Just get your other half to hold up a pic sayin the date or the other persons name your chatting to and a thumbs up. Doesn’t have to show her face just a part of her that proves she’s a lady . Job done

If you can’t do something simple like this then i would say the other half is not involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs.

Where the hell did u find them and why did it end sound perfect xxxx"

I found them on here. He messaged me. We went for dinner. And only then did I speak to the wife. 3-4 dates later we all met up for the first time and the relationship went from there. Sadly they moved away and the distance became tricky. We still see each other occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t say that we’re impossible to find.

I had an 18 month relationship with a couple, sometimes we all played, a lot of the time it was just me and the husband with the wife in her own bedroom. She loved knowing we were just in the next room.

She booked weekends away for myself and her husband. We even went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs.

Where the hell did u find them and why did it end sound perfect xxxx"

I know!!!

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We have no problem and we do exactly the same thing. We are just clear who is talking at all times and when things look like they are gathering momentum Sally will message or we set up a four way kik chat.

It’s always nice to see both halves of the couple typing simultaneously (we’d imagine) and we are always very conscious how big a leap of faith it can be for a Unicorn. Wings or not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now here’s the problem, Peaches my other half is bi and loves to play with the ladies, but her main kink is that she likes me to play with her women as she’s a Cuckqueen, what’s wrong with that I hear you say? Nothing whatsoever but the biggest problem I have is Peaches loves me to do all the chatting with the women on here that’s not a problem either I hear you say!!! But oh yes it is, our profile clearly states that Peaches loves me to flirt and chat with the women and build up some sort of rapport before she will interact, now I’ve chatted with several women but they all go on the defensive as they seem to think that I have a hidden agenda, your comments would be gratefully received as I’m beginning to lose faith in this site quite quickly!!!"

It is very hard, we found on here it's near impossible. In normal life however it happened almost right away. Try pubs and other social areas.

Ethan now cucks me with my best friend!!!

Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Icicle moo, I’m heavily tattooed and Peaches doesn’t want all and sundry looking!!

I have very distinctive hair and tattoos, and we both work in areas where we would not want people to know we swing.

However, we have photos of us both. Tattoos and faces can be blurred or photoshopped out.

If you are wanting ladies to be interested, they will want to know if there's likely to be a physical attraction.

The refusal to show photos will only increase the perception that you are fake Sorry...

Nita"

I do photoshop out my tattoos but I will send face pics etc. I'm also in a job that like most on here that if caught could be sacked hence why tattoos are hidden but I don't hide myself on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have no problem and we do exactly the same thing. We are just clear who is talking at all times and when things look like they are gathering momentum Sally will message or we set up a four way kik chat.

It’s always nice to see both halves of the couple typing simultaneously (we’d imagine) and we are always very conscious how big a leap of faith it can be for a Unicorn. Wings or not!!"

I’m glad it works that way for you too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a look at your profile and I think I would write it off as a single male.

Don't get me wrong I'd be happy to meet a single male BUT it is irritating when "couples" message and then there's no woman.

If you've added verifications that's a good start.

The friends only pics gives me hope of seeing both of you.

Personally I find it difficult to click with women so if she was going to be involved I'd want to talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is that not always, but often when it's only the male half chatting people begin to wonder if the female half even exists. There are a lot of singles pretending to be couples so that more people will interact with them, so there's possibly an element of suspicion if Mrs ain't chatting. "
fully agreed and it's all about finding the right person for you both and for that person to see if you suit her,if the chemistry and all round attraction is there then that's great.If it's mutual three ways and respect is given that's the only way it will happen for us so we aren't unicorn hunters,we want someone who's right for us just like we would be for her and it's not just to please Mr as Mrs loves the right female as much as Mr x

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over a year ago

Having being messaged by the OP and been sent pictures of them both I can concur they are not fake.

They are probably asking the impossible on fab so I've steered them in the right direction to another site that might cater for their needs.

Remember there are a lot of shy private people on here that are dipping their toes into this lifestyle and the OP is a newbie to it.

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over a year ago

Something else to bear in mind is, the dynamic of a cuck-queen situation is very different. The kink for the wife is knowing her husband is doing it, but not knowing the details until he tells her. X

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Something else to bear in mind is, the dynamic of a cuck-queen situation is very different. The kink for the wife is knowing her husband is doing it, but not knowing the details until he tells her. X"

Actually that's not true. Many cuckqueans are present while their partner is having sex with a woman. In the kink scene they are often tied up so that they cannot interact and stay put, while being forced to watch.

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over a year ago


"Something else to bear in mind is, the dynamic of a cuck-queen situation is very different. The kink for the wife is knowing her husband is doing it, but not knowing the details until he tells her. X

Actually that's not true. Many cuckqueans are present while their partner is having sex with a woman. In the kink scene they are often tied up so that they cannot interact and stay put, while being forced to watch."

That sounds hot.

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over a year ago


"Something else to bear in mind is, the dynamic of a cuck-queen situation is very different. The kink for the wife is knowing her husband is doing it, but not knowing the details until he tells her. X

Actually that's not true. Many cuckqueans are present while their partner is having sex with a woman. In the kink scene they are often tied up so that they cannot interact and stay put, while being forced to watch."

Every situation is different. With the couple I had an 18 month relationship with, she loved to be in another room, bed etc. She loved to book the hotels for me and her husband and he’d tell her about it. It’s whatever works best for that couple and their girlfriend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having being messaged by the OP and been sent pictures of them both I can concur they are not fake.

They are probably asking the impossible on fab so I've steered them in the right direction to another site that might cater for their needs.

Remember there are a lot of shy private people on here that are dipping their toes into this lifestyle and the OP is a newbie to it. "

That's great however the OP has asked for opinions as to why he's struggling, which people are giving him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something else to bear in mind is, the dynamic of a cuck-queen situation is very different. The kink for the wife is knowing her husband is doing it, but not knowing the details until he tells her. X

Actually that's not true. Many cuckqueans are present while their partner is having sex with a woman. In the kink scene they are often tied up so that they cannot interact and stay put, while being forced to watch.

Every situation is different. With the couple I had an 18 month relationship with, she loved to be in another room, bed etc. She loved to book the hotels for me and her husband and he’d tell her about it. It’s whatever works best for that couple and their girlfriend x"
yes it's all down to preference and what suits and for us it's to meet at clubs so you can all have a great time too and no pressure and enjoy the evening x

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over a year ago

Fake or not fake, the scenario appeals to me.

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over a year ago


"Fake or not fake, the scenario appeals to me. "

It to this day remains as one of the most satisfying experiences of my life, I'd love to do it again! If and when I ever get into a relationship again it's something I'd love to try as the cuckqueen.

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over a year ago

threesomes are not unusual as one offs but a 3some relationship where all 3 genuinely play and care for each other is fairly rare and very beautiful. We had this once and unfortunately she moved on to a monogamous relationship but we miss at and would love to meet another

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