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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To those ladies who are fully bi (not curious or just pretending for their man) and in a full time relationship/marriage with a man, could you totally give up meeting women for sexual liaisons?

I personally don't think I could, as I would feel I'm not fully living life as the real me.

This is aimed at bi ladies but of course we are interested in anyone's opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hellooooo, any bi ladies out there?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

I did for many years but now prefer women to men.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Yes I would give up women if I was in a vanilla relationship with a guy and have done before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I did for many years. Now I have an understanding partner.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Monogamy isn't really my thing, but I have plenty of monogamous bisexual friends.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?"

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to get into a monogamous relationship again then of course I would give up women! Not sure why it would make a difference, them being women and not men, I like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight. "

Exactly this. If I choose to be in a monogamous relationship then I remain faithful to my partner.

Being bisexual means that I'm attracted to both males and females, not that I NEED both.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"If I was to get into a monogamous relationship again then of course I would give up women!

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Presumably unless you were in a monogamous relationship with a woman, in which case you'd give up men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm in a relationship then I'm monogamous, whether my partner's a man or a woman.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight.

Exactly this. If I choose to be in a monogamous relationship then I remain faithful to my partner.

Being bisexual means that I'm attracted to both males and females, not that I NEED both. "

Exactly! Alot of people just think bi people fuck everyone.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight.

Exactly this. If I choose to be in a monogamous relationship then I remain faithful to my partner.

Being bisexual means that I'm attracted to both males and females, not that I NEED both.

Exactly! Alot of people just think bi people fuck everyone."

Absolutely. Many people think we're greedy - I think we're lucky!

As a couple we regularly attend gay pride events to help show people there's nothing wrong or weird about being big.

I wouldn't want to give up women, if I had to I would, but I'd still fancy other women- just as a vanilla married man still fancies other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a monogamous relationship, yes, absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got into swinging so I could explore my bi side now I love playing with women as much as men so no I don’t think I could. But we both love the swinging lifestyle so there’s no chance of it ever being a issue

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight.

Exactly this. If I choose to be in a monogamous relationship then I remain faithful to my partner.

Being bisexual means that I'm attracted to both males and females, not that I NEED both.

Exactly! Alot of people just think bi people fuck everyone.

Absolutely. Many people think we're greedy - I think we're lucky!

As a couple we regularly attend gay pride events to help show people there's nothing wrong or weird about being big.

I wouldn't want to give up women, if I had to I would, but I'd still fancy other women- just as a vanilla married man still fancies other women "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight.

Exactly this. If I choose to be in a monogamous relationship then I remain faithful to my partner.

Being bisexual means that I'm attracted to both males and females, not that I NEED both.

Exactly! Alot of people just think bi people fuck everyone."

I'm totally bi and I certainly wouldn't want to fuck everyone, but I would struggle to not have the physical contact with women. Being bi is part of who I am.

Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you give up meeting Women..if you are Bi its who you are, you like Men and Women so why give either up?

There is a big difference with being monogamously bi and a bi swinger. Just because you are bi and married to a man doesnt mean you have to fuck women. You may still be attracted to women but can remain faithful. Do all straight married women want to fuck every man they are attracted to? They must do cos they are straight. "

I've had monogamous relationships with both men and women. I still fancy people, I just don't act on it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This is dependent on context and type of play.

Me (male), f on f, doesn’t do much, my not participating, mmm no.

Me with another female, can be fun, there is always something missing though.

Now all together fMf the sum of the parts is greater than three, well in my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possibly but probably not - could never give up a fella though so if i had to choose one over the other - would choose a fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"possibly but probably not - could never give up a fella though so if i had to choose one over the other - would choose a fella"

I couldn't give up men either. Oh dear, does that make me greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no definitely not im very greedy xx

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