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By *queekyCheesy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Mainly aimed at couples and women.

Do you bother to reply/educate those who mesaage you on why oh why they literally stand zero chance?

Or just delete?

Simple things..

Not face verified, no pic in message, no face pic, 1 word/line and not addressing you as a couple (if a couple)

And of course.. cybersex! 20 pics of a cock and a story about how you would cum so hard gets us so hot i get a hernia and she pops out a baby!!

Or ao they would think

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I delete those way under my age preference without reading but if they actually read my profile then they will know why

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Only those who are not typing with their Bell end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as everything is in our profile so if people then send message and it’s clear our profile has not been read then why should we then take the time to point this out. It just gets deleted. But if someone has taken the time to read our profile and we don’t think they are for us we do reply back saying thank you but we don’t feel your compatible.

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By *queekyCheesy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I delete those way under my age preference without reading but if they actually read my profile then they will know why "

Haha yes it's like "It warned you not to send a message but you did anyway? A rule breaker eh.. So hot"

Or a block, I can't remember which one we do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course education is key

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By *queekyCheesy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Of course education is key "

Though very largely falling on deaf ears (from extensive experience)

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We always pass on advice but often feel a bit pretentious with it.

Most say thank you for the tips though so it seems appreciated x

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I delete. I'm not here to tell people what, only in my view, they're doing 'wrong.' It often leads to more and more messages and it's not what I joined for.

If they've been polite I'll message back just saying no thanks. If they've ignored age, distance etc I won't. I know that sounds harsh but my profile is there for anyone to see!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar it's not up to me to educate anyone.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Of course education is key "

I thought patience was

Seriously, I’ve done it a couple of times very gently but has gotten me abuse both times so now I don’t bother and let them learn the hard way...or not. There’s always not.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes if they ask "but why not". Only because I'm genuinely curious as to how they couldn't figure it out themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do try to advise some people, and some people accept the advise and say thank you, but sometimes it is just thrown back in our faces.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Besides I sure as hell don't want anyone telling me where I may be going wrong,so I show that respect to others. Unless of course they ask for advice.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

However, it is good fun to educate in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Because I'd only be educating in ways to attract me and since I've already discounted them it's a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes if they ask "but why not". Only because I'm genuinely curious as to how they couldn't figure it out themselves"

What happens when you write “if I was forced to meet you I would brutally murder you and happily live with the consequences”

Does that give me, errr, other people a clue?

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

No, if you say why you turn someone down you're likely to get a load of abuse or called a fat slag.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"However, it is good fun to educate in a good way. "

Especially the Victorian style of education when you got it wrong.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Sometimes if they ask "but why not". Only because I'm genuinely curious as to how they couldn't figure it out themselves

What happens when you write “if I was forced to meet you I would brutally murder you and happily live with the consequences”

Does that give me, errr, other people a clue? "

If not then the friends pics with the hockey mask and chainsaw normally sees them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, that’s quite a strong hint I think

Did you have to leave the other mutilated bodies in the picture?

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"However, it is good fun to educate in a good way.

Especially the Victorian style of education when you got it wrong.

"

Bend over then

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yes, that’s quite a strong hint I think

Did you have to leave the other mutilated bodies in the picture?"

Don't criticise my messy background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, probably best if I don’t criticise too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have helped/educated some men via pm on how to stand a better chance at meeting, in the past. If they are really polite and seem a little clueless on their profile, I do guide them a little. I've not done it for a little while. It can be a little time consuming, taking somebody under your wing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they don't ask for advice we don't give it.

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

...delete ...usually....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly aimed at couples and women.

Do you bother to reply/educate those who mesaage you on why oh why they literally stand zero chance?

Or just delete?

Simple things..

Not face verified, no pic in message, no face pic, 1 word/line and not addressing you as a couple (if a couple)

And of course.. cybersex! 20 pics of a cock and a story about how you would cum so hard gets us so hot i get a hernia and she pops out a baby!!

Or ao they would think

"
omg how arrogant did that come across

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I do if they put great effort in to there messages yes if I get a hi how u message no I don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose who i chat too .I have all filters on and search off .so i have no bell ends messaging me or Geordie plonkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously some women think they are gods gift and are doing a favour to mankind. They need to get a grip on reality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Obviously some women think they are gods gift and are doing a favour to mankind. They need to get a grip on reality!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Obviously some women think they are gods gift and are doing a favour to mankind. They need to get a grip on reality!"

Yeah it reads a bit that way....raising the Neanderthals up, educating how they should behave and civilising them, turning these grunting brutes into newly minted gentleman..how lucky they are to have such mentors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete, simple!!

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’ve done both and neither is a good idea sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't send a face pic/has none public, sends a one word message or has a blank profile then I just delete.

If I'm not interested in someone then I politely say not for me thanks and sometimes explain why.

If I am interested in someone but there's something that would make me not meet eg. not verified, too far away, lack of matching interests etc then I tell them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


" Obviously some women think they are gods gift and are doing a favour to mankind. They need to get a grip on reality!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope...not here to perform a service for the inadequate...we'd rather enter into dialogue with people we have an interest in...

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Sometimes Marquis has had to do this but politely. The majority understand and the few want get into a big discussion, that’s when the block button comes in.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Nar it's not up to me to educate anyone."

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"nope...not here to perform a service for the inadequate...we'd rather enter into dialogue with people we have an interest in..."

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