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Meet Now vs Planned Meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Planned unless we happen to meet people by chance in a club.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Planned for me. Mr N would probably do spontanaiety but it would make me freeze up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?"

I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?"

Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy

MrsK x"

Fantastic ink from an inked man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely planned.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Meeting in a club is fine for spontaneous as in my head I've "planned" for it to an extent, if that makes sense - meeting through Fab most definitely planned and after spending some time chatting on here and building anticipation is my preference

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.

Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Planned, then you can build up anticipation and want...

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By *inkyduokentCouple
over a year ago

Swanley

Mainly planned. But we've met last minute and it's been immense .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned is difficult for us but also there is always the danger we talk ourselves out of it. Spontaneous meets we find exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always spontaneous for us and never plan. Put ad on and see who's horny and up for it. Works well for us overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for us as the build up and anticipation of what's to happen is all part of it for us.

However when attending a club, play can be spontaneous.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I prefer a planned meet however they can often go pear shaped at the last moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy

MrsK x

Fantastic ink from an inked man x"

Cheers Jack

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests "

If you look up the phrase nail on the head. It would most likely refer you to this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer planned. Have done a few 'instant' meets and all a bit too clinical. Fuck and go. It lacks the build up anticipation and pre meet excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like planned meets generally but sometimes at a club we meet a guy we like and will play then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planned unless we happen to meet people by chance in a club. "

Exactly how my Fab journey has been. That includes socials and private events. You just never know who you might bump into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer planned but very often guys tend to back out at last min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy

MrsK x"

Pfffffft oh please MrsK stop teasing. You know you look like that with minimal effort

Talking about teasing...

Snow in the East Midlands was only brief this morning! I suppose that is a whole different topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do first meet within a week, 2 max.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We only ever do spontaneous now , there are so many reasons for this .

A planned meet requires all parties to be free on the arranged date and time , which is often impossible as we need to get sitters .

Something else may come up .

Illness .

And so on ......

When we are on our way out , sitter in place , we may put up a meet then and this works well for us .

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There’s a place for both. I’ll only do spontaneous if I know them.

Planned can be fun too but can take ages to finalise.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.

Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?

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Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.

Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?

Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again. "

I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.

Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?

Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.

I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they "

Thanks. We're looking at plans. We still have a 50/50 and phone friends

B post a meet

C club

D stay in

Apologies for posting on someones thread. But got to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.

Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?

Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.

I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they

Thanks. We're looking at plans. We still have a 50/50 and phone friends

B post a meet

C club

D stay in

Apologies for posting on someones thread. But got to laugh. "

I’ve analysed your pictures and can confirm that you will definitely get a meet today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to someone until either I want to fuck them, or don't. It can take a few days or weeks.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I talk to someone until either I want to fuck them, or don't. It can take a few days or weeks. "

Or one post in my case lol

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Majority planned. I like clubs for something spontaneous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute meets can be good especially if you find yourself at a loose end.

Our last meet was arranged for 3hrs later, which gives just about enough time to fill the wrinkles with polyfilla etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think planned meets are always better, less pressure etc.

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston


"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?

I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests "

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Planned meet works for me best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posted for meets on the day been a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spontaneous meets, but sometimes the non vanilla meets need to be planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm do far from anywhere that everything has to be planned

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

people I know already- can be very spontaneous... New meets- planned with some chatting to see if we are getting on alright...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous all the way for us.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only so spontaneous meets, our free time alters so quickly with work kids and other activities we do, that we could plan for a month in the future and 3 days before it could all change, and we don't like to mess people about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer planned, but sometimes the horn just strikes and we meet a local right away.

As for clubs, constant horn so why not, roll on February so we can go back to Chameleons.

Got to live life to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my biggest dislikes of this site. People thinking you can pop round at 1 in the morning and they live 50 miles away.. Then get mad at you when you say sorry...

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