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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ADVICE, meant to be having my first anal soon, advice please!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ram it in dry. Winner winner, chicken dinner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do I suspect that won’t go down well ??

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

Ok spit on it first then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you giving or receiving OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you giving or receiving OP?"

Giving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok spit on it first then"

Sounds nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BE FUCKING GENTLE!

Oh and lube.... lots of lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"BE FUCKING GENTLE!

Oh and lube.... lots of lube"

Got the lube ready!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Listen to your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lube take it hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"BE FUCKING GENTLE!

Oh and lube.... lots of lube"

The general rule is... if you think there's too much lube, add MORE lube.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No lube take it hard

For a first time!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x"

No they mean listen to her, if she says go slow then go slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No lube take it hard

For a first time!?"

Where there is pain there is great pleasure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BE FUCKING GENTLE!

Oh and lube.... lots of lube

Got the lube ready! "

Speak to her (or him) everyone is different; usual responses are lube and fingers I dislike both of these so these suggestions would be useless for me, if it's their first time let them guide you into them at their own pace.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x

No they mean listen to her, if she says go slow then go slow "

I’ll happy take advice if you

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Slowly does it and gentle. Lots of lube as suggested. When you get past the sphincter, give the person a moment to get used to you being there, then slowly begin.

As for receiving like I do - it’s always nicer if I douche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with fingers and plenty of lube.

More lube, if she wants to go ahead let her push back on to you until she's comfortable.

If at any point she seems uncomfortable, stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No lube take it hard

For a first time!?

Where there is pain there is great pleasure .

Oh isn’t that true

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Are you giving or receiving OP?

Giving "

Take it first, then you will know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slowly does it and gentle. Lots of lube as suggested. When you get past the sphincter, give the person a moment to get used to you being there, then slowly begin.

As for receiving like I do - it’s always nicer if I douche

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Start with fingers and plenty of lube.

More lube, if she wants to go ahead let her push back on to you until she's comfortable.

If at any point she seems uncomfortable, stop. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x"

Do you not plan on talking to her then?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..will it be your partner's first anal experience?

There are some good soft silicone butt plugs, which can stretch the arse, to make it easier to penetrate.

And more lube.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP..will it be your partner's first anal experience?

There are some good soft silicone butt plugs, which can stretch the arse, to make it easier to penetrate.

And more lube."

Don’t believe so, just mine! X

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

First time anal in a single no strings meet up?

This ought to go well.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x"

Nsa or not that's not what I meant. I hope you realise that!!

One reason why I won't have anal sex with inexperienced men or young men in general

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First time anal in a single no strings meet up?

This ought to go well.

Unless I can get some experience in before NYE

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen to your partner

It’s a no strings meet up, don’t think I’m gunna find out much ?? aha x

Nsa or not that's not what I meant. I hope you realise that!!

One reason why I won't have anal sex with inexperienced men or young men in general

Can’t help age or experience, but got to start somewhere!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend over and brace yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bend over and brace yourself!!"

Cheeky, pun intended x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lots of advice given some good some just plain daft. Lots of lube, listen to her and be guided by her. If she says stop then do so. Good luck and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots of advice given some good some just plain daft. Lots of lube, listen to her and be guided by her. If she says stop then do so. Good luck and have fun xx"

Thank you

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Lots of advice given some good some just plain daft. Lots of lube, listen to her and be guided by her. If she says stop then do so. Good luck and have fun xx

Thank you

Very welcome. Also search for other threads on this, good advice on those as well x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

First to give you an idea of the feeling of being penetrated, get her to use a dildo on you.

That way you get an idea of what she might experience.

As everyone else is saying, you can never use enough lube. Wear a condom, it saves is getting a bit of sweet corn left on your cock as you pulk out.

Go slow and let her set the pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First to give you an idea of the feeling of being penetrated, get her to use a dildo on you.

That way you get an idea of what she might experience.

As everyone else is saying, you can never use enough lube. Wear a condom, it saves is getting a bit of sweet corn left on your cock as you pulk out.

Go slow and let her set the pace."

Anything near my ass ain’t my cup of tea, but I get the view point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very best anal is deep and slow. Grind a little. Use your hips and never slam in deep.

Apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a run up and close your eyes

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

make her hot, warm her up by playing with fingers in her bum, lots of lube and then let her push at first. relax and once she is comfortable enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"make her hot, warm her up by playing with fingers in her bum, lots of lube and then let her push at first. relax and once she is comfortable enjoy

Or what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be surprised if you get some poo on your penis x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your tongue first, then your thumb, then a couple of fingers and tske a while doi g this, then your cock. Start really slowly and make sure it is well lubed. Try anal with her/him on her/his back rather than hands and knees if this is her/his first time.

Take your time and add more lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of axle grease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clean lube condom slowly ease it in and allow your partner to relax do not then remove your cock and put it elsewhere without changing the condom...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your tongue first, then your thumb, then a couple of fingers and tske a while doi g this, then your cock. Start really slowly and make sure it is well lubed. Try anal with her/him on her/his back rather than hands and knees if this is her/his first time.

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"make her hot, warm her up by playing with fingers in her bum, lots of lube and then let her push at first. relax and once she is comfortable enjoy

Or what she said

I am just mindful that if he closes his eyes whilst running he might get lost...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

Honestly; not overly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

Honestly; not overly.

So something yo wouldn’t be happy with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

Honestly; not overly.

So something yo wouldn’t be happy with?

Oh I didn’t say that. Really big ones are all very nice but a nice sized one used well is an orgasm about to happen

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ADVICE, meant to be having my first anal soon, advice please!!??"
don't have a vindaloo

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

"Are you giving or receiving OP?

Giving "

Make sure you are rock hard

Let them sit back on to you to start with dont pound as youll cum way to quick steady & build a rythm

10p 20p 50p a £1

Not £1.80 £1.80 £1.80

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in.

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

Honestly; not overly.

So something yo wouldn’t be happy with?

Oh I didn’t say that. Really big ones are all very nice but a nice sized one used well is an orgasm about to happen

Well I hope so! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you giving or receiving OP?

Giving

Make sure you are rock hard

Let them sit back on to you to start with dont pound as youll cum way to quick steady & build a rythm

10p 20p 50p a £1

Not £1.80 £1.80 £1.80"

Surely 3 lots of £1.80 I'd better than 1?

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

10 p 20p 50p a £1 is four slow strokes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 p 20p 50p a £1 is four slow strokes !!

There's the sign of the business owner in me.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Too much lube kill the sensation and friction.I prefer without lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No lube take it hard

You know how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time and add more lube.

Or better still let her/him on top and let them control it going in. The wron osition or removed will push the penis out

It’s how I’d take a really big one at first if that was what I liked

You tell me, am I a really big one

Honestly; not overly.

So something yo wouldn’t be happy with?

Oh I didn’t say that. Really big ones are all very nice but a nice sized one used well is an orgasm about to happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any wild stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube, start with a finger then 2 then I tend to stick the tip of my dick against her asshole and she pushes back when she feels comfortable, that way if it hurts she can pull away - before u know it she has pushed all the way back, taken the full length to the balls and tells u to fuck her ass!!

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Taking the advice given sounds great but talking and doing what she wants is best guide.

What you need to know is this her first time anal, or if she knows her way then she should be able to lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you giving or receiving OP?

Giving "
wet wipes oh and nose pegs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont sneeze while receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont sneeze while receiving

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lol hey disaster waiting to happen what a bummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for the suction on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go?!?!?! Has it happened yet!??!

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

About to ask the same question.....

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"dont sneeze while receiving

Omg hahahaha!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm so much advice...I think I need to find my selfe a naughty anal lover too lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The recipe for Mrs taking it up the arse and can serve 2 to 3 people and is as follows:

Take one female and seduce her into bed.

Slowly remove some of the outer packaging while telling her how fucking hot she is.

Use your lips and tongue along with a gentle touch and work your way from neck to toe this will start the warming up process.

Once you've started to warm her up you will notice she is starting to make the right noises but listen carefully and if she's talking about shopping lists you need to repeat this process untill she stops.

Once warmed up you can then remove the rest of the packaging revealing the nice succulent breasts and hopefully a nice wet vagina.

Use half a serving of oral this should heat her up a little further but don't over do it as you don't want to spoil it by heating her up to quickly.

Now you need to turn her over on to all fours and start what is known as the rest rimming process. Start by gently licking licking the vagina and slowly working your way up to the anus whilst taking mental notes of the nice moans and again listen out for shopping list moans as this indicates that she may be cooling down and may require repeating the last few steps.

If your at the anus and all moans and groans are satisfactory you need to step things up by slowly pushing your tongue into the anus. At this point things should really be hotting up and you will notice your female starting to feel relaxed which is indicated by not tightening up now you can increase speed and breakout into a tongue fuck which will moisten things up nicely.

Now taking note of all the signals and moans and groans you can now add your gentleman's sausage but you may need to add a dash of your favourite lubricant otherwise you run the risk of ruining all your hard work.

Gently rub your sausage around the anus until it feels nice and wet and slowly apply pressure whilst again taking note of the moans and groans.

Once in go at a steady pace untill you hit the sweet spot and it's at this point you bring your female to the boil and enjoy your meal;-)

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