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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People have rules and limits that should be respected. Can't really see the issue here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s just a fuck..... then

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"That’s just a fuck..... then "

Some people don’t fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck "
exactly

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly "

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else."

Read his profile title. He’s just having a moment

Sirs rule which I respect is no one gets to touch my ass.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else.

Read his profile title. He’s just having a moment

Sirs rule which I respect is no one gets to touch my ass. "

I dunno why my hands wrote 'profile'... clearly I meant to say 'problem'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else."
not a problem for me just how can you enjoy if all you going to do is wham bam thank you mam....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have rules and limits that should be respected. Can't really see the issue here? "

Yup. Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you don't like what rules/limits a person has then just respect their choices and move on to someone who doesn't have them.

We are all here for our own fulfillment and nobody is obliged to change the way they wish to play just because it doesn't suit you.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else.not a problem for me just how can you enjoy if all you going to do is wham bam thank you mam.... "

Some of us like no strings, quick sex.

You don't.

That's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them, then you'll know! As others have said, everyone has do's and don'ts when it comes to meeting, just respect that and find someone that matches what you enjoy doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. "
I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

If you don't like someone's rules , don't play with them as you're clearly not compatible. Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boundaries i find are important if they cant respect them means its no good meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???"

Maybe you just need to open your mind to the concept that while it may not be fun for you there are others who will enjoy that. If it's not for you move on and don't give it a thought. Really doesn't need a post moaning that you can't understand that people enjoy different things to you. Just makes you look narrow minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???"

They obviously don't find those things fun. What they enjoy, you might not. It's how we're programmed, not everyone will be compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???

Maybe you just need to open your mind to the concept that while it may not be fun for you there are others who will enjoy that. If it's not for you move on and don't give it a thought. Really doesn't need a post moaning that you can't understand that people enjoy different things to you. Just makes you look narrow minded "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???

Maybe you just need to open your mind to the concept that while it may not be fun for you there are others who will enjoy that. If it's not for you move on and don't give it a thought. Really doesn't need a post moaning that you can't understand that people enjoy different things to you. Just makes you look narrow minded "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

Don't play with a, b or c if they're important to you. Simply move on to d and hope their boundaries are more like yours. Just because passing on those isn't your idea of fun doesn't mean they don't still have a good time. I respect everyone and give it as expect to be respected myself just .... how is it fun???

Maybe you just need to open your mind to the concept that while it may not be fun for you there are others who will enjoy that. If it's not for you move on and don't give it a thought. Really doesn't need a post moaning that you can't understand that people enjoy different things to you. Just makes you look narrow minded o I’m defo not narrow minded that’s a sure thing "

That's exactly how you're coming across in this post. Unable to accept that others find things fun that you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia"
maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it,

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it, "

You're curious about why some people don't like the same things as you sexually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people dont like kissing or oral

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Are you saying the same person won't do oral, fingering, kissing. I am with you OP. I would be ruling them out as a meet .

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

Chat to people who have similar interests, get to know what you are all comfortable with.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It's good for people to have rules absolutely, it's even better for you to have your game tight enough to walk away from them if you don't agree with what they are saying, there is no conversation here in my opinion.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

play with someone that will ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it,

You're curious about why some people don't like the same things as you sexually?"
no we’re individuals I do move on if there not into the same thing...so your happy to have a guy

Turn up stick his dick in then leave??

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it,

You're curious about why some people don't like the same things as you sexually?no we’re individuals I do move on if there not into the same thing...so your happy to have a guy

Turn up stick his dick in then leave??"

Yeah. I often go to clubs, have sex with someone, then socialise with someone else.

I don't want dinner before and romantic cuddles afterwards. It's just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it,

You're curious about why some people don't like the same things as you sexually?no we’re individuals I do move on if there not into the same thing...so your happy to have a guy

Turn up stick his dick in then leave??

Yeah. I often go to clubs, have sex with someone, then socialise with someone else.

I don't want dinner before and romantic cuddles afterwards. It's just sex."

Totally it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s just a fuck..... then

Some people don’t fuck exactly

I don't understand your profile is.

Somebody doesn't want to do something that you want to do. Find somebody else.not a problem for me just how can you enjoy if all you going to do is wham bam thank you mam....

Some of us like no strings, quick sex.

You don't.

That's fine."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it,

You're curious about why some people don't like the same things as you sexually?no we’re individuals I do move on if there not into the same thing...so your happy to have a guy

Turn up stick his dick in then leave??"

Why are you having such a hard time understanding that there are people on here that actively want that? Personally I could happily have sex without two of the three you mention and it would still be hot as hell. Maybe you need more imagination!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Some guys enjoy being kicked in the balls. I don't have to understand why this is.

Take it away from sex.

I like chocolate ice cream but I don't like strawberry ice cream.

Other people do like strawberry, they are not weird, they just enjoy something different to me.

Some people like all flavours and some people don't like ice cream at all.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

.

I'm sorry to have to tell you but..... Yes it is, it's Lots of Fun!!!!

Whatever your boundaries are or however mild you have set your rules for playing...

(And believe me they were pretty mild lol)

That first "experience" was just electric, fun at the time, fun together afterwards and still provides happy memories yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

.

I'm sorry to have to tell you but..... Yes it is, it's Lots of Fun!!!!

"

agreed can be fun

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

BTW - fingering is actively unpleasant most of the time, oral is boring and usually done badly, and I don't enjoy kissing.

Bah humbug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

BTW - fingering is actively unpleasant most of the time, oral is boring and usually done badly, and I don't enjoy kissing.

Bah humbug. "

just come here and let me kiss you lightly as i kiss you under the ear and to the neck line as i trace my fingertips lightly as i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have very clear boundaries, and 'no kissing on the mouth' is one of them.

Other people have different boundaries and others similar.

Either way, we respect what the other party says and tend to find that fun can still be had!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????"

Well if those are their rules we would avoid with a capital A !

I understand that people have rules but that’s just ridiculous ......

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Right how the fuck can you play properly when you... A won’t finger B won’t have oral C won’t kiss!!!! How’s that any fun?????

BTW - fingering is actively unpleasant most of the time, oral is boring and usually done badly, and I don't enjoy kissing.

Bah humbug.

just come here and let me kiss you lightly as i kiss you under the ear and to the neck line as i trace my fingertips lightly as i do "

No thanks - I don't really enjoy kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys enjoy being kicked in the balls. I don't have to understand why this is.

Take it away from sex.

I like chocolate ice cream but I don't like strawberry ice cream.

Other people do like strawberry, they are not weird, they just enjoy something different to me.

Some people like all flavours and some people don't like ice cream at all. "

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"People have rules and limits that should be respected. Can't really see the issue here? "

Same should be rightly true in Fabland and vanilla land. Pretty much everyone has their own personal boundaries and they should be respected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's up to the people who own the profile what their rules and limits are. They obviously have them for a reason.

If you don't like their boundaries and rules... It's as simple as moving on and finding someone that does match up with the kind of fun you want to have.

Not that difficult really.

~Mia maybe I should not worded it that way, we all have does and don’t and I respect all I’ve never pushed anyone with them I’m just curious about it, "

There's nothing more to it than it being their preference.

I'm sure they have a reason for it and I don't feel like people should have to justify their boundaries. We all have different ones for different reasons.

~Mia

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