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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Anyone else find it very rude when a message comes through saying hi and some other stuff. A quick reply to say hi in return and the next message is "have you any face pics?" Oh and they didn't send any or have any visable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a valid question if you haven’t sent any

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would send if planning to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would send if planning to meet. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It instantly puts me off,

I have been been getting a lot of have you got a face pic as a first message lately

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Without any on display or sent, I’d expect whoever initiated contact to send first. Then I have no problem sending straight back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s wrong with talking with someone for a while and then asking to see or sending a face pic?

What I hate is they ask you for one, you send it, and they don’t return one. THATS what’s rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone sent me a msg asking for a face pic, I'd be delighted to do so, although I would insist that they sent me one first. That's how it should work, no?

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"Without any on display or sent, I’d expect whoever initiated contact to send first. Then I have no problem sending straight back. "

The person mailing sent none.

Won't even be replying

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"What’s wrong with talking with someone for a while and then asking to see or sending a face pic?

What I hate is they ask you for one, you send it, and they don’t return one. THATS what’s rude."

We haven't been talking. I replied to one question they asked.

Certainly won't be sending any or taking any further

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"Is it a valid question if you haven’t sent any "

Why should we, we never initiated the conversation and they never sent any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple just started chatting to me, on site for 2 days. 2 private pics. No varis not even photo varified asking for a face pic.

Erm no

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By *ccasionalfun OP   Couple
over a year ago

hereandthere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the public photo has a date stamp in the corner from 2005.

I said not that neil you’re photo varified and they deleted my message without reply

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"What’s wrong with talking with someone for a while and then asking to see or sending a face pic?

What I hate is they ask you for one, you send it, and they don’t return one. THATS what’s rude."

That’s fine with me because they’ve taken some time to chat a bit. But I feel I’m talking to a pic collector if it’s their first or second message with no pleasantries beyond hi, how are you.

I stopped chatting to a guy because we chatted a while then the topic of face pics came up. I sent one and he said something about reciprocating then...sent me a chest pic. Great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone asks for face pics then I think they should have the decency to send first, we had one "couple" though I had my suspicions it was a single man who had one pretty poor picture of a tattoo and only the green tick showing ask and then get arsey because we wouldn't send first.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s wrong with talking with someone for a while and then asking to see or sending a face pic?

What I hate is they ask you for one, you send it, and they don’t return one. THATS what’s rude.

That’s fine with me because they’ve taken some time to chat a bit. But I feel I’m talking to a pic collector if it’s their first or second message with no pleasantries beyond hi, how are you.

I stopped chatting to a guy because we chatted a while then the topic of face pics came up. I sent one and he said something about reciprocating then...sent me a chest pic. Great! "

What a nice guy, not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a face pic you know who your chatting to instead of some boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it rude too OP. I never send a face pic first anyway. They should send me one first. I prefer a few messages before any need for face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it very rude when a message comes through saying hi and some other stuff. A quick reply to say hi in return and the next message is "have you any face pics?" Oh and they didn't send any or have any visable "
if I ask that question I always supply mine

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It wouldn't be an issue for me as I like to see who I'm chatting to especially if I might potentially meet them.

In fact it's usually me who asks first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only send if meeting.got our fingers burnt on another site sending face pics at the early stages.

Once bitten etc, etc.

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

I always ask and also send a face pic before scheduling a meet. But only after chatting for a while and built some trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much the same as profiles with no pics, insisting that any messages without face pic will be deleted unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I'm told it doesn't actually work, there's the auto remove box for your sent pics. So, I always attach face pic when messaging but tick that box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it very rude when a message comes through saying hi and some other stuff. A quick reply to say hi in return and the next message is "have you any face pics?" Oh and they didn't send any or have any visable "

I can never understand the logic in people asking to see faces if they're not willing to show their own Shane there isn't a way that you both have to upload a face pic together and they're not available to either person untill both sides have uploaded

I think that mad sense ??????

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Unless I'm told it doesn't actually work, there's the auto remove box for your sent pics. So, I always attach face pic when messaging but tick that box.

"

That takes 24hrs. I remove mine as soon as I see the message has been read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless I'm told it doesn't actually work, there's the auto remove box for your sent pics. So, I always attach face pic when messaging but tick that box.

That takes 24hrs. I remove mine as soon as I see the message has been read "
pointless if they screensave pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever sends the first message should send the pictures first I believe

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We usually reply with 'oops looks like you forgot to attach yours with your request for ours'

We get this from couples too despite us being pretty well verified from various sources and an average of 30 public pics at any one time (the requesting profile usually having 0-3 pics/veri). We can be and have been trusted to be discreet if we recognise pics.

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

Too many pic collectors on here we get it a lot after 2 words are exchanged, just normally delete them at this stage saves wasting our time

If we are planning to meet someone then yes we would send a face pic

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