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By *objguk OP   Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I love to kiss on a meet but some women don't like it either because it is saved for their partner or for other reasons.

Who likes kissing and who doesn't and what are the reasons?

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I love to kiss on a meet but some women don't like it either because it is saved for their partner or for other reasons.

Who likes kissing and who doesn't and what are the reasons?"

I love kissing, wouldn't meet someone that didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing no such thing ........that would be the literal meaning of any holes a goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (T) love it, it's part of foreplay to me and not kissing as part of a meet would be a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (T) love it, it's part of foreplay to me and not kissing as part of a meet would be a deal breaker. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no kissing, there won't be any shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I love kissing

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

No kissing = no meet for me. It's essential

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way."

What an old fashioned misogynist way of thinking! Most couples who are open enough to swing are open enough to set their own individual boundaries without pressure fron their partner. I love to kiss other women but have no desire to kiss other men, and for all those that say "no kissing , no fucking" I have never ever had a guy turn me down because I won't kiss him. I swing to fulfil my fantasies and kissing another man is just not a part of those fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way.

What an old fashioned misogynist way of thinking! Most couples who are open enough to swing are open enough to set their own individual boundaries without pressure fron their partner. I love to kiss other women but have no desire to kiss other men, and for all those that say "no kissing , no fucking" I have never ever had a guy turn me down because I won't kiss him. I swing to fulfil my fantasies and kissing another man is just not a part of those fantasies. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man can't or won't kiss ...then bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way.

What an old fashioned misogynist way of thinking! Most couples who are open enough to swing are open enough to set their own individual boundaries without pressure fron their partner. I love to kiss other women but have no desire to kiss other men, and for all those that say "no kissing , no fucking" I have never ever had a guy turn me down because I won't kiss him. I swing to fulfil my fantasies and kissing another man is just not a part of those fantasies. "

How can you say that without knowing the conversations I’ve had with couples? It’s not my view as you put it but real life conversations with husbands.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Sexy meets without kissing are like swimming without water!!!

No ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy meets without kissing are like swimming without water!!!

No ta x"

Agree x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I love to kiss on a meet but some women don't like it either because it is saved for their partner or for other reasons.

Who likes kissing and who doesn't and what are the reasons?"

Always kiss .. yes kissing is intimate and can understand why some save it for their partners but it feels too cold without it for me

Kissing relaxes me and gets me ‘warmed’ up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way.

What an old fashioned misogynist way of thinking! Most couples who are open enough to swing are open enough to set their own individual boundaries without pressure fron their partner. I love to kiss other women but have no desire to kiss other men, and for all those that say "no kissing , no fucking" I have never ever had a guy turn me down because I won't kiss him. I swing to fulfil my fantasies and kissing another man is just not a part of those fantasies. "

I would ask that question or read it in your profile,so I wouldn't get to the point of turning you down but in theory I have

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I like kissing, but if the people who I'm meeting say no, then fair enough. It's not a deal breaker.

Their choice, and I respect that.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I'm not really that into kissing. I'll tolerate it if someone really wants to do it, but I generally don't enjoy it that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about the kissing for me. Kissing is usually a good indicator for how good everything else is going to be. From extensive research slug kisses equals crap in bed, church kisses equals absolutely amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't bother going if there's no kissing

Singles or couples.

I know that with some couples it's too personal and saved for themselves and that's fine but if I meet a couple just for the time we're all together i don't like kissing to be off limits..i like to feel like one of three people not one person plus two if that makes sense? Once the meet is over you go off and resume the couple thing, i go back to my thing, game over and much enjoyed but during the meet, i want to be included all the way or not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to kiss on a meet but some women don't like it either because it is saved for their partner or for other reasons.

Who likes kissing and who doesn't and what are the reasons?

I love kissing, wouldn't meet someone that didn't. "

Agree with this

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)


"It’s all about the kissing for me. Kissing is usually a good indicator for how good everything else is going to be. From extensive research slug kisses equals crap in bed, church kisses equals absolutely amazing! "

Totally agree with this, in my experience if a guy or girl is a great kisser it usually leads to great sex. (I'm sure somebody else will come along and disagree with me)

No kissing no meet for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like kissing including bi kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing all part of the foreplay

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

We kiss and kiss on meets , weare always asked especially when its Lucy playing with another ,male is kissing allowed , our reply is well hopefully she will be sucking you cock soon so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We kiss and kiss on meets , weare always asked especially when its Lucy playing with another ,male is kissing allowed , our reply is well hopefully she will be sucking you cock soon so why not "

Haha spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all about the kissing for me. Kissing is usually a good indicator for how good everything else is going to be. From extensive research slug kisses equals crap in bed, church kisses equals absolutely amazing!

Totally agree with this, in my experience if a guy or girl is a great kisser it usually leads to great sex. (I'm sure somebody else will come along and disagree with me)

No kissing no meet for me"

I’ve got a very vivid memory of a slug kisser, makes me feel sick! Lol

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

kissing is the most important part of foreplay! me kiss no play...

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s all about the kissing for me. Kissing is usually a good indicator for how good everything else is going to be. From extensive research slug kisses equals crap in bed, church kisses equals absolutely amazing! "

lol@ church kisses

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By *objguk OP   Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

That's quite a debate.

I've met both kissing and non kissing couples.both were lovely experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed, not into sex with a blow-up doll with a pulse.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

guilty as charged!!! lets face it snogging is mmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the more kissing the better as far as Im concerned. Gets me the mood plus its nice to do just by itself...

a great social followed by a great kiss....yes please!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve never understood how a meet can be anything other than cold and clinical if there’s no kissing . So you just skip the starter , go straight into the sex and then that’s it ?

We would honestly choose to stay at home and have a wank rather than have a meet with anyone who doesn’t kiss .

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth OYO Hotel

Yes yes yes! Can't get enough of it. I am a passionate kisser, girls definitely enjoy it more, guys aren't usually keen though. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing also, you can tell a lot about a person by how they kiss, if the kissing is amazing then the sex is always great tooooooo.xxx

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By *objguk OP   Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

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By *anger mouse and EmmaCouple
over a year ago

Honiton


"I love to kiss on a meet but some women don't like it either because it is saved for their partner or for other reasons.

Who likes kissing and who doesn't and what are the reasons?

Always kiss .. yes kissing is intimate and can understand why some save it for their partners but it feels too cold without it for me

Kissing relaxes me and gets me ‘warmed’ up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a roleplay meet i can deal with no kissing as part of the scenario, but if it is a proper session, then there has to be kissing.

I have had some pretty good meets without kissing, but felt empty afterwards as the sex seemed cold and impersonal. Therefore it is now essential, and i actually turned down a meet last night because of it.

Basically if my cock is going in there, then so is my tongue!

Even us middle aged average guys have deal breakers!x

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By *objguk OP   Man
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

Great replies. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We couldn't ever imagining having foreplay and sex without kissing. We would turn people down if they said kissing wasn't allowed.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think kissing between singles would be almost always the case.

Some couples don't kiss. We do kiss on meets, but met a couple who didn't and it was fine. There was none of the horrible ways used of describing it in this thread.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We’ve never understood how a meet can be anything other than cold and clinical if there’s no kissing . So you just skip the starter , go straight into the sex and then that’s it ?

We would honestly choose to stay at home and have a wank rather than have a meet with anyone who doesn’t kiss .

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We kiss, and met a couple who didn't. It wasn't cold or clinical at all. The girls played with each other (although they did kiss each other) the men then joined the girls after a while and it all ran fine.

I've seen men join couples in clubs and it wasn't clinical.

As I say, we kiss, but am constantly surprised the regular threads that put non-kissers two steps lower than leper bareback gang bangers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss, we don't care what people think of us or our reasons. It's on our profile so those that insist on it needn't meet us.

A happy, open minded and accepting holiday season to all x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"We’ve never understood how a meet can be anything other than cold and clinical if there’s no kissing . So you just skip the starter , go straight into the sex and then that’s it ?

We would honestly choose to stay at home and have a wank rather than have a meet with anyone who doesn’t kiss .

We kiss, and met a couple who didn't. It wasn't cold or clinical at all. The girls played with each other (although they did kiss each other) the men then joined the girls after a while and it all ran fine.

I've seen men join couples in clubs and it wasn't clinical.

As I say, we kiss, but am constantly surprised the regular threads that put non-kissers two steps lower than leper bareback gang bangers."

that genuinely made me laugh. You think we're that high in ten pecking order? We're flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absoloutly love kissing and for me its plays a big part in forplay, but that said I respect anyone that doesn't want to kiss during a meet too

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York


"If it is a roleplay meet i can deal with no kissing as part of the scenario, but if it is a proper session, then there has to be kissing.

I have had some pretty good meets without kissing, but felt empty afterwards as the sex seemed cold and impersonal. Therefore it is now essential, and i actually turned down a meet last night because of it.

Basically if my cock is going in there, then so is my tongue!

Even us middle aged average guys have deal breakers!x"

And such a good kisser too - their loss

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I love kissing and find it a huge turn on. I’d be lost on a meet without it!

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

I ADORE kissing and agree with the previous posters in that if the kissing is crap the sex is likely to be too. If it's good on the other hand well hello lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We don't kiss, we don't care what people think of us or our reasons. It's on our profile so those that insist on it needn't meet us.

A happy, open minded and accepting holiday season to all x"

And we do , and don’t care what people think of us or our reasons either . We also put it on our profile so non kissers can give us a wide berth .

I know we are the absolute opposite to you guys , and we rarely agree on anything in here , and that’s obvious to anyone .

Regardless of our differences , we wish you a very happy Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no kissing there's no point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By *unessexcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I s'pose I might be partial to it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't kiss, we don't care what people think of us or our reasons. It's on our profile so those that insist on it needn't meet us.

A happy, open minded and accepting holiday season to all x

And we do , and don’t care what people think of us or our reasons either . We also put it on our profile so non kissers can give us a wide berth .

I know we are the absolute opposite to you guys , and we rarely agree on anything in here , and that’s obvious to anyone .

Regardless of our differences , we wish you a very happy Christmas "

We wish you a very happy Christmas too. Vive la difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we love kissing when meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J'adore kissing

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some kisses can make me go weak in the legs, now those are the kind of kisses I want

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire


"I skip any profile that says no kissing, it’s mainly the guy in a couple putting his foot down as he doesn’t want to see his wife get intimate in that way."

We are quite the opposite... he likes to kiss and can go for it... i the female will kiss but always seems not quite right for me with other men... no biggy and always honest about it x

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