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Dating, Sex or Both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saw another thread about POF on here and made me wonder:

Dating Sex or Both what are most of us looking for?

Here's a shocker on here in that...surprise surprise I have no problem with dating ...I actually enjoy going out with a lady for a meal,cinema or even just a coffee but what I dont want is another relationship as my profile says...been there done that dont want to do it again...so where do I fit in? I suppose the both category...What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same. "

Damn...and so far away lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yea I'm the same and someone needs to come up with a name for it - don't want a serious relationship but like dating and fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are playmates, or fuck buddies. I meet once a week-ish. Cinema, take-out. Over night stay with sex, then little or no contact until we next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here for sex, I’m in a relationship, not looking for another one.

And yes she knows I’m here and although she may not be totally happy with me having sex with others, she accepts me for who I am. Hoping to get her on here soon.

D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike that it one or the other on Fab. And if there is a ‘date’ it’s been renamed as a ‘social’. Don’t see why it can’t be a date. That’s what it would be called if someone were looking for nsa sex on Tinder.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are playmates, or fuck buddies. I meet once a week-ish. Cinema, take-out. Over night stay with sex, then little or no contact until we next meet."

Sounds absolutely perfect...now all I need is a local lady the same as yourself...who is happy go be seen in public with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x"

Never been interested in fuck and go...might just as well save the time and petrol and have a wank lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x

Never been interested in fuck and go...might just as well save the time and petrol and have a wank lol "
cheap skate loly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are playmates, or fuck buddies. I meet once a week-ish. Cinema, take-out. Over night stay with sex, then little or no contact until we next meet.

Sounds absolutely perfect...now all I need is a local lady the same as yourself...who is happy go be seen in public with me lol"

The best way to keep it uncomplicated, is to have little or no contact in between. Keeps your lives more 'separate'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x

Never been interested in fuck and go...might just as well save the time and petrol and have a wank lol cheap skate loly "

No...not really...happy to go out have a drink meal etc...with or without anything else happening...just that fuck and go not my thing thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw another thread about POF on here and made me wonder:

Dating Sex or Both what are most of us looking for?

Here's a shocker on here in that...surprise surprise I have no problem with dating ...I actually enjoy going out with a lady for a meal,cinema or even just a coffee but what I dont want is another relationship as my profile says...been there done that dont want to do it again...so where do I fit in? I suppose the both category...What about you?"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x

Never been interested in fuck and go...might just as well save the time and petrol and have a wank lol cheap skate loly "

I agree. After all, it is only a measly 170 miles between myself and the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friends with benefits for me so all you have said not just a fuck and go like FBs can be x

Never been interested in fuck and go...might just as well save the time and petrol and have a wank lol cheap skate loly

I agree. After all, it is only a measly 170 miles between myself and the OP "

For someone like yourself Sophee I'd be happy to travel that far...because you dont do the fuck and go thing..you do the friendships thing...big difference for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refuse to use pof or tinder now, at least on fab I know what I'm getting and it's never head fuck and games just a good variety of reg friends to fuck

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Someone who lives near, fwb arrangement to have fun times together in which ever direction that maybe - parties, socials etc.

Im not sure I'm specifically looking for anything, but I'm not refusing anything interesting either. I'm definitely not looking for a standard relationship, that's all I'm really certain of.

Ive been single so long ....how hard can this be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm greedy. Have a (fully aware and consenting) husband but would love both too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone who lives near, fwb arrangement to have fun times together in which ever direction that maybe - parties, socials etc.

Im not sure I'm specifically looking for anything, but I'm not refusing anything interesting either. I'm definitely not looking for a standard relationship, that's all I'm really certain of.

Ive been single so long ....how hard can this be! "

A lot harder than you think by the seem of things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like either or both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to meet someone for a relationship but I would like to explore a swinging relationship. I don’t want to do the vanilla thing again.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Someone who lives near, fwb arrangement to have fun times together in which ever direction that maybe - parties, socials etc.

Im not sure I'm specifically looking for anything, but I'm not refusing anything interesting either. I'm definitely not looking for a standard relationship, that's all I'm really certain of.

Ive been single so long ....how hard can this be!

A lot harder than you think by the seem of things lol"

You are absolutely right....2018 I give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to go on a date and have sex at the end of it

Doesn't mean I want to marry you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone who lives near, fwb arrangement to have fun times together in which ever direction that maybe - parties, socials etc.

Im not sure I'm specifically looking for anything, but I'm not refusing anything interesting either. I'm definitely not looking for a standard relationship, that's all I'm really certain of.

Ive been single so long ....how hard can this be!

A lot harder than you think by the seem of things lol

You are absolutely right....2018 I give up. "

Don't do that San...

No Retreat No Surrender xx

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust


"Yea I'm the same and someone needs to come up with a name for it - don't want a serious relationship but like dating and fucking. "
this is my lifestyle and my label is a “ swingle “ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its whatever we want it to be

I make this site work for me as I'm sure many others do

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have friends that I see every so often and we don’t have much contact in between meeting up and then it’s to a club or party. Then other friends where we do chit chat in between and the lines blur, we might meet for meals or gigs. Honestly I like both. I think they both have a place in my life. The people I meet, I like them so why not spend time getting to know them.

V x

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