FabSwingers.com forum: Difficulty in finding meets

By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Hi everyone, looking for some advice on getting meets, do I need to change profile etc? Had the odd meet but looking for much more.

Thanks in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 pics and all cock ones. People will be puy off by that. Your first line says "just a normal guy" from reading other posts on this subject the ladies want a profile that stands out and is something above average that catches the eye and the imagination, not one that looks like a hundred others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say my profile is quite good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, looking for some advice on getting meets, do I need to change profile etc? Had the odd meet but looking for much more.

Thanks in advance x "
can I ask where you last left them .....we'll start from there

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

????

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't understand it either.

I suggest a profile pic that isn't a cock.

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, looking for some advice on getting meets, do I need to change profile etc? Had the odd meet but looking for much more.

Thanks in advance x "
If you've had meets it's not your profile

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if your profile isn't working for you then change it. If it is working leave it alone.

When I'm looking to chat and meet someone I look at their profile pics first. All cock pics is a massive turn off.

Then I read the profile text. It needs to tell me something about them as a person, what they are looking for in any potential meet, some personality or humour.

If I don't see anything that piques my interest I move on to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't understand it either.

I suggest a profile pic that isn't a cock. "
title of thread ' difficulty in finding meets' I merely asked where he last left them and we as a group could start looking for them from that point

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

I have face pics on here but with my job I don’t want everyone to see them, if you know what I mean

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pics on here but with my job I don’t want everyone to see them, if you know what I mean "
I get that ,I don't want anyone to know I'm here

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I have face pics on here but with my job I don’t want everyone to see them, if you know what I mean "

No one is suggesting that. You apparently have an athletic body. Show some pics of that.

Seriously having six pics of your cock reduces the already low chances single men have to virtually zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the other ladies, you have to stand out from the crowd of single guys. What would make a woman interested in you? I personally like to see verifications, and I like one or two cock pics. (Love the one in the cammo gear)

I’m not sure saying you’re selective is useful info either. Select on what - looks, weight, sexual skills, or do you mean you don’t want people who have a lot of partners?

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"People say my profile is quite good.... "

what people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pics on here but with my job I don’t want everyone to see them, if you know what I mean

No one is suggesting that. You apparently have an athletic body. Show some pics of that.

Seriously having six pics of your cock reduces the already low chances single men have to virtually zero. "
ooooooo I know ,I worry about that very thing everyday ,I'm going grey

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

What type of pics should I put in my profile then?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

you've been posting in the forums quite a while now there is advice given dozens of times a day in every room almost, for men moaning they can't get meets, think I see it more than kiss snog avoid, and that's saying something

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

My general advice

As a single guy you need to work out which category you fall into :

1. Are you articulate, with social skills and a hot body? You will stand out on here and get lots of sex. Fill your boots!

2. Do you have a hot body, but can't string a sentence together and have the social skills of a frog? You won't have much luck on here. Go to clubs where your hot body will stand out.

3. Do you have an average to shit body, but know how to chat? Pick your women with care on here, send well crafted messages and you will do reasonably well.

4. Do you have an average to shit body, have no idea how to talk to women and don't even know the meaning of social skills? You're wasting your time on here. Go to greedy girls nights and gangbangs where some women will take on anyone. Or pay.

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

articulate, well mannered and very respectful x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"title of thread ' difficulty in finding meets' I merely asked where he last left them and we as a group could start looking for them from that point

Good idea

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

articulate, well mannered and very respectful x "

You need to show that in your profile. At the moment you don't.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Get the athletic pics up. You say you got it dude so flaunt it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lose some of the cock shots op

Also,what can you offer meets.You talk about them getting your attention,sell yourself.

The cant accom may hamper you .

Miss

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

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By *averick20000 OP Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Looking at updating, any suggestions?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Looking at updating, any suggestions? "

We have been giving you suggestions for 13 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at updating, any suggestions?

We have been giving you suggestions for 13 hours "
13 long hours

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

17 hours and still not taking advice, yet just another look at me thread!

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