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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This seems to be getting quite common over the last few weeks, I see a new profile that I like, send a message, they ask that you contact via Kik, send another message and then you get this copy/paste sob story how they have an ill child and they’re selling pics and videos. At first I thought it was real although I ended the convo there and then, but I’ve had others with exactly the same wording so I’m assume it’s just a scam, probably run by blokes. Anyone else had this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not come across this as of yet op, but thank you for the heads up

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Is this about a sensory room that they are trying to build?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this about a sensory room that they are trying to build?"

Can’t remember the actual wording but could have been, certainly special care was required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god no one ever replies to my messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, i have messaged a few and got the sensory room scam! To be fair when i get chatting to a much younger lass on here i normally presume a potential scam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only seem to get the real ones, either that or even the fakers don't want to message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I have just had this now OP...

You start chatting, they reply with easy one liners, then they mention their mate/girlfriend. Then when you want to fuck them both it seems things go stale and you get blocked. Is it just blokes that think you have clicked and then they think you are taking the piss. Why block people...really?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Think I have just had this now OP...

You start chatting, they reply with easy one liners, then they mention their mate/girlfriend. Then when you want to fuck them both it seems things go stale and you get blocked. Is it just blokes that think you have clicked and then they think you are taking the piss. Why block people...really?"

How do you get from one line answers to i want to fuck the both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make things a bit more clear:

It is easy to write one line messages...it could be a bloke impersonating a woman.

Then when they mention the possibility of a threesome and you get interested things seem to wrong.

Hope that helps with any more enquiries.

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England

I've only been here a few weeks, and I've already had "U got kik" and "U got coc pic" one line (if that ha ha) messages from both single "females" and "couples".

I simply send them a polite reply, giving them a little more detail about myself, asking them to reciprocate, and informing them if we hit it off, I will expect early phone contact - and they may of course withhold their number.

Funny, but they all seem to vanish then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This seems to be getting quite common over the last few weeks, I see a new profile that I like, send a message, they ask that you contact via Kik, send another message and then you get this copy/paste sob story how they have an ill child and they’re selling pics and videos. At first I thought it was real although I ended the convo there and then, but I’ve had others with exactly the same wording so I’m assume it’s just a scam, probably run by blokes. Anyone else had this?"

I’ve had this one and also another one where they had run out of gas and electric on there key meter and was trying to sell pics ect to get money for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the profiles.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Think I have just had this now OP...

You start chatting, they reply with easy one liners, then they mention their mate/girlfriend. Then when you want to fuck them both it seems things go stale and you get blocked. Is it just blokes that think you have clicked and then they think you are taking the piss. Why block people...really?"

You probably scared her off .

No wonder she blocked you

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Some of you may have noticed that I recently took every pic down and have had to now watermark them

Not only were they copied and used on dating sites / Kik and the like for whatever reason some sad sack of shit used them on Snapchat with a link to a chargeable page to charge for viewing more

For the record the only place I ‘chat’ other than here is WhatsApp and unless my I have given my number from here it won’t be me and you are probably chatting away to some dude sitting in a bedsit trying to get pics of your cock or vids to then dupe someone else

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Old Fab proverb. If it appears too good to be true it usually is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was suspicious throughout the chat as the profile was new and she/he wasn't verified.

One line messages can be so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of you may have noticed that I recently took every pic down and have had to now watermark them

Not only were they copied and used on dating sites / Kik and the like for whatever reason some sad sack of shit used them on Snapchat with a link to a chargeable page to charge for viewing more

For the record the only place I ‘chat’ other than here is WhatsApp and unless my I have given my number from here it won’t be me and you are probably chatting away to some dude sitting in a bedsit trying to get pics of your cock or vids to then dupe someone else

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That's crap. Hope they'll leave you alone now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is happening on POF.They appear to be an attractive woman,asking for sex with an older guy.They want your email then disappear from the site

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Some of you may have noticed that I recently took every pic down and have had to now watermark them

Not only were they copied and used on dating sites / Kik and the like for whatever reason some sad sack of shit used them on Snapchat with a link to a chargeable page to charge for viewing more

For the record the only place I ‘chat’ other than here is WhatsApp and unless my I have given my number from here it won’t be me and you are probably chatting away to some dude sitting in a bedsit trying to get pics of your cock or vids to then dupe someone else

That's crap. Hope they'll leave you alone now. "

Here’s hoping but honestly a message to everyone not just girls .. watermark you names across your pics because although you might not mind them on here for public view it’s very easy for them to be screenshot and pop up all over the net

My one woman quest to stop the fakery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Kik but these days I only chat on here. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have much experience with swinging but my verification is from a woman I met from here. I recognised her as she had a pof profile. She could then see me in my profile before we met. It was more or less certain that she was the real profile. We met for a social but didn't take it further. It could be wise to use another platform before sending loads of face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of you may habe noticed that I recently took every pic down and have had to now watermark them

Not only were they copied and used on dating sites / Kik and the like for whatever reason some sad sack of shit used them on Snapchat with a link to a chargeable page to charge for viewing more

For the record the only place I ‘chat’ other than here is WhatsApp and unless my I have given my number from here it won’t be me and you are probably chatting away to some dude sitting in a bedsit trying to get pics of your cock or vids to then dupe someone else

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The positive take away being you're so attractive that people will pay money just to see your pictures!

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