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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England

I'd be very surprised if this topic hasn't been raised here before, but I'm new here, and newly single after a long relationship - so please bear with me. This is my first ever thread.

I made the mistake of popping into one of the directing rooms earlier. The way some men approached women in there shocked me, and made me quite angry; their sole tactic seemed to be to subject the woman's arse to 5 minutes of concerted (and obviously disingenuous) smoke blowing - followed by a tirade of abuse when their advances were (inevitably) spurned.

I suspect that the women in there are quite used to this type of behaviour and chose to simply ignore it; but it's been a long time since I've been on the dating scene, so I wondered:

Is this kind of behaviour just confined to the chat rooms - or do blokes carry on like this in their messages and when they're out and about?

Is porn to blame for the apparent sense of entitlement and expectation to instant gratification that these men seem to have?

Does this tactic actually work for them?

Am I just being oversensitive and a grumpy old git?

Well, I guess that may well be true, because I am one - according to my offspring anyway!

Anyway, your thoughts on the matter would be appreciated....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't limited to chat rooms. Yes they can be like it in real life.

I've had threats of getting my daughter taken off me by the police to telling my husband to name calling for not dropping everything to fuck or suck some guy

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

You’ll find numerous threads in the forums about how some single guys approach women in their first message then get abusive. It gets tiring so I intermittently hide my profile and have my filters as high as possible to cut down on this. There are still lot of lovely single guys out there not like this though

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

that's the directing rooms for you! I'm sure if the women did not like it then they would avoid the rooms and just use the other non directing rooms!

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"No it isn't limited to chat rooms. Yes they can be like it in real life.

I've had threats of getting my daughter taken off me by the police to telling my husband to name calling for not dropping everything to fuck or suck some guy

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That's utterly despicable. There really are some vile individuals about.

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"You’ll find numerous threads in the forums about how some single guys approach women in their first message then get abusive. It gets tiring so I intermittently hide my profile and have my filters as high as possible to cut down on this. There are still lot of lovely single guys out there not like this though "

Good to hear that Jingle. Yours seems like a sensible strategy. Aside from my earlier chat room experience. I'm actually enjoying my time here very much.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"You’ll find numerous threads in the forums about how some single guys approach women in their first message then get abusive. It gets tiring so I intermittently hide my profile and have my filters as high as possible to cut down on this. There are still lot of lovely single guys out there not like this though

Good to hear that Jingle. Yours seems like a sensible strategy. Aside from my earlier chat room experience. I'm actually enjoying my time here very much. "

Glad you’re enjoying the site. I might even message you when my profiles back back at the weekend

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"that's the directing rooms for you! I'm sure if the women did not like it then they would avoid the rooms and just use the other non directing rooms!"

I did wonder the self same thing Blondie! It takes all sorts I guess.

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"You’ll find numerous threads in the forums about how some single guys approach women in their first message then get abusive. It gets tiring so I intermittently hide my profile and have my filters as high as possible to cut down on this. There are still lot of lovely single guys out there not like this though

Good to hear that Jingle. Yours seems like a sensible strategy. Aside from my earlier chat room experience. I'm actually enjoying my time here very much.

Glad you’re enjoying the site. I might even message you when my profiles back back at the weekend "

Thank you Jingle; I look forward to it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No it isn't limited to chat rooms. Yes they can be like it in real life.

I've had threats of getting my daughter taken off me by the police to telling my husband to name calling for not dropping everything to fuck or suck some guy

That's utterly despicable. There really are some vile individuals about. "
unfortunately too many on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens in messages too, some men on here just treat us girls like meat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer your here OP the more you'll get to know. The forums is a great place to know everything and never be afraid to ask. Nice to see a respectful guy on here xx

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"No it isn't limited to chat rooms. Yes they can be like it in real life.

I've had threats of getting my daughter taken off me by the police to telling my husband to name calling for not dropping everything to fuck or suck some guy

That's utterly despicable. There really are some vile individuals about. unfortunately too many on here "

Do I infer that you're actually considering leaving the site because of this type of behaviour?

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By *ingle Dad Seeking OP   Man
over a year ago

Northern England


"The longer your here OP the more you'll get to know. The forums is a great place to know everything and never be afraid to ask. Nice to see a respectful guy on here xx"

Why, thank you kindly Ma'am.

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