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Talk the talk but can't walk the walk

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By *ickadysplit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

cadishead

Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ? "

Maybe something in your conversations with them turned them off being attracted to you?....there is no law to say that chatting leads to sex....there are other websites for instant shag if that is what you are looking for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no intention of meeting anyone I'm not already friends with.

I'm here to keep in touch with people I've played with previously. To find people who are into my specific kinks. To arrange a club fuck when time allows.

Not that anyone on here has to explain to anyone why they use the site the way that they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ? "

Alot of guys are nice at first but then become arrogant, explicit and demanding when messaging x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Nothing is more sexy than impatient single men, said no one ever.

Ed

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By *ickadysplit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

cadishead

No expectations, meet 1st for a coffee & go from there

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP - I'm not saying you're doing these things but here are my thoughts...

Until someone actually says they want to meet, you should assume they just want to chat. There isn't an amount of chat that moves it from a conversation to a plan to meet.

Equally, discussing what might happen on a meet, or what you'd both like, could still be an exploratory conversation.

If you keep bringing the conversation to sex and they keep moving it away again, or if you keep talking about meeting and they keep pushing it into the long grass, then they're happy chatting for now.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ?

Maybe something in your conversations with them turned them off being attracted to you?....there is no law to say that chatting leads to sex....there are other websites for instant shag if that is what you are looking for... "

What is this other place you speak of

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

One final thought is that, the guys I've done the most wild stuff with, have been the most laid back guys I know on Fab.

It took us a while to get to meet up (sometimes weeks or months). We chatted about sex and about life for quite a while without any pressure whatsoever. And then, when we finally got together, I felt really comfortable with them to have a go at some wilder stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ? "

It can be frustrating, I think people need to be more honest about why they are on here.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ? "
Ihave had this many times. I think people like to chase. Not the kill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ?

It can be frustrating, I think people need to be more honest about why they are on here. "

the trouble is, just because women are on here to meet, it seems to be taken by a lot of guys that it means they will meet anyone. When a conversation turns very quickly to sex, it can be really offputting... someone who's getting wildly over excited in 2 messages..you can guarantee they won't be meeting anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like the men who say can go all night always horny blah blah blah ....

But in reality one minute wonder

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I can go all night, especially if it’s in the north of Sweden in the summertime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ? "

If this is happening over and over, then there will be a common denominator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit like the men who say can go all night always horny blah blah blah ....

But in reality one minute wonder "

Then you're meeting the wrong men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit like the men who say can go all night always horny blah blah blah ....

But in reality one minute wonder

Then you're meeting the wrong men "

Learnt my lesson well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the people who have said have no expectations and make no assumptions.

If they don't meet you, move on you'll find the right people. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found right person eventually

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

Oh, so I have to fuck everyone that I have a conversation with? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"One final thought is that, the guys I've done the most wild stuff with, have been the most laid back guys I know on Fab.

It took us a while to get to meet up (sometimes weeks or months). We chatted about sex and about life for quite a while without any pressure whatsoever. And then, when we finally got together, I felt really comfortable with them to have a go at some wilder stuff.

"

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

[Removed by poster at 20/12/17 13:26:23]

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Is it just me or are there to many people on here that like to string people along, had enough of people that can message away but then when it comes down to meeting they ignore u or block u.

If u have no intention of meeting then why u on here ?

Try not to get on to "talk the talk" I find this type of wank chat often leads to them never walking "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, so I have to fuck everyone that I have a conversation with? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong "

Who said that??

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By *urreySunSeekersCouple
over a year ago

Camberley


"I have no intention of meeting anyone I'm not already friends with.

I'm here to keep in touch with people I've played with previously. To find people who are into my specific kinks. To array nge a club fuck when time allows.

Not that anyone on here has to explain to anyone why they use the site the way that they do. "

Completely agree. This is an alternative lifestyle. Clues in the name??

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

all the ladies are right in what they say in their replies op chatting doesn’t always lead to a meet. You have to stand out to meet people you might be 100th person she’s had the same conversation with that week the other 99 will be not meeting her either. Find something you can get talking about and move from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, so I have to fuck everyone that I have a conversation with? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong

Who said that?? "

as any woman on here can tell you, it's often the assumption if you exchange more than one message..if you then don't want to take it further then you're a fake/prick tease/ shouldnt be on here if youre not meeting them in a matter of hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP actually has a point. There are so many people on here who have no intention of ever meeting but like to pretend they will. The ones who always have an excuse for not meeting but want to keep messaging. It's not one specific group, but men, women and couples that do it.

We've all had them, so let's not make the OP out to be a dick.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Well I walk the walk as well as talk the talk .that must say something xxx

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley


"Bit like the men who say can go all night always horny blah blah blah ....

But in reality one minute wonder "

A whole minute? Sounds like I need to up my game...

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By *ickadysplit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

cadishead

Thank u guys u pretty much hit the nail on the head, it's all about being respectful, polite & not being pushy.

Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, so I have to fuck everyone that I have a conversation with? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong

Who said that??

as any woman on here can tell you, it's often the assumption if you exchange more than one message..if you then don't want to take it further then you're a fake/prick tease/ shouldnt be on here if youre not meeting them in a matter of hours!"

You should never assume anything on here

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