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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is big for me to admit. I have a urine bag in the form of a stoma. It kept me alive and other than that I'm fit healthy and happy. It can be covered with a special belt or special nice underwear.

Why I understand it's not everyone's thing it's amazing how many times I've been called a freak or blocked in here. I would never call someone fat, too skinny, saggy or anything else.

I'm not looking for sympathy just to be treated as a normal person because trust me I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore and block those that call you names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is big for me to admit. I have a urine bag in the form of a stoma. It kept me alive and other than that I'm fit healthy and happy. It can be covered with a special belt or special nice underwear.

Why I understand it's not everyone's thing it's amazing how many times I've been called a freak or blocked in here. I would never call someone fat, too skinny, saggy or anything else.

I'm not looking for sympathy just to be treated as a normal person because trust me I am.

"

I breath through a throat stoma (male) and I’ve had the freak call too, bloke was lucky not to have his head knocked off, happened on a club in Spain. My advice, fuck the knickers and enjoy yourself

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP don't let the assholes get to you. There are plenty of people who won't care that you have the stoma.

Just report and block them and move on to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP don't let the assholes get to you. There are plenty of people who won't care that you have the stoma.

Just report and block them and move on to someone else."

Very sound advice, especially the report part I'm sure most of us would agree we don't want our fellow fabbers stigmatised for any reason x good luck hope you have fun here despite the bullies

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"So this is big for me to admit. I have a urine bag in the form of a stoma. It kept me alive and other than that I'm fit healthy and happy. It can be covered with a special belt or special nice underwear.

Why I understand it's not everyone's thing it's amazing how many times I've been called a freak or blocked in here. I would never call someone fat, too skinny, saggy or anything else.

I'm not looking for sympathy just to be treated as a normal person because trust me I am.

"

People are insensitive bastards. You're way better than them hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice pal the world's full of haters just ignore there crap and have fun

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

There's a reason for our username, it's a poke in the eye for those that do call us that, we can answer with glee 'yes we are'. Our disabilities don't stop us having fun so their ignorance certainly won't.

People who call names and try to shame others are usually trying to hide their own pain, or inner turmoil.

keep your chin up, there are lots more good folk out there than bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few friends with stoma bags. Which are also lucky to be here. People always amaze me at what utter assholes they really can be. Just try an remember the good people ,

An not the shit bags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last thing I would be thinking about is your stoma bag look at the size of your cock !!! Very nice !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been swinging a fair few years and thought we had seen and heard it all op until we joined fab and it really does show what complete arse holes many people are. I think people forget this is a swinging site and is for people to look for fun. Instead it’s getting full of people who just want to belittle, humiliate and pick fault with others. Like a previous threat on about grammar really! If you met in a club you wouldn’t have any idea what there grammer was like. Your meeting the person for fun not to write letters. Ignore the haters they only say that shit because they can hid behind a keyboard.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover


"Last thing I would be thinking about is your stoma bag look at the size of your cock !!! Very nice !!! "

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover

Thank goodness for this thread and proof that there are still nice people on fabs - there are SO many idiots these days. If you like or fancy someone enough who gives a hoot about a disability!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

OP is there not a plug for this? I thought there was for swimming?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP is there not a plug for this? I thought there was for swimming? "

There is a "cap" for a colostomy bag but not for urostomy as it's in permanent use x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?"

No, just a little short sighted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly the world is an awful place and fab can be too. Remember there are some on here fighting battles that no one knows about and some disabilities can't be seen.

I commend you OP for speaking out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?

No, just a little short sighted"

Coming from a man with glasses that made me lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

As others have said ignore the dickheads... Its not our abilities that define us. Its how we handle our disabilities that define us.

Good Luck for the future Tony

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?"

No, it just makes you very, very ignorant. Using words like that shows us you're the sort of person we instantly block and avoid.

WTF goes on in your head where you think that this was in any way funny or appropriate.

Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?

No, it just makes you very, very ignorant. Using words like that shows us you're the sort of person we instantly block and avoid.

WTF goes on in your head where you think that this was in any way funny or appropriate.

Dick"

Bloody good for you guys...I'd block someone like that as well...people are people...short tall fat thin black white or any of the other myriad things we are...maybe it was a thoughtless comment that he didnt mean to be offensive but that shows an ignorance of other peoples feelings... Wouldn't it just be a much nicer world if we all thought for a moment before making a comment that might hurt upset or offend another human being

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?

No, it just makes you very, very ignorant. Using words like that shows us you're the sort of person we instantly block and avoid.

WTF goes on in your head where you think that this was in any way funny or appropriate.

Dick

Bloody good for you guys...I'd block someone like that as well...people are people...short tall fat thin black white or any of the other myriad things we are...maybe it was a thoughtless comment that he didnt mean to be offensive but that shows an ignorance of other peoples feelings... Wouldn't it just be a much nicer world if we all thought for a moment before making a comment that might hurt upset or offend another human being"

Indeed it would. The M word has never had a positive meaning. Most people know this already, even children. It's just as offensive as using the N word to describe someone of Afro-Carribean descent, and just as unlawful according to Parliament.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

Andover


"I've always wanted to have sex with a midget

Does that make me a freak?

No, it just makes you very, very ignorant. Using words like that shows us you're the sort of person we instantly block and avoid.

WTF goes on in your head where you think that this was in any way funny or appropriate.

Dick

Bloody good for you guys...I'd block someone like that as well...people are people...short tall fat thin black white or any of the other myriad things we are...maybe it was a thoughtless comment that he didnt mean to be offensive but that shows an ignorance of other peoples feelings... Wouldn't it just be a much nicer world if we all thought for a moment before making a comment that might hurt upset or offend another human being

Indeed it would. The M word has never had a positive meaning. Most people know this already, even children. It's just as offensive as using the N word to describe someone of Afro-Carribean descent, and just as unlawful according to Parliament."

I think 'Little People' is now the term we should use, as it causes least offence. I think it's preferable just to be accepting of people's size whatever it is - I suspect that if Warwick Davis was on here he'd have quite a following....

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I have been called allsorts on here due to being in a wheelchair but I don't let it get to me there is some nice people on here just don't take any thing to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The block button works mighty fine mate !! On the plus you seem to have the support of many .. good luck me old china

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