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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You start communications emails all going well having good conversation and you think all is well then it turns into vulgar sex talk. One way to turn the ladies off. And is this really what ladies want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And another thing just because girls are on a sex/swingers site does it justify being spoken to like a piece of meat.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As in 'I wanna fuck you, bitch'.

Or as in 'I'd like you to be marbled with fat, slightly blue and at room temperature'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's one of the joys of having a profile on what the majority will consider to be a sex site.

i get it all the time and as soon as it starts, i send a couple of non descript responses which usually gets rid of um

they know then that they i have either lost interest or perhaps more precisely they move on because i won't feed them the lines to finish their wank off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Time and place for everything. I would just stop messaging them. However, have just had a message that said "my balls are full and need emptying and i need to empty them in some special lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time and place for everything. I would just stop messaging them. However, have just had a message that said "my balls are full and need emptying and i need to empty them in some special lady.

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seriously ?

do men really send out things like that ?

i am mortified for him !

that makes my skin crawl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time and place for everything. I would just stop messaging them. However, have just had a message that said "my balls are full and need emptying and i need to empty them in some special lady.

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I agree, there is a time and a place for that sort of thing, for me , only when I am comfortable with the other person, maybe met socialy to see how we got on, otherwise its a no no

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Aw c'mon, he said 'special' lady, not just any old spunk bucket.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Time and place for everything. I would just stop messaging them. However, have just had a message that said "my balls are full and need emptying and i need to empty them in some special lady.

seriously ?

do men really send out things like that ?

i am mortified for him !

that makes my skin crawl "

Yep and thats just touching the surface and it makes you wonder why guys get the raw deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And in chat do girls actually enjoyed being treated like objects. Sorry Thursday rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they say and how they say it, if its just one or two messages then i dont get bored with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in chat do girls actually enjoyed being treated like objects. Sorry Thursday rant"
totally agree with you....only ever go in there to verify ..there is a lot of desperate people in there...can come across as very cheap..not for me..

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"And in chat do girls actually enjoyed being treated like objects. Sorry Thursday rant"

Chat room:

It says in the chat rules to treat everyone with respect, so if you have a bee in your bonnet and your not in a directing room perhaps report the comments/profile. I would suggest that even in a directing room theres a line that shouldn't be crossed re rules.

Re messages:

Peoples vocabulary, grammar or indeed life experiences when it comes to knowing how to talk or write to others may fall short of your own skills and standards and sadly that's only to evident across all the sexes.

Some guys do fall way short and unfortunately I can't see how it will stop.

It only takes one person who they message who likes to be spoken to or likes to speak the same way to justify in their own world that it's ok.

I would suggest that your profile should highlight the 'style' of conversation you're prepared to indulge in or tolerate.

Other than that move on to your next vict. Lucky conquest! lol

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"And another thing just because girls are on a sex/swingers site does it justify being spoken to like a piece of meat."

"You are a fine piece of steak, I'm gonna cook you rare with some chips and onion rings"

Opps sorry I started to treat you like a piece of meat there.

NO YOU ARE RIGHT. NOBODY IS JUST A PIECE OF MEAT.

Male, female we are all people and should be treated as so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate Mrs NBP being thought of as a piece of meat

I think there are other things that really annoy us tho, like the the member who questioned why Mrs NBP uses her Ist name on our profile and not her middle name????

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"hate Mrs NBP being thought of as a piece of meat

I think there are other things that really annoy us tho, like the the member who questioned why Mrs NBP uses her Ist name on our profile and not her middle name???? "

How did the person know it was her first name and not her middle name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hate Mrs NBP being thought of as a piece of meat

I think there are other things that really annoy us tho, like the the member who questioned why Mrs NBP uses her Ist name on our profile and not her middle name????

How did the person know it was her first name and not her middle name?"

I replied with both our names and when they saw it was different from the profile name they started the 3rd degree so they were blocked as just what was the point in such a garbage conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a sex site so it is to be expected - however if you are polite and tell them it doesnt do anything for you, i am sure if they wish to continue chatting to you they will stop - if not, you just block them - simples mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer treating them like a dessert

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"hate Mrs NBP being thought of as a piece of meat

I think there are other things that really annoy us tho, like the the member who questioned why Mrs NBP uses her Ist name on our profile and not her middle name????

How did the person know it was her first name and not her middle name?

I replied with both our names and when they saw it was different from the profile name they started the 3rd degree so they were blocked as just what was the point in such a garbage conversation "

Oooh, hark at them.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Now go and get that field sorted, I'm feeling a bit frisky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hate Mrs NBP being thought of as a piece of meat

I think there are other things that really annoy us tho, like the the member who questioned why Mrs NBP uses her Ist name on our profile and not her middle name????

How did the person know it was her first name and not her middle name?

I replied with both our names and when they saw it was different from the profile name they started the 3rd degree so they were blocked as just what was the point in such a garbage conversation

Oooh, hark at them.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Now go and get that field sorted, I'm feeling a bit frisky."

OK!!!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Good man!

Hello Mrs N, ready for some lurve?

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