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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any older women on here who want a younger guy to play with would love an older woman... Haha

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

"

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for older women to.

60 and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x "
all the time my friend all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a thing for older women to.

60 and over"

Mines 30 plus love the teacher sort of role play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x all the time my friend all the time "

See it's an every guy issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty old myself ...rather than younger women I would go with my friend's wife anyytime in preference...and she is 70 !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm pretty old myself ...rather than younger women I would go with my friend's wife anyytime in preference...and she is 70 !"

You ever asked your friend if he's willing to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are straight and not in the 'adult' scene think she knows I fancy her like mad ?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x "

Give you a chance? Either you are attractive to someone or you're not. This isn't a charity.

Top tip, the first thing people will look at is your profile, do you think it's a good representation of who and what you are?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x

Give you a chance? Either you are attractive to someone or you're not. This isn't a charity.

Top tip, the first thing people will look at is your profile, do you think it's a good representation of who and what you are?"

Took the words from my tongue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice and I get you I know it's not a charity I was just saying there's more to sexiness than physical attractiveness I think so anyway I appreciate the advice though thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x "

Haha so we need to get rid of a few guy's then. We could start with the younger ones who can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My female friend is 68.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the advice and I get you I know it's not a charity I was just saying there's more to sexiness than physical attractiveness I think so anyway I appreciate the advice though thank you x "

On here it starts with physical attractiveness. It's different in clubs where personality and humour can make a difference, but profile is everything online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice and I get you I know it's not a charity I was just saying there's more to sexiness than physical attractiveness I think so anyway I appreciate the advice though thank you x

On here it starts with physical attractiveness. It's different in clubs where personality and humour can make a difference, but profile is everything online."

Thank you I'm hoping to try a club in 2018 x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the advice and I get you I know it's not a charity I was just saying there's more to sexiness than physical attractiveness I think so anyway I appreciate the advice though thank you x

On here it starts with physical attractiveness. It's different in clubs where personality and humour can make a difference, but profile is everything online.

Thank you I'm hoping to try a club in 2018 x "

Why hoping? Just go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x "

Plenty of blokes here who are clueless so it makes no difference how many. If you are attractive to someone you tend to do fine. But if your profiles shit you will struggle end of.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Been there tried that

Wont be trying it again

Sorry OP

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there tried that

Wont be trying it again

Sorry OP

Mrs

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well all goes on person depending really rather than age but there has to be a realistic limit and 10 years either way for me I think *Mr

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Been there tried that

Wont be trying it again

Sorry OP

Mrs

well all goes on person depending really rather than age but there has to be a realistic limit and 10 years either way for me I think *Mr "

Would agree on the 10 year below but sorry not above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there tried that

Wont be trying it again

Sorry OP

Mrs

well all goes on person depending really rather than age but there has to be a realistic limit and 10 years either way for me I think *Mr

Would agree on the 10 year below but sorry not above "
haha I really do not blame you at all for that one but 30/40s are fine and click well

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We don't mind people being younger than us if the have the right mentality.

Rare as RHP so set our filters to avoid them but saying that, you do get the odd one that catches her eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poor guy only asked if there was any older ladies, using this as a tool to maybe be seen by them, too quick to shoot guys down sometimes when post here lol.

but...i too am still seeking much older, the one who did get in touch had no photos and wouldnt post any at all. but wanted blind meets, so the above does apply regarding your profile being a good start etc.

good luck.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I go for younger guys, but everything else also needs to be in synk.

There is a lot more than their age involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"poor guy only asked if there was any older ladies, using this as a tool to maybe be seen by them, too quick to shoot guys down sometimes when post here lol.

but...i too am still seeking much older, the one who did get in touch had no photos and wouldnt post any at all. but wanted blind meets, so the above does apply regarding your profile being a good start etc.

good luck. "

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go for younger guys, but everything else also needs to be in synk.

There is a lot more than their age involved."

Love your profile the photos are very teasing and pleasing ..

I agree with the having to be in sync part x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I go for younger guys, but everything else also needs to be in synk.

There is a lot more than their age involved.

Love your profile the photos are very teasing and pleasing ..

I agree with the having to be in sync part x "

Thanks x

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've always wanted a more mature FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are we classic as an older woman. What age classes as "older"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me 30 to 60 for others it could differ

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"For me 30 to 60 for others it could differ "

But your age you're looking to meet settings are 18-40!!

OP as you've said yourself it comes down to connection and chemistry along with attraction rather than age specifically - and on here you have to do all you can to maximise the possibilities of those things happening and there's a number of ways you can do that:

First and foremost a well written and enticing profile that helps you stand out from the crowd.

Back that up with a set of pics that show off your body and not your cock.

Get more involved in the forums which is a great way to get to know people and get yourself noticed.

Get along to socials and clubs

So maybe give some thought to some of those things and see where you could make changes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me 30 to 60 for others it could differ

But your age you're looking to meet settings are 18-40!!

OP as you've said yourself it comes down to connection and chemistry along with attraction rather than age specifically - and on here you have to do all you can to maximise the possibilities of those things happening and there's a number of ways you can do that:

First and foremost a well written and enticing profile that helps you stand out from the crowd.

Back that up with a set of pics that show off your body and not your cock.

Get more involved in the forums which is a great way to get to know people and get yourself noticed.

Get along to socials and clubs

So maybe give some thought to some of those things and see where you could make changes "

Thanks for the advice I didn't realise I hadn't updated that part of my profile thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of women here who seek out younger men. Just because you are young does not mean they want to meet you.

Yeah I understand that there needs to be a connection I'm just struggling to find people who will give me a chance. I'm a nice guy, honest open and funny. Just feel there's way to many men to females on this site sometimes x all the time my friend all the time

See it's an every guy issue "
its not an issue for me ,its just the way it is can't help it its just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you're a bit too far away from us, but in our experience, both on this and other sites we've been on, the majority of meets we've arranged with younger guys have been no shows, and that is the reason we don't meet with younger anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously you're a bit too far away from us, but in our experience, both on this and other sites we've been on, the majority of meets we've arranged with younger guys have been no shows, and that is the reason we don't meet with younger anymore."

Well that sucks we are both east Midlands though xx

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