FabSwingers.com forum: Hard and rough - what's the difference?

By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Hi all

Just wondering what your version of rough sex and hard sex is? Is there much of a differnce?

I realise everyone has different levels/limits etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx"

That is pretty much my thinking. But I wonder if some people see slapping/being pinned down etc, as in the hard category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx

That is pretty much my thinking. But I wonder if some people see slapping/being pinned down etc, as in the hard category."

I wouldn't but that's me, everyone got there own definition of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough Hard both ok with us lol x

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Rough Hard both ok with us lol x"

For you both, what do you class as hard sex, and what do you class as rough sex.

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

Love being fucked hard, rough sex doesn’t turn me on at all.

Bend me over and fuck me hard, just how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rough Hard both ok with us lol x"

yep haer too for the right meet

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx"

That would be my definition.

I bruise like a peach... Luckily I can blame my job for the bruises

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

For us it’s a difference between being punched in the face or waking up in A&E. We have boundaries which are non negotiable. Each to their own but eroticism in our world has no place for either. Alpha males and sluts may have differing views. Fill your boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard sex = Her doing "destroyer of the universe" while he is maintaining "formidable face" .... it's a yoga thing.

Rough Sex = A quick d*unken shag in the large bin behind the kebab shop.

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Love being fucked hard, rough sex doesn’t turn me on at all.

Bend me over and fuck me hard, just how I like it

I enjoy hard sex. Have never had rough sex, but neither do I want too. And that bum looks lovely bent over.

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Rough Hard both ok with us lol x

yep haer too for the right meet"

What is your idea of hard and rough sex? For you, does one blend into the other?

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx

That would be my definition.

I bruise like a peach... Luckily I can blame my job for the bruises

liking the new pics! Very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.

I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hard sex...being pounded from behind whilst he pulls my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough and hard... both sound good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like neither.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I like both but only if I trust and know you. Do it when I first meet you and it’s not likely to end well

V x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.

I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it. "

Love your answer.

We personally play this way and it can change each time depending upon mood, etc,. It’s imperative to keep an aspect of control especially with rough play, it’s all good and well getting ‘in the moment’ but better to be safe than sorry, always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.

Rough sex = Scratching, biting, being held down, spanking, maybe a bit of resistance play (I like a lover 'forcing' my legs apart while I pretend to struggle). Only done with people I know well and trust.

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.

I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it. "

It's all about trust. I agree with the aggression part. Safewords are a great way to go.

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Love hard sex...being pounded from behind whilst he pulls my hair"

I am a bum man, and that, when everyone is in the mood, is fantastic.

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"I like both but only if I trust and know you. Do it when I first meet you and it’s not likely to end well

V x

I wouldn't dream of doing that on a first meet with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.

Quite like this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.

Totally this for us.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Used to date a woman who liked it rough. Pinned down,choked,face slapped,hair pulled,name calling, all that kind of thing. Her words were "I like to be treated like shit in the bedroom". Nice lass she was till she turned Into a nutjob

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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.

I do like spanking to be fair, not for the pain element. I am a bum man, and love the sound, the ripple of a bum being spanked. I was once asked to bite a ladys' nipples during a meet, surprised me to be honest. I was careful, but she seemed to enjoy it.

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