FabSwingers.com forum: Playing preferences....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people like clubs hotels,at home or someone else's home.What is yours and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not safe to meet in a stranger's house. No way I'd have anyone back to mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not safe to meet in a stranger's house. No way I'd have anyone back to mine. "
yes we agree unless you have known them a good while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer homes, either our own or the other couples. Why? Familiar comfort helps me to relax, and having tried clubs and finding it not our thing, is the only option available. Added to that, hotels are an expense we're not in a position to pay out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play at ours only. We have all the toys and restraints we need right here so why go elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We play at ours only. We have all the toys and restraints we need right here so why go elsewhere "
yes that's a point but would you meet people at yours for a first Meet? I'll rather know them before inviting them home and if you don't get on etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not safe to meet in a stranger's house. No way I'd have anyone back to mine. "

Do you have social meets beforehand? We meet in homes but usually having had a social meet first. If only so you know what you're actually getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We play at ours only. We have all the toys and restraints we need right here so why go elsewhere yes that's a point but would you meet people at yours for a first Meet? I'll rather know them before inviting them home and if you don't get on etc x"

We have never met anyone before a meet. We chat for a while and only invite them if both of us think they are brand new. If we really didn't get on for whatever reason we would just say. No hard feelings x

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

We have been swinging for exactly 1 year...and of all of the venues we have experienced the sexiest is having people back to our place!

You can make sure that there will be enough drinks and that the sheets and the towels are clean, and at this time of year you can be sure that the heating is turned up high enough!

Also...there is a large mirror at the end of our bed so I can see our bodies very clearly as we all fuck!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We prefer clubs, we like the sexy atmosphere and the different rooms available. Love a mirrored wall or ceiling to look at everyone playing from a different perspective

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The people that make me giggle are the ones whose status says ‘Feeling really horny, need a fuck, meet at yours’.

Wow, that’s really considerate of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people that make me giggle are the ones whose status says ‘Feeling really horny, need a fuck, meet at yours’.

Wow, that’s really considerate of you.

Ed"

"Meet at yours...put the heating and the kettle on...cheers"

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We haven’t been to a lot of clubs but those we have, we have found mostly not to a great standard. Ideally we would prefer to play at home or be hosted but for safety reasons not keen on that either. Good thing we like the idea of meeting at hotels but oddly it is difficult to find others who agree.

Our ideal meet would be a light lunch and flirt in a nice hotel, then maybe go to the spa and pool, then up to the room for the afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer clubs - keeps my homelife private (so many crazies out there!), and a club gives the ideal environment to meet, flirt, and then play if the mood takes you. I certainly never go to strangers houses - way too unsafe.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"The people that make me giggle are the ones whose status says ‘Feeling really horny, need a fuck, meet at yours’.

Wow, that’s really considerate of you.

"Meet at yours...put the heating and the kettle on...cheers"

Bloody cheek eh?

We might as well offer to pick them up and drive them home too. Morons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like clubs hotels,at home or someone else's home.What is yours and why? "
hymer or the beach in summer I like the feeling of outdoors

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Clubs only for us....great facilities and nothing needs to be arranged so no let downs.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Hotels are our preference. We like the neutral ground, the nostalgia from our early days many moons ago, plus we find there’s a slight, nervy edge to hotel meets which we both enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people that make me giggle are the ones whose status says ‘Feeling really horny, need a fuck, meet at yours’.

Wow, that’s really considerate of you.

"Meet at yours...put the heating and the kettle on...cheers"

Bloody cheek eh?

We might as well offer to pick them up and drive them home too. Morons.

Ed"
You mean you don't ? pfft . Do you know how expensive taxis are .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We haven’t been to a lot of clubs but those we have, we have found mostly not to a great standard. Ideally we would prefer to play at home or be hosted but for safety reasons not keen on that either. Good thing we like the idea of meeting at hotels but oddly it is difficult to find others who agree.

Our ideal meet would be a light lunch and flirt in a nice hotel, then maybe go to the spa and pool, then up to the room for the afternoon. "
that does sound rather good! Love a good spa day

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Hotels are our preference. We like the neutral ground, the nostalgia from our early days many moons ago, plus we find there’s a slight, nervy edge to hotel meets which we both enjoy. "

Yeah, exactly this.

Can’t beat walking out in the morning, wearing a sly smirk on our faces

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By *antasticMrsFoxMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Home as it's more intimate and relaxed, but clubs are good fir a bit of an audience now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not safe to meet in a stranger's house. No way I'd have anyone back to mine.

Do you have social meets beforehand? We meet in homes but usually having had a social meet first. If only so you know what you're actually getting."

I always have a social first but I still wouldn't go to their house or have them at mine. They won't know my real name or the town I live in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I (Mrs) have a bit of a eversion to people’s homes unless I have met people before, I suppose I feel a little pressured being in someone’s home. I have had great nights at people’s home before including a meal, drinks hot tub but this was after playing in a club together. Also I would feel mortified if I arrived at someone’s house and it was dirty. Hotel meets are good and I enjoy clubs as I feel that you can do all the social and fun in the one place. Mr is a little more open to people’s houses than I am.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Why would you invite a stranger into your home??? Nice spa hotel for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My house if you feel uncomfortable at yours, or a hotel, but yours if you want to, just somewhere warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a hotel meet. But it won’t be with just anyone. I like meeting those I know I’ll meet regularly. I have met people at their own homes which I don’t mind. They’ve felt comfortable enough to invite me so must be doing something right.

I do have a caveat though - I’m shit scared of pets lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs are fun, they have the playrooms I sooo like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Homes or hotels..never had a bad experience of anyone coming to mine or me going to anyone else's and hotels have always been ok

I don't like the massive limitations clubs throw up, you have to stick to their opening times, unless your meeting someone there your limited to the people attending that night and more often than not I haven't been attracted to most of the people in them when I've been which means I don't want to play with them or play in front of them really, spoils the vibe. how good a night is is a bit hit and miss, you have to wait for rooms to be free (unless it's quiet..but then it's quiet so there's less atmosphere in the rest of the place) or have folk waiting after you to use yours..I don't want to cue up for my fun. You have to obey the law in a club and not go getting too freaky. Unless your close by you have either to travel or pay for a hotel for the night generally.

They're good for something different now and again but really don't find them sexy places to be playing at all.

People's homes though and hotels to a degree you can do what you want when you want in any manner you get to pick and choose precisely who's there

takes the win for me

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Prefer hotel as it is more intimate and private.

As for clubs, the thought of where those fingers or cock or even his lips/tongue has been to (or into) turn me off a little.

I just go to clubs to crossdress.

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

"Why would you invite a stranger into your home??? Nice spa hotel for us. "

The simple answer is..

to fuck 'em!

...In a pleasant, secure and comfortable environment with all of the facilities you need.

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

"Homes or hotels..never had a bad experience of anyone coming to mine or me going to anyone else's and hotels have always been ok

They're good for something different now and again but really don't find them sexy places to be playing at all.

People's homes though and hotels to a degree you can do what you want when you want in any manner you get to pick and choose precisely who's there

takes the win for me "

Yep...couldn't have put it better!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Clubs for me

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Some people like clubs hotels,at home or someone else's home.What is yours and why? "

Hotels - neutral territory but also can feel very uninhibited

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Play anywhere..........Just give me the chance!!!

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over a year ago

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Depends what type of meet it is. If D/s with a sub I love club dungeons. If a personal meet I prefer something more intimate.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Clubs for us love the social & fun side to. But making friendships and things evolving Fi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer private meets either going back to theres or booking hotel we love the excitement of it all but we carefull we check couples out b4 we do this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel for the extra luxury and excitement.

Theirs for the normality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer hotel as it is more intimate and private.

As for clubs, the thought of where those fingers or cock or even his lips/tongue has been to (or into) turn me off a little.

I just go to clubs to crossdress."

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pvt party at a large remote country Manor House.. loads of room loads of opportunity, quiet and classy .. can House s couple or lots of people depending your preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy hotels. We find something very sexy about getting all dressed up ready to go out, walking into a hotel bar, sitting enjoying drinks and politely flirting, making polite conversation as others may hear, but the whole time knowing we all have naughty thoughts running through our minds. Then heading up into a gorgeous hotel room and having fun without having the laundry to do the next day....oh yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet in public first and then back to their place.

Or even better when it a LOT warmer - outside

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to meet in public first and then back to their place.

Or even better when it a LOT warmer - outside

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yes roll on summer I've had enough of this winter!

Outdoor hot tub would be bliss *Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any -

each has own strengths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to meet in public first and then back to their place.

Or even better when it a LOT warmer - outside

yes roll on summer I've had enough of this winter!

Outdoor hot tub would be bliss *Mr

A warm day in a hot tub is what I need right now!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Clubs - and Townhouse in particular as it’s somewhere I go regularly & feel comfortable.

With people I know, then playing at home is a possibility - theirs or mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At clubs, our home is our sanctuary and we like to keep swinging separate to our home life.

Ginger

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

For us, clubs have some real advantages.

Firstly, nobody has to sleep in the wet patch, or do the extra laundry.

The play area is usually bigger than just a bed.

Club entry is almost always much cheaper than a hotel.

There's also (if desired) the oportunity for folk to watch... or maybe even join in.

There's no sneaking people past reception or hoping the neighbors didn't see.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us, clubs have some real advantages.

Firstly, nobody has to sleep in the wet patch, or do the extra laundry.

The play area is usually bigger than just a bed.

Well clubs suit us as you never know what will happen and we love doing our own thing too

Club entry is almost always much cheaper than a hotel.

There's also (if desired) the oportunity for folk to watch... or maybe even join in.

There's no sneaking people past reception or hoping the neighbors didn't see.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us, clubs have some real advantages.

Firstly, nobody has to sleep in the wet patch, or do the extra laundry.

The play area is usually bigger than just a bed.

Well clubs suit us as you never know what will happen and we love doing our own thing too

Club entry is almost always much cheaper than a hotel.

There's also (if desired) the oportunity for folk to watch... or maybe even join in.

There's no sneaking people past reception or hoping the neighbors didn't see.

Cal

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clubs suit us as you never know what will happen and we enjoy doing our own thing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although we do visit them, as we enjoy meeting people, the social and voyuerism aspect, clubs aren't our favourite as they aren't a safe environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us as a neutral venue and you can choose to play or not on the night with no pressure. We also enjoy the social side, even with people we are not pyshically attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs;

Mainly for the security, and if it doesn’t go to plan there’s always other folks to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not safe to meet in a stranger's house. No way I'd have anyone back to mine. "

I’ve done both many times....never felt the slightest discomfort....neither have my “guests”. But I’ve also played in clubs and hotels....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done “ at yours “ hotel and clubs, we much prefer hotel and clubs....love the social side just as much as the naughtiness. Plus love the dress up and prancing around in sexy underwear

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Ive done hotel, club, homes and car sex. The company is more important than the location.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Ive done hotel, club, homes and car sex. The company is more important than the location."

O and erm outside lidl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us.

Would never let anyone come to our home. Not keen on going theirs or a hotel.

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over a year ago

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We just do clubs I'm afraid don't feel comfortable in people's homes but each to thete own we all have our ptefrences

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

As said before,

Not necessarily safe to go to a strangers house.

Not safe to invite a stranger to our family home (you can't make them forget where you live).

Hotel meets have never really worked for us.

So clubs, if they're not like their profile, or they've got no banter, or they're not for you, or if we're not for them - the club has other options - even if it is a place for just to the two of us to have noisy, messy sex together.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

First a Social meet then if all happy a hotel...

Simple really.

I would never invite a stranger to my home or go to a strangers home. Too risky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Although we do visit them, as we enjoy meeting people, the social and voyuerism aspect, clubs aren't our favourite as they aren't a safe environment. "
you would be worth a watch

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"Some people like clubs hotels,at home or someone else's home.What is yours and why? "

Depends on the mood..... or we are just greedy..... different places bring different positives and negatives

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Although we do visit them, as we enjoy meeting people, the social and voyuerism aspect, clubs aren't our favourite as they aren't a safe environment. "

I'm intrigued.

Why do you consider clubs an unsafe environment?

Is if from a being seen perspective or something else?

Nita

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Although we do visit them, as we enjoy meeting people, the social and voyuerism aspect, clubs aren't our favourite as they aren't a safe environment.

I'm intrigued.

Why do you consider clubs an unsafe environment?

Is if from a being seen perspective or something else?

Nita"

Yes, preferences aside, I'd say that a club is the safest environment to play. There's people around who understand the situaton, have joined with id, cctv on the entrance, bar staff, management etc. Compared to your own home, their home or a hotel room, it has to be safest, surely.

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