FabSwingers.com forum: Are cuckolds "Real Men "

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a few woman say they don't see cuckolds as " real men "

Thoughts ?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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In my view they are.

I guess it might be an individual opinion, and maybe more clarity is needed on what is meant by "a real man".

Obviously they are not mannequins and they are likely to have a cock and balls, so they are genetically "real", maybe I don't completely understand the question.

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester

"Had a few woman say they don't see cuckolds as " real men "

Thoughts ? "

Yes of course they are - however *some* cuck husbands may enjoy the humiliation aspect of being called "not a real man" etc.

Its just another fetish which comes in various levels and flavours - and like most things, everyone likes different things - some may enjoy the hotwife aspect, others like the humiliation aspect.

Anyone wanting to play with a cuck couple are always best advised to speak to them in advance to set out rules and limits - never just assume one cuck couple enjoy the same things as the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As no one can define what a real man is I wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have a willy, yeah deffo a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few woman say they don't see cuckolds as " real men "

Thoughts ?

Yes of course they are - however *some* cuck husbands may enjoy the humiliation aspect of being called "not a real man" etc.

Its just another fetish which comes in various levels and flavours - and like most things, everyone likes different things - some may enjoy the hotwife aspect, others like the humiliation aspect.

Anyone wanting to play with a cuck couple are always best advised to speak to them in advance to set out rules and limits - never just assume one cuck couple enjoy the same things as the next."

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Had a few woman say they don't see cuckolds as " real men "

Thoughts ?

Yes of course they are - however *some* cuck husbands may enjoy the humiliation aspect of being called "not a real man" etc.

Its just another fetish which comes in various levels and flavours - and like most things, everyone likes different things - some may enjoy the hotwife aspect, others like the humiliation aspect.

Anyone wanting to play with a cuck couple are always best advised to speak to them in advance to set out rules and limits - never just assume one cuck couple enjoy the same things as the next."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be said in the bedroom as part of the humiliation side of things if you're into that. But if it's said outside of play in a different context then it could be taken as an insult, and that kind of belittling probably isn't healthy for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean ‘ real man ‘ ? Some guys like to be submissive some like humiliation while in a cuckold situation ... but out of that scenario are completely different. Don’t think for a moment that just because a guy likes cuckold that he’s a whimp as you will be very sadly mistaken... but that’s just my veiw ( hubbie)

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Are they men?

Then yeah, proberbly real men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they have a willy, yeah deffo a man lol

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i used to think this but got to be careful now lots of peole with dicks get upset if you call them a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alpha or beta men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No their sissys

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If they identify as male then they're men.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

How many roads must a man walk down before toy can cask him a man.

How many cream pies must a lick dry before you can call him a man. ....

P.s. of course he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's good that people are being considerate and not leaping to judgements, but on a personal note, I understand the question. I'm a wimp in real life and I can understand people saying I'm not a "real man." Compared to someone who people generally would think of as manly, I'm not. Obviously, I'm a person, just not a "real man."

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

"What do you mean ‘ real man ‘ ? Some guys like to be submissive some like humiliation while in a cuckold situation ... but out of that scenario are completely different. Don’t think for a moment that just because a guy likes cuckold that he’s a whimp as you will be very sadly mistaken... but that’s just my veiw ( hubbie) "
. Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, it's just a kink or fantasy.

The same as those adults that like to get in a nappy and drink a bottle, they are still adults. Honestly it is a thing, I saw it on a documentary hahah.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

"Of course, it's just a kink or fantasy.

The same as those adults that like to get in a nappy and drink a bottle, they are still adults. Honestly it is a thing, I saw it on a documentary hahah."

Do you still have to use talc when you change there nappy..

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Of course they are real men..

That's like asking if guys into pony play are real?

Just because you enjoy humiliation, why would that make you any less of a person than a gym fit, hung young stud?

Being a cuck is what defines you as a person, no less and no more than anyone else.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes. Probably more so than your average, knuckle dragging, chest beating neanderthal.

Their sexuality is cerebral, not merely physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's just another form of being submissive

I know many men that have a submissive streak that shows in different ways I assumed cuckolding was just another branch of this

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Yes. Probably more so than your average, knuckle dragging, chest beating neanderthal.

Their sexuality is cerebral, not merely physical. "

This is how you won Fab forum.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Yes. Probably more so than your average, knuckle dragging, chest beating neanderthal.

Their sexuality is cerebral, not merely physical.

This is how you won Fab forum.

So agree

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes. Probably more so than your average, knuckle dragging, chest beating neanderthal.

Their sexuality is cerebral, not merely physical.

This is how you won Fab forum.

[Curtseys]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few woman say they don't see cuckolds as " real men "

Thoughts ? "

Of course we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im definitely a real man but I think the question is more about women's perception of cuckold guys.

Because part of the fantasy often involves submission/humiliation a lot of people think the cuck must be a wimp.

I think some guys who are naturally dominant in other aspects of life love the submissive side of cuckolding so can definitely be considered "real men" even though part of the fantasy might mean not necessarily acting like one in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s similar to the adage of real women have curves, depends on how you perceive the word ‘real’, what it means to you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What on earth would such an individual stating they're not ream men define one of these as?

It's simple minded thinking to assume that complex personalities can be homogeneous and this real, with the rest unreal, or such nonsense. They sound like their thinking is from an era that is better left behind us.

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

"Yes. Probably more so than your average, knuckle dragging, chest beating neanderthal.

Their sexuality is cerebral, not merely physical.

This is how you won Fab forum.

So agree "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it when my wife says she's enjoys a real man in bed, and humiliates me over the size of my penis, so for me I enjoy it as a submissive thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy it when my wife says she's enjoys a real man in bed, and humiliates me over the size of my penis, so for me I enjoy it as a submissive thing "

Same for us except my wife finds me too big at 7.5" and is always looking for a man with about 6" to give her the satisfaction and fulfilment that only another man can give her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very assertive and "manly man" some might say quite alpha and some also say intimidating in my normal day to day life, but the idea of being a cuck for the right lady is my ultimate fantasy and would relish that kind of relationship, but I'm not into being humiliated, am I a real man??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are real and men but the "bull" is considered a better lover there's a huge variety or scale of humiliation the cuck then likes to experience.

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By *otwife2002Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Totally agree with the above.

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

Totally agree with the above."

An interesting question and one that points directly to the fact that so many people know so little about the world of cuckolding. As indicated earlier its a cerebral thing and although there are often preconceptions of what a typical cuckold, hotwife or Bull should look like or how they should behave. The reality can often be very different.

Before becoming part of a couple I spent years cuckolding couples. Had I gone into it with a closed mind or preconceptions it wouldn't have been nearly as rewarding as it was.

Getting to know how each couple ticked was crucial and was also part of the fun. My approach to cuckolding couples was very similar to my approach to dominating a submissive woman sexually. You can only dominate to everyone's mutual pleasure if you are trusted and given permission to do so.

I have cuckolded men with bigger cocks than me and bearing in mind the fact that one was a cage fighter some would have been able to kick my ass if they were so inclined.

Its all about communication, mutual respect and understanding......before and after a session.....but not always during

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As no one can define what a real man is I wouldn't worry about it.

This.

There are many who think being a real man is supporting the right football team, home and away. Others by the loud American motorcycle you own, or armfuls of tattoos. For many it’s how many pints they can down every night. So, yes, it’s undefinable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As no one can define what a real man is I wouldn't worry about it.

This.

I personally hate football, don't drink, find cars boring.

However....my personal view on being a man involve embracing my emotions as well as being strong, dependable and 'masculine'

Sorry, but I don't see licking another man's jizz from his woman's choof after he's pounded her, masculine in any shape or form.

Guess I'm old fashioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy it when my wife says she's enjoys a real man in bed, and humiliates me over the size of my penis, so for me I enjoy it as a submissive thing "

That's not submissive that sexual humiliation...different thing.

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By *otentialcuckMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive been in a cuckold relationship before (when I say cuckold it was purely bedroom playfun, and enjoyed many many different scenarios) but then out of the bedroom it was back to normal MF loving relationship.

I never once or nor did my partner at the time, ever consider me not being a real man

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"alpha or beta men ? "

beta or better? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy it when my wife says she's enjoys a real man in bed, and humiliates me over the size of my penis, so for me I enjoy it as a submissive thing

That's not submissive that sexual humiliation...different thing."

Ok...

I apologise for my lack of knowledge between the two, please forgive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s kind of like saying a woman that uses a strap on isn’t a real woman...

Bullshit

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By *oysvsgirlsMan
over a year ago

farnborough

Do they have a penis?

In which case if the chemistry between everyone is right.

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course a cuck is a real man, he has a penis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a cuck doesn’t necessarily have to be a beta type. I’ve had an alpha cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course they are "real men".

aits like asking if a woman who likes being tied up is a strong independent woman.

The 2 things are not mutually exclusive.

I am definitely the manly type but would love to see a man fuck my wife. Especially a bigger /stronger guy.

Id also happily be the bull for a couple. Just depends on how the mood takes you...

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

even before I got married it was drummed into me that I was not a real man and never would be

I have to admit I've accepted that now

real men are not cuckolds

any true cuckold will admit he is not a real man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a wide spectrum with lots of exceptions and individual differences. I think though that among those who like humiliation, there are those guys who want to explore the fantasy of being in that lowly state, and then guys who find themselves actually being in that state. They're not alphas who want a release, they're guys who may not be able to please their partner, who may be physically less adept as a lover or just not as assertive or exciting as their partner might like for whatever reason. I think that group accept that they are not "real men" in the terms that most people would understand if they heard someone say, x is a real man or y isn't much of a man.

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