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Curvy women why not curvy men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get what your saying but yeah not what I asked lol xx

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Aww I checked out your pics and you both look gooood. Know what you mean though. Neither of us are athletic or average. We get a lovif hi men interested in both but women are harder to attract. I think you’ll find women are fussier and missing out on fun for the sake of a six pack.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm attracted to bigger guys. If I like someone then body shape doesn't matter to me, other things are more important. However I agree that men describing themselves as curvy is a bit odd.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON


"I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked "

But what would a man put... I have a dad bod. Wouldn't say I'm large or fabulous. But I have some curvy bit and some toned bits..

Ok I feel your pain. But when you do get the interested one you'll have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked "

I agree. I’d rather a man describe himself as large than curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a larger guy, with a bit extra. Learned to be comfortable with myself, my body and not look at body types,. It's about the personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a meaty bloke..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The brutal truth is, (and I know this from being a fat bloke with a sexy wife) that the chances of attraction being 4 way for a 4some to happen is reduced massively by my being rotund. I accept and embrace it.

What you need to do, is focus more on the positives you can offer someone.

Yes, I'm fat, but I'm funny, I'm good looking, I'm an amazing kisser, the women I've played with have enjoyed themselves.

It'll take time and patience, you're a decent looking bloke, you're wife looks lovely. You just play the numbers game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked

I agree. I’d rather a man describe himself as large than curvy.

"

When did you sneak back?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Aww I checked out your pics and you both look gooood. Know what you mean though. Neither of us are athletic or average. We get a lovif hi men interested in both but women are harder to attract. I think you’ll find women are fussier and missing out on fun for the sake of a six pack. "

Its not six pack for me but do like average body thats well kept rather than large being as I'm small Fi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The brutal truth is, (and I know this from being a fat bloke with a sexy wife) that the chances of attraction being 4 way for a 4some to happen is reduced massively by my being rotund. I accept and embrace it.

What you need to do, is focus more on the positives you can offer someone.

Yes, I'm fat, but I'm funny, I'm good looking, I'm an amazing kisser, the women I've played with have enjoyed themselves.

It'll take time and patience, you're a decent looking bloke, you're wife looks lovely. You just play the numbers game. "

Absolutely agree as im Definitely poodling along in the same boat! Best not to let it get to you though fella as there's something more off putting than being "pleasantly plump" and that's being a winge arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

Curvy woman = 8. She can be fat but not necessarily. Curvy man = 0 = fat .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I agree guys I consider myself to have an amazing personality I can talk to anyone I have a good sense of humour am a great kisser and love pleasing a lady just gets frustrating when your not given a chance to show that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

Curvy woman = 8. She can be fat but not necessarily. Curvy man = 0 = fat ."
don't necessarily get what you mean ?

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

As with women, curvy is a shape, not a size. I personally prefer bigger men, and while I find the notion of self reference as curvy odd, I wouldn't let it put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the fuller figured male. So long as they can throw me around the bedroom then physique is not actually that important.

I am quite hefty mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The brutal truth is, (and I know this from being a fat bloke with a sexy wife) that the chances of attraction being 4 way for a 4some to happen is reduced massively by my being rotund. I accept and embrace it.

What you need to do, is focus more on the positives you can offer someone.

Yes, I'm fat, but I'm funny, I'm good looking, I'm an amazing kisser, the women I've played with have enjoyed themselves.

It'll take time and patience, you're a decent looking bloke, you're wife looks lovely. You just play the numbers game. "

I think there's something to this. You're not a bad looking bloke, you just need to find people that respond to you.

Just remember, you must have something going for you as you're with one of the prettiest women on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

Curvy woman = 8. She can be fat but not necessarily. Curvy man = 0 = fat . don't necessarily get what you mean ? "

Shapes not scores.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

Curvy woman = 8. She can be fat but not necessarily. Curvy man = 0 = fat . don't necessarily get what you mean ? "

Curvy woman is shape of no8 whereas curvy man shape of no0 is presumed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

Curvy woman = 8. She can be fat but not necessarily. Curvy man = 0 = fat . don't necessarily get what you mean ?

Shapes not scores.

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right yeah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The brutal truth is, (and I know this from being a fat bloke with a sexy wife) that the chances of attraction being 4 way for a 4some to happen is reduced massively by my being rotund. I accept and embrace it.

What you need to do, is focus more on the positives you can offer someone.

Yes, I'm fat, but I'm funny, I'm good looking, I'm an amazing kisser, the women I've played with have enjoyed themselves.

It'll take time and patience, you're a decent looking bloke, you're wife looks lovely. You just play the numbers game.

I think there's something to this. You're not a bad looking bloke, you just need to find people that respond to you.

Just remember, you must have something going for you as you're with one of the prettiest women on Fab. "

Did I just say something sensible?

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By *anrteeCouple
over a year ago

London

I always thought the male equivalent of curvy was a dad bod with a plump lady being rubenesque rather than curvy

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We all suffer from our own insecurities from time to time. Looking for that ‘mirror couple’ will be extremely difficult but not totally impossible. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sometimes our own paranoia regarding ulterior motives can get in the way. Sometimes you’ve just got to believe and go with the flow. Have patience and good luck!

Ed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always thought the male equivalent of curvy was a dad bod with a plump lady being rubenesque rather than curvy"
I have a dad bod then haha don't get me wrong it's just my belly got strong legs and I like my bum and so does r lass x

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By *exmanMan
over a year ago

Stainforth

I’m a chubby guy myself yeah you’re right some of the real glamorous people with no personalities on here may not find you attractive but each to their own .The other thing which I found out talking to one or two of my lady friends says is that some of the guys with massive cocks also need another big cock to carry it round lol

So I would much rather be Me and be a nice person and see how it goes with someone then be body perfect and up my own arsehole

Also you get better value with the keg over six pack

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Curvy more rugby frame sounds better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to clubs help. Gives people a chance to get to know you both a bit and go from there. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to clubs help. Gives people a chance to get to know you both a bit and go from there. X"
Yeah we're hoping to get to one it's on our list lol couldn't drive until recently so that is helping but we both really struggle to get a sitter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to clubs help. Gives people a chance to get to know you both a bit and go from there. XYeah we're hoping to get to one it's on our list lol couldn't drive until recently so that is helping but we both really struggle to get a sitter x"

Bit of planning, you'll be fine. New year for you both, let the fun commence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men of all shapes and sizes. Doesn't really matter what you look like so long as there's a connection.

It does sound weird a man being curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to clubs help. Gives people a chance to get to know you both a bit and go from there. XYeah we're hoping to get to one it's on our list lol couldn't drive until recently so that is helping but we both really struggle to get a sitter x

Bit of planning, you'll be fine. New year for you both, let the fun commence! "
here's hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

Peeked your profile and wouldn't describe you as fat for a start. Personally I'm a lady that likes a man with a bit of weight behind to drive the nail home.

It's all down to preference and you're already a lucky man with a curvaceous lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked "

This

I cringe when I see men describe themselves as curvy. They tend to be more of an ample size when you see the pics.

It's like me saying I'm rugby players build when in fact I'm just obese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind stocky guys. But you have no body shots so I wouldn't be interested because I'm not looking to solely play with just female half's of a couple, and the majority of the pics are just of her. As lovely as she looks, I want to see both people.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Brutal truth time.

Most people (not all, but most) of both sexes find non overweight people more attractive than overweight people. Men vastly outnumber women on here, hence women's choices are wider and they can choose the men they find most attractive.

Overweight men will generally be seen as less attractive than non overweight men, so they will tend not to get picked.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

So I have gone average in my profile... but what should I use as I won't use curvy?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I alway's fine it weird when men refer to themselves as curvy I see curvy as being a woman thing,shapely bottom slim waist and a decent boob. Sorry that wasn't what you asked

But what would a man put... I have a dad bod. Wouldn't say I'm large or fabulous. But I have some curvy bit and some toned bits..

Ok I feel your pain. But when you do get the interested one you'll have a great time. "

Average?!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So I have gone average in my profile... but what should I use as I won't use curvy?"

Oh should have read to the end

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Totally get what the OP is saying, if I see a girl with meat on her, not too bothered about her shape, I like meat on a girl. Then I'm attracted to her. And want her. But Iv got a meaty bod, and girls don't seem to like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a bigger guy - dad bod over 6 pack any day!! I also prefer hairy guys, but the biggest attraction for me is personality.

OP, your body type is perfect for me; unfortunately I’m not attracted to submissive guys so that would put me off.

I agree with the posts about clubs - meeting people online does make it more 2 dimensional so you rely on photos more. Meeting in a club is much nicer as you get a better sense of the person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wondered this, as a portly gent myself it kinda sucks, ha!

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm in the same boat OP but I think as someone has said dad bod is probably the correct term curvy is for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see curvy for women I think yummy and when I see if for men I don't look.

Curvy in terms of a woman is hips, not a skinny backside and boobs!!

Curvy on a man = flabby.

I'm on here to have sex with men and I'll pick the 6 packs and the rugby large types.

Sorry if that offends but just being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brutal truth time.

Most people (not all, but most) of both sexes find non overweight people more attractive than overweight people. Men vastly outnumber women on here, hence women's choices are wider and they can choose the men they find most attractive.

Overweight men will generally be seen as less attractive than non overweight men, so they will tend not to get picked.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I much prefer a bigger guy - dad bod over 6 pack any day!! I also prefer hairy guys, but the biggest attraction for me is personality.

OP, your body type is perfect for me; unfortunately I’m not attracted to submissive guys so that would put me off.

I agree with the posts about clubs - meeting people online does make it more 2 dimensional so you rely on photos more. Meeting in a club is much nicer as you get a better sense of the person! "
thanks we both like taking turns in being submissive and Dom it's just for the play side with us it's not a lifestyle choice or anything like that love your pics and profile x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My Mrs prefers larger guys to skinnier guys, luckily for me your Mrs is obviously happy enough with your shape too.

Try not to worry about it too much OP. Whatever size and shape you are, some will find it attractive, and some won't, you can't please everyone.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I much prefer a bigger guy - dad bod over 6 pack any day!! I also prefer hairy guys, but the biggest attraction for me is personality.

OP, your body type is perfect for me; unfortunately I’m not attracted to submissive guys so that would put me off.

I agree with the posts about clubs - meeting people online does make it more 2 dimensional so you rely on photos more. Meeting in a club is much nicer as you get a better sense of the person! thanks we both like taking turns in being submissive and Dom it's just for the play side with us it's not a lifestyle choice or anything like that love your pics and profile x"

Not to be too critical but that pic of the male naked and tied up will put off 95% of women. Delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I much prefer a bigger guy - dad bod over 6 pack any day!! I also prefer hairy guys, but the biggest attraction for me is personality.

OP, your body type is perfect for me; unfortunately I’m not attracted to submissive guys so that would put me off.

I agree with the posts about clubs - meeting people online does make it more 2 dimensional so you rely on photos more. Meeting in a club is much nicer as you get a better sense of the person! thanks we both like taking turns in being submissive and Dom it's just for the play side with us it's not a lifestyle choice or anything like that love your pics and profile x

Not to be too critical but that pic of the male naked and tied up will put off 95% of women. Delete

"
why exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to be too critical but that pic of the male naked and tied up will put off 95% of women. Delete

why exactly "

Submissive men is quite a niche thing. Most women at least want a guy who knows what he wants. Male submissives will appeal to dominant women but not really mainstream

It’s the old ‘alpha male’ thing.

I only play D/s with Gomez, but would still not want to play with a guy who had a submissive nature - it’s a real turn off for me! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont beat yourself up im a bbw and matty deffinately is not a dweeb i dont like skinny men i prefer some one who looks like they can handle me ( not saying skinny men cant) infact when matt lost loads weight i hated it and fattened him back up again!

I must be a feeder lol

Have patience the right couple will happily want you both and its nothing to do with your size as matt finds usually its me couples want to play with but as it clearly states were a 2some theres no me without him and id never want to leave him out of my fun anyway...

Own it!!

boo

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.s i agree with the submissive male picture..a dom male appeals to more women than submissive one and personally that would put me off too as a single fem or as a couple..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I understand that but there are pics of me dimming Katy too we both take turns at being Dom and sub and it's all during our playtime x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.s i agree with the submissive male picture..a dom male appeals to more women than submissive one and personally that would put me off too as a single fem or as a couple..

"

Agree with this

A submissive guy is also a huge turn off for me

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I much prefer a bigger guy - dad bod over 6 pack any day!! I also prefer hairy guys, but the biggest attraction for me is personality.

OP, your body type is perfect for me; unfortunately I’m not attracted to submissive guys so that would put me off.

I agree with the posts about clubs - meeting people online does make it more 2 dimensional so you rely on photos more. Meeting in a club is much nicer as you get a better sense of the person! thanks we both like taking turns in being submissive and Dom it's just for the play side with us it's not a lifestyle choice or anything like that love your pics and profile x

Not to be too critical but that pic of the male naked and tied up will put off 95% of women. Delete

why exactly "

Three reasons

1. As has been said, sub men are a very niche thing. Most women will be instantly turned off by an in your face sub man.

2. Most women don't like erect cock pics

3. The pic is very unflattering. From your other pics it seems you have an average figure. You look fatter than you are in that pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say if the photo is a snapshot of who you are as a couple. Keep it in there.

It may well turn some people off, but they're not the people you'd be wanting to meet anyway.

Stay true to yourselves.

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’d say you look cuddly rather than fat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say if the photo is a snapshot of who you are as a couple. Keep it in there.

It may well turn some people off, but they're not the people you'd be wanting to meet anyway.

Stay true to yourselves. "

But he has said they switch the thing is i looked at that as oh hes a submissive man which for me is a no and then id have moved to the next profile rather than waiting for them to explain he isnt and actually plays dom too... which is fine.. just my opinion but i agree stay with who you are as a couple just from a profile viewers perspective thats how id see it.

Actually they would be a couple wed usually be interested in but for the above reasons ( the pic) would not message until now when the picture has been explained

Hope this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say you look cuddly rather than fat xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd describe myself as blobby rather than curvy

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Yeah I understand that but there are pics of me dimming Katy too we both take turns at being Dom and sub and it's all during our playtime x"

I can’t see any pics of you being Dom / your lovely lady being sub?

There’s wrong with it and a lot of people are Switch rather than Dom or Sub - but it will affect how people respond to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

I think we all have personal preferences when it comes to body shape!!I adore curvy women and think Kat is absolutely stunning and fabbed many of your pics in the past. But as a couple you both look very attractive and I think It's connecting with the right people. Clubs are always the best because photos don't do most of us any justice on here. People can be a hell of lot more attractive in flesh. I think it's 30% looks and 70% personality and how they present themselves. That 70% you can't see in pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??

I think we all have personal preferences when it comes to body shape!!I adore curvy women and think Kat is absolutely stunning and fabbed many of your pics in the past. But as a couple you both look very attractive and I think It's connecting with the right people. Clubs are always the best because photos don't do most of us any justice on here. People can be a hell of lot more attractive in flesh. I think it's 30% looks and 70% personality and how they present themselves. That 70% you can't see in pictures."

This

Matts pics dont do him justice at all lots people have said hes much more attractive in the flesh and i think thats because of how he carries himself in the flesh. Where as my pics are probably more flattering.. we always have a club social because that way your really learn what a potential play meet is like and if not everyone still has a good night out! No pressure..

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I say if the photo is a snapshot of who you are as a couple. Keep it in there.

It may well turn some people off, but they're not the people you'd be wanting to meet anyway.

Stay true to yourselves. "

I have to say this being true to yourself thing strikes me as nonsense. I might like nothing better than sitting on a sofa in my pants watching daytime TV and farting. If I was being true to myself I would tell people that. As I want a shag I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say if the photo is a snapshot of who you are as a couple. Keep it in there.

It may well turn some people off, but they're not the people you'd be wanting to meet anyway.

Stay true to yourselves.

I have to say this being true to yourself thing strikes me as nonsense. I might like nothing better than sitting on a sofa in my pants watching daytime TV and farting. If I was being true to myself I would tell people that. As I want a shag I don't "

Phahaha i love this!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand that but there are pics of me dimming Katy too we both take turns at being Dom and sub and it's all during our playtime x

I can’t see any pics of you being Dom / your lovely lady being sub?

There’s wrong with it and a lot of people are Switch rather than Dom or Sub - but it will affect how people respond to you "
I have made some of the pics of me domming Katy public so you can see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I understand that but there are pics of me dimming Katy too we both take turns at being Dom and sub and it's all during our playtime x

I can’t see any pics of you being Dom / your lovely lady being sub?

There’s wrong with it and a lot of people are Switch rather than Dom or Sub - but it will affect how people respond to you I have made some of the pics of me domming Katy public so you can see x"

Much better!!

Ive fabbed

Boo

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big cuddly men!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is everyone who says they love big cuddly men miles away haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone who says they love big cuddly men miles away haha "

It's always the way the ones your most attracted too are always at the other end of the country. Time to start booking long weekends away I think lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone who says they love big cuddly men miles away haha

It's always the way the ones your most attracted too are always at the other end of the country. Time to start booking long weekends away I think lol."

My Mrs prefers the chunkier guy ..she is not really into slim/thin guys

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Totally get some women like the "dad bod/chunky guy"...a girl in the vanilla world whom Im speaking with loves my body .

However, I hate my appearance knocks as it knocks my confidence, I really hate my belly as it hangs over the trouser belt etc

Hence why Im back at the gym trying to lose the excess baggage...

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I love bigger men. Preferable to me over ripped fellas..not that there's anything wrong with that either. I just personally prefer a little bit of belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chunky guy here... hope some of you gorgeous women and couples check me out xx

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

As a bigger girl I usually go for bigger well built guys. I understand its hard to define yourself at times on here, however we are our own harshest critics.

For me personality and a kind face is always more important than body size.

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where


"I love a meaty bloke.. "

Wanders over and says hello!!!

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

It would appear there’s a good few women here interested in larger built fellas! I for one am

Happy to be contacted lol!

OP I get what you mean I’m struggling here a bit too. Keep looking I hope things work out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 6ft 4 and 21st I’m going to list as large, although I did like the ‘fabulous’ option...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Getting the fab body type labels to evrr work for all genders will probably be near to impossible.

It's worth using pics to show how you are as well as adding some text that could explain this, especially if you have had a harder time to find people who particularly like your body type.

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By *973 JimmyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There is always a lot more leeway for women in the attractiveness stakes. This is partly due to the fact that women are more choosy when looking at men because they can afford to be, but mainly because women simply are more attractive full stop. They have a physical design that is aesthetically pleasing but a man has to be absolutely spot on to even look remotely half decent hence statues of athletic men but paintings of all sorts of women.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

Massive generalisation. I personally prefer a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've pondered this a few times over the years various girlfriends I've had and mates etc have always seemed to be other the idea fat women are bbws and fat blokes are simply fat bastards

Me personally I like a bigger cuddly woman getting wrapped up in her body feeling her chunky thighs lay across me in bed Mmmmmmm

I've never got the idea women were attracted to big guys tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is to describe a woman's shape and a man's would be stocky in our eyes and we're lucky we share the same taste in women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a more chubby man, I,m not into thin. XXX

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Love a sturdy guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

I don't think you're fat. I like beefy men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou xx

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

As a fellow curvy guy, we have the same problem with couple meets. It is what it is , you can’t change someone’s tastes. Just chatting to Mrs K about some of the meets we have had like this. If the other half is a skinny guy then the warning bells start ringing lol

Good luck

D&K

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just changed mine I didn't realise I'd put curvy...I've put average but what is average?

Next option is large but I wouldn't say I'm large neither, best way to describe me his '' I have a bit of extra timber i need to shift'' lol

I'd also say I'm stocky so I'm not one of these guys that has skinny arms and legs and then as a pot belly lol I have big arms (down to the gym) and big legs from playing footy all my life and a chunky butt haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou xx"

Just looked at your pics. I genuinely think you look confident, cheerful and fun.

I know chunky guys who do well on fab. They enjoy socials, clubs in some cases and networking. Personality outshines preconceptions about bodies in those situations. Works for me as a fat bird too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread...

To the OP, you’ve a fabulous partner so you don’t have too much to complain about.

I’m a larger guy also, and I’m into “curvy” women. That’s a shape, not a size! The more she has, (usually) the more certain visual aspects of femininity are enhanced. I’m thinking boobs and bums here, but then I’m almost always thing boobs and bums, lol.

So what do women want? As has been said many times here, they have the pick of the site. Some want ripped, others not, etc. Age, height, colour are all used as criteria. You’ve got to play the hand you’re dealt. Never be afraid to let your personality shine through. It makes a difference. For some, that difference can mean they choose you.

As a photographer (adult and glamour included) I’ve been fortunate to have photographed some absolutely stunning women. Of those, probably 98% had some hang up or confidence issue regarding their appearance. The 2% happy in their own skin not only photographed more easily, but were the ones who, if given the choice, you’d take out at the end of the shoot. There is a thin line however between confidence and arrogance.

Be who you are, and be true to yourself. We are all attractive to someone for some reason, not always a visual one.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a skinny man have a fuller figure and love a lady the same

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I don't like sucking dick when all i can see when i look up is belly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me curvy is a word used to describe certain women who have naturally fuller figure. Wide hips, big tits, thick thighs. But NOT fat. It’s their natural frame.

Therefore it’s impossible for a guy to be curvy. He doesn’t have the child bearing parts that create the curves. It’s just fat on a man. I think blokes write curvy on their profile because they think it sounds nicer than saying they’re fat.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"To me curvy is a word used to describe certain women who have naturally fuller figure. Wide hips, big tits, thick thighs. But NOT fat. It’s their natural frame.

Therefore it’s impossible for a guy to be curvy. He doesn’t have the child bearing parts that create the curves. It’s just fat on a man. I think blokes write curvy on their profile because they think it sounds nicer than saying they’re fat."

Honesty is not an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me curvy is a word used to describe certain women who have naturally fuller figure. Wide hips, big tits, thick thighs. But NOT fat. It’s their natural frame.

Therefore it’s impossible for a guy to be curvy. He doesn’t have the child bearing parts that create the curves. It’s just fat on a man. I think blokes write curvy on their profile because they think it sounds nicer than saying they’re fat.

Honesty is not an option. "

They can put athletic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

You’re obviously not as you have a number of verifications

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I don't like sucking dick when all i can see when i look up is belly."

I actually quite like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women have different figures, women tend to put weight on round the hips and boobs first.

Men round the middle.

What this means is that you still get a curve at the hips even on larger ladies.

This is a shape that is appealing to a lot of people.

I guess the expression for a guy on the larger side would be stocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really get into that frame of mind of thinking about your flaws.

You have to embrace yourself, most people have wobbly bits (I certainly do and I'm a size 8!)

Your best going to a club, a club has certainly bought out my confidence and I'm happy to walk about half naked. It's great fun and you can meet some lovely people.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't like sucking dick when all i can see when i look up is belly.

I actually quite like that "

To be fair, if i want to dehumanise the situation I'm in and concentrate on my own pleasure a good sized belly does make a good blinker!

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

Meaty... not so stocky... or curvy... just meaty

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Meaty... not so stocky... or curvy... just meaty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So women are attractive in all shapes and sizes curvy thin etc but it's not ok for men to be curvy would love to find a couple where the female is as interested in me as the female or am I just too fat xx ??"

Curvy is a body shape not size. A size 8 lady can be curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like sucking dick when all i can see when i look up is belly."

Same

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I don't like sucking dick when all i can see when i look up is belly."

I quite like that....I do like a guy with a bit of padding...girls too

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Op. The lady is ridiculously cute and in your current profile pic mr you clearly have a look of yeah people this is my girl check my badself. I love it. Great pic. Keep that attitude and stuff the haters i say.

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By *973 JimmyMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Women have a lot more latitude when it comes to being attractive, men need to be in pretty good shape, I don't know why this is but that seems to be how the human mind sees beauty. As a man who needs a bit of charity it's very frustrating.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Just as a different slant to this post. I am perhaps one of the unlucky guys. If you check my profile. Can eat , drink what i like and do not put any weight on. I do a lot of walking at work. So i am slim. Told how lucky i am by work friends. A lot of females and couples on here do not want slim guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my size is one of the reasons why I'm nervous about a club meet. I know I wont be the only one there of this build, but its still a slight mental block.

its weird though. when I am with someone I am 100% comfortable with my body. As I know that she doesn't have a problem with it or she wouldn't be there

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood


"my size is one of the reasons why I'm nervous about a club meet. I know I wont be the only one there of this build, but its still a slight mental block.

its weird though. when I am with someone I am 100% comfortable with my body. As I know that she doesn't have a problem with it or she wouldn't be there"

Once you're comfortable .. give it a go ... the block will soon come down

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