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People who don't turn up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You're right that it's a disappointment. Don't give a third opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to turn up my jeans...don't know why though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a second...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If they just didnt turn up,no second chance ,they 'd be blocked.

Miss

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester


"Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right? "

Unless there was a legitimate reason and communication before the time for not turning up the first time, there wouldn't be a second.

It only takes a second to send a message to someone to save a wasted journey or expense. Even if they just get cold feet, its better for them to be honest rather than "ghost" you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks, always nice to know I'm not alone in feeling that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse op you could go to then and find they're not interested

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right? "

2 opportunities is 1 too many in my book !

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right? "

Never give a second opportunity to someone who's let you down. Just block and move on.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

If they didnt turn up the first time and didnt give you a very reasonable reason why. Then you should have known. They are the type that "get off" on knowing you want to meet them.. best off ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a no show the other night but,as I always arrange to meet people at a time and place of my choosing,in this case a pub where I was going to be anyway,it's not a wasted evening. That's how to do it to avoid disappointment, don't put yourself out or go out of your way.Let them come to you and if they don't show up,it's their loss.

Had a very nice evening with three guys I met in the bar BTW.I said it was not a wasted evening.

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Always stings more after arranging a meet, building your hopes up, get excited. Then that disappointment they ghosted or didn’t show up. Until it happens to them, they won’t understand how much it stings.

We have lots of cancellations or people who just vanish before the arranged meet. A message softens the blow, it’s the not knowing why that hurts more. At least if it’s a valid reason you can move in or rearrange.

Don’t give a second chance if they didn’t warn you beforehand. You’re worth more than that. Xx

Mrs x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Report as a no show.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right?

2 opportunities is 1 too many in my book ! "

And mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely only one chance given if they don't let me know. Or at the last minute.

Block button is good.

They might get a second chance if a legitimate reason given.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Report as a no show. "

If there's any admin or mods viewing this thread what actually happens if we report as a no show please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report as a no show. "

You can do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report as a no show.

You can do that? "
yes its one of the reporting reasons specified by admin

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I agree with most. Dont give them a second chance, done it once so will prob do it again.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"If they just didnt turn up,no second chance ,they 'd be blocked.

Miss"

..and reported.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I agree with most. Dont give them a second chance, done it once so will prob do it again. "

One would think they do it on purpose for kicks. Keep you hanging on and hanging on until the very last minute. Maybe they get some pleasure out of knowing you could have been on a genuine meet and they've scuppered it.

Who knows? There's nowt as queer as folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ambition exceeding their ability

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Meet in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a disappointment, especially as they've had two opportunities, am I right? "
I'm disappointed for you

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I agree with most. Dont give them a second chance, done it once so will prob do it again.

One would think they do it on purpose for kicks. Keep you hanging on and hanging on until the very last minute. Maybe they get some pleasure out of knowing you could have been on a genuine meet and they've scuppered it.

Who knows? There's nowt as queer as folk."

Or keeping there options open incase a so called better meet appears and not tell you

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Report as a no show.

You can do that? yes its one of the reporting reasons specified by admin "

But what realistically happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to turn up my jeans...don't know why though??"

To catch any dropped coins??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report as a no show.

You can do that? yes its one of the reporting reasons specified by admin

But what realistically happens? "

Nothing

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Report as a no show.

You can do that? yes its one of the reporting reasons specified by admin

But what realistically happens?

Nothing "

So there’s no point in having that option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One chance why arrange to meet and not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the person has now left the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the person has now left the site! "

I sincerely doubt they will turn up now

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I agree with most. Dont give them a second chance, done it once so will prob do it again.

One would think they do it on purpose for kicks. Keep you hanging on and hanging on until the very last minute. Maybe they get some pleasure out of knowing you could have been on a genuine meet and they've scuppered it.

Who knows? There's nowt as queer as folk.

Or keeping there options open incase a so called better meet appears and not tell you"

Oh the irony if that "better meet" turned out to be a timewaster

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Thanks folks, always nice to know I'm not alone in feeling that way. "

Cool username though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly no shows seem a common occurrence across the board (couples, ladies & guys). Maybe it is me but it seems to be worse now than ever. Is it worth reporting them? Outing them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words fail me, I genuinely don't get it, please help me, is there people who go to all the "trouble" of getting a meet but also have a "rather have" meet lined up as well?

I know this isn't a dating site but surely respect and a modicum of commitment should prevail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After chatting to a woman for weeks we arranged to meet on Wednesday.I booked the day off work and rearranged all my plans for the day.

The time come and went and she didn't turn up.There was no sorrys from her and the only thing she did was block me on here and blocked my phone number x

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