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By *ornylad_30 OP   Man
over a year ago

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If you seen someone you knew on here would you let them know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, if they was interested and on a site like this and they wanted to play it would have already happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! I wouldn't want anyone coming up to me saying "is that you off fab?" So I wouldn't even consider doing it to anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn’t want to play with them I’d block them if I did want to play or wouldn’t mind playing with them, I’d browse there profile maybe wink at them just so they could see I was interested if they felt the same I’d never message them in case they didn’t want to play and could block me without any discomfort on their behalf

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By *ornylad_30 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Yes discretion is key. Seen past work colleagues on here before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few people have contacted me saying they know who I am. Tends to be silhouettes and blank profiles. Never seen anyone I know though. Perhaps I would say _ello, perhaps not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is suspicious lol

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By *ustafasinghMan
over a year ago

leicester

Today it actually happened. Where I work, I saw a lady from of here! I didn't serve her simply because I was walking around trying to check her out as well as double check it was her. I'm not in her age range so im glad I didn't but would loved to of told her I saw her on here and liked the look of her. However my boss served her but I'm pretty sure she saw me checking her out who knows aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few messages before from people who have seen me around and recognised me from here. I'd rather not know if some guy has seen me though, I find it a bit creepy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someone has recognised us on here. He lives very close and has sent a few suspicious messages. Would rather him just say he knows who we are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen people I know not bothered in saying anything but would not be bothered if they did to me as were both on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not!

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By *ustafasinghMan
over a year ago

leicester

Well just a little update,I met the lady who I saw yesterday again today. And well she made the approach after seeing my status. I was serving her (I was working) and she at the end of buying it said that she had messaged me with amazing confidence and I'm glad she had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

And I would rather people don't mention it when they recognise me in public especially if we've never met them before

~Mia

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth OYO Hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally got caught out by a mate...messaged me saying _ello (username) I tried to deny it...now I’ve removed all my naked pics.

Friends don’t need to see eachothers dicks lol

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Seen several people I know on here, I block and move on. Then have a little smirk yourself, when I see them again.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No way,wouldnt appreciate it myself

Let people be

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and we did. Led to some great playtime too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've been harassed in public so no, it's never acceptable to approach someone. A smile, nod or wink is fine.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I discreetly told one guy at work that I had seen him on fab, he took it well I think.

I recommended fab to another guy I work with and it turned out he was already on here so we showed each other our profiles.

Think as long as it's mentioned privately and not made a big thing of then it's OK to acknowledge the fact your both on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd when people panic instead of embracing it and asking you to please be discreet...

I seen a guy I went to school with on here as he messaged us a few times and we were genuinely interested the he sent face pics and it was someone I know very well.. I messaged him and said ‘oops we know each other mate and revieled our identity and reassured we would be discreet but could play’ and he blocked us immediately and also deleted me off his Facebook friends.. which I feel is a jerk reaction (no pun)... as I could of dropped him in the shit (obviously wouldn’t of).. instead of talking to us and having a mutual respect.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I find it odd when people panic instead of embracing it and asking you to please be discreet...

I seen a guy I went to school with on here as he messaged us a few times and we were genuinely interested the he sent face pics and it was someone I know very well.. I messaged him and said ‘oops we know each other mate and revieled our identity and reassured we would be discreet but could play’ and he blocked us immediately and also deleted me off his Facebook friends.. which I feel is a jerk reaction (no pun)... as I could of dropped him in the shit (obviously wouldn’t of).. instead of talking to us and having a mutual respect."

And with this attitude he was probably right to block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt. I was talking to someone a few weeks ago. She send a face pic after some lengthy chatting and it turned out to be one of my good friends who i regularly see at the local. I panicked and blocked her, now i just find it awkward as fuck talking to her. You never know whos on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn’t want to play with them I’d block them if I did want to play or wouldn’t mind playing with them, I’d browse there profile maybe wink at them just so they could see I was interested if they felt the same I’d never message them in case they didn’t want to play and could block me without any discomfort on their behalf "

This would be our approach too if it did happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been harassed in public so no, it's never acceptable to approach someone. A smile, nod or wink is fine. "
harassed that's a bit strong ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into a drinking buddy while we was in a swinging club and I'm sure my best mate found me on fab so I phoned him up and questioned him about it which he denied. I knew it was him due to his massive chin and a little tuff of hair on his chest. Strange enough the account got deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, and I'd expect the same courtesy in return.

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"Hell no, and I'd expect the same courtesy in return. "

This...

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Depends on the person. I've let friends know that I've seen them on swing/fetish sites before, and some friends have let me know the same. But I wouldn't let a work colleague or something know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd keep schtum. The only people I'd likely find that I knew would be either friends or family, and I have no desire to have either of them know about our sex lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't appreciate a stranger approaching me, however I have come across quite a few guys I went to school with and I chat with them but what annoys me is they think they can just get a fuck because I'm on a swingers site and they know me! But other than that I'm open about it all, visiting my aunties club tonight, it's only awkward if you make it awkward

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By *ornylad_30 OP   Man
over a year ago

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A year on and still find more people I know on here. I don't say anything to them in person as it's their business. I would probably feel comfortable telling them i was on here in person and then it's up to them if they want to say anything

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No. Its called discretion OP. Would you want someone outing you if they recognised you in public?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I discreetly told one guy at work that I had seen him on fab, he took it well I think.

I recommended fab to another guy I work with and it turned out he was already on here so we showed each other our profiles.

Think as long as it's mentioned privately and not made a big thing of then it's OK to acknowledge the fact your both on here."

Totally agree.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've been harassed in public so no, it's never acceptable to approach someone. A smile, nod or wink is fine. harassed that's a bit strong ??? "

Just to explain, it was in the middle of a public swimming pool the guy wouldn't leave me alone and even followed me into the changing rooms at one point. I left as I was made to feel so intimidated. He was with his kids which made it even worse. I also haven't been there since either.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I get recognized often at work by "mr single profile" who's normally with "mrs not a clue". Guys always start acting really odd and often the mrs picks up on it so I always drop "have a fab evening guys" into chat just to watch the guy have a total silent melt down....yes I'm evil and yes I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some years ago before the internet when contact mags were the way to meet people my girlfriend at the time really wanted to try two cocks so we advertised. It was a very long drawn out process but eventually we met this particular guy socially first and although i didnt think he was my girlfriends type she was getting horny wanting two cocks so we invited him to our place and had some fun . I think we met twice had some good threesome fun and then she decided that was enough with him and we moved on to meet others. Anyway a few years later she bumped into him in a work situation. She was visiting a company on business and he happened to be a guy on security reception. He approached her about another meeting but she declined. She had to return to this company regularly and discovered that he had told some work colleagues that he had had sex with her. Anyway when they asked her she denyed it vehemently and frankly she was really so totally out of his league that no ordinary person would think it possible and his mates didnt believe him. But it was a very awkward situation. I was working away at the time otherwise I may have taken it further. But it shows you things can go wrong with these illicit meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen tons of people on here from work and even one persons wife! Never let on and certainly wouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged a meet a couple of years ago.

A guy I know from my local pub turned up with his girlfriend.

Bit awkward at first. Still had a good time though

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By *ornylad_30 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I get recognized often at work by "mr single profile" who's normally with "mrs not a clue". Guys always start acting really odd and often the mrs picks up on it so I always drop "have a fab evening guys" into chat just to watch the guy have a total silent melt down....yes I'm evil and yes I enjoy it "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen 5 different people on fab i knew from outside fab. 2 fems who lived in my village and 3 guys who i used to work with. I see it as whats on fab stays on fab. I did let the 2 fems know who i was and it was all cool, even exchanged pics with one. Never told the guys, although all straight in normal life seemed to want to do things to my cock lol, but none clocked it was me.

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By *otwife and the HubbyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We would like it if someone on here did know who we are, that they would say hi, although be discrete away from Fab......

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By *harlie38Man
over a year ago

walsall

The daughter of an ex said she had seen me on here, surprised I asked what she was doing on here as she is a stunningly beautiful young (23)woman, she said she just wants lots of experiences before she settles down, she came back to mine and we had a very enjoyable and for me an extremely enlightening night. She is definitely not as vanilla as her mom was a few years ago.

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate


"The daughter of an ex said she had seen me on here, surprised I asked what she was doing on here as she is a stunningly beautiful young (23)woman, she said she just wants lots of experiences before she settles down, she came back to mine and we had a very enjoyable and for me an extremely enlightening night. She is definitely not as vanilla as her mom was a few years ago. "

Surely that can't be true? Haha mad if it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daughter of an ex said she had seen me on here, surprised I asked what she was doing on here as she is a stunningly beautiful young (23)woman, she said she just wants lots of experiences before she settles down, she came back to mine and we had a very enjoyable and for me an extremely enlightening night. She is definitely not as vanilla as her mom was a few years ago. "

The implication that stunningly beautiful young women shouldn't be on here is an interesting one...

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Word of warning to guys. If you see someone you know and recognise from the outside world ie the woman on the checkout at Tesco’s. Don’t messages them saying so. It scares the s... out of them!

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

I've had an old friend message me to say she recognised me but just so I didn't freak out if we bumped into each other at our local club and nearly every time we go to the club we bump into someone we know. I've actually rekindled an old friendship after spotting someone in a dungeon lol we've had loads of good nights since x

I don't worry about it cos we all here for the same reason so as long as everyone is discreet there's no worry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Word of warning to guys. If you see someone you know and recognise from the outside world ie the woman on the checkout at Tesco’s. Don’t messages them saying so. It scares the s... out of them! "

This! The good old "I was close enough to touch you" messages from profiles that consist of "fill in later" with zero pics is fucking horrid!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here... "

People on here seem to think it's odd my boss is on here and we laugh about it! When we are the closest people to each other we have a giggle about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here...

People on here seem to think it's odd my boss is on here and we laugh about it! When we are the closest people to each other we have a giggle about it

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Yeah I don't see why people get weird about seeing someone they know on here, after all your both on here for the same thing... I think its the when you don't know somone and they recognise you that it has the potential to be wierd but really it's all about how the situation is handled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here...

People on here seem to think it's odd my boss is on here and we laugh about it! When we are the closest people to each other we have a giggle about it

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Yeah I don't see why people get weird about seeing someone they know on here, after all your both on here for the same thing... I think its the when you don't know somone and they recognise you that it has the potential to be wierd but really it's all about how the situation is handled

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Word of warning to guys. If you see someone you know and recognise from the outside world ie the woman on the checkout at Tesco’s. Don’t messages them saying so. It scares the s... out of them!

This! The good old "I was close enough to touch you" messages from profiles that consist of "fill in later" with zero pics is fucking horrid!"

You're not kidding. Just creepy, no other word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New local profile sprang up a few months back.. parents in kids class from school.. went straight in with open face pics so was able to block but they left after a couple of days anyway ???

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here...

People on here seem to think it's odd my boss is on here and we laugh about it! When we are the closest people to each other we have a giggle about it

Yeah I don't see why people get weird about seeing someone they know on here, after all your both on here for the same thing... I think its the when you don't know somone and they recognise you that it has the potential to be wierd but really it's all about how the situation is handled "

Agreed, I'd rather have a discreet wink, nod or the fab word dropped into the chat than the creepy I saw you at blah messages afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have people at work recognise me... Sometimes they will drop into the conversation like oh are you anonymous? Which is either funny or awkward depending on the conversation and sometimes I'll get a message on here saying I saw you at work today which I think is a bit creepy (especially if there's no pic or info on who they are lol)... I'm like yeah okay? And what lol... My boss is on here and obvs we recognised each other and had to point out how funny it was coming across each other on here...

People on here seem to think it's odd my boss is on here and we laugh about it! When we are the closest people to each other we have a giggle about it

Yeah I don't see why people get weird about seeing someone they know on here, after all your both on here for the same thing... I think its the when you don't know somone and they recognise you that it has the potential to be wierd but really it's all about how the situation is handled "

It reflects how they use the site and how they see swinging in my opinion. I'm guessing many of those who are weirded are the sane demographic who could never date a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a male messaged us saying fucking hell didnt know you two be on here- cant wait show everyone in the pub so all face pics and distinctive tattoos all in private now 'realy spoiled it for us but blocked him n reported ' had an idea who it was so when in the local stood beside him and he wouldnt even look at us then and soon left

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