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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this quite common on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here?? "
afraid so hairy cock a paunch and no pics in public gallery of profile

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Yet it's the fit guys that are single.....

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yep.

What he said.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Are you interested in the husband's? If not, isn't that a good thing? Different if your looking to play with both of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest hubby is 56 and fitter than moi!

I puff walking up stairs!

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By *cedHoneyWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes!

The women carry their male partners on this site on the whole x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here?? "

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been looking at our profile haven't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?"

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

The women carry their male partners on this site on the whole x"

That's partly why me and the Mrs keep our own profiles..sell ourselves on our own merits. I never liked the idea someone would meet me because of my other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There there are those playing without their fit wives permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not in our case lol I’m so much more in trim than her indoors

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife."

That just the nature of the beast in general

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife."

Maybe women marry for personality and use fit looking guys like dildos? I mean, they must be doing something right if they've managed to stay with hot women even if they're bodies aren't gym fit. Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not in our case lol I’m so much more in trim than her indoors "

Yet you have no pics of yourself.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Not true in our case, Mr is so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread can see a few guys and gals looking at each other wondering who’s the fittest

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

You look okay to me OP

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

Im alot bigger than the mrs by about 9 stone, but im much fitter than her and she would tell you the same.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Sexy wife out of shape husband "

Hey, I resemble that remark!

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

have u taken one for the team....I have ..she short and very plump....mr very tanned muscles etc etc big cock ...mrs had to have it ...swapped up .....I took my beating lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im alot bigger than the mrs by about 9 stone, but im much fitter than her and she would tell you the same. "

Fitter how is the question

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’m 20 years older than my wife . That alone may be a good reason to suggest this thread may have a ring of truth to it .

But , strangely , I get plenty of female attention when we meet . Even though I don’t court it as I’m primarily voyeuristic .

So the male half of couples may be out of condition compared to the female , but still gets his share

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli


"Im alot bigger than the mrs by about 9 stone, but im much fitter than her and she would tell you the same.

Fitter how is the question "

Lol she is better looking though

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nope

Not in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im alot bigger than the mrs by about 9 stone, but im much fitter than her and she would tell you the same.

Fitter how is the question

Lol she is better looking though"

Good call buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in general seem to have lower standards on here due to the law of supply and demand. Not sure of the ratio but if our messaging is an indicator then lots more guys chasing fewer women/couples.

Guys in their 40s or 50s probably won’t generally look as good as the hundreds of guys in their 20s or early 30s. Same with women but guys will go 20 years up just for a shag. Women don’t seem to want to do that which is understandable.

Just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy wife - check

Out of shape husband - check

All good here.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli


"Im alot bigger than the mrs by about 9 stone, but im much fitter than her and she would tell you the same.

Fitter how is the question

Lol she is better looking though

Good call buddy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all the good food the wife makes for him.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I’m overweight, Mrs is very sexy, the only thing I can put it down too, is, wit, integrity, intellect, fun, humour that makes me not desperate and single.

And have been known to attract ladies in my own right...

Doing it wrong again, so will have to get used to being grumpy and grippy, to conform to stereotype.

Ho hum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all the good food the wife makes for him. "

Or in our case for myself. There's no way Mrs N should be let loose in the kitchen

She can burn water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's certainly true for a couple I know!

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife."

A good few times in clubs we have passed up on a couple because the male half is not what my wife is interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno i'd say me and the captain are the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look at how many couples profiles only have female in pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy wife out of shape husband

Hey, I resemble that remark!

"

you a sexy wife?

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By *cjacoupleCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Lol I made him put some pics on. Think if ur a couple uv got to be able to see both parts of the relationship not just the better half;) lol x x x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Men in general seem to have lower standards on here due to the law of supply and demand. Not sure of the ratio but if our messaging is an indicator then lots more guys chasing fewer women/couples.

Guys in their 40s or 50s probably won’t generally look as good as the hundreds of guys in their 20s or early 30s. Same with women but guys will go 20 years up just for a shag. Women don’t seem to want to do that which is understandable.

Just our opinion

"

I disagree, men in their 40's look great to me.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"Not true in our case, Mr is so much better. "

I disagree!

XY

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

ashford

Lot of guys, even the single ones who are married (me) are not in great shape, but it’s all in the perception. Some ladies like the bigger guy, not just muscular. I’ve always been big built without training, 18.5” neck 48 chest 36 waist, big thighs and calf’s

My Mrs hates skinny guys and “gym bunnies”.

All personal taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look okay to me OP "
Cheers lol

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

It’s just as common the other way round too

Evenly matched couples seem to be hard to find according to a lot of people we have spoken to

All depends what you are looking for I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look at how many couples profiles only have female in pics "

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the few clubs I’ve been too I’d say it’s quite common there too.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Sexy wife out of shape husband

Hey, I resemble that remark!

"

Mrs here, actually no he doesn't!!

He's a very sexy 52 year old who doesn't look a day over 42!! I'm a very lucky girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife.

Maybe women marry for personality and use fit looking guys like dildos? I mean, they must be doing something right if they've managed to stay with hot women even if they're bodies aren't gym fit. Right? "

This made me giggle

MrsK

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Sexy wife out of shape husband

Hey, I resemble that remark!

you a sexy wife?"

He thinks I am

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Men in general seem to have lower standards on here due to the law of supply and demand. Not sure of the ratio but if our messaging is an indicator then lots more guys chasing fewer women/couples.

Guys in their 40s or 50s probably won’t generally look as good as the hundreds of guys in their 20s or early 30s. Same with women but guys will go 20 years up just for a shag. Women don’t seem to want to do that which is understandable.

Just our opinion

"

Guy's will go 20 year's up just for a shag?! Ok...nice to know

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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It often works both ways we find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*spoken in the voice of Brian blessed *

I’m a sexual tyrannosaurus, I’ve got a body chiselled from solid granite, the face of a Greek god, a huge cock of solid gold and a personality to make a lion purr with pleasure.

Come... bask in my glory and I’ll teach you all to be worthy fab husbands.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Single women can have sex on tap.

Couples already have sex on tap.

Single guys need to fight over themselves to get any action whatsoever.

All regardless of what they look like too.

I detect sour grapes.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here??

Why do you care as a matter of interest?

It was an observation so just curious if others felt the same. So many sexy women on this site. I know of a few that have gone to clubs and find no one will play with the hubby. Yet theres a queue of men for the wife.

Maybe women marry for personality and use fit looking guys like dildos? I mean, they must be doing something right if they've managed to stay with hot women even if they're bodies aren't gym fit. Right? "

Totally right x

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli


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I detect sour grapes.

Ed"

I thought the same when i read the threads title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed that over a certain age the women look hotter than their partners. I don’t know if this is because women age better, or because there is more a women can do to sex herself up. Hairdye, corsets, high heels, lipstick. A women can flash some cleavage hense draw attention away from a mummy tummy. It’s much harder for a man to hide the aging process. My husband has a shave and puts on a nice shirt if he wants to look good.

Mrs

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I think I felt this more when I was part of a couple where there were more opinions on who liked who for it to work. We would often both like the woman but the man not for me. My other half seemed to get pissed off that I had standards and felt like he expected me to take one for the team. I never would and we’re clearly not together anymore!

I’ve noticed generally for couples that the woman is more attractive to me than the man. It’s very rare I’ll prefer the man to the woman but it does happen on odd occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I felt this more when I was part of a couple where there were more opinions on who liked who for it to work. We would often both like the woman but the man not for me. My other half seemed to get pissed off that I had standards and felt like he expected me to take one for the team. I never would and we’re clearly not together anymore!

I’ve noticed generally for couples that the woman is more attractive to me than the man. It’s very rare I’ll prefer the man to the woman but it does happen on odd occasions. "

I think you’d find this true a lot of the time I had a couple profile with someone I met on here we both still had our single profile but to find a couple we both liked was not easy at all and she was a unicorn before I found her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve also passed on couples where the guy hadn’t took care of himself, but the female is beautiful . We also Skip over couple profiles without male photos: I find the absence of them strange.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I can't understand why people let themselves go, I'll be 36 in a couple of months and still sporting abs whilst many of my old school mates have got fat, I'm determined not to get out of shape as I age! There's a guy goes to my gym who must be in his early 60's and is ripped, that's my aim to be like that

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

We arent really bothered what peoples physique is like. We like to socialise as well as fuck and in the grand scheme of things we do more of the socialising so if you can string a sentence together then looks are secondary.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I don't know about on here, because I don't really look for couples.

However, I do know that an awful lot of may mates in real life have been allowing themselves to slide for several years now and seem to have balooned/balded somewhat, whilst their wives have remained similarly built.

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By *appywarkscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlans

LOTS of couple profiles on here have normal sized men and out of shape women just like real life has.

We are all different - my wife is a lot younger than me, fitter, better looking and so on but as long as she is happy then that’s all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women can have sex on tap.

Couples already have sex on tap.

Single guys need to fight over themselves to get any action whatsoever.

All regardless of what they look like too.

I detect sour grapes.

Ed"

Nailed it right on the head. Maybe a reason they don't have a partner in the first place. Everybody has personal preferences

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Yeh there is a ring of truth about this. Makes it hard to find couples where you fancy both of them. Soooo many hot wifes with meh hubbys.

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Nope, where evenly matched in looks although Mr is trim and Mrs curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this quite common on here?? "
maybe it stems from being content they have a beautiful sexy wife that hopefully dotes on them so they don't have to try anymore so they drink beer and over eat while she looks hotter every minute and he just says in his head ' she's mine '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters it will always be the female half of the couples who gets the most attention regardless of how they look quite simply because most men would fuck the crack of dawn if they could get up early enough where as woman will tend to be a lot more choosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it matters it will always be the female half of the couples who gets the most attention regardless of how they look quite simply because most men would fuck the crack of dawn if they could get up early enough where as woman will tend to be a lot more choosey "
I'm choosey just not married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a loaded question with a big bunch of sour grapes chucked in for good measure.

I would elaborate but why feed the thing?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We find that in clubs, couples vary all shapes and sizes so there's something for everyone Fi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a loaded question with a big bunch of sour grapes chucked in for good measure.

I would elaborate but why feed the thing? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of you so called gym fit pieces of meat should know how much time they have spend working on it, especially as you get older. I work at the hospital and get about 2 hours a day for fitness and my partner works 60 hour weeks and pays a trainer to murder him twice a week.

As I enjoy the company of my partner, I would rather spend my free time with him than down the gym.

I had a gym fit boyfriend once who cared more about his abs than he did me.

The chunky boys will worship the ladies. The fit ones only worship themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles recently where I've thought cwwooooorrrr about the male half and been put off by their missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of you so called gym fit pieces of meat should know how much time they have spend working on it, especially as you get older. I work at the hospital and get about 2 hours a day for fitness and my partner works 60 hour weeks and pays a trainer to murder him twice a week.

As I enjoy the company of my partner, I would rather spend my free time with him than down the gym.

I had a gym fit boyfriend once who cared more about his abs than he did me.

The chunky boys will worship the ladies. The fit ones only worship themselves. "

Thing is, you also forget about the ones (myself included) who have a gym fit torso but don’t actually ever attend a gym and aren’t self obsessed unlike many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is, you also forget about the ones (myself included) who have a gym fit torso but don’t actually ever attend a gym and aren’t self obsessed unlike many "

Oh we could never forget about those ones.

If I am not being told how much a man can bench, I am reminded of those who didn't earn it and just won the genetic lottery while my partner kills himself to keep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B goes to the gym more than I do and doesn’t eat chocolate.

I think he is the one carry me at times.

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport


"Single women can have sex on tap.

Couples already have sex on tap.

Single guys need to fight over themselves to get any action whatsoever.

All regardless of what they look like too.

I detect sour grapes.

Ed"

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"have u taken one for the team....I have ..she short and very plump....mr very tanned muscles etc etc big cock ...mrs had to have it ...swapped up .....I took my beating lol x"

No we never would

I would hate to think anyone would meet one of us and consider it a hardship,so their partner could enjoy the other.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not looking for a gym bunny - that would be hypocritical but there’s a difference between natural shape and completely letting yourself go. Looking to socialise too, but the urges won’t be there if the mind and the eyes aren’t aroused and ideal I’d like to be up close and personal with some of these couples J

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Big beautiful men.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Men in general seem to have lower standards on here due to the law of supply and demand. Not sure of the ratio but if our messaging is an indicator then lots more guys chasing fewer women/couples.

Guys in their 40s or 50s probably won’t generally look as good as the hundreds of guys in their 20s or early 30s. Same with women but guys will go 20 years up just for a shag. Women don’t seem to want to do that which is understandable.

Just our opinion

"

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Is this quite common on here?? "

and to be honest vice versa!!!!!!

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