FabSwingers.com forum: Woman first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I send first messages on occasion, I’ve definitely been accused of being fake despite being verified several times

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends entirely on the message and profile really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol its just so rare for a woman to message 1st lol i know use go through alot of mail every day n its hard to message anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"

Truth?...Couldn't really say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not these days but when I very first started doing this I had a message from a really hot girl. I didn't believe she could be real so made her send me a picture of herself holding that days news paper! I can't believe she didn't just tell me to do one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not these days but when I very first started doing this I had a message from a really hot girl. I didn't believe she could be real so made her send me a picture of herself holding that days news paper! I can't believe she didn't just tell me to do one

Lmfao thats a good one al keep that in mind for the nxt woman to message me 1st lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm frequently being accused as fake. Pisses me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it happen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send first messages on occasion, I’ve definitely been accused of being fake despite being verified several times "

Same lol

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I've had many women message me first on here,usually telling me not to bother my hole messaging them but it still counts yes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had many women message me first on here,usually telling me not to bother my hole messaging them but it still counts yes?"

Lol yeah still counts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me first tess, message meeeee first. Lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the very rare occasion I received a first message from a lady, I blushed bright red

and ran out the room screaming.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I admit to ‘first messaging’ twice, one was to compliment the pictures and the other was to compliment the profile.

Assumptions, such as yours, deters many genuine females from sending messages.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I've had many women message me first on here,usually telling me not to bother my hole messaging them but it still counts yes?

Lol yeah still counts lol"

nice wan

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"

I send first messages when I’m planning a meet

I’m a real profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a girl messages me first..

I don't have time to think if they are a fake..

I just faint

But it does happen sometimes and when it does.....

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I just think here we go again and bet she hasn't even read my profile

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's a shame that fab makes people so cynical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
yes its rare but not unknown

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have messaged first a couple of times. The most memorable was a guy with a lime up

His arse. I messaged to say it was the first time I’d seen that on fab and he is the one getting my strap on up his arse on my pictures a few days later.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
At first I thought that but after a while I realized they were/are genuine. The odd one still comes through but easily spotted

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'm fake then

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

"I'm frequently being accused as fake. Pisses me right off"

Same and because we wouldnt meet a single guy we was also fake lol x

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"I have messaged first a couple of times. The most memorable was a guy with a lime up

His arse. I messaged to say it was the first time I’d seen that on fab and he is the one getting my strap on up his arse on my pictures a few days later.

V x "

...is the winner!

I dare say your beau might have got extra points were the lime also inside a bottle of a certain Mexican beer at the time.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have had girls message first, no big deal , I like it when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.

This is key, once you have a lady that will not waste your time, it means her time is valuable and she is free from mental bondage of society .

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.

Shame more guys don't get this part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am beginning to think about putting the filters up - there are only so many 'FAF' messages you can delete a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.

Shame more guys don't get this part

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They do

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nope doesn't usually phase me at all and don't tend to immediately think that either unless there's something really suss about the way they write or their profile and even then I give them the benefit of the doubt until they have enough rope to hang themselves

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think society makes the ladies over analyse things, like "would he think am too easy" , would he like me etc All these things are really not important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman messages me first, fuck me, mate, what planet do you live on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only messages I get first are from men haha. They also watch my cock cam and lots want me to be friends...where am I going wrong, 'lol

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think both guys and ladies need to stop looking for acceptance and validation in the opposite sex, I think it is more on the guys side, it is better to love and appreciate yourself first , I know a lot of ladies would like to message first but they worry too much about perception.e.g " am I too big , am I too skinny, is my breast too big, is my bum too tiny, would he like me etc

In my opinion if I like someone, I am going to talk to them. If they say no, I will move on, I think we need to overcome the fear of someone saying no, in my mind, if I talk to you and you say no , I see it as your loss not mine and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few first messages

usually if someone has caught my eye xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t happen often but had a few. For all I have read though on here about how men write crap messages and that’s why they get no response an deleted, the ones Iv had from couples or women are usually ‘send face pic’ or ‘hey you ok?’

Just to clarify though I don’t care. I’m just happy they messaged me first

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

The ones that message us first lately,need to read profile because they will message wanting to meet. We smoke they don't and they don't meet over 40 and we don't play separately so basicly all they did was look at pictures

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.

Shame more guys don't get this part

They don't get it because some of those messages come from fake profiles who DO waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send first messages on occasion, I’ve definitely been accused of being fake despite being verified several times

Same lol "

Nothing is real on here until the person is actually in front of you....

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By *rBukkakeMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I think 'oh ffs, not another tit pic. What happened to getting to know each other first?'

I'm lying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 just enjoy the ride..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love a message of a woman

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Hold on a sec....

I’m sure this is against the rules....

Women, girls, aren’t NOT allowed to message first, it’s the first rule of fabclub right???

I’m sure it’s rule 41.3 section c sub section 3.2i

Where are the mods to put these delirious people right

Ha women sending a first message, as if

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