FabSwingers.com forum: MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a big cock or a smaller cock?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We always go for bi black guys who are at least as big as me, preferably bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hubby is quite well equipped so prefer same or bigger usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As big as possible ??

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By *appywarkscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlans

Bigger every time - that’s a big part of why we do this

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You dont test drive a worse car do you..

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

For cuckold purposes bigger is kinda the point humiliation wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby def prefers to see me with a bigger one but I’m not into toooo big! However no point having anyone smaller for a night of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t care as long as it’s a guy we both click with & are comfortable with

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't care.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I feel for the guys who aren't blessed in the appendage department.

It seems many women aren't looking for a small or stubby one.

Visually they will also say they prefer one that's larger and thicker, I presume?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some guys enjoy the innocent humiliation as well as someone else pleasing their partner. So I assume many couples want bigger, then again some kinky couples like a guy with a smaller cock for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go for bigger than hubby as i love to make him jealous mmmm

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"For cuckold purposes bigger is kinda the point humiliation wise"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Some guys enjoy the innocent humiliation as well as someone else pleasing their partner. So I assume many couples want bigger, then again some kinky couples like a guy with a smaller cock for fun.

Erm. Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a threesome it's about the chemistry, everyone has to get on, the cock size doesn't really come into it for us.

It's no good inviting someone with a big cock if he doesn't know how to play/share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer a sense of humour ,and a guy who respects us and who thinks with his brain not his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger is better but not something we particularly pre-determine.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It’s not so important to me to be honest. I think big cocks are kind of cool and nice to handle. Horny to look at too but I’ve had a few experiences where they don’t perform so well as average guys.

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

"It’s not so important to me to be honest. I think big cocks are kind of cool and nice to handle. Horny to look at too but I’ve had a few experiences where they don’t perform so well as average guys. "
agreed

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

not sure it’s possible to find smaller

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

smaller, tiny or miniscule

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

He likes me to have huge cocks, I don't complain

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

S prefers guys to be no bigger than 8”, her choice, she actually prefers a little thicker than longer but really it’s down to personal chemistry. It’s all about fun! R

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?

Got nothing to do with cock size for us.

We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.

We're in this for a bit of fun.

We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.

Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to go for the bigger cocks. Plenty of them on here

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our meets always seem to be with well endowed guys as we love to share a cock!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Our meets always seem to be with well endowed guys as we love to share a cock!"

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Much bigger than my partner's tends to be uncomfortable (though nice to look at and play with), but other than that I'm not too bothered.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

" You dont test drive a worse car do you..

lol, yea bigger for us

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By *uncoupleyorkCouple
over a year ago

Nr chorely

What they said!!! ^^^^

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Jee is well endowed so no point having a second one to play with and it being smaller is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather a good personality....needs that before we even get close to losing the trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience most couples looking for a guy want him to be big. But also if that couple looks for a girl she can't be hotter than the Mrs

strange

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Definitely bigger. That means 8 inch minimum.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have never asked about cock size, it isn't something I'm bothered about.

We go for personality and attraction.

So far not met anyone bigger than Cal, so it's probably a good job

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of couples will only play with single guys who are smaller than hubby. Nothing wrong with that.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"In my experience most couples looking for a guy want him to be big. But also if that couple looks for a girl she can't be hotter than the Mrs

strange "

Pmsl. I’ve gotta ask, how is the latter message conveyed ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"In my experience most couples looking for a guy want him to be big. But also if that couple looks for a girl she can't be hotter than the Mrs

strange

Pmsl. I’ve gotta ask, how is the latter message conveyed ?

And also to all the totally hot fems who struggle to get meets with couples - listen up! I’m the opposite. I struggle to watch swing partners with ladies i don’t find attractive.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?

Got nothing to do with cock size for us.

We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.

We're in this for a bit of fun.

We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.

Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo. "

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've enjoyed a few MMFs - mainly with a FB in clubs. So far all the guys have been smaller than me and i'd really like us to play with a really big, thick cock. - at least bigger and thicker than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" You dont test drive a worse car do you..

Bigger is not necessarily better , it’s how you use it that counts .

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

When I played as a couple I didn’t really care as long as it wasn’t small. She didn’t like tiny winkys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BIG

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By *xxpineapplexxXCouple
over a year ago

Dorking

I prefer the same or bigger no point going small

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We both prefer bigger . For me the humiliation side but wife just loves bigger than my 8" cock as gets her very wet and gives her a huge thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L doesn't mind as long as the guy is respectful...which takes some doing lol

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"We both prefer bigger . For me the humiliation side but wife just loves bigger than my 8" cock as gets her very wet and gives her a huge thrill"

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

All things considered I prefer my wife to have someone bigger. The whole idea is to gather new experiences so why go for the same cock size that she has already? I also think she orgasms more with a bigger man inside her.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

When I'm meeting and going straight home to my partner I prefer bigger. I want him to be able to tell someone else has just fucked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too fussed. As long as they can do DVP it’s all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?

Got nothing to do with cock size for us.

We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.

We're in this for a bit of fun.

We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.

Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of invites to meets and parties just for this reason. I find it very flattering,but there is an expectation to perform like a bull.

Personally,I enjoy the intimacy with a woman,so I tend to be a gentle lover-it can disappoint people. It’s just my nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience as a single guy playing with couples, the hubby always likes the other guy to have a bigger cock as they love to see their lady pleasured with it. It turns hubby on as much as wifey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more about the guy attached to it not the size of his appendage

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"From my experience as a single guy playing with couples, the hubby always likes the other guy to have a bigger cock as they love to see their lady pleasured with it. It turns hubby on as much as wifey."

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By *he incognito twoCouple
over a year ago

near you

Its a Bigger for us also, its all about having something different from our every day.....Although black guys always seem to come out ahead of the rest we find

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By *ax55Man
over a year ago

Hertford

Doesn't bother me as its all fun for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same or bigger for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am surprised nobody wants a smaller one just for fun and to test whether the statement, "it's not about size it's about how you use it" can be used?

The hubby or regular partner would then feel more confident regarding size.

It appears that there are a few greedy people out there.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Size wouldn't be my first priority.

Someone I was attracted to, my partner & I felt at ease with would be more important.

A big cock would just be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greed is good for a guy with a big cock.

Let the big see the cock

And it’s normally same size for me and the wife.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I am surprised nobody wants a smaller one just for fun and to test whether the statement, "it's not about size it's about how you use it" can be used?

The hubby or regular partner would then feel more confident regarding size.

It appears that there are a few greedy people out there.

I don't want to drive a Lamborghini because it drives well. I want to drive it because it looks sexy.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

To be honest it shouldn't matter bigger or smaller as long as not pee wee, or a race horse, but it should be about the connection if the guy is the right person to meet

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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE

"Bigger every time - that’s a big part of why we do this"

Whats the point in

going smaller

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Bigger and darker

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Bigger, not longer but thicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest it shouldn't matter bigger or smaller as long as not pee wee, or a race horse, but it should be about the connection if the guy is the right person to meet"

We view it this way too.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"To be honest it shouldn't matter bigger or smaller as long as not pee wee, or a race horse, but it should be about the connection if the guy is the right person to meet

We view it this way too."

That's as maybe.. but "the first bite is with the eye".

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

big cock

she wont meet small ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger, always bigger.

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

People needing big ones must have big spaces that need filling. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the "size doesn't matter" has been blown out of the hot tub on this thread.

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

"big cock

she wont meet small ones"
That rules me out then.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

I'm 8" but wife prefers bigger and multiple cocks at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being tiny myself, I've no interest in big dicks, what's the point when half of its hanging out of me.

Yes I've seen amazing pics, some are very photogenic possibly more so than average/small and whilst I admire the pics, I've no desire to try big again.

I love rough sex, average sized is plenty, big just makes me feel like my internals are falling out for the next week and I've no interest in slow, intimate sex with strangers - only my hubby gets to see that side of me.

So for me I'd rather 2 or 3 average that fill me comfortably in the rough manner I crave

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

We don't obsess with size but broadly speaking average to a bit above average best suits my girlfriend. However for oral fun there is no size limit. The bigger it is the easier it is for us to suck on together.

One observation I feel obliged to mention though. I used to indulge in cuckolding couples when I was single and the cuck didn't have to have a cock smaller than mine for humiliation to play a part if they were so inclined.

With one particular couple part of the humiliation was based on the fact that my slightly smaller cock gave the man's wife so much more pleasure. Sometimes its the less obvious things that make cuck role play all the more effective

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By *hris For Long NightsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Personally... 99% of the time ive been asked to cuckold is due to size preference. Not to stereotyoe it just comes with part of the fantasy and the culture of someone bigger stepping in has been put in place. Im honestly of the opinion that its definitely more about ehat you can do with what you have and I can say that proudly as a very well endowed man. But to say size doesn't matter is just nonsense and alot of people use that as a fail safe go to place when the dont rruly know how to express their own views. Size matters because every singke person that likes a cock will have a preference weither they admit it or not. Some want a certain aize weither its big or small for physical pleasure, aesthetic purposes or whatever. Weither everyone wants a big one is of course a different matter all together but this whole "size doesn't matter" auto reply is just nonsense.

Size definitely matters, it just matters in different ways for different people.

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

"Personally... 99% of the time ive been asked to cuckold is due to size preference. Not to stereotyoe it just comes with part of the fantasy and the culture of someone bigger stepping in has been put in place. Im honestly of the opinion that its definitely more about ehat you can do with what you have and I can say that proudly as a very well endowed man. But to say size doesn't matter is just nonsense and alot of people use that as a fail safe go to place when the dont rruly know how to express their own views. Size matters because every singke person that likes a cock will have a preference weither they admit it or not. Some want a certain aize weither its big or small for physical pleasure, aesthetic purposes or whatever. Weither everyone wants a big one is of course a different matter all together but this whole "size doesn't matter" auto reply is just nonsense.

Size definitely matters, it just matters in different ways for different people. "

Oh I agree that size plays a part. I have been swinging for many a year and have what you might call a pragmatic perspective. There are no perfect specimens anywhere on this planet be they male or female. what one lacks in one area can be made up for elsewhere. Oh and I am not just referring to physical attributes but among other things personality and attitude too.

I loved cuckold roleplay so not looking like the porn representation of what a Bull should look like wasn't going to stop me. I was always upfront about what was inside the tin and it never hindered my fair share of pleasure with couples. I think every cuckold couple I met had a big cock fantasy. However the mere fact that we met and had fun confirmed that in many instances the desire for a big juicy cock is just one piece of a bigger jigsaw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care, unless it's for DP then either a similar size or slightly bigger. I'm not big enough down there to comfortably accommodate more than 2 average sized at a time (and before the smart arses tell me it stretches, yes it does, uncomfortably so, so average sized is just fine for 2 at a time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hubs quite well endowed so a little smaller

don't want my lady end up wiyh a bucket lol

... plus hub has very tight ass

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By *evilmancoolMan
over a year ago

london

Good afternoon swingers. I’m relatively new to this and am eager to explore my sexuality with a couple. Met a few lovely ladies but am mostly just a wanker to be honest, good thing I can keep my self occupied in more than own way. I live in north London but am happy to travel and be a regular playmate

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