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Any one have the same problem

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By *ew here 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm having problems trying to meet sexy women.

I message lots of lots of women and not getting any replys and I doing every thing that people has ask me to do

Anyone else having the same problem?

Please get in touch

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We all have the same problem on here OP.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I have the same problem too

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

hang in there

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By *ew here 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"We all have the same problem on here OP. "

I understand bit I'm not got a six and not 6 foot. Can you help me

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice

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By *ew here 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I have the same problem too "

I would meet you sexy lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe bear in mind that women will usually check a profile before even opening a message..

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By *ew here 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice"

I can't as you not taking messages from me. I would do anything to change this xx

If you can help I be greatfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the nature of the site OP women can be very choosey and messaging lots and lots of women as you say may now put then off further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies might be put off by the fact your profile says your straight but you’ve been verified by 2 men you’ve met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance and good manners is a must for me. Doesn’t have ladies queuing at my door but I do get replies and the conversations carry on from there. Even if no meets are arranged, I have made a new friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm having problems trying to meet sexy women.

I message lots of lots of women and not getting any replys and I doing every thing that people has ask me to do

Anyone else having the same problem?

Please get in touch "

is it only sexy women your trying to meet,maybe try un sexy women

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By *ew here 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I'm having problems trying to meet sexy women.

I message lots of lots of women and not getting any replys and I doing every thing that people has ask me to do

Anyone else having the same problem?

Please get in touch

Any women really open minded

is it only sexy women your trying to meet,maybe try un sexy women "

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I have the same problem too

I would meet you sexy lady x"

But your not a sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a bit like conversion from Imperial to metric, some measurements don't translate well.

Fab inches are shorter than Imperial inches.

Fab straight is often "situationally bi".

8 weeks is about a day in Fab years. Stick with it though, there are a lot of gems just waiting to be discovered!

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice

I can't as you not taking messages from me. I would do anything to change this xx

If you can help I be greatfull"

Hmm I have high filters but can’t see what’s stopping it. I’ll message you now so it unblocks

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice

I can't as you not taking messages from me. I would do anything to change this xx

If you can help I be greatfull

Hmm I have high filters but can’t see what’s stopping it. I’ll message you now so it unblocks"

You have a silhouette avatar. That’s causing my filter and is a put off for some women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I have the same problem

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You only had a meet last week op

Maybe work on what you can offer others

Miss

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole

Rest assured, you are by far NOT the only one with this 'problem'. In fact, it's not a problem unless you see it as one. I'm afraid it's part & parcel of the site. Patience is key my friend. Don't take things too seriously &/or to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me message others on here for it often to be read or unread and ignored but such is life ,but we feel it’s only rite to respond even if with a polite not for us

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some ladies might be put off by the fact your profile says your straight but you’ve been verified by 2 men you’ve met? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Some ladies might be put off by the fact your profile says your straight but you’ve been verified by 2 men you’ve met? "

Yup. Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My major problem and issue today that's getting me really angry is my friend brought me a box of Thorntons continental chocolates and she said I can't open them until Christmas.

There just sat on the shelf looking at me calling my name and saying eat meeeeeeee

Now your little problem of getting no replys or meets is insignificant compared to my major problem so stop moaning and realise there's people in the world that are worse off.

Like me with my chocolate problem so STOP MOANING x

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice

I can't as you not taking messages from me. I would do anything to change this xx

If you can help I be greatfull"

One line message to women when they get 50 a day, not saying anything to interest or stand out, begging to meet (even though it was an offer for advice only) and whinging about me being like all the rest when I turn you down sums it up the problem.

Remind me again why I offered to help?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Why don’t you send me a typical message and I’ll give you some honest advice

I can't as you not taking messages from me. I would do anything to change this xx

If you can help I be greatfull

One line message to women when they get 50 a day, not saying anything to interest or stand out, begging to meet (even though it was an offer for advice only) and whinging about me being like all the rest when I turn you down sums it up the problem.

Remind me again why I offered to help? "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have this problem

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I have the same problem "

Me to

Sympathy shag??

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Some ladies might be put off by the fact your profile says your straight but you’ve been verified by 2 men you’ve met? "

What this says^^^^

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By *elshjohnMan
over a year ago

whitland

Same problem here as well

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is normal but you cannot look at it as a problem because it's not, all you need to do is increase the number of women you talk to, I would rather you did this face to face.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP this is now the third or fourth thread you've started along these lines - why not take some of the very good advice people have taken the time to give in the previous ones rather than starting yet another one?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It always surprises me that guys are surprised that they don't get a free fuck after sending out an unsolicited message on Fab. Get to a club and meet real swingers face to face - it's an effort but worth it.

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By *urvyDawnWoman
over a year ago

Dursley,

Says that your straight but your looking for tv's !!! Can't be straight then can you !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the problem is people think it’s a “send a message get a reply and a fuck” not saying that’s you OP but it’s not people do have lives and choose FAB to use as and when they like buddy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Green arrow time... Take the advice already given on your previous threads OP. Enough said. #rumbled.

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"It always surprises me that guys are surprised that they don't get a free fuck after sending out an unsolicited message on Fab. Get to a club and meet real swingers face to face - it's an effort but worth it."
Our thoughts too sandb

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It always surprises me that guys are surprised that they don't get a free fuck after sending out an unsolicited message on Fab. Get to a club and meet real swingers face to face - it's an effort but worth it.Our thoughts too sandb "

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