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"We love it both all the same but never seem to be many about? We know single women are harder to come by as there choice, were guessing is website wide, but couples with bi or bi curious fem is also harder to come by. Are they becoming just a rare? " as you haven't asked for profile advice I can't give it, perhaps say what you are looking for and what you can offer. | |||
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"We love it both all the same but never seem to be many about? We know single women are harder to come by as there choice, were guessing is website wide, but couples with bi or bi curious fem is also harder to come by. Are they becoming just a rare? as you haven't asked for profile advice I can't give it, perhaps say what you are looking for and what you can offer. " we have what we are looking for on our profile but how do you put what you offer without sounding weird, never been good at kinda advitising ourselves. Personally I, Saphire, have never had much self confidence so dont know how to put it as I sort the main of the profile and he dont really know how to put it into words, I know not on advice forum but any would be appriciated x | |||
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"Don’t think so. An increase in “couples” that are actually fishermen. Or even just the perception of that, leading to a wariness. But still, lots ..." yes, guess so there actually x | |||
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"I dont think we are rare... but in my experience cpls usually have something or someone particular in mind regarding the type of play they like and it can be hard finding that woman whom ticks all the right boxes. For us ladies, we have to like 2 people and be liked by 2 people, as well as be found attractive and be on the same page sexually. And on top of that that theres wading through all the potentially negative stuff like is it really a cpl, is the lady really bi or just going along with it for the sake of keeping their man happy, do both people play or just the lady, is there one set of rules for the guy (no kissing no penetration for example)and another for his partner? All things Ive come across in my years! " yes, definatly see your point there but meets at all wouldnt happen between couples and singles then, everyone has the right to be corsious (sorry, cant spell) especially when being a single as you only have yourself to look out for. But also, some dont even like to chat to get to know, understand when no is the case, attraction isnt there etc, not a problem but its when the chats going and then nothing, so questions dont get answered and personalities dont get picked up on x | |||
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"I dont think we are rare... but in my experience cpls usually have something or someone particular in mind regarding the type of play they like and it can be hard finding that woman whom ticks all the right boxes. For us ladies, we have to like 2 people and be liked by 2 people, as well as be found attractive and be on the same page sexually. And on top of that that theres wading through all the potentially negative stuff like is it really a cpl, is the lady really bi or just going along with it for the sake of keeping their man happy, do both people play or just the lady, is there one set of rules for the guy (no kissing no penetration for example)and another for his partner? All things Ive come across in my years! " Exactly this | |||
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"Maybe as a couple it looks that way as you both have to be appealing to the people you want to meet. As a bi female in a couple we find mutual attraction all round can be difficult to find and I'm also really fussy. " too true actually, I wouldnt say fussy but I suppose its just all about mutually everything that might be whats harder to come by. x | |||
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"I dont think we are rare... but in my experience cpls usually have something or someone particular in mind regarding the type of play they like and it can be hard finding that woman whom ticks all the right boxes. For us ladies, we have to like 2 people and be liked by 2 people, as well as be found attractive and be on the same page sexually. And on top of that that theres wading through all the potentially negative stuff like is it really a cpl, is the lady really bi or just going along with it for the sake of keeping their man happy, do both people play or just the lady, is there one set of rules for the guy (no kissing no penetration for example)and another for his partner? All things Ive come across in my years! " | |||
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"The site is full of bi women Most of thw ones in our updates are looking for bi fem couples/women. They seem high in demand,maybe try clubs if you struggle. Miss" might just be short of them locally then. thinking might be a start and change. x | |||
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"I dont think we are rare... but in my experience cpls usually have something or someone particular in mind regarding the type of play they like and it can be hard finding that woman whom ticks all the right boxes. For us ladies, we have to like 2 people and be liked by 2 people, as well as be found attractive and be on the same page sexually. And on top of that that theres wading through all the potentially negative stuff like is it really a cpl, is the lady really bi or just going along with it for the sake of keeping their man happy, do both people play or just the lady, is there one set of rules for the guy (no kissing no penetration for example)and another for his partner? All things Ive come across in my years! " | |||
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