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By *ustdoomnow OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

So, how many times do you forgive being let down? A good, legit excuse first time, an even better one second time.. Third, mmmmm...

Someone you've chatted to for ages, seems legit till you meet. Then starts to get shitty cause they cancel on you.... Or is that just me? 4 is my limit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

One is our limit unless it's a plausible reason. Never, ever more than two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, how many times do you forgive being let down? A good, legit excuse first time, an even better one second time.. Third, mmmmm...

Someone you've chatted to for ages, seems legit till you meet. Then starts to get shitty cause they cancel on you.... Or is that just me? 4 is my limit. "

Once if it's plausible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much I like them, I'll be honest.

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By *ustdoomnow OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Guess being male, I don't get that many offers anyway. Though I am starting to believe I'm a gullible twat

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

2 tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just once, if it's genuine. Otherwise no second chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the once, nobody is worth it twice

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By *iss FontaineWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

Once very rarely possibly twice!!

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Always one. Most don’t even give a reason for cancelling but if they come back apologising with a reason I always give another chance. Never twice though!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

3rd strike their out! Blocked and no go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I'm normally prepared to give a second chance if they cancel with a bit of notice and the reason seems plausible. If they cancel a second time that's it!!

This also goes for people I've previously met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all very busy and last minute things can always crop up with kids etc so I’m very understanding, if it’s someone I hardly know then I guess 2 chances but if it’s someone I’ve chatted to for ages and like, then I’ll give them more chances. I chatted with a lady for what seemed like weeks and every date we arranged she wouldn’t cancel, I think I got to about 5 attempts and gave up in the end

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I appreciate real life can get in the way of a meet, whether that be unwell kids or pets, broken down car, getting lost, travel delays... there are many things that get in the way and I'm sure we all have experienced unforseen circumstances that have caused to get somewhere late...

For me a pragmatic approach needs to be taken and the merits of the situation weighed up.

That said, two no shows and I'll be dropping her faster than a still warm turd...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

1 if I do take a chance with someone unverified 2 for verified then blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 chance only. Why spend more time on someone who didn't show when there's loads more who will.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Two strikes and you’re out.

Never understood Baseball...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have let people down do we understand that it happens. All this one chance malarkey is hilarious as some people must have very stress free idyllic lives where nothing unexpected happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once. No need for idiots in my life

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"One is our limit unless it's a plausible reason. Never, ever more than two."

Ditto

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By *heeky_subCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Normally just the once.

However, this time the guy I'm seeing has cancelled on me twice, and now I can't figure out if I'm an idiot or do I walk away.

I honestly don't know what advice to give.xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Normally just the once.

However, this time the guy I'm seeing has cancelled on me twice, and now I can't figure out if I'm an idiot or do I walk away.

I honestly don't know what advice to give.xx"
walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the reason people let you down is simply cos they arranged the meet when feeling horny as , but on the day had no horny feeling at all..

the excuses /reasons are usually made up bolox lol, you can just tell..

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

One chance only

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port


"Just once, if it's genuine. Otherwise no second chances "

Absolutely

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Second chance ...only if they have given prior notice, and it is a reasonable excuse in my mind.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Shit happens, if someone has to cancel with what seems a genuine & plausible reason, then yes I'd give them a second chance.

But no more..

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Shit happens, if someone has to cancel with what seems a genuine & plausible reason, then yes I'd give them a second chance.

But no more..

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a no show, they wouldn't get another chance. As for a cancellation, it does depend on the reason. Things happen. I've given someone two chances, then blocked. If it's a regular meet, I tend to be a little more relaxed about cancellations.

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