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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so during a conversation with Saz yesterday it occurred to me that I am now 35 and no longer of toy boy age. The issue is that I have always had a thing for older, expensively dressed women. In the range of 35-45, sometimes 50 if they look like Vanessa Belle.

The issue is that my lusts have not changed but as I get older am I becoming less likely to appeal to this demographic?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Easy tiger you don't want to be pushing too much toward's the 50 year old women,that's really really old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And theres not to many hotwifes over 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a thing in Instagram about how I’m at an age where I can fancy a guy, and potentially his dad! I guess that’s reflected in my age range on here.

I’ve always preferred an older (than me) guy but recently realising that it’s rare to come across anyone even in their late 20s that does t for me. But then remembered I’m nearing 30 now myself

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone ever noticed that as we all get older the age limits on our profiles remains unchanged...unless we actually change them.

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York

Surely age doesn't mater if you like each other then go for it don't worry about age who has the right to judge

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest "

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

From my experience 50 can be a turning point for some ladies - I’ve met a number who say they have found / discovered a libedo they had never had before - And want more and enjoy Sex more than they have ever done before - One lady who when I first met her was very shy vanilla with no major interest is now a very Hotwife who cannot hey enough of me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I pointed out to a couple that I was 14 years above their age range they got crappy and blocked me lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age"

Easy for you to say with that body - wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concened about your age before you even hit 40 ..gosh you have quite a few unsettling years left in front of you ... my wife is hot (believe me she is) and in her sixties...age happens unless you are very unfortunate...the head and heart don't transform that much and your pretty much formed by the time your 30..so the rest of the space we inhabit is what we call life

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age

Easy for you to say with that body - wow! "

Oh thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concened about your age before you even hit 40 ..gosh you have quite a few unsettling years left in front of you ... my wife is hot (believe me she is) and in her sixties...age happens unless you are very unfortunate...the head and heart don't transform that much and your pretty much formed by the time your 30..so the rest of the space we inhabit is what we call life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age

Easy for you to say with that body - wow!

Oh thankyou!"

It is true. You are ridiculously hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely age doesn't mater if you like each other then go for it don't worry about age who has the right to judge "

Age does matter a little bit. True that sexual attraction is somewhat ageless but have you ever tried to have a conversation with an 18 year old. I wasn't keen when I was one.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"OK so during a conversation with Saz yesterday it occurred to me that I am now 35 and no longer of toy boy age. The issue is that I have always had a thing for older, expensively dressed women. In the range of 35-45, sometimes 50 if they look like Vanessa Belle.

The issue is that my lusts have not changed but as I get older am I becoming less likely to appeal to this demographic?"

Take a positive slant about the aging process; think about all those nubile, sylph-like young females lusting after an older, experienced man.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not in the least worried about my age. Just that I am now too old for a hot cougar to show me her ropes.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age

Easy for you to say with that body - wow!

Oh thankyou!"

I wish I was that hot 10 years ago!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever noticed that as we all get older the age limits on our profiles remains unchanged...unless we actually change them.

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I change mine annually. It makes no difference to my success rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy tiger you don't want to be pushing too much toward's the 50 year old women,that's really really old! "

Nonsense.....50 is a number and you look nowhere near that number.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I'll be 50 next year but have always preferred older men anyway.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Easy tiger you don't want to be pushing too much toward's the 50 year old women,that's really really old! "

Speak for urself. Ur only as young as the man u feel

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By *issT45Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Concened about your age before you even hit 40 ..gosh you have quite a few unsettling years left in front of you ... my wife is hot (believe me she is) and in her sixties...age happens unless you are very unfortunate...the head and heart don't transform that much and your pretty much formed by the time your 30..so the rest of the space we inhabit is what we call life"

Love this and totally agree

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

If you still turn heads and attract flirtatious glances when you walk into the restaurant / pub / club, it doesn't matter what age you are.

We've always felt sexy, but we can honestly say we are feeling sexier this year than we have for a while.

Confidence and a healthy gym regime helps

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Age may be just a number but I want a younger guy to be more mature and an older guy to still have a youthful outlook on life!

Somewhere there’s a balance and there’s some great guys on here regardless of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not in the least worried about my age. Just that I am now too old for a hot cougar to show me her ropes."

I know I'm well over 50 but I find guys in their thirties just perfect for me so don't give up OP you will still be a sexy toyboy to some older ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest "

That is highly unlikely. Wow!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are now 60 and 58 and it amazes us how many contacts we get from people younger than our lower age limit of 39. I suppose we should take it as a compliment rather than complain that they hav'nt read our profile.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are now 60 and 58 and it amazes us how many contacts we get from people younger than our lower age limit of 39. I suppose we should take it as a compliment rather than complain that they hav'nt read our profile.xx"

I can see why - you both look gorgeous

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nothing wrong with us 50+ females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are now 60 and 58 and it amazes us how many contacts we get from people younger than our lower age limit of 39. I suppose we should take it as a compliment rather than complain that they hav'nt read our profile.xx

I can see why - you both look gorgeous"

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mid 30's a good age, I'm clearly fine with that age of meet, I'm more concerned that as I near 50 I'll get less interest

Nar don't worry about that,you'll still get the odd one or two that isn't fussy about age"

Never mind that analogy, how about mine; I think the closer you are to 50 the more fuckable you become.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I don't see age as a problem.

I'm enjoying my life

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