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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive never been with a lady but always been curious. Obviously i get plenty offers off cpls on here to join them.ive never followed through with it tho as ive always been scared im gona freak out or go shy lol. Any advice?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ive never been with a lady but always been curious. Obviously i get plenty offers off cpls on here to join them.ive never followed through with it tho as ive always been scared im gona freak out or go shy lol. Any advice?"

Try doing a few socials with them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd advice to meet a woman alone first there's a lot less pressure off one person then two.

If you do decide to go with a couple talk a lot first build up a trust, confidence, discuss boundaries and expectations.

If you find a nice couple you'll feel right about them.

You can alway change your mind.x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead."

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

Why?"

Because of my job id need discretion and at my local club you see everyone there

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

Why?

Because of my job id need discretion and at my local club you see everyone there"
then don't go to a local one?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

Why?

Because of my job id need discretion and at my local club you see everyone therethen don't go to a local one?! "

Id struggle with childcare

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

Why?

Because of my job id need discretion and at my local club you see everyone therethen don't go to a local one?!

Id struggle with childcare"
Seems to be that every suggestion that we give you, you find a reason not to do it. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it.I always wanted to try ffm but was to nervous.I recently pushed myself through the nerve barrier and I've not looked back as it was as good as I expected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club, so you can gauge the couple is right for you. If they're not you can chat to another, or a single guy instead.

Going to a club is out of the question for me.

Why?

Because of my job id need discretion and at my local club you see everyone therethen don't go to a local one?!

Id struggle with childcare Seems to be that every suggestion that we give you, you find a reason not to do it. Good luck OP. "

Its not my fault if i have childcare issues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a blindfold? If you enjoy receiving oral, you won’t know which one is pleasuring you and it’ll add to the excitement?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"What about a blindfold? If you enjoy receiving oral, you won’t know which one is pleasuring you and it’ll add to the excitement? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a local club but wear a mask? Yeah might be a bit strange but it’s compromising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always like to do a social first, just to make sure there’s a chemistry between all parties,

We’ve also entertained the idea of the two females having some time alone before I join them, it’s really just down to you being open and honest and the 3 of you working together to make sure everyone is comfy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always like to do a social first, just to make sure there’s a chemistry between all parties,

We’ve also entertained the idea of the two females having some time alone before I join them, it’s really just down to you being open and honest and the 3 of you working together to make sure everyone is comfy "

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Carefully select couple that looks like they might match what you want build up rappor by message / email if good chat to LADY on phone - If still good have a social meet in public place with both of them or if you wanted - two social meets one with lady then both - Be sure they understand your reservations and if you’ve got all that right then in any situation they should fully understand if you say No and that can be at ANY time - Golden rule No means No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a problem in meeting the lady alone, the women we’ve met wanted to meet us both to see how chemistry was with all the relevant parties etc. If the two ladies got on but the guy didn’t afterwards it would create an issue for a couple who wanted a FFM.

Also, try hard to pick couples who don’t get jealous or restrict anything you want to do. We’ve been told time and time again by girls we’ve met that when a female gets into the action she’s sometimes not allowed to do certain things, which is off putting.

pick a couple who genuinely want to play with a girl, rather than a girl who wants to play with a girl “because her man deserves it”. That puts the guy on an unnecessary pedestal. If you want to play with both a guy and girl, ensure you get to do what you want with both

And not feel left out. We’ve always been complimented on the fact that Chelsea and I both focus on the girl together and that they got to play with us both.

Finally get all three of you out, get dressed up, have a few drinks and then just let nature takes its course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say we admire your honesty as very few females who claim they wish to meet a couple actually do, most bottle out on the 11th hour.

Some good advise from the above couple and we are much the same. We will suggest a purely social meet at first in the hope it would make the lady more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must say we admire your honesty as very few females who claim they wish to meet a couple actually do, most bottle out on the 11th hour.

Some good advise from the above couple and we are much the same. We will suggest a purely social meet at first in the hope it would make the lady more relaxed."

Ive spoke to cpls in the past but never really found one im intetested in enough lol.

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over a year ago

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Just go for it.I always wanted to try ffm but was to nervous.I recently pushed myself through the nerve barrier and I've not looked back as it was as good as I expected."

your welcome to pop up to K4Towers

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