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Unicorns do you exist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right"

If unicorns did exsist, I dont think they would have a computer or be able to type to reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right

If unicorns did exsist, I dont think they would have a computer or be able to type to reply lol"

Are you suggesting they don't exist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right

If unicorns did exsist, I dont think they would have a computer or be able to type to reply lol

Are you suggesting they don't exist ? "

No, just if they do - they wont be able to reply so it will still be a mystery

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By *akemetobedeyesWoman
over a year ago

Knaresborough

Oh but we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, just if they do - they wont be able to reply so it will still be a mystery"

Scotlands belief is all the proof we need

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Unicorn here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest what’s a unicorn

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn"

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable."

Too quick for this time of a day!!..lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable."

That’ll be 30% of people on fab then if you include the majority of single blokes and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever seen me in the same room as a unicorn? I think not!

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable."

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the impression that the unicorn was a single, gorgeous, bisexual woman?

Or a stallion with a horn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought a unicorn was a single bisexual woman who joins MF couples for threesome fun?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unicorn here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waves*

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable.

That’ll be 30% of people on fab then if you include the majority of single blokes and couples"
a lot less than 30%and yes, I'm one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a unicorn was a single bisexual woman who joins MF couples for threesome fun?

Mrs"

That was my understanding aswell.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're still looking for a lady to join us for threesome fun.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I thought a unicorn was a single bisexual woman who joins MF couples for threesome fun?

Mrs"

That is the general used definition. Single, bi-fem ladies do exist, and lots of great ones about.

I think the main issue is 'unicorns' are wary of unicorn hunters and quickly disappear when the hunters appear

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We're still looking for a lady to join us for threesome fun. "
Perhaps try posting a meet as not everyone reads the forums x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Out of interest what’s a unicorn

A single, georgous woman. Often unobtainable.

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the impression that the unicorn was a single, gorgeous, bisexual woman?

Or a stallion with a horn "

I didn't want to presume sexual preferences

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I thought a unicorn was a single bisexual woman who joins MF couples for threesome fun?

Mrs

That is the general used definition. Single, bi-fem ladies do exist, and lots of great ones about.

I think the main issue is 'unicorns' are wary of unicorn hunters and quickly disappear when the hunters appear "

I would add that there are a lot of fake profiles around, too

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right

If unicorns did exsist, I dont think they would have a computer or be able to type to reply lol

Are you suggesting they don't exist ?

No, just if they do - they wont be able to reply so it will still be a mystery"

Unicorns are definitely a mythical creature..

However narwhals do exist and swim very well...

Happiness is a wet narwhal..

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

Stamps feet and has a tantrum!!

Not fair!!! Lol

I will happily meet a couple for a threesome but do you think I can find a lady to come play with me and my partner?? A big no!!!

So I'm giving up!!

Let's face it its all about looks and when your a plain Jane there is no chance in meeting a lady when your a couple!!

Or you get chatting to a single lady who turns out she's actually a couple looking for a lady. Lol

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Yes, but luckily I can run away from unicorn hunters very, very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do! We just get poached a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite. "

Not athletic, slim or fit...so I shan't message you, but good luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite.

Not athletic, slim or fit...so I shan't message you, but good luck "
same here hun but never mind lol

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

I so want a unicorn for us both, is it just a fantasy?

the guilt of having MMF meets makes me want to balance the books, (although Mr does love seeing Mrs with 2 cocks and who am I to argue)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite. "

Great profile. Shame you guys are so far.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I want a unicorn to myself...no sharing....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#waves#

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite. "

Just not looking to be a sex toy for a couple, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I’ve learnt about swinging is there’s no point in looking. We’ve always found our best swinging friendships (male or female) when we don’t look. There is a lady we hang out with on the swing scene, but the friendship happened by chance. I doubt she would have been interested if we had approached her on Fab - there are so many more suitable couples than us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite.

Just not looking to be a sex toy for a couple, to be honest."

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Nice to see some exist. Why don’t you come by or page and see if we are your thing. Unicorn hunters scare unicorns? We don’t bite.

Just not looking to be a sex toy for a couple, to be honest."

Single women should treated just the same as couples or single guys. Swinging is about people coming together for mutual fun. That means everyone in the meet. That's when it works well.

Finding anyone to bring in as a toy doesn't work what ever their sex or relationship status. Unicorn hunting perpetuates this, and makes it harder for the couples who 'get it' and the single ladies who want to play in ffm's in the right situations.

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman
over a year ago

Herts

We definitely do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of lovely 'unicorns' on here, but compatibility with couples is often the stumbling block. It is rare to find a match, but when you do it's a fantastic and special experience, and yes, I am talking from personal experience of being a single fem.

Angel

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves."

Because most couples don't play seperately and most don't want to trade the fem half in exchange for something else.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves.

Because most couples don't play seperately and most don't want to trade the fem half in exchange for something else."

Plus it's really gross using women as a bargaining chip in that way.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves.

Because most couples don't play seperately and most don't want to trade the fem half in exchange for something else.

Plus it's really gross using women as a bargaining chip in that way."

My post could be mis-read, I meant it to read like they aren't a 'thing' to be traded in return for something else.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves.

Because most couples don't play seperately and most don't want to trade the fem half in exchange for something else."

So maybe they don't want the FFM that much?

The way some talk on here it's the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I want a unicorn to myself...no sharing...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood why people find an FFM so hard to organise when there are so many couple that want this. It only takes two couples to arrange it between themselves.

Because most couples don't play seperately and most don't want to trade the fem half in exchange for something else.

So maybe they don't want the FFM that much?

The way some talk on here it's the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow "

That’s probably true. We’ve had an MFF before, but I think her and us prefer it when there are other men in the equation. I think those who actively pursue MFF probably aren’t itching for any other men involved, therefore it’s a bit pointless contriving 2 separate MFFsfrom 2 couples.

Mrs

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Ex-unicorn here

Managed to meet 2 couples before I coupled up myself so it does happen

TB

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that "

I tend to stick to the same couples I feel more comfortable

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Always thought a Unicorn was a mythical horse with a horn. Ha you people have names and phrases for everything.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that "

That’s not good at all And it’s no wonder some of you lovely ladies don’t meet couples very often. In a good MFF you should all leave equally satisfied with big grins. We like to satisfy a lady together and do everything to make sure she feels like an equal part of it not an extra.

Bun

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Yes defo x check out pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a unicorn was a single bisexual woman who joins MF couples for threesome fun?

Mrs"
yes I thought this too

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

I'm too old !

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm too old ! "
me too and I'm not slim or athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always thought a Unicorn was a mythical horse with a horn. Ha you people have names and phrases for everything."

You people? Who’s you ‘you people’? Are you not part of us people?

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that

I tend to stick to the same couples I feel more comfortable "

That is a good plan but only once you’ve found those couples and it’s a case of taking that chance with each new couple until then unfortunately, on that same note it does work the same with meeting single men or women so either way I’m stuffed

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that

That’s not good at all And it’s no wonder some of you lovely ladies don’t meet couples very often. In a good MFF you should all leave equally satisfied with big grins. We like to satisfy a lady together and do everything to make sure she feels like an equal part of it not an extra.

Bun "

See, that sounds like a good attitude

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m told I’m a unicorn but I tend not to meet couples very often, I have before on several occasions and most of the time I feel like they’re just looking for a toy for the night, it’s not nice to feel like that

I tend to stick to the same couples I feel more comfortable

That is a good plan but only once you’ve found those couples and it’s a case of taking that chance with each new couple until then unfortunately, on that same note it does work the same with meeting single men or women so either way I’m stuffed "

Not easy as lots let downs radio silence etc on here

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We're still looking for a lady to join us for threesome fun. Perhaps try posting a meet as not everyone reads the forums x"

Have done that in the past. Not much of a response. Perhaps not many ladies look at them either.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

They do but the hard part is finding one that fancy's you, and you them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We're still looking for a lady to join us for threesome fun. Perhaps try posting a meet as not everyone reads the forums x

Have done that in the past. Not much of a response. Perhaps not many ladies look at them either. "
Perhaps you aren't what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unicorns all - bask in your rarity and enjoy the attention you get from the hunters xx

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We're still looking for a lady to join us for threesome fun. Perhaps try posting a meet as not everyone reads the forums x

Have done that in the past. Not much of a response. Perhaps not many ladies look at them either. Perhaps you aren't what they are looking for. "

That's quite possible but we'll still keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I’ve learnt about swinging is there’s no point in looking. We’ve always found our best swinging friendships (male or female) when we don’t look. There is a lady we hang out with on the swing scene, but the friendship happened by chance. I doubt she would have been interested if we had approached her on Fab - there are so many more suitable couples than us.

Mrs"

I really agree with this. I've been with a number of couples now and nearly all weren't looking for a unicorn and it happened relatively naturally. Couples that are only looking for a unicorn tend to be less fortunate.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Yes they do

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

All of our meets with single bi fems have been through Fab. In fact if it wasn’t for Fab, we’d never have met any.

In conclusion, Fab is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a couples play thing or dominating or whatever flows, if they both want to give me attention I'll lay down and take it what does frustrate me is when you can see it's the male half who wants it and not really the female but she will say she is bi to attract the unicorn! I'm all about honesty and will play straight and bi in any scenario, it's about bounderies and having fun

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

They do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to think they existed....but I also believed in father Christmas once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to feel my horn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s a shame people use and look at a ‘unicorn’ in that way where it becomes disrespectful. Although some may be in to that exact kink but it shouldn’t be assumed.

We are looking to fulfill fantasies just like anyone else here and it should always be a respectful and passionate, emotional event - because that’s the love of sex, right? Anyway, if anyone took our unicorn searching the wrong way, we do apologise, we’re not that kind of couple. Just from a read of our profile you can see we’re civilised and respectful humans who just want to share fun.

Understandably the predators within this scene make a lot very wary of anyone asking a straight forward question such as this. We are loving exploring this site and the parties it has introduced us to. We would just love to have something a little more intimate and make someone really feel special for the night(s) we can accommodate. Happy swinging everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are but seas apart

Unicorns can swim right"
yes around cape horn

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"It’s a shame people use and look at a ‘unicorn’ in that way where it becomes disrespectful. Although some may be in to that exact kink but it shouldn’t be assumed.

We are looking to fulfill fantasies just like anyone else here and it should always be a respectful and passionate, emotional event - because that’s the love of sex, right? Anyway, if anyone took our unicorn searching the wrong way, we do apologise, we’re not that kind of couple. Just from a read of our profile you can see we’re civilised and respectful humans who just want to share fun.

Understandably the predators within this scene make a lot very wary of anyone asking a straight forward question such as this. We are loving exploring this site and the parties it has introduced us to. We would just love to have something a little more intimate and make someone really feel special for the night(s) we can accommodate. Happy swinging everyone! "

I respect what you have written there, and feel that you are not predatory.

I wish you all the best and feel free to say hello to me, if you would like to, if we happen to be at the same you event.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

They do exist. However for us to find the right couple for us is getting harder and harder. The scene has more than it's fair share of couples with major issues.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Oh unicorns do exist, but like a lot of prey creatures we stay hidden until we're sure the coast is clear of predators.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"It’s a shame people use and look at a ‘unicorn’ in that way where it becomes disrespectful. Although some may be in to that exact kink but it shouldn’t be assumed.

We are looking to fulfill fantasies just like anyone else here and it should always be a respectful and passionate, emotional event - because that’s the love of sex, right? Anyway, if anyone took our unicorn searching the wrong way, we do apologise, we’re not that kind of couple. Just from a read of our profile you can see we’re civilised and respectful humans who just want to share fun.

Understandably the predators within this scene make a lot very wary of anyone asking a straight forward question such as this. We are loving exploring this site and the parties it has introduced us to. We would just love to have something a little more intimate and make someone really feel special for the night(s) we can accommodate. Happy swinging everyone! "

Fwiw - I have generally found that the people who use words like "unicorn" to refer to women are generally the predators.

You might be the exception to the rule, but merely using the word will put many women off.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Have been in the past (mrs) and may well be again in the future, with the right couple of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought a unicorn was a sad term for people that desperately wanted a single woman. I'm therefore assuming if they are hard to find, then a lot of these single ladies aren't keen on donning a white horn and being the third wheel in a couples fantasy.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I thought a unicorn was a sad term for people that desperately wanted a single woman. I'm therefore assuming if they are hard to find, then a lot of these single ladies aren't keen on donning a white horn and being the third wheel in a couples fantasy."

Whilst it’s not a term we use, and it is unpopular with many single bi fems, it’s also equally popular with many single bi fems as a way of describing themselves.

So it’s a term that means different things to different people, that’s all. And being judgemental is really never a good look on here.

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By *on_WandaWoman
over a year ago

London

We sure do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....yes we do....just need to look harder and know the magic words...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Officially in North Korea they do yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a unicorn was a sad term for people that desperately wanted a single woman. I'm therefore assuming if they are hard to find, then a lot of these single ladies aren't keen on donning a white horn and being the third wheel in a couples fantasy.

Whilst it’s not a term we use, and it is unpopular with many single bi fems, it’s also equally popular with many single bi fems as a way of describing themselves.

So it’s a term that means different things to different people, that’s all. And being judgemental is really never a good look on here."

Being honest and outspoken is in my eyes a much better look than pulling fence splinters from one's arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes....yes we do....just need to look harder and know the magic words... "

You need to look up the description fella. Unless that's a strap on.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady. "

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples."

Ywh thats how I see the term being defined on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples."

OR...

a legendary creature that has been described since antiquity as a beast with a single large, pointed, spiraling horn projecting from its forehead.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples.

OR...

a legendary creature that has been described since antiquity as a beast with a single large, pointed, spiraling horn projecting from its forehead."

OR...

The historical accoutrement on the graves of young women to demonstrator their virginial purity.

Quite frankly - all three definitions are pretty awful and dehumanizing when applied to women by a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples.

OR...

a legendary creature that has been described since antiquity as a beast with a single large, pointed, spiraling horn projecting from its forehead.

OR...

The historical accoutrement on the graves of young women to demonstrator their virginial purity.

Quite frankly - all three definitions are pretty awful and dehumanizing when applied to women by a couple."

I agree I much prefer flower or poppet, sweetie goes down well too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

"

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a shame people use and look at a ‘unicorn’ in that way where it becomes disrespectful. Although some may be in to that exact kink but it shouldn’t be assumed.

We are looking to fulfill fantasies just like anyone else here and it should always be a respectful and passionate, emotional event - because that’s the love of sex, right? Anyway, if anyone took our unicorn searching the wrong way, we do apologise, we’re not that kind of couple. Just from a read of our profile you can see we’re civilised and respectful humans who just want to share fun.

Understandably the predators within this scene make a lot very wary of anyone asking a straight forward question such as this. We are loving exploring this site and the parties it has introduced us to. We would just love to have something a little more intimate and make someone really feel special for the night(s) we can accommodate. Happy swinging everyone!

Fwiw - I have generally found that the people who use words like "unicorn" to refer to women are generally the predators.

You might be the exception to the rule, but merely using the word will put many women off."

Thanks! We’re new to this really and saw the term being thrown around to describe such activity. As you can tell we’re clearly not looking to degrade or cause offence to anyone and will happily adjust our terms now we know it does. The only reason we want to invite a lady in to our fun is to share the enjoyment all round, having a connection and relationship with a genuine person who enjoys the same, never a bad thing. Unfortunately others are rather vulgar with their opinions on here.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

"

I think to me, it's the idea of being hunted, I don't feel like I want to be hunted, I want to feel the right chemistry and choose to share.

I don't mind being called a unicorn, I really like unicorns.

I don't find it insulting personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site..."

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

I think to me, it's the idea of being hunted, I don't feel like I want to be hunted, I want to feel the right chemistry and choose to share.

I don't mind being called a unicorn, I really like unicorns.

I don't find it insulting personally."

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner "

Perhaps it's because your profile reads like you're looking for a woman to perform a show for your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner

Perhaps it's because your profile reads like you're looking for a woman to perform a show for your partner?"

That's the thing with text isn't it. Sometimes it can be misconstrued. It isn't intended to sound that way at all x

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner

Perhaps it's because your profile reads like you're looking for a woman to perform a show for your partner?

That's the thing with text isn't it. Sometimes it can be misconstrued. It isn't intended to sound that way at all x"

You might want to rewrite it to demonstrate that both of you want to have sex with the woman then. At the moment it's "I'm looking for a woman to have sex with... and my partner will also be there".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find the 'unicorn' term a put off. I've had a lot of fun with women in a play setting. That doesn't make me a unicorn. It just makes me a woman who sometimes likes to enjoy women as well as men. The term is just too objectifying for me .

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"No, just if they do - they wont be able to reply so it will still be a mystery

Scotlands belief is all the proof we need "

We just like to stay in hiding until we are tempted out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner

Perhaps it's because your profile reads like you're looking for a woman to perform a show for your partner?

That's the thing with text isn't it. Sometimes it can be misconstrued. It isn't intended to sound that way at all x

You might want to rewrite it to demonstrate that both of you want to have sex with the woman then. At the moment it's "I'm looking for a woman to have sex with... and my partner will also be there"."

Profile amended...thanks for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site...

Really? It may just be us then as nobody wants to play...#sulksinthecorner

Perhaps it's because your profile reads like you're looking for a woman to perform a show for your partner?

That's the thing with text isn't it. Sometimes it can be misconstrued. It isn't intended to sound that way at all x

You might want to rewrite it to demonstrate that both of you want to have sex with the woman then. At the moment it's "I'm looking for a woman to have sex with... and my partner will also be there"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both thought 'unicorn' referred to poly-amorous people or where a connection is made rather than just a quick ride. Not just a single lady.

"Unicorn" generally means "single bi babe", aka an attractive woman who is bisexual and willing to play with FM couples."

Had some polyamorous friends who called themselfs unicorns, hence our confusion. But it all makes sense now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have messaged so called unicorns, one turned out to be a time waster and the other would only join us if her partner was also involved lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

A Unicorn is a female who is happy to join a couple for sex without getting in the way of their relationship.

I.e. not looking to steal the guy from his partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve given up the hunt and decided to show our faces more, it’s super hard on here better if the univorns see you face to face and decide for themselves.

Still living in hope that one will come our way...and as for the unicorns on here stating “ not fit or slim “ we LOVE the curves

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"A Unicorn is a female who is happy to join a couple for sex without getting in the way of their relationship.

I.e. not looking to steal the guy from his partner."

You know... you can't "steal" people's partners. They have their own free will. (And there's one of the problems with unicorn hunting... the protection of the couple-unit at all costs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Unicorn is a female who is happy to join a couple for sex without getting in the way of their relationship.

I.e. not looking to steal the guy from his partner."

Another reason why some bi women are hesitant to play with couples, is this belief that they are looking to do just that. 'Spoiler alert'.... They're really not.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"A Unicorn is a female who is happy to join a couple for sex without getting in the way of their relationship.

I.e. not looking to steal the guy from his partner.

Another reason why some bi women are hesitant to play with couples, is this belief that they are looking to do just that. 'Spoiler alert'.... They're really not. "

So they are then a true Unicorn

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

No such thing as unicorns... just lots of lovely ladies who are single and bi.

Some like to play with couples, some with a male and female (non Cpl).

They aren't rare, or mythical, you just need to get out there and find them, socials, clubs, and parties are the best place to look... but, and this is important, don't treat them as "labels" or a "tick on the list", instead make friends, and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a so-called 'unicorn' it was so incredibly difficult to find suitable couples.

Things would start well when chatting, but then after a while issues would appear.

One very common issue was jealousy, if the man of the couple and I were getting on very well, the woman would cool things off. I always ensured I chatted with both, and treated them both in the same way.

Another issue would be that the woman was going 'along with it' just to please her man. There is nothing worse than being with a woman who is just pretending to be bi, or just to give her man the experience of 2 women.

I was incredibly lucky and found a perfect couple, so it does work.

My advice to couples is to ensure you are both doing it for the right reasons and are treating the single female in the right manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to prance around my living room at night donning my horn. Unfortunately said prancing hasn't given me the slim/athletic body for which you search.

I've had some awesome play dates with couples, and never felt 'hunted' in any way shape or form. Although I do avoid the couples where I'm not allowed to touch the man, that's not what it's about for me. Equal involvement for all parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My donkeys got the hump about this post

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Stamps feet and has a tantrum!!

Not fair!!! Lol

I will happily meet a couple for a threesome but do you think I can find a lady to come play with me and my partner?? A big no!!!

So I'm giving up!!

Let's face it its all about looks and when your a plain Jane there is no chance in meeting a lady when your a couple!!

Or you get chatting to a single lady who turns out she's actually a couple looking for a lady. Lol "

This! Lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I like to prance around my living room at night donning my horn. Unfortunately said prancing hasn't given me the slim/athletic body for which you search.

I've had some awesome play dates with couples, and never felt 'hunted' in any way shape or form. Although I do avoid the couples where I'm not allowed to touch the man, that's not what it's about for me. Equal involvement for all parties.

"

Here,here and well said

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Me and Lexi have come across a few single bi women. Main problems we found is either they have a guy who wants to watch 2 women,they talk a good game but when it comes down to it they dissapear,they want loads of picture's,only want to meet one of us . The list is endless. The ones we know,and have met are totally cool. But we never refer to them as unicorns

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I thought a unicorn was a sad term for people that desperately wanted a single woman. I'm therefore assuming if they are hard to find, then a lot of these single ladies aren't keen on donning a white horn and being the third wheel in a couples fantasy.

Whilst it’s not a term we use, and it is unpopular with many single bi fems, it’s also equally popular with many single bi fems as a way of describing themselves.

So it’s a term that means different things to different people, that’s all. And being judgemental is really never a good look on here.

Being honest and outspoken is in my eyes a much better look than pulling fence splinters from one's arse."

You don’t come across as honest and outspoken. You come across as judgemental, and a little rude.

It’s an easy mistake to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the name we even cum glitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just buy a horse and put a dildo on its head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find the 'unicorn' term a put off. I've had a lot of fun with women in a play setting. That doesn't make me a unicorn. It just makes me a woman who sometimes likes to enjoy women as well as men. The term is just too objectifying for me . "
this ......its a label......and labels are stuck on by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x"

I think it's more they need to be cautious in looking out for couples that would treat them like that. If all couples did, or the single bi ladies felt like it about all couples, there would be no ffm's happening.

If they can pick up that things will be fun and you are approaching it with the right attitude, I would have thought you would be ok. I'm sure the ladies have a sixth sense of who will be ok and who won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think it's more they need to be cautious in looking out for couples that would treat them like that. If all couples did, or the single bi ladies felt like it about all couples, there would be no ffm's happening.

If they can pick up that things will be fun and you are approaching it with the right attitude, I would have thought you would be ok. I'm sure the ladies have a sixth sense of who will be ok and who won't."

Thanks for the reply, this has certainly been a little eye opener. I would like to think we are respectful to whom ever we contact and vice versa and I would hate to think any woman has ever come away from an initial chat with us negatively.

Geeky x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I think it is one of the most difficult meets to arrange successfully....took almost 8 months in the planning for it to finally happen for me, but was worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x"

Sometimes that's the case...having been both part of a couple and a single on the scene I'm definitely more wary of couples when flying solo.

However conversation and being open and honest is key and can lead to an incredible meet/meets!

Having spoken to you guys personally I can honestly say you're not the kind of couple I'd avoid! You're very approachable, keep doing as you are, you will find the right ladies!

And clubs are always a great shout! A lot of us love clubs and it can be much easier to connect with a couple in person than through messages imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

Sometimes that's the case...having been both part of a couple and a single on the scene I'm definitely more wary of couples when flying solo.

However conversation and being open and honest is key and can lead to an incredible meet/meets!

Having spoken to you guys personally I can honestly say you're not the kind of couple I'd avoid! You're very approachable, keep doing as you are, you will find the right ladies!

And clubs are always a great shout! A lot of us love clubs and it can be much easier to connect with a couple in person than through messages imo

"

Thank you lovely, we are off to a club in a couple of weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a lovely lady to join us but since reading further up the thread about feeling like a toy for the night I feel a little like ‘is that really what you all think?’ Because never in our wildest dreams would or have we even thought about a lady joining us a ‘toy’ and I feel awful thinking that’s what some of the ladies might feel when we’ve contacted them.

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

Sometimes that's the case...having been both part of a couple and a single on the scene I'm definitely more wary of couples when flying solo.

However conversation and being open and honest is key and can lead to an incredible meet/meets!

Having spoken to you guys personally I can honestly say you're not the kind of couple I'd avoid! You're very approachable, keep doing as you are, you will find the right ladies!

And clubs are always a great shout! A lot of us love clubs and it can be much easier to connect with a couple in person than through messages imo

Thank you lovely, we are off to a club in a couple of weeks x"

You'll have a blast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never go looking specifically for single ladies to play with us, it just happens.....

We find single ladies avoid the unicorn hunters (those couples just looking for a lady) anyway, who wants to play with people who are that selfish that’s its a fantasy to be fulfilled or there are issues where the guy doesn’t want to see his lady with another guy! Or the guy can’t fuck the single lady blah blah blah. What single lady wants to get involved in any of that mess?

Our FFM meets have always been about equal dynamics with all involved (same as any other combination of meet) and we do okay....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on. "

This is exactly what we’ve heard from our female playmates and is the reason why I’ve written my profile to make sure it doesn’t come across this way. Oh, and do unicorns exist? Too right they do! Chelsea x

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


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Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x"

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on. "

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn? "

I'm not a unicorn, that's the point.

I'm a woman who plays with both men and women.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn?

I'm not a unicorn, that's the point.

I'm a woman who plays with both men and women. "

You might want to adjust your profile - it says you're straight.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life)."

I think this is why club meets work well. Things can be picked up in a flash that are much harder to decipher by mesaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn?

I'm not a unicorn, that's the point.

I'm a woman who plays with both men and women.

You might want to adjust your profile - it says you're straight."

hadn't noticed, opps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn?

I'm not a unicorn, that's the point.

I'm a woman who plays with both men and women.

You might want to adjust your profile - it says you're straight."

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"I wouldn't ever play with a couple who refer to themselves as unicorn hunters, soft swap only and where a mff is a fantasy.

I'm not there to just fill someone's fantasy, and I'm definitely not there to just help turn a guy on.

What makes you think that you’re a unicorn?

I'm not a unicorn, that's the point.

I'm a woman who plays with both men and women.

You might want to adjust your profile - it says you're straight.

hadn't noticed, opps "

Was pretty sure that was a mistake rather than a deliberate error.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life)."

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd "

There's alot of reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd

There's alot of reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you tbh."

Meow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd

There's alot of reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you tbh."

Yes, I get that impression

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Our objection to the whole unicorn thing is that, as others have alluded to, it's the most hetero normative form of swinging. The average bloke would love a threesome with another woman but no way would let "his" woman fuck another man.

If it works for you, fine, but for us its a bit boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our objection to the whole unicorn thing is that, as others have alluded to, it's the most hetero normative form of swinging. The average bloke would love a threesome with another woman but no way would let "his" woman fuck another man.

If it works for you, fine, but for us its a bit boring. "

Any role for the woman here or is it all about male thinking?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I thought a unicorn was a sad term for people that desperately wanted a single woman. I'm therefore assuming if they are hard to find, then a lot of these single ladies aren't keen on donning a white horn and being the third wheel in a couples fantasy."

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd

There's alot of reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you tbh."

Why? They are bloody hot!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"

Do lots of ladies feel like they are just being used? We would have to rethink the whole thing if that was the case because in our books in an equal thing, both getting pleasure from the situation and both wanting to ‘be there’ well of course you want to be there because no ones forcing you but we would hate a lady to go away from us feeling used and like a toy.

Geeky x

I think, for me, a large part of reassurance can come from how a couple behave together.

I'm highly unlikely to have a MFF with one of those couples who are basically in each others pockets, always together, totally loved up to the point where it's sickening.

But I would play with a couple who were very independant, who most likely had other partners too, who enjoyed doing things apart as well as together (in sex and in wider every day life).

You’d never want to meet us then, Lucy Lewd

There's alot of reasons why I wouldn't want to meet you tbh.

Why? They are bloody hot!"

If you're really, really, really fascinated I'm happy to enter a private conversation with you about it, but I don't think it's appropriate on the forums.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Jiz buckets haaaaa

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic."

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found we much prefer threesomes with guys, single women seem to think they should be up on a pedestal .. we are on here to have fun and sex not really interested in ego’s .

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic."

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We have found we much prefer threesomes with guys, single women seem to think they should be up on a pedestal .. we are on here to have fun and sex not really interested in ego’s . "
harsh, a lot of couples behave like this too.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We have found we much prefer threesomes with guys, single women seem to think they should be up on a pedestal .. we are on here to have fun and sex not really interested in ego’s . harsh, a lot of couples behave like this too. "

We are of a similar mind to the couple who prefer single guys and for the same reason. I agree that couples can be the same though , and thats why we choose single guys over them too .

Strangely we have met plenty of single bi females and couples but neither are our preferred choice .

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We have a unicorn plaything. She's in our pics.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We have found we much prefer threesomes with guys, single women seem to think they should be up on a pedestal .. we are on here to have fun and sex not really interested in ego’s . harsh, a lot of couples behave like this too. "

Yes.

Lots of *people* act like lots of things.

Any 'couples this' or 'singles that' type comments are generally nonsense imo.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?"

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night. "

in my experience, most bisexual women that I've met have been very, very careful about safer sex. Moreso than couples. Perhaps women who use condoms are bunny boilers instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night. "

Don't rise to it unicorns, it's only an attempt to draw you into the open to defend yourselves then the hunt can begin. You are already officially on the endangered list.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night.

Don't rise to it unicorns, it's only an attempt to draw you into the open to defend yourselves then the hunt can begin. You are already officially on the endangered list. "
Wise words grasshopper

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"My husband and I have been unicorn hunting lol and they are very rare. I fully get that sometimes it can come across that the lady may feel like a one night sex toy. Although that would be the last thing we would want her to feel. It's about everyone being comfortable and happy and having a great time.

Rare? I swear sometimes it feels like there are more bisexual women than couples on this site..."

I’m a single non bi sexual woman on this site !

Now I’m told that’s rare !!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night.

in my experience, most bisexual women that I've met have been very, very careful about safer sex. Moreso than couples. Perhaps women who use condoms are bunny boilers instead?"

That's me buggered then

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night. "

Neither a bunny boiler nor jiz bucket here. In fact neither are my bi fem friends. Very u fortunate that most of the ones you know are.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

"

Seriously?

How incredibly rude and judgemental

We enjoy meeting people. Couples, single guys and the occasional single lady. None of whom are bunny boilers or "jizz-buckets".

Nita

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"They do indeed exist but they're not for us. Sorry but out of the few we know most (not all) are either bunny boilers or proper jiz-buckets.

There are always exceptions though.

We prefer the couples dynamic.

jiz-buckets? What the fuck is a jiz-bucket?

You know what we mean, It's the type of girl that thinks little of going bareback with several blokes a night.

in my experience, most bisexual women that I've met have been very, very careful about safer sex. Moreso than couples. Perhaps women who use condoms are bunny boilers instead?

That's me buggered then "

You reckon bunnies taste better when boiled in condoms?

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By *cotGirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Well there's a lot of judgements being made in this post...

In reply to the OP there are lots of single women who meet couples (I preferentially meet couples) but there can be hurdles.

No woman wants to feel like a sex toy or a performing seal, when I play with couples I expect that it will involve all 3 people equally and not every couple wants that. Add to that because I expect everyone to be involved that means I have to find both of the couple attractive.

Don't give up your search, there are lots of lovely single women who will play with couples given the right approach and the right spark

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