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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Soooooo I was at the local shops and I walked into a shop and seen a couple who I thought I know them but where from ...,

Within seconds it dawned on me it was from here Needless to say I didn’t say hello , anyone else bumping into others from here x

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

Yeah, discretion is key

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By *msxxxWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

I got very close to meeting someone who was sooo fit I wanted them more than u can imagine.. but when they sent me their address I suddenly realised they were someone I supported in my job 10 years before ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in my local Morrison's and have seen a couple I had met wirh a long time ago, I kept my distance as I was with my kids

Discretion is the better part of valour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some dude approached me at our local naturist Spa last week... I know I was naked and so was everyone else but it doesn't mean someone can insert them self into my reality like we're old friends when we've never actually met or spoken before?!. He said "You're from Fab aren't you!"

He was quite taken aback when I replied "I'm from a lot of places love, what's your name?!" and I shook his hand and just walked on by lol... He looked like he wanted me to be embarrassed or something.

Having a sex life isn't a criminal offence and it's also way more healthy than being sexually repressed imo lol

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yeah I've seen a few locals as I do live in a small town but I just walk straight pass and they do the same. And I like it that way lol

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire

I was at a local festival and saw a fellow fabber, we both had kids with us and actually spent a really nice vanilla afternoon together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never but wish I did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my aunt and uncle lol embarrassing to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realised there's another guy on here works in same building!! Lol

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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes my aunt and uncle lol embarrassing to say the least "

Brilliant ..... did ya lol

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

The

Ex-work colleague and his wife wanting to cam online... began to swap face pics and as it popped up....i recognised them...mentioned i may recognise hubby and best we didn't take it further...we didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my aunt and uncle lol embarrassing to say the least

Brilliant ..... did ya lol "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was served in a shop by someone off here the other day.

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By *llie_worcMan
over a year ago

bristol

If I recognised someone I had met through fab I'd say a passing hi if both of us alone, if they were people I knew in real life or I just recognised from a picture I think it would be exceedingly rude to acknowledge them.....if they don't have my phone number or FB friends then not really likely to want an impromptu chat.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve been recognised off here a couple of times. I’m very wary about sending face pics first now.

Know a couple of friends that I’ve seen on here too. I blocked them cos otherwise it might be a bit awks. It is a small world sometimes!

Gonna stay as a ninja as i like my privacy.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Soooooo I was at the local shops and I walked into a shop and seen a couple who I thought I know them but where from ...,

Within seconds it dawned on me it was from here Needless to say I didn’t say hello , anyone else bumping into others from here x "

Yep just this afternoon lol Lidl’s the place haha

Been in there while there’s been a couple of fabsters in lol x all good fun but discretion the key xxx

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I've found the profile of a couple who I know. They are sort of related too in a long sense.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Several of my friends & half the village I live in!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Yes in the local tesco, I just carry on. Sex is natural, no need to make a big deal

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By *ockandrolla OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Several of my friends & half the village I live in!

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Village hall could make for an interesting party venue

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Some dude approached me at our local naturist Spa last week... I know I was naked and so was everyone else but it doesn't mean someone can insert them self into my reality like we're old friends when we've never actually met or spoken before?!. He said "You're from Fab aren't you!"

He was quite taken aback when I replied "I'm from a lot of places love, what's your name?!" and I shook his hand and just walked on by lol... He looked like he wanted me to be embarrassed or something.

Having a sex life isn't a criminal offence and it's also way more healthy than being sexually repressed imo lol"

Not sure what he did wrong exactly? He wanted to talk to you, he made a fairly normal introduction. Maybe it was creepier in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised a few people from fab and other swinging sites.

I would never say hi to them in an outside of fab meeting as wouldn’t want to embarrass anyone int be wrong situation.

Especially at work

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By *onobo manMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yes it happens all the time to me I live on a small island where everyone knows everyone! My neighbours daughter ffs , a another girl on my estate! I thought I lived in a small village with nothing going on, but hey we are all here for fun right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't see anything wrong with a smile and a polite hi as passing by, I do it with strangers every morning walking the kids to school?! Why is it any different? Surely it's more awkward scuffling to avoid each other? Iv had 6 or 7 people message me who I know on here, not fazed, my auntie owns one of the clubs, has she seen me on here? Don't know but doubt she will announce it over the cold turkey on Boxing Day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked in a major supermarket and a guy who I knew rather well (we had kissed a few times) and his wife came through my till x not a word was said to give any inclination I knew him x but I said a few products were fabbbbbbulous x she never clicked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some dude approached me at our local naturist Spa last week... I know I was naked and so was everyone else but it doesn't mean someone can insert them self into my reality like we're old friends when we've never actually met or spoken before?!. He said "You're from Fab aren't you!"

He was quite taken aback when I replied "I'm from a lot of places love, what's your name?!" and I shook his hand and just walked on by lol... He looked like he wanted me to be embarrassed or something.

Having a sex life isn't a criminal offence and it's also way more healthy than being sexually repressed imo lol

Not sure what he did wrong exactly? He wanted to talk to you, he made a fairly normal introduction. Maybe it was creepier in real life? "

Well there was no decorum to it... and yes I found it creepy lollol... he was hanging around on the top floor on the look out for a loose woman (which obv I am occasionally lol) to do depraved things to him and all his other mates there.

What i didn't like is that he knew I would be at the spa because I ran my mouth off about it in a Fab status... but he didn't say hello on Fab?!... he just approached me there and expected me to want to know him... he was too familiar with me for a stranger... and I like to choose who I have sex with...

I may have slutty tendencies but I like some politeness with my sorditity thanks lol... him an his mates asked me if they could join in a bit later and I said no because I just didn't like the vibe of assumption... as well as them all trying to edge in on another man's/person's fab social... which probably says more about me than him lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message the other day from a guy who told me he saw me in the local pharmacy and that he'd love to meet for a drink. I quickly pressed unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worked in a major supermarket and a guy who I knew rather well (we had kissed a few times) and his wife came through my till x not a word was said to give any inclination I knew him x but I said a few products were fabbbbbbulous x she never clicked x "

What did the guy do? Did he make eye contact?

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

We think the ettiqute is quite clear, what happens on fab/clubs/car parks stays there.

You don't acknowledge it in vanilla life ever.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Some dude approached me at our local naturist Spa last week... I know I was naked and so was everyone else but it doesn't mean someone can insert them self into my reality like we're old friends when we've never actually met or spoken before?!. He said "You're from Fab aren't you!"

He was quite taken aback when I replied "I'm from a lot of places love, what's your name?!" and I shook his hand and just walked on by lol... He looked like he wanted me to be embarrassed or something.

Having a sex life isn't a criminal offence and it's also way more healthy than being sexually repressed imo lol

Not sure what he did wrong exactly? He wanted to talk to you, he made a fairly normal introduction. Maybe it was creepier in real life?

Well there was no decorum to it... and yes I found it creepy lollol... he was hanging around on the top floor on the look out for a loose woman (which obv I am occasionally lol) to do depraved things to him and all his other mates there.

What i didn't like is that he knew I would be at the spa because I ran my mouth off about it in a Fab status... but he didn't say hello on Fab?!... he just approached me there and expected me to want to know him... he was too familiar with me for a stranger... and I like to choose who I have sex with...

I may have slutty tendencies but I like some politeness with my sorditity thanks lol... him an his mates asked me if they could join in a bit later and I said no because I just didn't like the vibe of assumption... as well as them all trying to edge in on another man's/person's fab social... which probably says more about me than him lol x."

I see what you are saying. I've heard of guys approaching women when they are out shopping with their kids - which is a big no no. I think a spa / swinging club is a reasonable place to say hello, but it should still be done respectfully, which it doesn't sound like it was.

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By *atesheadtwoCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead

Me and my wife were in a club when one of my employees walked in, without his wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was at a local festival and saw a fellow fabber, we both had kids with us and actually spent a really nice vanilla afternoon together! "
good for you, just cos you love sex and swinging doesn't mean you can't be polite and sociable if you enjoy others company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooooo I was at the local shops and I walked into a shop and seen a couple who I thought I know them but where from ...,

Within seconds it dawned on me it was from here Needless to say I didn’t say hello , anyone else bumping into others from here x "
yes I bumped into a very sexy woman from here and hopefully we are now going to meet

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Oh yes, almost every day as it’s where we dinner shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes had a lovely social and then bumped into him at a meeting later.

Obviously nothing was said and we just carried on as if we'd not met.

I see quite a few people in town but I'm usually in cloud cuckoo land so don't notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was an amusing time when myself and the partner found her parents on here! They've since left the site after finding out we used it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve got a couple of close neighbours on here as well as a couple of people who work in the same place as randy-there everywhere lol.

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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago

Beautiful East Yorkshire


"I was at a local festival and saw a fellow fabber, we both had kids with us and actually spent a really nice vanilla afternoon together! good for you, just cos you love sex and swinging doesn't mean you can't be polite and sociable if you enjoy others company"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think the ettiqute is quite clear, what happens on fab/clubs/car parks stays there.

You don't acknowledge it in vanilla life ever."

We have been approached several times by people who have recognised us. I hate it, would rather get a message saying we see you in x,y and z than coming over as we usually have kids with us... Aged anywhere from 18- 2 so the conversation can be picked up on.

Fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha yes, someone who I work with... she said to me "I hate that I can't get on a certain little website because of this wifi security" and we both laughed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never

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By *anda92Couple
over a year ago

Stoke d'abernon

Totally agree re discretion as recognised a single female from FAB in our local. The two worlds should always be kept apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worked in a major supermarket and a guy who I knew rather well (we had kissed a few times) and his wife came through my till x not a word was said to give any inclination I knew him x but I said a few products were fabbbbbbulous x she never clicked x

What did the guy do? Did he make eye contact?"
nope I never acknowledged him other than as a customer and said hello and stuff but a smile did come across his face when we talked about it a few weeks later (he was separated by this time) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman on another site and a pretty into this lifestyle woman showing very extreme bukaki pics was sent a message asking for more pics from her dad ,he sent a face pic with his message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went out to wet out for drinks for my pals, brothers birthday. We got chatting to a friend of his brothers and somehow FS got mentioned. Turns out they are on here too and it became our first social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One girl working with me, I'm not sure if she knows that I know. Her profile has one pic with half of her face.

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