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"Hi thanks for two replies, i prefer to meet locally, but can try clubs if there are any local enough for me, its so annoying when the cancel and then disappear off the site completely." Well at least they cancelled,the ones that I talked too just buggered off ![]() | |||
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"Where are these willing couples that you talk about? Most of them come here to talk about the weather... " They are definitely out there for the right bi guys. It's a shame so many aren't single. | |||
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"Where are these willing couples that you talk about? Most of them come here to talk about the weather... They are definitely out there for the right bi guys. It's a shame so many aren't single." I just have to keep searching then.. Hehe ![]() | |||
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"We're definitely out there, we have had trouble in the past with single guys, it happens both ways. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi thanks for two replies, i prefer to meet locally, but can try clubs if there are any local enough for me, its so annoying when the cancel and then disappear off the site completely. Well at least they cancelled,the ones that I talked too just buggered off ![]() I wouldn't bugger off... I'd happily meet up with you. ![]() | |||
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"Hi thanks for two replies, i prefer to meet locally, but can try clubs if there are any local enough for me, its so annoying when the cancel and then disappear off the site completely. Well at least they cancelled,the ones that I talked too just buggered off ![]() ![]() You're straight though?! | |||
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"Yeah it's really hard to find reliable men. Lot's are good at the chat,day of the meet and they do a disappearing act,which is damn annoying." This ![]() | |||
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"We have the same problem but the other way round we really struggle to find a genuine bi male, just seen to find people who are all talk then go unlos ![]() we have the same problem...we have had 3 socials set up with 3 guys recently. One went UNLOS, one has cancelled...the last one is still on so far but I'm not holding my breath... | |||
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"We have the same problem but the other way round we really struggle to find a genuine bi male, just seen to find people who are all talk then go unlos ![]() Yep we are here just can't seem to gets guys who are genuine to turn up | |||
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"We've had a few good meets recently but have had trouble with late 20's lads indecisiveness or paranoia. We seem to get more time wasted by couples and I mean actual couples as well as the shady male "couples"" Now yours has to be one of the best bi profiles I have seen on fab. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Try a bi night in a club. Takes away so much hassle... " Ain't that the truth ![]() | |||
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"Ohhh sorry we thought you could still wink if intrested just let us know on this post and we will contact you Cheers x" Don't think you have males blocked... | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() We are one such couple and a trip to Cheltenham is often welcome. | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Great profile and pics. ..don't suppose a trip to Ireland is welcome? ![]() | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you. We don’t often get there, even for work I’m afraid. | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() ![]() No hassle. Perhaps a London the next time we're all there..that is if my profile interested you both...do message me if it does.. ![]() | |||
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"Its funny took the block of for 2 min to allow bi males to wink got 3 winks from straight men and 2 messages from straight men asking to fuck. So as before please just message on the post and we will get in touch. " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yeah it's really hard to find reliable men. Lot's are good at the chat,day of the meet and they do a disappearing act,which is damn annoying." You madam are fabulously gorgeous. Wish i closer to you | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Defiatley not just fantasy, this is exactly us. | |||
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"Is it more a turn on for males or females though, love a female who likes to watch two males sucking and then joining in " you would love me then xx | |||
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"Ohhh sorry we thought you could still wink if intrested just let us know on this post and we will contact you Cheers x" I'm interested | |||
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"I agree it’s really difficult as a bi guy to get invited to join a bi couple, it’s something I’ve been trying for for ages and no luck as yet, how can you show them you are genuine and will actual turn up as agreed?? Any couples out there looking for a genuine bi guy please drop me a line, I will turn up and do love to play with both sexes," we look for bi guys but your profile says straight which rules you out for us...we don't even read the profile text when we see straight | |||
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"I agree it’s really difficult as a bi guy to get invited to join a bi couple, it’s something I’ve been trying for for ages and no luck as yet, how can you show them you are genuine and will actual turn up as agreed?? Any couples out there looking for a genuine bi guy please drop me a line, I will turn up and do love to play with both sexes, we look for bi guys but your profile says straight which rules you out for us...we don't even read the profile text when we see straight" Which just goes to prove the theory that by labelling as straight to match with those that won't meet bi guys, you're closing the door on some that will ![]() | |||
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"Its funny took the block of for 2 min to allow bi males to wink got 3 winks from straight men and 2 messages from straight men asking to fuck. So as before please just message on the post and we will get in touch. " im nearby x | |||
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"Its funny took the block of for 2 min to allow bi males to wink got 3 winks from straight men and 2 messages from straight men asking to fuck. So as before please just message on the post and we will get in touch. " It also helps to let bi men know if the male is top bottom or versatile . Im a top so not looking for a mf couple who also have a top X | |||
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"Where are these willing couples that you talk about? Most of them come here to talk about the weather... " Can’t say we’ve had a conversation on here about the weather ![]() | |||
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"Its funny took the block of for 2 min to allow bi males to wink got 3 winks from straight men and 2 messages from straight men asking to fuck. So as before please just message on the post and we will get in touch. It also helps to let bi men know if the male is top bottom or versatile . Im a top so not looking for a mf couple who also have a top X" Agreed ![]() | |||
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"I agree it’s really difficult as a bi guy to get invited to join a bi couple, it’s something I’ve been trying for for ages and no luck as yet, how can you show them you are genuine and will actual turn up as agreed?? Any couples out there looking for a genuine bi guy please drop me a line, I will turn up and do love to play with both sexes," You have to help yourself. Clicked on your profile because you’re local and we look for local bi guys. No public photos and your profile says you’re straight. So you’re unsearchable as a bi guy ![]() | |||
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"We have the same problem but the other way round we really struggle to find a genuine bi male, just seen to find people who are all talk then go unlos ![]() Or they aren't actually bi | |||
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"Ok I will try setting my profile to Bi and see how I get on, but as mentioned by others there are couples who won’t look at you if you state you’re bi, I. We’d some pics put up as well but the only ones I have aren’t very good so if I get a chance I’ll put some more up, anyone good at taking photos?? Could do with some help with this?" While it's true there are some users of the site that don't look at you if you're bi - there are just as many who actively look for bi guys and won't meet you if you are listed as straight - so you're shooting yourself in the foot by hiding your bi side ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hey everyone, Midlands is fairly hard to find a bi couple too there are a few sound but it's hard to show you guys I'm genuinely going to meet, allot of couples think your only interested in the female half, I wish there was a way to prove that's not true, but as a bi curious male I want 30 mins with a cock in my mouth to know if I'll enjoy it haha ![]() ![]() Could always try a bi night at a club - Vanilla Alternative (which isn't that far from you) has one first Friday of the month and believe Chameleons (Chams) has a regular one too, although not sure when. | |||
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"Hey everyone, Midlands is fairly hard to find a bi couple too there are a few sound but it's hard to show you guys I'm genuinely going to meet, allot of couples think your only interested in the female half, I wish there was a way to prove that's not true, but as a bi curious male I want 30 mins with a cock in my mouth to know if I'll enjoy it haha ![]() ![]() I don't know if I could rock up to a swings club I'd be to scared haha! There are some men with balls of steel to do that I think I'd prefer to suck a cock for the first time on my knees in someone's bedroom ??! But it's certainly a good idea ![]() | |||
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"Hey everyone, Midlands is fairly hard to find a bi couple too there are a few sound but it's hard to show you guys I'm genuinely going to meet, allot of couples think your only interested in the female half, I wish there was a way to prove that's not true, but as a bi curious male I want 30 mins with a cock in my mouth to know if I'll enjoy it haha ![]() ![]() ![]() There's probably less pressure (and risk) going to a club than a pre-arranged meet - they have social areas (that are not really any different from a regular bar) where play doesn't generally happen and there's no pressure at all to do anything you don't want to - I certainly don't have balls of steel and have been to VA bi night a number of times and don't feel at all uncomfortable or awkward. ![]() | |||
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"Random jumping on the thread... As an out Bi couple, it's hard to find guys that are *tops* and out. We've not been able to have any fun with a top for... (checks veris) 2016?? *sobs* No wonder I feel like an anal virgin! lol Flames (But we won't compromise on meeting Bi guys who aren't out, the tackling of swinging male Biphobia can't stop...)" They are out there if you look in the right places ![]() | |||
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"Hey everyone, Midlands is fairly hard to find a bi couple too there are a few sound but it's hard to show you guys I'm genuinely going to meet, allot of couples think your only interested in the female half, I wish there was a way to prove that's not true, but as a bi curious male I want 30 mins with a cock in my mouth to know if I'll enjoy it haha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Agreed, with V A bi night you can never go wrong. I've had so much fun exploring my bi side there, both now as part of a couple and back when I was single. | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Do not let the time waster put you off, there are plenty of us that are genuine and love every minute of it. | |||
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"We are a great genuine couple.... but it’s also about being attracted to the single guy..... Clift will suck and play with a cock but does not find men attractive ..... so it’s up to me.... just because someone is bi and up for it does not mean I’m attracted to them. It can be done but it’s not easy Floppsy x" I can relate to this in a way, as I'm not attracted to men, but like the idea of playing with a bi couple. The thought of the act itself is a turn on, but I'd need to be attracted to the woman and for all to be involved and having fun. | |||
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"I am interested !" This is one area that is wrong - this is a swingers site for liberated people and we have straight guys wanting a bi 3some .................... | |||
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"We fully agree - we have met some really great single bi-guys who are respectful and fun to get along with - we have also met some rude, arrogant guys who show little respect. " Hope you don’t brand ya all with the same iron, there are lots of ya that are good ![]() | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() I feel you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"interestingly many 'single bi-guys' cannot accommodate - do they still live with their mum's and dad's or is it more sinister ........ the wife!!!" I've only accommodated a couple once and won't be doing it again. All I could hear was the husband rummaging through drawers and cupboards in another room, once he'd set their camera up. Needless to say, the meet was concluded much quicker than planned. | |||
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"interestingly many 'single bi-guys' cannot accommodate - do they still live with their mum's and dad's or is it more sinister ........ the wife!!! I've only accommodated a couple once and won't be doing it again. All I could hear was the husband rummaging through drawers and cupboards in another room, once he'd set their camera up. Needless to say, the meet was concluded much quicker than planned." Yes all of uh couples are the same ![]() | |||
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"As people have said bi nights in clubs are always a good option I go to vanilla alternatives bi nights as a single guy each visit just gets better and better plenty of bi couples looking for an extra guy " and we can vouch for that ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Hello! | |||
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"Hi everyone. I have found it difficult to meet a bi couple too. I don't expect to meet at the drop of hat and I totally understand its difficult for a couple to arrange a meet, after most have children or family commitments. Ive chatted to few couples who like the idea but won't try. That's fair enough, at least their honest. Ive had a couple of meets with couples. Few social,and a few straight forward meets. Only one bi meet and us guys just played with each other, lots of all round kissing touching and ended up with me getting a face full of his hot Cum. Ive never sucked or swallowed and keen to try this during mmf,but I'm finding it difficult to turn into reality. I know their are many genuine people here guys, girls and couples But also too many non genuine profiles too. If it's just a chat your after that's cool, just don't make arrangements that you have no intention of keeping. Anyway have fun everyone. Regards Alex " Anyone fancy chatting | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() This is pretty much what we (for. Our couples profile) look for. Hi guys that play with other guys. | |||
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"Not round my area lack of bi couples " I'll team up with you ![]() | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Try finding a single bi guy and single woman that likes bi men , I've done this once and it was so hot ..... | |||
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"Really finding it hard to find a genuine bi couple who like males to play in front of the lady, then for the lady to get involved, is this just a fantasy of mine or are there some genuine couples who like this too, and will actually turn up and go through with it. Lots of talk and planning to meet then cancellations ![]() ![]() Sent you PM | |||
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