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Doing (insert negative actions here)...makes it so difficult for us good guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it really though, surely it helps to make the good guys stand out better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a certain element of tarring men with the same brush happening but I'm with you. Let the cretins craic on and the decent guys will shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys."

White Knight syndrome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys."

I agree. I remember getting a message from a guy who was banging on about how many blokes on here are timewasters, have no respect for women, aren't genuine, won't turn up etc and that he wasn't like that, he was one of the good guys blah blah. I politely turned him down as I found his putting down of others disrespecful and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

White Knight syndrome? "

You said it far more succinctly than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone who types the phrase "us good guys" deserves to go on the naughty step for being delusional.

You make your own luck on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never describe myself as good. lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Always makes me smile when I see posts from guys containing the words "ruining it for all the genuine guys"...

....no it doesn't!! The only people to ruin anything for anyone is themselves - if the idiot fraternity ruined it for all the others the site wouldn't exist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

I agree. I remember getting a message from a guy who was banging on about how many blokes on here are timewasters, have no respect for women, aren't genuine, won't turn up etc and that he wasn't like that, he was one of the good guys blah blah. I politely turned him down as I found his putting down of others disrespecful and unnecessary."

I wonder if it's down to numbers. With so few women, some of them are quite demanding in what they want from a guy and as such the list of demands are more in line with dating requirements rather than NSA sex.

This in turn leads to the men pointing out the deficiencies of other guys to get a leg up (hopefully leading to leg over ) when they don't quite match the high standards required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It makes me giggle when someone claims that another's actions will somehow prevent their own success or alter their fab' destiny.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

I agree. I remember getting a message from a guy who was banging on about how many blokes on here are timewasters, have no respect for women, aren't genuine, won't turn up etc and that he wasn't like that, he was one of the good guys blah blah. I politely turned him down as I found his putting down of others disrespecful and unnecessary."

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It makes me giggle when someone claims that another's actions will somehow prevent their own success or alter their fab' destiny. "

Yep!! Thing is it's an easy thing to blame for their own lack of success (which often when you look actually comes down to a poor profile and a series of cock pics )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

I agree. I remember getting a message from a guy who was banging on about how many blokes on here are timewasters, have no respect for women, aren't genuine, won't turn up etc and that he wasn't like that, he was one of the good guys blah blah. I politely turned him down as I found his putting down of others disrespecful and unnecessary.

I wonder if it's down to numbers. With so few women, some of them are quite demanding in what they want from a guy and as such the list of demands are more in line with dating requirements rather than NSA sex.

This in turn leads to the men pointing out the deficiencies of other guys to get a leg up (hopefully leading to leg over ) when they don't quite match the high standards required."

I'm not sure why some guys do it but putting others down to big themselves up has never sat well with me. Just no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is there are more men than women so they can ask whatever they want, demand it's then down to the guy to meet the demands if not then take the knock back on the chin and move on.... I am happy to be told no thanks rather than blanked but hey that's me. Everyone just need enjoy the sire for what it is. If the person we wanna meet isn't interested move on. Knocking other males is just a stupid thing to consider as it will just have a knock on effect to the person(s) themself(ves)!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another way of blokes trying to say they're better than other guys.

I agree. I remember getting a message from a guy who was banging on about how many blokes on here are timewasters, have no respect for women, aren't genuine, won't turn up etc and that he wasn't like that, he was one of the good guys blah blah. I politely turned him down as I found his putting down of others disrespecful and unnecessary.

I wonder if it's down to numbers. With so few women, some of them are quite demanding in what they want from a guy and as such the list of demands are more in line with dating requirements rather than NSA sex.

This in turn leads to the men pointing out the deficiencies of other guys to get a leg up (hopefully leading to leg over ) when they don't quite match the high standards required.

I'm not sure why some guys do it but putting others down to big themselves up has never sat well with me. Just no need for it. "

Totally agree , I've never said " there are loads of men who mess people about, or made out about time wasters!" How can i? I don't know everyone else's personal circumstances, I'll just focus on my own issues than someone else's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you! "

Good, never liked you anyway...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

In the sense of tarring with the same brush the bad effect the good to a point. Also I have seen a few posts from couples saying they no longer will meet single guys after bad experiences.

Whilst it's true you make your own luck and should aim to stand out. The pool of availabilty is still reduced.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway... "

It's ok no-one else does either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway...

It's ok no-one else does either "

Now you're just tarring everyone with the same brush

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway...

It's ok no-one else does either

Now you're just tarring everyone with the same brush "

Tarred and feathered they should,tarred and feathered!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway...

It's ok no-one else does either

Now you're just tarring everyone with the same brush

Tarred and feathered they should,tarred and feathered! "

That's just some new kinky shit you're into. Go on, admit it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway...

It's ok no-one else does either

Now you're just tarring everyone with the same brush

Tarred and feathered they should,tarred and feathered!

That's just some new kinky shit you're into. Go on, admit it"

Yeah I'm into bird's now,keep that to yourself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm going to lump you all in the same boat,timewasters the lot of you!

Good, never liked you anyway...

It's ok no-one else does either

Now you're just tarring everyone with the same brush

Tarred and feathered they should,tarred and feathered!

That's just some new kinky shit you're into. Go on, admit it"

It's not new kinky shit here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you do things right, no one will know you've done anything at all"

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(No idea who said that, I saw it in a futurama episode )

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