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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I go on a sex ban the week before. Guaranteed to be horny after a week of abstinence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go on a sex ban the week before. Guaranteed to be horny after a week of abstinence "

Amd a wank ban?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I go on a sex ban the week before. Guaranteed to be horny after a week of abstinence

Amd a wank ban? "

Yep complete abstinence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go on a sex ban the week before. Guaranteed to be horny after a week of abstinence

Amd a wank ban?

Yep complete abstinence "

No wonder my mojo through me in the back seat and is now driving with the stereo turned up to full.

It been s while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We refrain from any sexual activity for a couple of days, but have plenty of sexy chat, then we enjoy getting dressed up (Angel in sexy underwear and high heels) and that gets us revved up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely it's that rare an event that I'm guaranteed to be up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in the mood...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Always in the mood... "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always in the mood... "

Can I have that as my Christmas user name ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh on the day I'm meant to meet some one I'm always uber excited

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Sometimes I have to push myself to go out, sometimes I can get nervous, feel like its too much effort, feel abit unsure, but once I'm out out, I have a great time... So I just remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always in the mood...

Can I have that as my Christmas user name ? "

Feel free....I won't sue, I'll just consider it an invitation

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

The excitement and nervousness of a meet gets me aroused.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone? "

TBH I’m not sure!

Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.

A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!

Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!

Mojo now officially through the floor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a run..gym..or exercise to get adrenaline going..

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone?

TBH I’m not sure!

Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.

A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!

Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!

Mojo now officially through the floor! "

How can others decide who you meet

Time for a complete change of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh it doesnt take me much to 'get in the mood'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Very rare I’m not in the mood to be honest, the reason would be I’m too ill or something out the ordinary had happened then I’d probably cancel as wouldn’t be on my game unless it was a regular and they’d understand anyway I’d hope

Or once it's gone it's gone? "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone?

TBH I’m not sure!

Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.

A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!

Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!

Mojo now officially through the floor!

How can others decide who you meet

Time for a complete change of friends "

They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!

It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!

It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting!]

Wow really sorry to hear that

How terribly upsetting, I simply don’t understand how or why someone thinks this is ok xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone?

TBH I’m not sure!

Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.

A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!

Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!

Mojo now officially through the floor! "

Hope yr ok chick;(

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?

What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?

Or once it's gone it's gone?

TBH I’m not sure!

Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.

A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!

Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!

Mojo now officially through the floor!

How can others decide who you meet

Time for a complete change of friends

They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!

It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting! "

Don't let others decide for you....ever!

The fact that "these guys" are being coerced by others probably says more about the guys than it does about you.

If people can't make their own minds up here and rely on gossip to make their judgements it says far more about them than it does about you.

And the guys who lack sufficient balls to stand up to such bullying..

Are they really what you seek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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[They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!

It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting!]

Wow really sorry to hear that

How terribly upsetting, I simply don’t understand how or why someone thinks this is ok xx"

Gosh that’s awful there are some horrible human beings around

Chin up luv and yes change your friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone not want to meet you again?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Apologies peeps - certainly wasn’t trying to take over the thread - just explaining what was affecting my Mojo - and why I’ll be taking more of a back seat on fab from January!

I know a lot of people think you’ve ‘got it made’ if you’re a single fem on fab - but as many can tell you - there’s a lot of bitching, jealousy and politics - and it ain’t all fun!

Anyway - sorry for whinging!

I’m gonna grab a cuddle from my youngest and put a smile on my face!

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