FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons you heard for not going to a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit of fun....whats the best excuse you've heard to someone say to you why they cannot meet or have you had the wall of silence just before your due to meet?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pimple down below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unexpected brother/friend/uncle emergency!!!

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

No explanation just no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He got lost.... Twice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

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new sat nav off Santa for him then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

new sat nav off Santa for him then

I blocked him years ago. Two chances was enough

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Wall of silence all too often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wall of silence all too often lol"

Hello you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

new sat nav off Santa for him then

I blocked him years ago. Two chances was enough

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3rd strike he didn't make it haha

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Couldn't face the thought of mechanical sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was filling up with petrol and dropped his phone which was his Sat nav too. Claimed he was 5 mins away when it happened.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Wall of silence all too often lol

Hello you

How do. Welcome back.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

They spent more money than they wanted and now have no money to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they arrived but saw someone they knew so left without saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

Did you scare him by talking that pure filth with no vowels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After speaking for weeks and finally arranging a social she never turned up.

I waited and waited like a idiot and went back home.

Her excuse was she got pulled over by the police for speeding and was in the police cells.

I replied with= I didn't know they threw you in the police cells for speeding and how lovely of them for letting you take your phone in the cell with you to contact me.

She blocked me then on her phone and on here lol x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

My mother is over from Greece (suddenly on the morning of the meet then silence and unlos by him)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv shit myself cos you too good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

Haha I got that aswell

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"After speaking for weeks and finally arranging a social she never turned up.

I waited and waited like a idiot and went back home.

Her excuse was she got pulled over by the police for speeding and was in the police cells.

I replied with= I didn't know they threw you in the police cells for speeding and how lovely of them for letting you take your phone in the cell with you to contact me.

She blocked me then on her phone and on here lol x "

The prize is yours lol. That's a classic if i ever did hear one!

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By *cot611Man
over a year ago

carterton

im sure i speak for more than just myself when i say that in my opinion, making an excuse to cancel a meet is beyond comprehension.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

All from the same guy... And I refused to arrange another with him! Hence now 1 strike and you're out rule. 2 if given a very good reason.

On the morning of a meet... My mate suddenly turned up to stay for the week...

I thought you had such a good meet on Tuesday you won't want to meet me (Thursday)

Can't make it tonight mate turned up his Mrs kicked him out(a different mate)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on my way to a meet once having spent a small fortune on an outfit, got a text about an hour into the journey to say don't bother, manners cost nothing. Apparently I hadn't replied to a text message while I was on a train. I genuinely got off at the next station and headed home in tears. Only due to what I'd spent on what seemed like a genuine couple. I deleted my account after it.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I had a guy I was texting suddenly pretend to be a work mate that discovered this phone at work and threateningly warned me off saying his friend was married with kids...i answered that his mate had told me previous that he fancied one of his male collegues-you?,and that he had once jacked off onto the arse of the guys overalls....i waited but never heard from that number again.

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

When I used to do Guestlist s for events,Without fail every party would have at least a multitude of some major family disaster or parents on death beds .

I decided for the sake of human preservation and my sanity best not have guestlist anymore but a Word from the wise For those that use these unnecessary excuses, its not always a great idea to show an explicit verification the same time you was attending ypur uncle Billy s last rights !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say the best as I'd be risking a ban so I'll pick at random .. "A hotel? Don't you want to take me somewhere NICE for coffee" then cancelled. The hotel in question was 5star £120 a night, coffee is £6.00 a time. Not nice? Don't know what she was used to, well I do but we won't go there

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

"they arrived but saw someone they knew so left without saying hello"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He got lost.... Twice!

Haha I got that aswell "

was it the same guy?

haha x

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Mine which was last night funnily enough ... messaged me 30 mins b4 we were due to meet saying he was too tired to drive as had no sleep n also his little child as ill and needed looking after!..... 3 hours later puts a status up saying who wants to pick him up and suck his freshly trimmed cock?!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One male I had met a few times cancelled on me last min because he had to work late, I knew him fairly well so thought it was genuine. Until later that night he displayed a veri from a couple that begun "just had a meet with ......."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine which was last night funnily enough ... messaged me 30 mins b4 we were due to meet saying he was too tired to drive as had no sleep n also his little child as ill and needed looking after!..... 3 hours later puts a status up saying who wants to pick him up and suck his freshly trimmed cock?!....

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basically he was sitting there for 3 whole hours trimming his meat

shocking! Haha

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

basically he was sitting there for 3 whole hours trimming his meat

shocking! Haha "

Ha ha

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

basically he was sitting there for 3 whole hours trimming his meat

shocking! Haha

Ha ha

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That's more shocking than the guy from a couple who pulled a hangstring and cancelled a social. wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my fair share. Mostly work related or family illness.

Fair enough as these things can happen. I've had to cancel because of child illness. As for work related... Don't arrange to meet if it's a possibility that you will need to work!!

Luckily I've never had someone cancel on me and then display a veri or put up a meet request. That in my book is completely wrong and just goes to show that you had a lucky escape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once had a guy who we were chatting to on here for a while, organised a meet at ours (very rare thing), everything seemed like it was going to plan, both getting very excited. Messaged saying we're ready.... And he replied saying 'nah, footie's on telly I'm staying at home'

Hence why we like to meet at clubs now!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"After speaking for weeks and finally arranging a social she never turned up.

I waited and waited like a idiot and went back home.

Her excuse was she got pulled over by the police for speeding and was in the police cells.

I replied with= I didn't know they threw you in the police cells for speeding and how lovely of them for letting you take your phone in the cell with you to contact me.

She blocked me then on her phone and on here lol x

The prize is yours lol. That's a classic if i ever did hear one!

Isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin Lorry had broken down and they couldn't get their car out of the street

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bin Lorry had broken down and they couldn't get their car out of the street

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might be a true story the bin wagons are notorious for blocking off roads Haha!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Bin Lorry had broken down and they couldn't get their car out of the street

I've actually had this, ok wasn't a meet, but my kids were late for school!

The only reasons I've been given are always work related.

I've also had to cancel a couple due to work, ending up covering shifts when folk off sick.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

One guy cancelled on us because he was pissed up at a wake!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Last minute babysitting for his little sister at 10am which never seemed to end, and good old radio silence...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one guy told me he didn't get released from the police cells in time , its true !

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Slipped in the shower and went unconscious and had to go to the hospital when they came round...

Sure..

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Absolutely never cancell a sex session anyone who does is crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His mother died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was on my way to a meet once having spent a small fortune on an outfit, got a text about an hour into the journey to say don't bother, manners cost nothing. Apparently I hadn't replied to a text message while I was on a train. I genuinely got off at the next station and headed home in tears. Only due to what I'd spent on what seemed like a genuine couple. I deleted my account after it. "

Good job for us all you came back.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our funniest one was a guy actually got to our house, He was quite nice looking, got undressed was having his Willy sucked and then his phone went.

Immediately after he actually made a feeble excuse saying he'd left some wine out in the car and wanted to go and get it. We said no no no, it's OK we have plenty but he insisted. We looked at each other as he went out the door and said " he's not coming back is he ???", sure enough he drove off. We're not that bad are we, we thought LOL

To restore our faith we got a text asking if he could come back so obviously it wasn't our looks that had put him off

He said his uncle was ill in hospital and he had to visit him. Needless to say we thought it was much more likely that his wife had texted him and asked him if he would be home for tea LOL.

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By *aringdoraWoman
over a year ago

Whitehaven

Arranged a meet txt to say could he make it 15 mins earlier,said he'd managed to arrange another meet with a TV but would come and lick me out if i wanted lol hence he was given the boot but wasn't going to let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got the " I've bottled it" text.....pmsl

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By *aringdoraWoman
over a year ago

Whitehaven

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

'wife not been feeling to well' Truth being wife didn't know anything about it in the first place!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my single profile,i arranged a meet on the sat night,we had been texting a good while before this.

His messages started tailing off and by Fri he had cancelled,saying he had to have his 2 kids sat .

Thats fair enough,life comes first.Then he displayed a new veri sunday .Hate that and wish he had just said he got a bettee offer.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just got the " I've bottled it" text.....pmsl

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haha probably thought you'll eat them alive

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"On my single profile,i arranged a meet on the sat night,we had been texting a good while before this.

His messages started tailing off and by Fri he had cancelled,saying he had to have his 2 kids sat .

Thats fair enough,life comes first.Then he displayed a new veri sunday .Hate that and wish he had just said he got a bettee offer.

Miss"

I suspect this is a common one....

There are many single guys just using the site as a dating tool like all the other sites /apps out there. They want to meet singles primarily, but a couple will do if they can't find a single. So they arrange a meet with a couple and if a better offer from a single comes along in the meantime, they cancel or even worse go AWOL.

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By *heartsasoneCouple
over a year ago

outside of plymouth

Worst ever cancel. Meeting in pub we arrived early bottle of wine and chillin like we do and thinking pub is quite tonight. NO show at given time or anything for a hr so still enjoying our own time 10 people in pub then get a message sorry didn’t see you in pub was very busy where you there. Alan’s reply was get a life that said we did use location to find a nice guy so was a nice evening.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"Bit of fun....whats the best excuse you've heard to someone say to you why they cannot meet or have you had the wall of silence just before your due to meet?....."

Kick-off in my footy match has been put back by an hour and a half so I'm gonna be an hour and half late for meet...

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Got a puncture. A family emergency and got lost. The list could go on and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one that cancelled a few years ago last minute after a good social the week before as he had got back with his partner. I was like that’s so cool dude and kudos for not still trying to do me!

Had 1 no show but I was with a ex and we had a feeling it would be a no show so sat in starbucks drinking coffee and went shopping to IKEA instead

I’ve pulled out when something doesn’t seem right or if the painters have turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All from the same guy... And I refused to arrange another with him! Hence now 1 strike and you're out rule. 2 if given a very good reason.

On the morning of a meet... My mate suddenly turned up to stay for the week...

I thought you had such a good meet on Tuesday you won't want to meet me (Thursday)

Can't make it tonight mate turned up his Mrs kicked him out(a different mate) "

So many mates just ‘turn up’ when kicked out, surprised me how they have the room for them, generally they can’t accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I used to do Guestlist s for events,Without fail every party would have at least a multitude of some major family disaster or parents on death beds .

Oh that meet was ages ago, they only just got round to doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time - boss keeping him back, so couldn't make it.

Second time - nan was rushed to hospital.

Third time - repeat of the second time.

All were a few hours before we were due to meet. Most of us work, so I get the first one. Second one - I gave him the benefit of the doubt, as would be an awful lie. Third time - I didn't even bother getting ready, as expected some sort of cowpoo excuse

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"All from the same guy... And I refused to arrange another with him! Hence now 1 strike and you're out rule. 2 if given a very good reason.

On the morning of a meet... My mate suddenly turned up to stay for the week...

I thought you had such a good meet on Tuesday you won't want to meet me (Thursday)

Can't make it tonight mate turned up his Mrs kicked him out(a different mate)

So many mates just ‘turn up’ when kicked out, surprised me how they have the room for them, generally they can’t accommodate "
yes very strange and he's still trying to meet me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our funniest one was a guy actually got to our house, He was quite nice looking, got undressed was having his Willy sucked and then his phone went.

To restore our faith we got a text asking if he could come back so obviously it wasn't our looks that had put him off

He said his uncle was ill in hospital and he had to visit him. Needless to say we thought it was much more likely that his wife had texted him and asked him if he would be home for tea LOL."

Although in theory he DID turn up for the actual meet, this one wins the prize in my eyes.

Purely because at the time of him suddenly having to dash off his pride and joy had a knowledgeable pair of lips around it, sucking away...

I mean what kind of utter weapon would leave in that situation...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I need to point out that he did put his clothes back on incase you were all wondering if he dashed out with just his shoes on and clutching his clothes to hide his manhood LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once told by a local lady that she couldn't meet me because, and I quote!

"You're too my type and I know I'd end up falling for you"

Which is probably the most flattering thing she could have said and made me increadibly wary of how truthful it was, she's gorgeous too so it didn't do my ego any harm. Probably the nicest "thanks but no thanks" I've ever received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No explanation just no show"

This is far too common! Normally (in my case) followed by the said standerupper receiving a verification from someone else later that night/the next morning

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

Respect to that guy for doing that as I'm not sure many would as you look rather pleasing on the eye! Nice to hear a positive story and respect to you for putting it down as one of those things. I'm sure there are plenty who wouldn't take it so well

"Had one that cancelled a few years ago last minute after a good social the week before as he had got back with his partner. I was like that’s so cool dude and kudos for not still trying to do me!

Had 1 no show but I was with a ex and we had a feeling it would be a no show so sat in starbucks drinking coffee and went shopping to IKEA instead

I’ve pulled out when something doesn’t seem right or if the painters have turned up

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Wall of silence most common. 2nd would be car broken. Haven't seen any original excuses so far, but I'm sure they'll come up sooner or later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From another site: my drains have burst and my cellar is full of sewage, followed by several graphic descriptions of the cleaning process. He didn't actually cancel, just delayed the meet, but never turned up at the rearranged time (and was never going to).

Always good to know someone would literally shovel shit rather than meet me.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Went to a club with a fella I had met at an organised social. As soon as we got in the club he complained he had cut his finger and needed to get a plaster. Despite me looking at his finger and saying....where is the cut? (There was none).They will have plasters behind the bar he went to fetch a plaster......still waiting for him to come back.That was about 3 months ago. Obviously a long trek to his car!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her work boss turned up at her home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went to a club with a fella I had met at an organised social. As soon as we got in the club he complained he had cut his finger and needed to get a plaster. Despite me looking at his finger and saying....where is the cut? (There was none).They will have plasters behind the bar he went to fetch a plaster......still waiting for him to come back.That was about 3 months ago. Obviously a long trek to his car!!"

Perhaps gangrene set in on the journey to the bar

Or he bottled it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost wifi connection!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps gangrene set in on the journey to the bar

Or he bottled it.

There's some fast acting gangrene in Merseyside!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly wall of silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged to meet at local costa, guy never arrived and total silence. Two months later he contacted me , when questioned about the no show, his excuse was I had just been made redundant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had many a no show on here and other sites without any explanation offered, genuine or otherwise.

We think one of the best was: I got scared.

Does happen, it was only a social though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am lucky enough to be invited to a meet...I WILL be there and play.I do not let people down.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

It just shows you how many clowns there are out there.

I feel lucky with the meets I have had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stuck once on a motorway behind a bad accident, nothing moved for hours. I got hassle from the couple but they could see online that the motorway was closed and knew it was my route to them.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"We once had a guy who we were chatting to on here for a while, organised a meet at ours (very rare thing), everything seemed like it was going to plan, both getting very excited. Messaged saying we're ready.... And he replied saying 'nah, footie's on telly I'm staying at home'

Hence why we like to meet at clubs now! "

.....either that, or try to set up a meet on a day when there's no footie on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve arrived at a hotel that I’ve paid for to find that I’m now blocked!

Or I’ve logged on to find UNLOS more than once

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

en route to a meet (social) a 40 mile drive, got a text-cant meet she has had to go to her sisters. nothing more since

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"We had an unexpected delivery or paving slabs and now Mr. is knackered"

Text received at 7:15pm while we were on our way to a meet for 7:30pm. Had got ready and decided as it was local, leave at 7:10pm Just got through the town and received the text.

A few weeks later they received a verification from another couple and when we looked at their profile, the local couple had verified them on the night we should have met!

Funny, not spoken since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t get out of the world car park as lorry overloaded and tipped over in the entrance.

No text since

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By *heeky_subCouple
over a year ago

northampton

I couldn't come round because his landlady didn't allow guests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a meet with a guy, he was meeting friends prior to our meeting. Waited, no show. Ok, fair enough.

Next morning no apology, just "on my way to meet you last night, my friend had a seizure in the taxi"

Didn't bother replying, just hoped that it wasn't a crap excuse and he wasn't so low as to use someone having a seizure

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By *lattankMan
over a year ago

pontypridd

I had to give an excuse once, that seemed fake but it wasn’t, I had a lunchtime meet planned, just as I’m about to get up to leave my company director asked for an hour of my time, which he had never done before, so couldn’t say no. Im still gutted that I missed that meet, and to be fair we are still chatting and trying to organise things.

But I do t think me cancelling helped my chances ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot I am going on holiday this evening to Tenerife!" Now, holidays are one thing I never forget about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard of ;

Car broke down

WS in a car accident At the hospital

My mum died

Got a puncture

I’m not saying

Had a better offer

Most are bullshit !! We no longer meet unverified people who are not prepared to chat on the phone beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heard of ;

Car broke down

WS in a car accident At the hospital

My mum died

Got a puncture

I’m not saying

Had a better offer

Most are bullshit !! We no longer meet unverified people who are not prepared to chat on the phone beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went shopping last night and broke my arm (him not me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No explanation just no show"

Never had a no show bother with an excuse.

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

I had a meet the other night waited around for an hour for him. He turned up went into the pub ordered 2 s he took a gob full of his drink then said he was going outside for a ciggy. I sat down and he had fucked off. I text him asking where he was no reply. Got home checked on here he had blocked me. I found out that on his status he called me a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet the other night waited around for an hour for him. He turned up went into the pub ordered 2 s he took a gob full of his drink then said he was going outside for a ciggy. I sat down and he had fucked off. I text him asking where he was no reply. Got home checked on here he had blocked me. I found out that on his status he called me a prostitute

What a moron! Well, after having a look at your profile I will say it's his loss. I only I were in Plymouth!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

One couple I was travelling to (about an hour's drive) rang me while I was en route and asked me to purchase and deliver their shopping from a supermarket near to their home!

I had to pay for it then they admitted they'd not reimburse me in any way, so I refused to get their shopping and stick to meet only.

They cancelled out and branded me a time waster!

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy 20 mins before we were meant to meet say his work called him in at 10pm told me later he was scared to meet me. Another told me that he was on his way when he was still sat at home. And one said he fell off a ladder at work and hurt his ankle. Oh and best one was a guy I was meant to meet never turned up and messaged me the day after our meet to one say he got d*unk with his mates and fell over and hurt his ankle

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By *hagulikeMan
over a year ago

Essex

I had to bail from a meet on the way as I crashed car , was genuine and did make it 3 weeks later but want a good meet as was supposed to be MMf with a couple but sure she wasn’t his gf more like a call girl but still had 3 way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the morning of the meet, he told us he didn't have any legs below the knee caps. So we asked why didn't his girlfriend come and explain. He said they've just split up that morning, he's really upset, but he's going to find another girlfriend to do this again.

One guy cancelled on the morning because he was going to go to the football instead.

One lady cancelled cos her mum died. She told another site swinger the same excuse, a month earlier.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The roads are icy and I might fall off my bike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot about one I had where I almost cancelled a few years ago. Firstly I slipped in the bath and hurt myself

So I text to say I would be late - it was only for a coffee social. Then I got to the end of my street and my car broke down. I was blocking the road and people had to try and get me moving again which there was no luck so had to call the guy. He seemed doubtful so I told him to come and wait with me for the AA! He did and sat in my car - weirdest social I ever had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept getting cancelled by a girl who kept contacting me convincing me that she was genuinely interested but had a busy life which I understood at first but then the excuses became tedious. I did a quick search on her and it turned out she was cancelling our meets because she's a fulltime prostitute that according to her clients veri's were on the same dates our meets were planned. Needless to say we don't speak anymore but when I did ask her why she did it this was her response - "f*** you you insecure little b**** no wonder no one wants to meet you" . If I can just add to that I've had 6 veri's in the 6 weeks I've been here which if I'm honest isn't too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of fun....whats the best excuse you've heard to someone say to you why they cannot meet or have you had the wall of silence just before your due to meet?....."

One just simply said he forgot! But usually the wall of silence

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Had to suddenly organise a birthday party for their child the next day!!.

Crap excuse for no show. Sorry you don't get second chances. Block and move on.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Met a guy for a social and it went really.

He wanted to meet again later that week, but I couldn't on those dates due to work & children.

Arranged to meet the week after, daily messages then an hour before, he cancels.

Said he'd met someone, had been seeing her all week & wanted a proper relationship with her & was leaving Fabs.

He's still here 5months later & views my profile, often several times everyday.

Just odd?

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By *moothnessMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Got a text - Can't meet until 10.30pm.

Ok. I say.

Get Text 11.00pm - sorry fell asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total silence and block after week of talking

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

"One couple I was travelling to (about an hour's drive) rang me while I was en route and asked me to purchase and deliver their shopping from a supermarket near to their home!

I had to pay for it then they admitted they'd not reimburse me in any way, so I refused to get their shopping and stick to meet only.

They cancelled out and branded me a time waster!

Eh?"

Eh. Unreal.

What a brass neck, Canny even get there own shopping the lazy sods.

Then had the cheek to brand you a timewaster

And cancelled on you because you wouldn’t get them shopping which they were unwilling to re-compensate you.

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