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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok why never the man on the photos ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok why never the man on the photos ?

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erm you dont have any

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By *ne-just4funMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"ok why never the man on the photos ?

erm you dont have any "

You must be able to answer your own question then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever would the wives think?

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

We have them but friends only.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

We have ours in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, there in private. Why, where are yours then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have em, need something to scare the hordes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus...there have been some ironic threads today!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

mine is there in all its glory lol

I think others should be able to see what they are getting

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Ours are in private.

If we make the first approach to somebody we always attach a face pic and hope it doesn't scare them too much

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Cos they fruggly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have face pics in public gallery due to the jobs we have. But we have them in our private gallery to show people that we nay meet.

We don't think there's anything wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz sum of us is coyote fugly...;-)

Mine are in private too...;-) waiting to be sent to all the couples who know where to find me...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I'm a minger and proud... lol

although i am playing about with the idea of dressing up as a ninja for the next pics....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you no what am thinking in taking mines off due to some abusive mail i receive - and never even contacted them in the 1st place

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

mines here minger and proud

but you know what your getting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause I'm famous!!

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By *anny.Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Because the boss may be looking on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On our private ones we do whats your excuse ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"On our private ones we do whats your excuse ?"

Maybe other couples are the same. Why does it matter so much to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We do prefer to know who we might be having fun with after all we have certain standards

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We do prefer to know who we might be having fun with after all we have certain standards "

But you're saying couples should have public pics of blokes on their profiles, while NOT having public pics on your profile.

Hmmmmmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do prefer to know who we might be having fun with after all we have certain standards

But you're saying couples should have public pics of blokes on their profiles, while NOT having public pics on your profile.

Hmmmmmmm....."

what i said early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have them and i have one on my single profile,but only for friends.

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

I have mine in private

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was trying to make this topic easy private pics or gallery pics still no excuse we have them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was trying to make this topic easy private pics or gallery pics still no excuse we have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but I'm a little confused OP.

Can you enlighten us further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok why never the man on the photos ?

"

Cos we don`t want to totally ruin our chances of a meet, before my irresistable charm and personality gets a chance to shine.............. Plus the fact that I have a body in which only science would be in the slightest bit interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Him*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got one on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with couples there is always pics of the women Men seem to think a pic of the the women is enough to i[entice the women I DONT THINK SO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with couples there is always pics of the women Men seem to think a pic of the the women is enough to i[entice the women I DONT THINK SO

"

Yet another ironic post!

Where's your enticing pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with couples there is always pics of the women Men seem to think a pic of the the women is enough to i[entice the women I DONT THINK SO

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So where the hell are your pics then? very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry but I'm a little confused OP.

Can you enlighten us further?"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with couples there is always pics of the women Men seem to think a pic of the the women is enough to i[entice the women I DONT THINK SO

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With no photos yourself, you're kidding with this post right?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another excuse to pick on us poor single guys everybody say awwwwww,plus another double standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another excuse to pick on us poor single guys everybody say awwwwww,plus another double standard "
would agree with you op got it very wrong on his part he moans about it - and they dont have any pictures of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and there not looking for single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have face pics in private too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty on ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a few lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have them but only in private and send them if we trust the person or persons

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have face photos of both of us that we send if we are interested in meeting someone.

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.

cos we are really very shy beings?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even with couples there is always pics of the women Men seem to think a pic of the the women is enough to i[entice the women I DONT THINK SO

"

The funniest part of this rather obscure post is the capitals intended to be aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say though that there are defo more female pics on profiles. Usually loads of the female and one or two obsure ones of the guy.

We only send full indiv pics of each of us to potential meets. Our choice.

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

in my opinion, and its just that, mine, i think people should have face pics on their profile so you can see if there is any attraction to begin with, if not, then pass them by and dont give any potty mouth to them.

i like to see who i am chatting to and poss meeting.but then again, i wouldnt meet anyone without seeing a face pic.it doesnt take much to ask if they have a pic does it.and some folks hide it because of their jobs, well, we are all on here for sex.just ask if they dont have a pic, simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind jobs... what about family members spotting their mom, dad, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, son or daughter???

That's what's great about Fab... they give every individual on here choice (and a lot of it) on how they run THEIR OWN profiles.

Yes, I agree anyone could ask to see a face pic if it's not readily available on the public profile, which works just fine for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haz face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we only want guys we feel they want to see me and not hubby. we could be wrong but its worked so far. we only send a face pic when we are wanting to meet and expect one back.

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

IVE GOT ONE and keep one on top of fireplace in case any kids visit its keeps them away from the fire LOL XXXXX IM SINGLE so i dont mind showing my ugly mug xxxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's no point in me putting face pics on my profile as they won't be representative.

You're going to see three versions of my face on a meet:

1. My sheepish look upon arrival.

2. The top of my head as it's buried between your legs.

3. My cum face.

None of these would be 'enticing' were they on my profile.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Never mind jobs... what about family members spotting their mom, dad, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, son or daughter???

"

talk about keeping it in the family ... guess those are Norfolk profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok why never the man on the photos ?

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You can put them up if you chose to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i can say is ,,,, the bells the bell

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

cos I'm usually the one holding the camera

Having said that, we've just sorted that one out in this afto's shoot and should have some new ones up soon

Wolf

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

No no no! We are way too important to have face pics on here. Our jobs are sooo important that if anyone saw us… And suppose that someone saw us shopping! They might shout across the road at us and the kids will ask awkward questions!

Oh, wait a minute, we do have face pics of me! Guess I am just not that important then… (sigh) Slinks back to his office and Mrs R, who holds a reasonably senior position within a major multi-national (and was outed!) comforts her poor, disillusioned hubby!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"No no no! We are way too important to have face pics on here. Our jobs are sooo important that if anyone saw us… And suppose that someone saw us shopping! They might shout across the road at us and the kids will ask awkward questions!

Oh, wait a minute, we do have face pics of me! Guess I am just not that important then… (sigh) Slinks back to his office and Mrs R, who holds a reasonably senior position within a major multi-national (and was outed!) comforts her poor, disillusioned hubby!

"

Awkward questions from the kids? Tell me about it!

Asked me why the sky was blue the other day. Didn't have a fucking clue what to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What works for some people doesnt for others.

So what if you prefer to see face pics before you send a message - tough isnt it if there arent any on a profile you are looking at.

Move on, no-ones begging you to message profiles with only the female of the couple photographed.

There are so many people on here who act as if you owe them.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"What works for some people doesnt for others.

So what if you prefer to see face pics before you send a message - tough isnt it if there arent any on a profile you are looking at.

Move on, no-ones begging you to message profiles with only the female of the couple photographed.

There are so many people on here who act as if you owe them.

"

I know you're not the smallest of girls, but that bloke trying to pick you up in the photo must be fucking massive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree


"Awkward questions from the kids? Tell me about it!

Asked me why the sky was blue the other day. Didn't have a fucking clue what to say."

Just say 'because' and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have my face pic on an open profile.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" "

BEHIND YOU!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never have my face pic on an open profile."

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"No no no! We are way too important to have face pics on here. Our jobs are sooo important that if anyone saw us… And suppose that someone saw us shopping! They might shout across the road at us and the kids will ask awkward questions!

Oh, wait a minute, we do have face pics of me! Guess I am just not that important then… (sigh) Slinks back to his office and Mrs R, who holds a reasonably senior position within a major multi-national (and was outed!) comforts her poor, disillusioned hubby!

Awkward questions from the kids? Tell me about it!

Asked me why the sky was blue the other day. Didn't have a fucking clue what to say."

Ahh, but you have to be a bit cute with kids! When they ask why the sky is blue, just say.. "Because it has just had some very bad news"!

They won't understand, but it shuts em up while they think about it!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I have a private full-face photo, which I'm happy to share. But I'd like people to be interested in me before they see my face.

I'm no Adonis. Then again I'm no Quasimodo either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No no no! We are way too important to have face pics on here. Our jobs are sooo important that if anyone saw us… And suppose that someone saw us shopping! They might shout across the road at us and the kids will ask awkward questions!

Oh, wait a minute, we do have face pics of me! Guess I am just not that important then… (sigh) Slinks back to his office and Mrs R, who holds a reasonably senior position within a major multi-national (and was outed!) comforts her poor, disillusioned hubby!

Awkward questions from the kids? Tell me about it!

Asked me why the sky was blue the other day. Didn't have a fucking clue what to say."

tch tch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i dont show my pic in my public profile due to the nature of the work i do, not because of being scared of loosing job but a personal safety issue. And apart from anything else this is my private life i ll choose who comes into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum may recognise me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all "

Thankyou someone who understands and not a twat in sunglasses xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all "

Thankyou someone who understands and not a twat in sunglasses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got face pics on my profile. Got no problem with it. After all, if anyone I knew recognised me and wanted to question why I'm here, I'd simply answer with, "Well what were *you* doing there to see my profile, hmmmn?"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all

Thankyou someone who understands and not a twat in sunglasses xx"

Not sure why 'if a poster raises a valid questions about why you are asking about other peoples pics when yours are the same' needs to be labelled a twat.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

question*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all

Thankyou someone who understands and not a twat in sunglasses xx

Not sure why 'if a poster raises a valid questions about why you are asking about other peoples pics when yours are the same' needs to be labelled a twat.

"

Yes quite, I cant understand that either. The question raised was not abusive, unlike the OP's response, and is a valid question - why are you complaining about what others dont have on their profile when you dont offer that either. Why not just answer the question without abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok why never the man on the photos ?

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That's not your face is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have same bug bear .. we have face pics visible yet so many winks and/or friends invites from couples with either only fem pics or none at all

Thankyou someone who understands and not a twat in sunglasses xx

Not sure why 'if a poster raises a valid questions about why you are asking about other peoples pics when yours are the same' needs to be labelled a twat.

Yes quite, I cant understand that either. The question raised was not abusive, unlike the OP's response, and is a valid question - why are you complaining about what others dont have on their profile when you dont offer that either. Why not just answer the question without abuse. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion, and its just that, mine, i think people should have face pics on their profile so you can see if there is any attraction to begin with, if not, then pass them by and dont give any potty mouth to them. "

We do the same, if there are no face pics on the open gallery then we most probably wouldn't contact them.

You can open a whole can of worms contacting someone who then sends you a face pic and you find you don't fancy them.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn't sit right with me is the fact that I am someones mother, someones daughter, someones sister, niece, aunt etc.

If, I don't know how likely this could be, that they were on here, albeit "doing the same thing"... I'd hate the thought that they had seen pictures of me and 'ogled' (if they liked what they saw) to scroll down to face pics and it seriously mess up there heads

I know the argument there could be... have face pics... no sexy pics! Bollox to that!!! We like our profile the way it is... and our privacy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see .....

Wasnt a difficult question

thankyou to the people who get it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see ..... "

So do we... we are the same as you except we don't feel the need to question others users profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see .....

So do we... we are the same as you except we don't feel the need to question others users profiles "

...and their question didn't appear to be about private pics.

You'd think people would be able to put their point across without swearing...but hey ho, gives you a clear insight into some people you'd rather not have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see .....

So do we... we are the same as you except we don't feel the need to question others users profiles

...and their question didn't appear to be about private pics.

You'd think people would be able to put their point across without swearing...but hey ho, gives you a clear insight into some people you'd rather not have. "

yawnnnnnnnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see .....

So do we... we are the same as you except we don't feel the need to question others users profiles

...and their question didn't appear to be about private pics.

You'd think people would be able to put their point across without swearing...but hey ho, gives you a clear insight into some people you'd rather not have. "

Its cus sum peopl cunt use big wurds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fuck sakes we have private pics for people to see .....

So do we... we are the same as you except we don't feel the need to question others users profiles

...and their question didn't appear to be about private pics.

You'd think people would be able to put their point across without swearing...but hey ho, gives you a clear insight into some people you'd rather not have.

yawnnnnnnnnnnn"

Well. At least you got your maturity across without resorting to swearing

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By *IG_BLACK_ONEMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can see where hes coming from, attraction is important and in most couples the women want to have a good looking guy to meet with, as having had loads of contact from couples who dont have pics of the guy on their profile (some you can see why not!!) it is a bit wierd, but for the OP to have a face pic of his wife on profile pics and not himself sort of defeats his post. p.s. have face pics in my private pics as thats how i like to have it, my preference totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can see where hes coming from, attraction is important and in most couples the women want to have a good looking guy to meet with, as having had loads of contact from couples who dont have pics of the guy on their profile (some you can see why not!!) it is a bit wierd, but for the OP to have a face pic of his wife on profile pics and not himself sort of defeats his post. p.s. have face pics in my private pics as thats how i like to have it, my preference totally."

Yes, we've often wondered why some couples have a face pic of one yet hide the other.

Surely if you know or are related to one half of the couple then, chances are, you'll recognise their other half too.

XXXX

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I'm a minger and proud... lol

although i am playing about with the idea of dressing up as a ninja for the next pics.... "

That might cause some confusion if wearing bhurkas is ever banned in this country.

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