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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just wondered how could I catch genuine bi or bi courious females attention on here ?

However it's stated on my profile any female more than welcome..Im not really getting many interest in me

Any tips or ideas?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi OP.

I think the problem is that your profile is very much geared towards men.

For me, it's too negative as well. I prefer a profile that says what you do want, rather than what you don't.

many ladies are also not keen on meeting bi-curious ladies.

Maybe try a club. If I met you in a club I would be interested if we got on well in person, and you were interested in me.

Nita

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you want to meet ladies then you need to tailor your profile to attract them. Having a profile full of lots of rules and stating you are only looking to meet single straight Asian men will put most ladies off.

You also need to be messaging them and not just waiting for the ladies to contact you.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

You say specifically that you don't want bi or bi curious people to contact you, and that you're only looking for straight Asian men.

So why would a bisexual, Caucasian woman message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u got a big warning at the top saying single str asiain man only that's the first thing they see when they look at ur profile n they turn away Cose female aren't str Asian man lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP.

I think the problem is that your profile is very much geared towards men.

For me, it's too negative as well. I prefer a profile that says what you do want, rather than what you don't.

many ladies are also not keen on meeting bi-curious ladies.

Maybe try a club. If I met you in a club I would be interested if we got on well in person, and you were interested in me.

Nita"

Thanks Nita for your feedback.

Well I know my profile is sharp but due to a single account and many meaningless messages I do feel I have to clarify what I'm not into .

I changed my status from bi courious to Bisexaul as had a few females sexual experiences so basicly not a newbies .lets see if that helps any .

Will do a section for females on my bio too.

Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"u got a big warning at the top saying single str asiain man only that's the first thing they see when they look at ur profile n they turn away Cose female aren't str Asian man lol

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Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say specifically that you don't want bi or bi curious people to contact you, and that you're only looking for straight Asian men.

So why would a bisexual, Caucasian woman message you?"

Thanks for pointing that out . I havnt worded right as I meant no BI or bi courious man.

I will refrase that part.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I personally find the clubs much better, if you came along to a bi night you are likely to meet some interested bi ladies.

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

I would meet you if you were closer! I agree that your profile is a bit negative and sounds like you are putting people down. Also curious is misspelled which may put off the grammar Nazis on here! Good luck x T

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Waves hello

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Unfortunately I'm in a couple so I guess that counts me out

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

Also I'm not sure why you need to put no people with veris from TV CDs. Surely you can check people's veris and decide yourself? Sounds a bit off in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it still says in the 2nd line that you are only looking for asian men, not until the very end do you mention, almost in passing ,that women are welcome..i wouldn't see past the first statement to be honest..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Reword your profile starting at the top and explain that you are looking for bi Women at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would meet you if you were closer! I agree that your profile is a bit negative and sounds like you are putting people down. Also curious is misspelled which may put off the grammar Nazis on here! Good luck x T "

Thank you .I defo look into it as I'm a positive and kind person and to be honest after I read my profile might agree it's sound a bit negative.

Ps

Considering I'm not British one misspelled word is ain't that bad hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm just wondered how could I catch genuine bi or bi courious females attention on here ?

However it's stated on my profile any female more than welcome..Im not really getting many interest in me

Any tips or ideas? "

Never put to much importance on finding the right person as sometimes those hard thought words can cloud your judgement and all the words come out like mumbo jumbo.

I've got to the point now where if i find the one bi fem that I'm looking for or if I don't find her it doesn't matter as things should happen naturally through sexual attraction and friendship.

Everyone wants something different on here so it's all about finding someone compatible you.Most on here want a bi fem for a disposable toy to share and use in there m/f relationship and I don't want that but as soon as you say regular f/f friendships only they get mardy as your wants are different to there's.

Stick to your wants and rules and never compromise for anyone and never give up.All the waiting will be worth it when the right bi fem fun friend comes along and you build that trust and bond.just don't rush and make sure it's right for you x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have mentioned the profile is geared up 90% for guys. The bi female just gets one line at the end - far from enticing

Also, there are lots of lovely bi ladies who are part of a couple, but, they aren't in your 'looking for' list.

Good luck, have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm just wondered how could I catch genuine bi or bi courious females attention on here ?

However it's stated on my profile any female more than welcome..Im not really getting many interest in me

Any tips or ideas? "

I could even and you a wee wink as I'm too old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I suppose what puts one bi women off will be different to the next but yes your very strong opposition to bi men actually would put me off.

As a bisexual woman i want to meet open minded people. X

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Also I'm not sure why you need to put no people with veris from TV CDs. Surely you can check people's veris and decide yourself? Sounds a bit off in my opinion."

No, that's useful. It shows that the op is transphobic and makes sure people won't message her if they're not ok with that.

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

Good point!

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