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"I hope the 'no bleeding' rings true for me too eventually. What about sex drive? I've heard reports it goes through the roof. Which is not good as I'm always as horny as a teenage boy anyway!!" It should have no effect on sex drive as it only acts locally and doesn't flood the body with hormones like the implant or pill. maybe it's the freedom of worrying about pregnancy that makes you feel more horny? | |||
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"I went to see a consultant today about sterilisation. He has said that because I'm not in a relationship he is unwilling to steralise me, but advised the Mirena. I'm not happy, but interested but interested in how others are with it, as he was marketing it as a wonder cure for everything." Ask to see a different doctor. I was sterilized while not in a relationship. | |||
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"Wife has just had to have hers removed due to serious complications. Been told its rare, but can happen. Dont ignore persistent dull aching in your abdomen if you have one fitted." Well said, any ache or pain or bleed, pain during sex or bleeding after sex should be checked by a doctor ASAP they can be signs of cervical cancer... Ladies get your smear tests done. | |||
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"I went to see a consultant today about sterilisation. He has said that because I'm not in a relationship he is unwilling to steralise me, but advised the Mirena. I'm not happy, but interested but interested in how others are with it, as he was marketing it as a wonder cure for everything. Ask to see a different doctor. I was sterilized while not in a relationship." Me too but did take me six years to get it as ive no children..i refused the coil as it secretes a hormone that my body didnt like,same one as depo injection,really glad i refused as consultant made out it'd cure all...it wont..i chose an ablation and alls well now,all i can say is research your options thoroughly. ![]() | |||
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" Me too but did take me six years to get it as ive no children..i refused the coil as it secretes a hormone that my body didnt like,same one as depo injection,really glad i refused as consultant made out it'd cure all...it wont..i chose an ablation and alls well now,all i can say is research your options thoroughly. ![]() I had to come off Depo because it turned me into a psycho bitch from hell 3 weeks out of 4. Like seriously, 1 minute I was bouncing around like a giggly little thing, the next I was holding a knife to my wrists threatening to kill myself or anyone that came near me. So I'm not really keen to go through that again . | |||
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"I was wondering what other peoples experience of having one is, please share if you're happy to do so. Mrs Pip" 12 months of vaginal dryness and constant tendencies of BV. Most efficient contraception I've ever had as I was too embarrassed of the odour to sleep around. Took revenge as soon as I got rid off it! | |||
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"I went to see a consultant today about sterilisation. He has said that because I'm not in a relationship he is unwilling to steralise me, but advised the Mirena. I'm not happy, but interested but interested in how others are with it, as he was marketing it as a wonder cure for everything. Ask to see a different doctor. I was sterilized while not in a relationship. Me too but did take me six years to get it as ive no children..i refused the coil as it secretes a hormone that my body didnt like,same one as depo injection,really glad i refused as consultant made out it'd cure all...it wont..i chose an ablation and alls well now,all i can say is research your options thoroughly. ![]() It took me six months and I have no children and wasn't in a relationship. I also refused the coil for the same reason. It's worth knowing that GPs get a cash bonus for the amount of coils that they manage to fit into women and get them to keep for a certain amount of time. That's often why they're recommended over other types of medication. | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. " I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx" My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! " How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx" I don't know? Maybe one of those NHS postcode Lottery? Was told I'm too young ![]() | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx I don't know? Maybe one of those NHS postcode Lottery? Was told I'm too young ![]() Doesn't make sense, I've struggled all my life. Pay for private consultation xx | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. " Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx" Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? " Yes no hrt and cortorise top of cervix to make sure no bleed xx | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? Yes no hrt and cortorise top of cervix to make sure no bleed xx" Thanks for clarifying. Think this will be the next plan xx | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? Yes no hrt and cortorise top of cervix to make sure no bleed xx Thanks for clarifying. Think this will be the next plan xx" Inbox me for chat early days but had consultation Wed xx | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx I don't know? Maybe one of those NHS postcode Lottery? Was told I'm too young ![]() Are you paying for your procedure privately? | |||
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" It's worth knowing that GPs get a cash bonus for the amount of coils that they manage to fit into women and get them to keep for a certain amount of time. That's often why they're recommended over other types of medication." I suspected this might be the case as every time I went for a pill check they'd go on about it and being someone who doesnt react well to hormones i refused. In the end I got so sick of their insistence I bought my regular pill from an online pharmacy so i dont need to put up with their constant agro any more | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx I don't know? Maybe one of those NHS postcode Lottery? Was told I'm too young ![]() Yes paid for consultation but also op as I need it done at specifics time to work around holidays. But you can do private consultation only, around £200 & then have OP done on NHS XX | |||
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" It's worth knowing that GPs get a cash bonus for the amount of coils that they manage to fit into women and get them to keep for a certain amount of time. That's often why they're recommended over other types of medication. I suspected this might be the case as every time I went for a pill check they'd go on about it and being someone who doesnt react well to hormones i refused. In the end I got so sick of their insistence I bought my regular pill from an online pharmacy so i dont need to put up with their constant agro any more" Im a nurse, ues gps get cash depending on how many are fitted but this us becuase iuds are the gold standard in contraception and are urged by nhse to be used nationally. | |||
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"Hated it! After 9 months of almost constant bleeding, killer headaches, no libido, mood swings, bloating, joint pain, exhaustion, back cramps, forgetfulness to name a few. I told the clinic to remove it or I would do it myself, it wasn't an idle threat. 2 weeks post coil headaches gone, so were the back cramps, joint pain and my brain was almost useful again. But it took about 8 months before I was back to normal..... or my version or normal. Unsurprisingly the Dr's don't tell you the possible side effects other than most women experience a few weeks of light bleeding and maybe mild cramps, but there can be a long and nasty list ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Had one fitted a few years ago. Had it taken out after 3 months. It was the worst thing I ever did. Constant pain and heavy bleeding. Nearly lost my job because of it!! Was also diagnosed with IBS while on it. It's due to the hormones. Now trying medical options with norathistarone. Next step is ablation. Not a route I want to take. Good luck op I hope it works for you. I got IBS, BV amongst others with mirena, living on tranxemic tabs so decided after all these years its hysterectomy in Jan, bypassing ablation xx My gp and gynaecologist both say I can't have a hysterectomy. I have to suffer or have the ablation!!! How come? Mine took biopsy and waiting on results then date xx I don't know? Maybe one of those NHS postcode Lottery? Was told I'm too young ![]() Okay. Thanks. I'll look into it. | |||
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"Wife had it fitted for maybe 6-8 months made hardly any difference and is now on a pill that stops the peiriods all together lets see " Norethisterone? I take that and it does work but plays absolut havoc with my IBS. At the moment I'm trying it as a cycle to regulate my periods. | |||
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" It's worth knowing that GPs get a cash bonus for the amount of coils that they manage to fit into women and get them to keep for a certain amount of time. That's often why they're recommended over other types of medication. I suspected this might be the case as every time I went for a pill check they'd go on about it and being someone who doesnt react well to hormones i refused. In the end I got so sick of their insistence I bought my regular pill from an online pharmacy so i dont need to put up with their constant agro any more Im a nurse, ues gps get cash depending on how many are fitted but this us becuase iuds are the gold standard in contraception and are urged by nhse to be used nationally." Which is fine, but not suitable for all women. It is unethical to give doctors money for recommending a product that is not suitable for the patient. | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? " Your period is when the lining of the uterus leaves your body. So if you no longer have a uterus then you will no longer bleed. | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.." It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor. | |||
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"Wife had it fitted for maybe 6-8 months made hardly any difference and is now on a pill that stops the peiriods all together lets see Norethisterone? I take that and it does work but plays absolut havoc with my IBS. At the moment I'm trying it as a cycle to regulate my periods. " Have you tried progesterone cream? | |||
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"Can you specifically ask for referral for the ablation from the GP? My coil got infected, spent 4 days on an intravenous antibiotic drip in hospital. The pill messes with my depression too much, and know I don't want anymore children so something that will permanently stop monthly issues is very appealing. Ablation wont permanently stop periods, they lije you to have 3 before deemed ok. Seriously to scar unterus and still bleed wtf. Im having laproscopic sub hysterectomy taking uterus & tubes but leaving ovaries & cervix (cortorising top of cervix) xx Does that mean you wouldn't need hrt but removes enough to stop the bleeding? Your period is when the lining of the uterus leaves your body. So if you no longer have a uterus then you will no longer bleed. " Thats why sugeon said he cortorises top of cervix thats staying so no bleed as if bits of uterus left behind its possible | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.. It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor." He may be feeling the wires, they could have been cut too short and give him the occasional prod. | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.. It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor." This is because of the strings. I had the same problem. Nothing they can do if they've cut then too short unfortunately. | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.. It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor. This is because of the strings. I had the same problem. Nothing they can do if they've cut then too short unfortunately. " Guessing it is the strings then, it is only occasional, certain angles etc. Not a problem, but does ummm surprise at times! | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.. It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor. This is because of the strings. I had the same problem. Nothing they can do if they've cut then too short unfortunately. Guessing it is the strings then, it is only occasional, certain angles etc. Not a problem, but does ummm surprise at times!" Haha my partner at the time had the same problem. It always worried me about condoms. I used to check them after for holes. Got a bit paranoid ![]() | |||
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"My wife has one fitted & I know how this is going to sound...not a 'humble brag'..but every now & then it pokes me on the glans when we are having sex...tad painful & off putting for me. In comparison to some of the issues mentioned in a very informative thread I know it is trivial, but thought I would mention it.. It can't poke your penis unless you are putting your penis through her cervix which would most likely mean she was in massive amounts of pain. If it's hanging out of her cervix then it has dislodged and she should see a doctor. This is because of the strings. I had the same problem. Nothing they can do if they've cut then too short unfortunately. Guessing it is the strings then, it is only occasional, certain angles etc. Not a problem, but does ummm surprise at times!" You can feel the strings yes | |||
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"Thanks for this thread OP, I'm considering the coil as my periods are all over the place and seem to be getting worse!" If your gp is anything like mine (well the male one) they'll tell you it's your age and you've got to suck it up!! Lasts about 10 years!! Female gp said I've got about 10 year until my menopause even starts!!! If this was a male thing they'd have a cure! | |||
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